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First Posted: 03/ 9/2011 9:03 pm Updated: 02/ 9/2012 12:48 pm

By Dan Goldberg
Religion News Service

MADISON, N.J. -- A small bucket filled with bottles of cold beer sat on the floor, down the hall from the chapel, as about a dozen young adults lounged around on comfortable couches.

They weren't there to pray or preach -- just to enjoy one another's company at St. Paul Inside the Walls: the Catholic Center for Evangelization at a former high school. The Rev. Geno Sylva doesn't know if his guests will return to the Madison campus for a more religious
experience.

But he has faith.

As the center's director, it's Sylva's job to find new ways to accomplish an old mission -- attracting back some of the one in 10 Americans who are former Catholics, many of whom are disillusioned or disassociated with their religion.

Stemming the exodus, Sylva believes, will require reaching out in ways that might seem unorthodox.

And so St. Paul Inside the Walls has implemented programs to attract a broad constituency. The name refers to Sylva's aim to bring people inside the walls of the church.

"What we're doing is offering outreach to those who practice the Catholic faith, to those who have left the Catholic faith and to those of no faith tradition at all," Sylva said. "What we've done is we've spent a lot of time studying society and culture so we could invite people to come to know God in ways that would resonate with them."

For young adults, that might be pub night, which takes place every Tuesday.

Sudan Martin, a 30-year-old graphic designer from Brooklyn, works on St. Paul's website but Catholicism wasn't a big part of his youth. He recently attended his first St. Paul event.

"This is a completely different experience for me," Martin said. "I'll definitely be coming back."

That's what Sylva wants to hear.

He compared St. Paul Inside the Walls with a halfway house, but instead of reintroducing people to a community, Sylva is reintroducing them to Catholicism, and instead of finding people a job, he shepherds them to a parish.

The setting is inviting. St. Paul Inside the Walls recently completed a multimillion-dollar renovation, and its 40-acre campus boasts stunning sculptures and peaceful prayer gardens.

Paterson Bishop Arthur Serratelli said bringing people in -- creating disciples -- is a central tenet of the faith, but changing times have spurred the new approaches.

"The mission is the same as given to the apostles, but the way that we live out the mission changes to meet the needs of our day," Serratelli said.

There are similar efforts far beyond New Jersey -- Boston Cardinal Sean O'Malley launched a "Catholics Come Home" initiative for Lent, and parishes in the Archdiocese of Washington will be open every Wednesday to hear confessions as part of the Advent-and-Lent "The Light is On For You" campaign.

Church experts are putting a special emphasis on young Catholics -- in some cases trying to keep them in the church before they decide to leave. Two-thirds of Catholic "millenials" -- those born after 1980 -- leave the church before they turn 23.

"The make-or-break period is adolescence," said the Rev. Dave Farnum, the director of vocations for the Paulist order, at a recent discussion in Grand Rapids, Mich.

According to a 2009 report from the Pew Forum on Religion & Public Life, two in three ex-Catholics say they left because they stopped believing in the church's teachings; 58 percent disagree with its position on abortion and homosexuality; and 48 percent left because they do not support the church's ban on contraception.

"It's hard to say why they leave because it depends on where they're headed," said Farnum.

St. Paul hosts a Catholic Q&A on Tuesday nights where about two dozen adults can pepper a priest with religious questions. Upstairs, musicians can work on their Christian/alternative pop-rock music, which they play at local bars or concerts as a way to bring people closer to the faith.

"Music is very universal but it is also very personal," said one musician, Derek Gazal. "In that way, it is a lot like God."

Elsewhere in the building, women meet in a group called Rachel's Vineyard to discuss their feelings about the abortions they have had -- all part of the tapestry that Sylva and Serratelli attempt to weave in hopes of bringing people back who feel abandoned or uninspired.

"I had this idea long before I became a bishop to reach out to people whose professional lives have gone beyond what their religious training taught them, and to let them see how much the church can offer them," Serratelli said. "St. Paul Inside the Walls begins a great adventure ... to move beyond what parishes can do."

(Dan Goldberg writes for The Star-Ledger in Newark, N.J. Paul R. Kopenkoskey of The Grand Rapids Press contributed to this story)

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Franklin1776
Micro-bio rocks! So does Cell-bio!
12:29 PM on 03/12/2011
Gotta hook em while they're young... you know, just like cigarette companies.
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BroBrigham
02:03 PM on 03/11/2011
Most of these "lapsed" sheep in Latin America feel no real draw to a religion that forced their ancestors to convert under threat of death. Most of the people I encountered while living in Guatemala had no idea what a catholic believed, or did, they just knew they were one.
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BroBrigham
02:15 PM on 03/11/2011
let me rephrase that, they knew the basic tenants of their general christian belief but not a whole lot above that, particularly their catholic faith.
04:12 PM on 03/11/2011
In Good Times we trust
01:56 PM on 03/11/2011
I say this as a practicing Catholic: In trying to save embarrassment and shame, you have caused an immeasurable amount of it.

