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Courteney Cox Talks David Arquette Separation In Harper's Bazaar

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First Posted: 03/15/11 01:02 PM ET Updated: 05/25/11 07:40 PM ET

Perhaps her role in "Cougar Town" is a natural fit. But then, there's something much sweeter about Courteney Cox.

The sitcom star covers the new issue of "Harper's Bazaar," and opens up about her separation from husband David Arquette, a process complicated by their tight relationship and Arquette's subsequent breakdown.

There was no one huge reason for the split, Cox said. "I just had a moment of looking at our relationship, and there wasn't anything in particular , but it brought up a lot of stuff," she told the magazine. Arquette wasn't able to look at it so philosophically, with his drug use, sex with another woman and breakdown on Howard Stern's radio show as proof. Not that Cox blames him.

"You can't really get mad at David because he's not a malicious person," she said. "He was dealing with things the best way he could. And don't get me wrong, he was on a show for entertainment. David is smart, and David is also a showman. He knew what he was doing... I don't know what's going to happen, but I don't think he'll be doing more Howard Stern any time soon. He's not out to harm. But I'm his biggest protector. I can't help it."

Arquette later apologized for the sexual tell-all, on the show, as well as his one night stand with a waitress. He then had another breakdown on Stern's show, talking about his emotional breakdown and drinking; that collapse led to a stint in rehab and a stint on Oprah's couch.

During that Oprah appearance, Arquette revealed that, before their separation, Cox told him that she "didn't want to be his mother anymore." Cox reflected something similar, telling Harper's that she was "his biggest protector."

That may be in part because she's seven years older than Arquette, something of which she's always been aware.

"I thought I had always been a little bit of a cougar with David," Cox said. "I don't find the whole cougar word that offensive. And also, a cougar is someone who takes care of herself and goes out with younger guys. She doesn't need a man to take care of her."

But will a rehabbed David mean a fresh start??

"We loved each other so much, and if anything I feel like we've been extremely successful at marriage. If it doesn't work out, I will have huge waves of pain about failing in that department. But right now I don't have that because I don't know what the future holds and I guess because I have strong feelings for him."

Cox goes on to talk about her dating life, her daughter Coco and her new projects in the article. To read it all, click over to Harper's Bazaar.

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oxjr
03:19 AM on 03/17/2011
Sounds like he was blindsided. The probably had issues that seemed minor to him, and she let them bottle up to the point that she wanted out. The sad part is that they actually communicated with each other - but she probably held back her feelings thinking she was protecting him, but in the end it hurt him even more.
11:00 PM on 03/16/2011
Sometimes loving someone is not enough. David would not grow up and it cost him a good woman.
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oxjr
03:20 AM on 03/17/2011
Lets not forget there is some obvious signs of her being an enabler.
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emperance
Under 30? Don't talk to me.
07:31 PM on 03/16/2011
Never saw his appeal & NEVER WILL.
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UnknownSolider
03:48 PM on 03/16/2011
I've always that she was the best looking woman on Friends........
 
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01:13 PM on 03/16/2011
If I liked white women..she could cougar me anytime
09:53 AM on 03/16/2011
Poor Courteney. Marriage is hard, and she bails.
05:43 AM on 03/16/2011
perfect photo in the cover...
courteney remind me of demi moore...
but i did not know which of them is better...
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Jakesmom
Everybody counts or nobody counts.
12:47 AM on 03/16/2011
David was an addict before they got married, so I look at what he said as part of his process to deal with things. He seems to really love her, and I've always liked her, so I hope they can work it out. At least they aren't rushing to divorce after only a couple of years, which shows a lot of respect for each other and what they had.
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KrazyJay
11:12 PM on 03/15/2011
I wish we could photoshop ourselves in real life ... *sigh*
11:02 PM on 03/15/2011
David certainly does not deserve this woman.
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Nicole Dixson
09:54 PM on 03/15/2011
It is good to see two people who don't seem to be in a rush to end their marriage.
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leftLibertarian
reefer+java=groovy
09:43 PM on 03/15/2011
Have a great time you two!
09:41 PM on 03/15/2011
Saw David Arquette on Oprah. He was brutally honest, and spoke from the heart. He Is a Beautiful Human Being. He wears his Heart on his sleeve! Nothing Phoney about him, unlike many others! I always liked him because I found him wacky and hilarious! The kind of guy I"d like to hang out with. I dont know much about Courtney. But wish them both the best.
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Natoya Ebony
09:19 PM on 03/15/2011
Dear "Friends",
please come out with a movie...JUST ONE. Did Ross and Rache get married? How old is Emma now? Did Joey find the one....
http://natoyaebony.blogspot.com/
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UnknownSolider
03:47 PM on 03/16/2011
well I guess if enough of you Friends fans ask for it, you'll get it........ good luck, but I won't be watching