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Single Mothers 'Bad For Society', Pew Research Center's Latest Poll Finds

Single Motherhood Rejected

Huffington Post   First Posted: 02/21/11 03:19 AM ET Updated: 05/25/11 07:35 PM ET

Family structures across America are changing. But even as Americans redefine what "family" means and unconventional arrangements become more commonplace, a new survey from the Pew Research Center shows that an overwhelming number of people still believe that one of the most widespread "alternative" family arrangements out there--single motherhood--is bad for society.

The survey results captured the sharp divisions that exist in this country when it comes to beliefs about new family structures. Aside from single moms--that is, single women raising children without a male partner--the survey asked about gay and lesbian couples, unmarried couples raising children, mothers of young children who work outside the home, inter-racial unions, and mothers choosing not to have children.

The results were used to separate the group of 2,691 adults into three clusters: "Accepters," "Rejecters" and "Skeptics." A half to two-thirds of "Accepters" did not take issue with these trends, while a majority of "Rejecters" believed that, other than inter-racial marriage and fewer women having children, the other trends were bad for society. "Rejecters" were also the only group to say that working mothers are bad for society--61 percent of Rejecters answered this way. "Skeptics" were divided in their opinion, though almost all of them thought that single motherhood was bad for society, a belief shared by "Rejecters."

"Accepters" were the only people to say that single mothers were good for society--13 percent--while 74 percent of the group said it made no difference. To get some sense of this huge division (69 percent of the overall population were "Skeptics" or "Rejecters") we spoke with the author of the report, Rich Morin.

What was the most surprising finding?

That Americans attitudes towards single motherhood were so negative-- by negative I mean, nearly seven out of ten said that single women raising a child without the benefit of a male partner was bad for society. When we did the cluster analysis, we found something even more surprising: there was one group--the "Skeptics"--who by and large were very tolerant on every measure except for that one. It separated an otherwise tolerant group from those who were accepting of all the changes in family life

Why do you think so many people feel this way?

Clearly, Americans who view unmarried couples, gay couples raising children and the other trends, as making no difference one way or another, see single motherhood as a bad thing for society. There's an element of conservatism that suggests that people are evaluating what they see around them. They see children being raised by gay couples turning out very well--the homes are stable, the children are loved, the sons and daughters are flourishing--but they know too many people or read about too many people in single parent households where the outcomes are more negative. Americans, when they think of single mothers, don't think of a woman who is financially secure, who made a decision to have a child, who has the time and the social support to provide that child with a safe home. They're thinking about women abandoned by their husbands who may love their children deeply but because of the need to make a living can't devote as much time to them as perhaps they should, or want to.

To your point about financially secure women who decide on their own to have a kid, did peoples' opinions about single moms differ depending on the circumstance led them to become single moms?

We didn't look at how they became single mothers.

What reason do people seem to have for being against single motherhood?

On the basis of the survey, we can't say definitively what the answer is, but the data suggests that people aren't necessarily condemning single motherhood. Rather, they are saying the outcomes of single motherhood are often bad for society, therefore single motherhood is bad for society. Unfortunately there are a lot of kids who suffer the worst fate. We know that women, for a variety of reasons, don't fare well after a divorce, and specifically financially.

Tell me about the people in the "Rejecters" group

We know some of the characteristics about them. They tend to be more religious, tend to be more Republican and more conservative in their political views.

What about the "Accepters"; why are they okay with single motherhood?

Again you can look at some of the characteristics--they tend to be young people. Young people as a group are more accepting of all these trends. Sons and daughters of single mothers may be in this group. Also, if you look at marital status and whether or not you have children, a lot of these younger people don't have children and aren't married. Perhaps they don't know the tremendous investment a child is--the emotional investment and the time investment. They don't appreciate the consequences of single motherhood. Then again it could be that we are living in a changing world that is adapting very quickly

What's the extended demographic breakdown on who is against single motherhood?

Men are far more likely to say single mothers are bad for society. 74 percent of men say single moms are bad for society compared to 63 percent of women. 70 percent of whites, 74 percent of blacks, and 58 percent of Hispanics also said single mothers are bad for society.

What can we take away from this?

I think anyone should approach any statistical analysis with a degree of caution and try to understand what it means and also appreciate what it doesn't mean. This report is not condemning single motherhood, it is just offering a broad brush evaluation of what the public thinks of single moms. This report should not suggest that they embrace these changes, that there's a high level of approval for these different family structures.

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02:55 PM on 02/24/2011
how is this newsworthy when only 2,691 adults were asked out of aprox 200,000,000,000?
03:11 AM on 02/24/2011
Gee, why would a primarily-male group of respondents say single mothers, above all other groups of parents, are bad for society?
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Amadahy
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06:28 PM on 02/23/2011
The title of this article is mis-leading. It sounds as if someone is trying to place blame on single mothers. (Single Mothers are Bad for Society) Let's arrest them all and put them in jail for pete sake. LOL

The title should have been something like, (Single Mother Families, Good or Bad for Society?)

