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Recession Divorce Rates: Marital Unions Unraveling As Economy Bounces Back?

Huffington Post   First Posted: 02/11/11 01:27 AM ET Updated: 05/25/11 07:30 PM ET

Recession Divorce

Fewer couples get divorced in times of economic difficulty, but is that because their marriages are great, or because they're too broke to get divorced?

"The Survey of Marital Generosity," the latest study from the National Marriage Project at the University of Virginia, seems to suggest that both things may occur in times of national hardship.

Despite previous findings that financial stress tends to weaken marriages, the survey--culled from a nationally representative sample of 1,197 married Americans aged 18 to 45, released earlier this week--found that 29 percent of Americans believe the most recent recession deepened their commitment to marriage. What's more, 38 percent of couples who had been considering divorce prior to the recession put those plans aside.

"Classically one of marriage's core functions was to provide mutual aid to adults in times of need," said the study's author, W. Brad Wilcox. "Sometimes, not always, when couples suffer together they may develop a deeper appreciation for each other and for their marriage."

Still, the reasons couples had for putting divorce aside seem to vary. While 43 percent of Americans with no financial stressors reported their marriages to be "very happy," only 27 percent of those with two to three stressors did the same, which suggests that the couples' decision to stay together during the recession may have as much to do with the financial obstacle divorce presents as it does with learning to work together to preserve their unions.

"In the face of tough times, some couples spiral downwards and other couples prove to be resilient and tough times can make them even stronger," Wilcox said. "There's some evidence at the collective level that everyone is suffering and there's a message in the society that we're facing tough times economically that can paradoxically foster a spirit of solidarity."

"Some people are postponing their divorce until someone can buy their house or they reach some threshold where they can divide some asset and live more comfortably after the divorce," he continued. "As the economy improves we'll see an uptick in divorce--after the great depression there was an uptick in divorce."

That observation is in line with a NPR report which aired yesterday and pointed out that the country is, indeed, experiencing such an uptick as the economy bounces back from recession. Though the divorce rate fell around 7 percent during the recession, as the financial situation eases, unhappy couples are divorcing more readily, NPR reported. One reason for that? The ability to split home assets that were previously unsellable.

Wilcox emphasized that the impact of the recession on marriages involves a complex set of factors: "In most marriages there are ebbs and flows--marriage is a dynamic relationship for anyone," he said "My biggest concern about this recession is that it's only reinforcing this kind of class divide [in marriages]. Americans who've been hardest hit are working class and poor men. It just makes it that much more difficult for these guys and their families to keep it all together."

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Fewer couples get divorced in times of economic difficulty, but is that because their marriages are great, or because they're too broke to get divorced? "The Survey of Marital Generosity," the latest...
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katieandtom
09:19 AM on 02/14/2011
i would say the recession doesnt cause divorce but the ONGOING recession does. its been 4 years this fall. its beyond old and begins to feel hopeless. thanks obama.
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rbchilds
In times of deceit, the truth will set you free
08:48 AM on 02/13/2011
A weak marriage may survive a recession because of forced changes in life style, which will give the couple a common goal to work towards. They will spend more time together vs time on outside interest due to the lack of funds, therefore rediscovering that spark they once had for each other.
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ken607
Nothing natural about gas,nothing clean about coal
07:18 PM on 02/12/2011
never married. been with the same woman for 20 years. money always tight, but WE work through it. other issues break up relationships mostly jealousy.
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GEM-592
Edit your micro-bio.
12:29 AM on 02/12/2011
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WSAY
Res ipsa loquitur
12:00 PM on 02/12/2011
Good point.
01:07 PM on 02/11/2011
"My biggest concern about this recession is that it's only reinforcing this kind of class divide [in marriages]. Americans who've been hardest hit are working class and poor men. It just makes it that much more difficult for these guys and their families to keep it all together." Is this an finding of the study the article talks about? In a divorce scenario the men suffer the most?

As a 15 year divorce lawyer, I would be surprised by this. Statistically, women with young children are financially harder hit than men. And as far as I can tell, those who are often hardest hit are the children.

I have experienced clients telling me they have to stay married because they cannot "afford" a divorce (their home is worth less than the value of the outstanding mortgage, somebody just got laid off, the housing market isn't moving, etc.) But I believe this is temporary and divorce rates will rise to pre-recession levels soon enough.

Carmela Novi, Esq.
Montville, NJ
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Dr. Cara Barker
author, artist, and Jungian Analyst,
01:52 PM on 02/11/2011
I am so glad you are speaking up and out, Carmela. I've heard very similar things for years in the consulting room. As you well know, statistics can be used to spin anything. The heart of the matter resides in the individual story, with its own details and revisions.

How easy to imagine what a fine attorney you are. Thanks for getting on the playing field here. We need all voices with experience to join the conversation and make a difference. Bravo. I'm off to fan you.

