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Wrestler Promotes LGBT Support Among Athletes

Athlete Ally

Huffington Post   First Posted: 04/08/11 02:55 PM ET Updated: 06/08/11 06:12 AM ET

Hudson Taylor, an All-American wrestler and coach at Columbia University, wants to eliminate homophobia from all levels of sports.

"I've been wrestling my whole life," says Hudson, who is straight. "But until I got to college, homophobia didn't mean anything to me."

Starting out as a theater major at the University of Maryland, Hudson noticed that many of his friends were coming out to the class. "Everyone would celebrate and clap and hug since they were one step closer to being truer to themselves," Hudson remembers. But a few hours later, he'd head to wrestling practice and the tone was different. "The way they acted and the things they said started to affect me a lot more."

As captain of his team at the University of Maryland, he tried to reverse people's homophobic views -- correcting offensive language and demeaning behavior when he noticed it. He also wore a Human Rights Campaign sticker on his headgear during competitions, which irked some of his teammates.

"Certainly when I first started this, I had a lot of arguments with friends, family, teammates, about the politics."

But the "light switch" from ally to activist came after he was interviewed by OutSports about his support for the LGBT athletic community. After his interview was published, Hudson received hundreds of emails from other closeted athletes and parents thanking him for his support.

"They told me that nobody was speaking out for them and letting them know they can feel included and respected. It really made me want to do more."

Thus Athlete Ally was born, and Hudson became a spokesman for closeted athletes around the country.

When you arrive at the website for the first time you're presented with a pledge -- " I pledge to lead my athletic community to respect and welcome all persons, regardless of their perceived or actual sexual orientation, gender identity or gender expression" -- and from there, you're presented with other steps for action.

Covering this controversial ground for athletes must spark angry responses as well, right? "You'd think so, but you'd be amazed at how many people contact me wanting to help," Hudson says. "These are Midwestern kids, these are wrestlers and other athletes who consider themselves 'cowboys,' and they say they like what I'm doing and they respect what I'm doing."

The site features a number of videos and other tools for athletes to stand up as allies of the LGBT community.

Meanwhile, Hudson still wrestles professionally, and he will compete this weekend at the US Open in Cleveland. At only 24, he plans to stick with Athlete Ally for life and he has deferred from law school for another year to do just that.

"This is only about how we treat one another, how we speak to one another. It's not about politics or religion or anything else. I just want to create a safe space for people."

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Hudson Taylor, an All-American wrestler and coach at Columbia University, wants to eliminate homophobia from all levels of sports. "I've been wrestling my whole life," says Hudson, who is straight.
Hudson Taylor, an All-American wrestler and coach at Columbia University, wants to eliminate homophobia from all levels of sports. "I've been wrestling my whole life," says Hudson, who is straight.
 
 
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
09:08 PM on 04/24/2011
He and his fiancé (wife?) are both active, outspoken and beautiful people. It's overwhelming to have them sticking up for our equality, especially when it would be so easy for them to lead highly acceptable lives with less or no controversy. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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BillOlson
Fiscal Conservative - Social Liberal
02:26 PM on 04/11/2011
It would be great if more guys would speak up and speak out like this... Maybe then it wouldn't shock everyone so much. We are doctors, lawyers, athletes, artists, bankers, business leaders, moms & dads, friends, sons and daughters. Our sexuality doesn't define who we are... it is just one aspect of it.
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Bill J4321
11:39 AM on 04/11/2011
It says quite a lot when heterosexuals pat themselves on the back for treating all the gay children they created like actual human beings.
06:58 PM on 04/11/2011
You read a story about a guy who sees inequities around him, tries to do something about them, and that's what you got out of it? Oy.
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Bill J4321
07:20 PM on 04/11/2011
I got it more from the comments than the story itself.

But yes.

I'd say congratualitions are not in order quite yet.

Oy back.
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Just walkin the dog here
So, just where is this micro-bio? This it?
09:38 AM on 04/11/2011
Remarkable man. I look at the many chances in life I could have done more and did not. I wish I had had this guys confidence. I will start today.
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
09:10 PM on 04/24/2011
F&F!
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Chrystal Ji Davey
Chem. Dance. Theatre.
07:58 AM on 04/11/2011
You see, it's people like him that make me still have hope for our society...
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CheapTrick
Them or Us.
02:11 AM on 04/11/2011
The world needs more men like him.
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DMSmith
08:17 PM on 04/10/2011
Thank you, Hudson. Thank you.
04:36 PM on 04/10/2011
Seems like he might be a little fruity.
09:35 AM on 04/10/2011
"I'm straight, but not narrow." It is a sticker I have on my car mirror and explains my feelings on the subject.
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Carnacamarna
Black liberal who doesn't like idiocy
02:37 AM on 04/10/2011
Good on him.
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BrianJackson
10:22 PM on 04/09/2011
Hudson Taylor is a class act and I'm glad he's doing what he has. Best wishes.
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60256
How Strange, Innocence
09:59 PM on 04/09/2011
There's always one bad apple in the bunch...
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angelcakesinc
Tolerance of intolerance is intolerable
12:11 AM on 04/10/2011
Yeah, there are, and it looks like the nearest bad apple wears a shy guy mask!
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Richie MuadDib
loves to be censored
06:32 PM on 04/09/2011
Wait a minute, he's a professional wrestler?!

But seriously, kudos, brother. On one hand, it's a shame we would need such a thing as Athlete Ally; on the other, it's great to see athletes taking a strong, positive lead towards tolerance.
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NVEnvy07
04:30 PM on 04/09/2011
Great story..is it bad that I am surprised that a straight guy is doing this?
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EvilRabbit
05:14 PM on 04/09/2011
It is surprising that a straight athlete is doing it because you can kill someone, you can kill dogs, you can beat your wife, you can smoke weed, gamble, drink and you're fine. You'll be forgiven. But if you're gay in the sports world, that's inexcusable and you're cast out forever.

It's refreshing to see someone this courageous come out and simply stand up for what's right.
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Richie MuadDib
loves to be censored
06:42 PM on 04/09/2011
Sadly, it is strange. MLK ruminated that the real threat to the civil rights movement was not the KKK, but moderates. The same seems to be the case today. Homophobes are not the real threat, it's their enablers.

I hate to get political (because this is a great story), but when the President of the United States is dragging his feet on equal rights in the military, it is fair to point out that ambivalent "centrists" or "moderates" are bigger road blocks than the handful of homophobes in the military.

Entertaining any discussion of "can the troops handle working with gays" or "a transition period" is so patently absurd, it would be LOL funny if it were not simultaneously encouraging the denigration of good people that have been unfairly discharged and/or punished.
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Richie MuadDib
loves to be censored
06:57 PM on 04/09/2011
When I typed "Sadly, it is strange" I meant, you are right to be surprised because it is strange to see someone stand up for people outside their own "group" so to speak.
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DevonTexas
Eternal Optimism
11:16 AM on 04/09/2011
A world without gay people is like a party without decorations. I really appreciate what GLTB people bring to life.
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angelcakesinc
Tolerance of intolerance is intolerable
12:14 AM on 04/10/2011
You'd think that I, as a gay male, might be slightly offended at comparing us to things that just sit there and look pretty but somehow I'm not. Likely because that's all I do? :P All joking aside, you're right, life would be dreadfully dreary without us. We make everything better