I was raised by my mother. My parent's divorced when I was very young, and I rarely ever saw my father. My biggest issue, as a nearing 40 year old male now, is that because I've been around men so little, I'm very respectful of women, sensitive, emotional, caring, communicative, and more intellectual (instead of liking sports). You may wonder how these are issues.

For starters, I have very few male friends (remember, I don't like sports and I'm very respectful of women), and those I'm not friends with will often think I'm gay. Gay men try with me...try.

Women, because I'm talkative and emotional and interested in things like poetry and classical music, don't see me as what traditional stereotypes have told them to expect, so they either don't know how to take me, or they see me only as a friend.

So am I bad for society? No, but if I could go back and choose to have a father figure, so that I could develop into a more stereotypical man, I would. It's painful being the type of man I am, when you feel like both sexes don't accept you.
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Icecube
NFC East. Pick your poison.
02:33 PM on 02/23/2011
Women only think short-term. They completly ignore that when the child turns 14, 15, 16 17 18 another human being emerges where a fathers guidance is crucial.

Take a look at the prison stats on just how many come from single parent female headed households.
01:43 AM on 02/23/2011
Why aren't the writers on the Divorce section of the HP completely rethinking stories like these? What is single motherhood if there is not also the absence/ineptness of the father? Every other news outlet can regurgitate the single mothers are bad for society bit, but this section of this site should reframe the story to include the nuances of divorce and single motherhood. You seriously need to rethink this section of the HP before you completely alienate all of those who started reading it because they were looking for the divorce twist on stories in mainstream media. Let's find our niche, people.
10:23 PM on 02/22/2011
Whats bad for society is thinking that woman should do it all. Equal pay! Lets do some stats on that.
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GirlFriday123
We all live downstream.
09:02 PM on 02/22/2011
I wonder how respondents felt about single fathers. Or didn't they ask?
12:13 AM on 02/24/2011
The courts rarely award custody to the father in a divorce. So even if you throw in a few widowers with kids you still don't have very many to single father families to study.
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Michael Morrison
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02:59 AM on 02/24/2011
I was a single Dad. I don't think people really knew what to think about me.
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GirlFriday123
We all live downstream.
08:55 PM on 02/22/2011
"We didn't look at how they became single mothers."

We just lumped them all together.
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peskime
Patriotism is the last refuge of a scoundrel
02:27 PM on 02/22/2011
My husband and I were respectively raised by single mothers and turned out ok. We also just celebrated our 23rd anniversary. Pew and Phylis Schflay are from another century, literally
02:24 PM on 02/22/2011
Until we start producing better men (and women too) having any man around is not necessarily a good thing. Our problem in society is the quality of people we produce, America is producing an inferior product so to speak so it is hardly surprising that we are losing ground.

There is also a vast difference in the quality of single mothers, I'm sure President's Clinton and Obama's mothers were not typical, although who is to pass judgement good of bad on either of these two, they both have their problems ... it is the population that does not know how to evaluate facts and statistics.
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Les Burns
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05:39 PM on 02/22/2011
Better men???? Asinine charge when men are the ones who are still the same whereas womens lib has changed women!
I've always said: "You can't expect todays woman to adhere to yesterdays notion of marriage."
The problem is women expect a man to accept their views-WRONG!
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Lark817
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07:33 PM on 02/22/2011
You don't have to agree with the views of a woman, but you do have to acknowledge that she has that view and her opinion is not less valid than yours. The same holds true for women, of course, but that's just my opinion.
02:04 PM on 02/22/2011
I'm a single mother of two teenage girls and all I can say is that every situation is different, so please don't stereotype us. Sure single parenting is difficult -- but parenting as a couple can be difficult, too. I've done both, they were both difficult. Parenting is difficult.

I am tired of defending myself and now I let my life speak for itself -- my kids are happy and well-adjusted, they get good grades, we have enough money to have what we need and a little more.
02:01 PM on 02/22/2011
Bill Clinton and Barack Obama were raised by single mothers without the support of the birth fathers.

