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Sarah Lindstrom And Desiree Shelton, Lesbian Couple, Cheered By School After Winning Rights

Sarah Lindstrom Desiree Shelton Lesbian Students

CHRIS WILLIAMS   01/31/11 06:54 PM ET   AP

CHAMPLIN, Minn. — Two lesbian high school students who fought for the right to walk together as part of a royalty court made their entrances Monday to the cheers of hundreds of classmates.

Sarah Lindstrom and Desiree Shelton wore matching black suits with pink ties and held hands as they entered the Snow Days Pep Fest at Champlin Park High School in Minneapolis' northwest suburbs.

The reaction came as a relief to the couple and school administrators. The district has been stung by criticism of its policies toward homosexuality and the alleged bullying of a gay student who killed himself.

"It felt amazing," said Shelton, adding that she was too nervous to notice dozens rise to give her a standing ovation as she walked in with Lindstrom. "I think we were too focused on getting to the stage."

If there were any boos, they were drowned about by supporters. "I feel so much better," Lindstrom said while surrounded by friends after the rally.

Sarah's mother, Shannon Lindstrom, camera in hand, joined the other mothers of children in the royalty court after the rally.

"They had a lot of courage," she said Shelton and her daughter. "Look how far we've come."

Students voted onto the royalty court traditionally enter the assembly in boy-girl pairs. After Lindstrom and Shelton, both 18, were elected, school officials last week announced a change in procedure: court members would walk in individually or accompanied by a parent or favorite teacher.

School officials said they merely wanted to prevent the two from being teased. But on Friday, two human rights groups sued on their behalf.

On Saturday, in federally mediated talks, school officials relented. The two sides agreed that members of the royalty court would be escorted by anyone meaningful to them, regardless of gender or age.

"This is a new chapter for the district," said Sam Wolfe, a lawyer with the Southern Poverty Law Center, which filed the lawsuit along with the National Center for Lesbian Rights and local assistance from the Minneapolis law firm of Faegre and Benson.

Young women in evening gowns and young men in dark suits walked through a makeshift arch and to the stage during the Monday afternoon pep rally complete with cheerleaders, dance teams and the school band. So did two young women in suits, and the crowd cheered for each one.

"They did great," said Principal Mike George. "I'm proud of our students."

Several of the students in the crowd didn't understand what all the fuss over the lesbian couple.

"Some people are against it, but they don't care if they walk down a stupid runway," said Maggie Hesaliman, 14.

Melissa Biellefe, 16, said, "We're a pretty respectful school. Our rule is just let people be who they are."

Champlin Park is part of the Anoka-Hennepin school district, Minnesota's largest, which has been in the spotlight in the past year for its handling of issues involving gay and lesbian students.

It has been in the crossfire for its policy of "neutrality" in classroom discussions of homosexuality. It was reached in 2009 as a way to balance the demands of liberal and conservative families, but neither side has been completely happy with it.

The issues flared again last year after a gay student, Justin Aaberg, killed himself. His mother has said she heard too late from Justin's friends that he had been harassed.

Aaberg was one of six students who committed suicide in the district since the beginning of the 2009-10 school year, and advocacy groups have linked some of the other deaths to the bullying of gay students.

However, the district said last month its own investigation did not find evidence that bullying contributed to the students' deaths.

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ghostgirl21
Light at the end of the tunnel,is a train.
02:59 PM on 03/01/2011
It's so nice to read a piece about a gay couple in high school that stood up,and got respected for it. We need more of that please.
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fredvh
Just a small town Iowa guy
05:14 PM on 02/06/2011
Good for the couple and good for the school for allowing this to happen.
Now, if only the rest of society would open their eyes and allow happiness to the LGBT community
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ghostgirl21
Light at the end of the tunnel,is a train.
02:58 PM on 03/01/2011
Amen to that!
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DevonTexas
Eternal Optimism
03:19 PM on 02/06/2011
Nice looking couple.
02:21 PM on 02/06/2011
Well done Champlin Park High School in Minneapolis. Human rights begins at home. One day America will look back sadly on the dark days of discrimination against gays. It's coming. The youth of this country are more aware and more accepting, and soon they'll be in charge. In the meantime, there's still time for the rest of us to be pioneers of positive change.
10:34 AM on 02/06/2011
There is enough sexual immorality on both side of the fence and even with married couples to make too much out of homosexuality....my question is why are they wearing tuxedos??? I am not gay and don't understand the thinking...it's all really confusing to me. Why do they dress like men if they "like" woman? Seems a little bizarre to me... Reminds me of the Chicago gay and lesbian parade and many people are "parading" about like some kind of carnival....sorry, just don't understand.
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DevonTexas
Eternal Optimism
03:25 PM on 02/06/2011
"Why do they dress like men if they "like" woman? "

Look, I won't get into a long explanation but there are several reasons.