All good things,
Cara
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Seaniebhoy
02:51 PM on 02/11/2011
Its a good point. Most people believe that divorce is as simple as a teenage breakup. Unfortunately if there is property or business ventures at stake Divorce seems to be a last resort to stay sane rather than whats is best for all involved. I wont lie either, there was a time when my wife and I were having issues and when the prospect of divorce began to pop up...the only thought that went through my mind was not "oh joy, maybe my life will turn the corner" but "Where will I go? My parents are too old to take me back in, and I'm too old to split the price of an apartment with three other lads....we ended up wprking through it, but to this day I'm still not certain if that was for the good of the marriage or for the convenience of it.
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WSAY
Res ipsa loquitur
12:08 PM on 02/12/2011
Divorce is complicated because people make it complicated. And you sound like you should be divorced.
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katieandtom
09:22 AM on 02/14/2011
seanie - i stuck it out for 20 years. kept putting it off because the idea of splitting the assets, etc. would be a logistical nightmare. and it is. but, i am so relieved to finally be away from him. wish i would have done it YEARS ago. YEARS. dont wait.
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13champlain
It is all good....range rover all wood
12:09 PM on 02/11/2011
money pressures will test a marriage...however its not the root cause of a divorce...
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Dr. Cara Barker
author, artist, and Jungian Analyst,
01:55 PM on 02/11/2011
Amen to that, 13champlain. In fact, money symbolizes relatedness, according to mythology. It is all about exchange. Where there are problems is the flow of exchange, it shows up in endless forms. Consider yourself fanned. You are making a real contribution, and are in the 'exchange.' Well done.

Peace and blessings,
Cara
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13champlain
It is all good....range rover all wood
03:00 PM on 02/11/2011
thanks alot...I enjoy your blogs
04:06 AM on 02/12/2011
I've often found that at the heart of money issues is a test of whether people keep agreements.
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BassguyGG
Former Moderate driven Left by eight years of Bush
11:47 AM on 02/11/2011
Money pressures are always a major cause of divorces. When times are harder, more money pressures. Hence more divorces.
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DredLockRasta
I'm not an actor, but I play one on TV.
11:57 AM on 02/11/2011
the article says the opposite, the resession helped deepen the committment or stave off divorce
11:32 AM on 02/11/2011
Yes, depressions cause divorce. During the last great depression in the 30s, the divorce rate increased, although in many cases, men who were out of work deserted their families, as in that era divorce was not sociably acceptable.
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BillyClub
11:27 AM on 02/11/2011
No, the Recession has nothing to do with Divorce! Blame Charlie Sheen! He did it! (lol)
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Seaniebhoy
11:18 AM on 02/11/2011
I wouldn't blame the reccession completely...no doubt it is a factor, but for the most part anytime the bottom falls out from under you and a lifestyle change is neccessary for survival there will be issues within the marriage.
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Dr. Cara Barker
author, artist, and Jungian Analyst,
01:57 PM on 02/11/2011
Well said, Seaniebhoy. Consider yourself fanned. Thanks for joining in the conversation, and making a difference. I respect your voice.

Cara
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10:55 AM on 02/11/2011
blame "family values" oil barons bush and chainy and their 150 dollar a barrel oil...."mission accomplished".....
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10:49 AM on 02/11/2011
It's a depression NOT recession but you won't hear that from our campaign cash rich media companies.
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10:56 AM on 02/11/2011
true....negative growth and 10% unemployment is a depression.....
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spinotter11
Spinning through life and trying to understand it.
10:57 AM on 03/01/2011
Wikipedia on depressions: There is no generally agreed upon definition, and the NBER does not declare a depression as it does a recession, but here is one definition: 1) a decline in real GDP exceeding 10%, or 2) a recession lasting 2 or more years. Neither criterion was met/is being met in the current downturn. In fact, the recession was declared to be over in June 2009, and GDP has increased since they so officially this is a recovery. I know that people are suffering in great numbers, but officially at least we are no longer even in a recession.
09:37 AM on 02/11/2011
Money is almost always a factor in marital strife.
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BoudiccaBlanc
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09:29 AM on 02/11/2011
The last three sentences are (sadly) probably the truth.

"My biggest concern about this recession is that it's only reinforcing this kind of class divide [in marriages]. Americans who've been hardest hit are working class and poor men. It just makes it that much more difficult for these guys and their families to keep it all together."--W.B.Wilcox

The rejection of marriage by the lowest level of society has been rampant for over 40 years (probably longer). Now we are seeing what the erosion of our industrial base is doing to the working and lower middle-class!

"Thank you Mitt Romney and the rest of you WTO fans and Globalists"!

(Perhaps the USA should learn one lesson from Germany. The Germans protect their industrial base.)
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Belinda Rachman
Fly in the ointment lawyer
09:25 AM on 02/11/2011
As a divorce lawyer it has become obvious over the years that the top two reasons for divorce have to do with disputes over how to raise the kids and how to spend/save money. Many of the couples who work with me (I only do mediation, so there is a certain level of cooperation with these couples) really can't afford to set up two households but they want to "break up." When there is not a lot of vitriol, which is avoided by NOT fighting in court, it IS possible to divorce but still share a home, either as room mates or in a "nesting" situation where the children remain in the home but the parents go in and out. It is ironic how difficult financial circumstances can break a couple up while still keeping them "together." The fact that so many homes are underwater only adds to the pressure to hold on to the home in hopes the value will go up again.