The nuns should be put in charge until further notice. Priests - when allowed back - should be celibate during their study and then allowed to marry thereafter. Women should be allowed to the highest and the use of sheep, flock, father, mother, holiness should be phased out. Time to join this century.
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cabinetmaniac
"Without a struggle, there can be no progress. "
01:43 PM on 03/11/2011
If they stopped supporting fascists and pedophiles it would go a long way.

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Jon Polm
@jonpolm
12:30 PM on 03/11/2011
LOL. Calling your followers 'sheep' should be warning for them enough. Especially when the Shepherd is raping the younger sheep in his office.
05:26 AM on 04/24/2011
Well, isn't s e x with the sheep an old custom for shepherds?
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michelesda
My micro-bio is empty.
12:00 PM on 03/11/2011
Catholicism is a crime against youth. Put down the rosary and step back. Keep your hands in sight please. Put the rosary down NOW.
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European1919
I am the PigmⒶn
08:53 AM on 03/11/2011
Just say NO to catholic beer. And wine. And while you're at it the holy spirit too. In fact NO religious booze at ALL!
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WheelsOnFire
Fiercely Independent
08:45 AM on 03/11/2011
They left for a reason.

Reason.
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08:38 AM on 03/11/2011
Stay away.
Stay very away.
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a okafor007
Black Atheist from New Jersey
08:35 AM on 03/11/2011
I LOL'd at the title of this thread. So apropos. BLIND SHEEP followers
06:54 AM on 03/11/2011
Are there really people out there who are fine with being referred to as "lapsed sheep"? Talk about depressing...
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a okafor007
Black Atheist from New Jersey
08:34 AM on 03/11/2011
As many of them love to say "The lord is my shepherd, there is nothing I shall want"
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American Air
12:12 AM on 03/11/2011
Hindus need to lure Indian christians and Indian Muslims back to Hinduism like what the catholics are attempting to do.
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09:54 PM on 03/10/2011
The biggest objections I have to Roman Catholic teaching are objections to the church's doctrine on the sacrifice of the mass, apostolic succession, and papal authority.

I don't think that any of these doctrines has enough scriptural support in the New Testament writings, though they do have support in writings from the second and third centuries.

The doctrine of the sacrifice of the mass seems to directly contradict the teachings of the Epistle to the Hebrews, and I cannot believe that any human being has the level of authority that Roman Catholics ascribe to the pope.
10:52 PM on 03/10/2011
Well I think the idea of sacrifice is sort of the idea that the crucifixion wasn't just something that happened 2000 years ago, but still goes on today.

I mean, if Jesus was God and God is outside of time... wouldn't the paschal mystery be somehow always happening?
04:05 PM on 03/11/2011
The apostolic succession is a tenet of the Lutheran and Anglican(in this country, Episcopal) churches as well. I might note that the evangelicals do not follow this tenet; and which group is in the vanguard of wanting to make the US a theocracy? There are places where the authority of tradition and ties to the controls of the early church disciplines might actually be a good thing.
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08:10 PM on 03/11/2011
"Evangelical" in the Lutheran sense is completely different from "evangelical" in the Pat Robertson sense.
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06:57 PM on 03/12/2011
Lutherans reject the doctrine of apostolic succession. Lutherans would consider the Roman Catholic doctrine to be a denial of justification by faith.
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Dieter Zerressen
Don't attack the messenger - give me a fact.
09:38 PM on 03/10/2011
Why would anyone join or re-join this criminal outfit? The foster child molesters in their ranks, the are hurtful to women's issues, the hate gays, birth control, abortion rights, divorce. The only thing they like is money. Stop being an enabler.
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08:40 AM on 03/11/2011
hear, here
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Tulka2
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09:13 PM on 03/10/2011
Here's a wonderful, gripping, juicy read that's literature too.  Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel won the Man Booker Prize in 2009.  It's takes place in mid 16th Century Tudor England.  It's hero is Thomas Cromwell.... sort of a revisionist history because the book is interested in how Cromwell helped his King, Henry the VIII loosen the grip of Rome from England.  Henry had his own reasons, but Cromwell was the modern man.  

Thomas Cromwell, this book suggests invented the modern, secular state.  In other words, everything you think about the Papists verified.