One, is that men are percieved as more powerful and the suit reflects that. Women wear suits, too, and usually to show power. So, some lesbians, especially in a situation like these two found themselves, it's logical that they would wear suits.

Two, people should be able to dress as they please without being sexually stereotyped such as you are doing. If they'd worn something else it might have elicited a comment from someone else similar to yours. You need to look beyond what they're wearing and see the persons. Let them dress as they please.

There's a couple reasons for the benefit of your understanding. You really should seek out some gay people to interact with. It would be enlightening.
03:41 PM on 02/06/2011
They chose to wear the clothes in which they feel the most comfortable in all ways. That's it. Nothing more.
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bryanzth
Honest to Goodness USA Patriot!
11:16 AM on 02/07/2011
But also, there are many cases of women cross-dressing that has never been a problem for conservatives before. ;0)

Prinz Orlovsky (a "pants" role) in Die Fledermaus
Leonore in Fidelio
Gilda in Rigoletto
Cherubino in The Marriage of Figaro)
Octavian in Der Rosenkavalier
Orpheus in Orpheus and Euridice...

Until it becomes an agenda (usually by the thumpers - they don't like Opera anyway!) it's not noticed. ;0)

BZ.
09:21 PM on 02/05/2011
This is awesome!
Looking forward to the day when this isn't news, it's just part of life.
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10:58 AM on 02/05/2011
Minnesota is a weird state.

Granting these rights to this couple is simply wonderful.

Voting for Michele Bachmann is simply disgraceful.
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bryanzth
Honest to Goodness USA Patriot!
11:18 AM on 02/07/2011
Probably Bachmann is the comedy act that follows the jugglers in the circus. Nothing more.

BZ.
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morgansher
just disgusted in general
01:36 PM on 02/04/2011
Good for them! Its long past time! I hope they had a splendid evening and will remember it as something special and wonderful for the rest of their lives.
10:50 AM on 02/03/2011
Ah, logic...

Gay men: Widely unaccepted. Used as an example of the declining morals of the country.
Gay women: Widely accepted. Used to sell beer, food, etc.

(Psst... someone tell them they're both gay).
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Coloradem
Christian, Gay, Democrat
03:26 PM on 02/03/2011
I think you are confusing "widely accepted" with "objectified". Gay women (like straight women)who are used to sell beer and food are not "accepted"...they are objectified in that straight men find them attractive and are titilated by the thoughts of them engaging in sexual activities.
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kbuffler42
10:40 PM on 02/04/2011
Well put!
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wakeup804
Choose peace and tolerance
12:46 AM on 02/03/2011
Cool. And kudos to the people around them. And the world didn't spin off it's axis..........see what happens when adults step on the scene, instead of small minded, frightened people.
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SimianNation
Progressive NOT Regressive
11:04 PM on 02/02/2011
Good for them! I hope they had a ball. As a stranger to these girls, I applaud them for standing up for their choices.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Married Gay Pagan Man
02:59 PM on 02/05/2011
Fanned and faved. Indeed.
08:07 PM on 02/02/2011
it's about time that school boards and administrators stop inflicting their biases and prejudices on the students for whom they are administering. todays youth is far more open and liberal than the majority of the administrators who work overtime to control and contain.

maybe if school boards and school administrators actually went into the schools they would have a better understanding of the students they have been elected to guide.
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DevonTexas
Eternal Optimism
03:34 PM on 02/06/2011
what I thought was tragic, is that the school admin thought they were "protecting" them! LOL

Don't you think they could have asked the girls and saved the cost of defending their "protective" decision in court?. Really shows their true colors, doesn't it?
07:27 PM on 02/02/2011
This is another hateful wedge issue going by the way side for the Republican Party.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Married Gay Pagan Man
05:31 PM on 02/03/2011
Sadly it worked again in Iowa. I sure hope the day will come when people finally get two things through their heads:

1) Marriage equality will not negatively affect them or the country
2) GLBT people do not harm them in any way.
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SageSpencer
Angel brought Him the leaden heart & the dead bird
05:22 PM on 02/02/2011
*smiling* at a moment of humanity's progress!