So was Gerald Ford.
02:25 PM on 02/22/2011
and what is that supposed to mean. both of these guys have huge egos and sold themselves to the political machine to get elected to further the agenda of the people who paid them. is that a good thing?
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gardengangsta
04:32 PM on 02/22/2011
What this person means is these people were raised by single moms and they turned out successful. It's not as if they'r working at McDonalds now is it? As far as their attitudes are concerned, well, we'll just have to agree to disagree.
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Lark817
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07:34 PM on 02/22/2011
I wonder if there are any people out there with huge egos and sold themselves to the political machine to get elected to further the agended of the people who paid them and were raised by two parents. Your claim seems ridiculous to me.
10:38 AM on 02/24/2011
Obama was mostly raised by married grandparents. Not a very good example.
06:58 AM on 02/28/2011
Not really. He was alone with them for only one year of his childhood. Like a great many people, he was raised in a multigenerational family - one that ALSO has advantages for growing children. He was exposed to a multitude of lifestyles and cultures, rather than being incubated in the cocoon of a nuclear family - and there were advantages to that as well.

I realize some people have a need to comprehend their fellow human beings as if they were data points, but we all persist in being INDIVIDUALS. Many families that meet the technical definition of "intact" are deeply afflicted with alcoholism, coldness, neglect, toxic marital misery. Healthy, happy families that produce magnificent children should not, by any definition, be labeled (by implication) as "broken". The kind of ideology that leads to these useless labels isn't looking to elucidate what's good for kids. Otherwise they'd acknowledge that the degree of variability and nuance in this discussion makes labels like "intact" and "broken" meaningless.

What kids need are loving adults who are mature enough to understand what it means to put a child's needs ahead of their own. That can be one parent or two, same sex parents, grandparents, all kinds of permutations. The mere fact of parents being chained together does nothing to ensure kids are getting what they need. If the only way you can approach the issue of what it takes to raise a great kid is to crunch numbers, you're really never going to
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G Lang123
01:12 PM on 02/22/2011
Realistically speaking, if you can't financially support and emotionally support your kids whether single or married, I say that it is bad for society, if you can and DO provide those two things, I believe that is good for society, whether single or married.......

I do think that someone who is committed to the single lifestyle should think long and hard about choosing to raising a child in that lifestyle, because no matter how financially stable you are, and how much time you invest in your child, at the end of the day I still believe that children deserve to see what a good mother and a good father look like, how they interact with each other, the give and take, the everyday minutiae of a healthy relationship..and its one thing if you're single because you are widowed or the relationship became unhealthy, and was ended for the good of all involved, but to make an outright decision to be a single parent, I think is a little irresponsible and selfish, unless you are saving some kid from being in the foster care system, in that case, being that the child already exists, I guess one GOOD parent is better than none............
02:26 PM on 02/22/2011
They're more likely to see that fantasy on tv than in real life.
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G Lang123
02:40 PM on 02/22/2011
Perhaps, but I was lucky enough to see it in my real life....
11:20 AM on 02/22/2011
The idea that a single-parent child faring worse than a child with both parents may be the result of a self-fulfilling prophecy; society stigmatizes single parents.

On the other hand, having two parents does allow a child to avail of two resources instead of one, however if a single parent is capable of ensuring resources are available to his/her child, then they should be able to do just as well. The problem is some single-parents may not be educated enough or have enough time to enable their child to see the opportunities available in life.

If you are going to cite statistics, it would be useful to control for socioeconomic status and level of education. You will probably find that as the level of education improves, the disadvantages of single-parenting reduce and thus their children are less susceptible.
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onionboy
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11:46 AM on 02/22/2011
And I think people need not always project statistics onto a specific situation. I'm the product of a single-mother, but given my father, that was probably the best situation for me. As a parent now myself, I cannot imagine being a single parent, and I absolutely think my wife and I do a better job parenting together than we could possibly do apart. At the same time, I still think my upbringing was the best for the circumstances.
11:58 AM on 02/22/2011
well said
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Shaun Hensley
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05:29 PM on 02/22/2011
You seem alright to me.
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Vicki Larson
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09:32 AM on 02/22/2011
Interesting story by Gerry Garibaldi, a former Hollywood exec turned English teacher at an urban high school in Connecticut: http://www.city-journal.org/2011/21_1_teen-pregnancy.html

I do believe teen moms, many of whom remain single moms and typically poor, are the picture most of us see when think of "single moms." The fact is, teen pregnancy is decreasing (http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/databriefs/db58.htm) while more older women are having kids http://pewresearch.org/pubs/1586/changing-demographic-characteristics-american-mothers) — solo.
11:16 AM on 02/22/2011
That was a good article Vicki. Very informative. Thank you.
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onionboy
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11:48 AM on 02/22/2011
The vast majority of single mothers I know were in stable monogamous relationships when they had their kids, and we're not teenagers. Circumstances changed, and they made the best of their situation.
12:11 PM on 02/22/2011
Onionboy I think that's exactly the point. The general public stereotypes "single-mothers" as very young and irresponsible women which is why single mothers received such scorn in this poll.

However, the majority of single mothers are hard working and self-sustaining, mature women, who not only allow the father to be in her child's life but promotes a healthy non alienating relationship with the father. It's a win-win-win situation.