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Foster Care's Web Of Policies, Problems And Promise Keeps Kids In Waiting

Foster Care

Huffington Post   Gabrielle Canon First Posted: 04/19/11 09:59 PM ET Updated: 06/19/11 06:12 AM ET

In the first part of this two-part series highlighting the hardships that half a million foster children face each year, Enrique Montiel shared his story. As a foster care alumnus, he now works as a social worker within the system that took him, and his five siblings, from his parents when he was only 9.

Montiel advocates for teens who share the experiences he endured and the problems that persist in America's foster homes. His story provides hope for those who continue to deal with the rampant race issues, homophobia that results in the abuse of LGBT foster children and the denial of adoptive opportunities for LGBT potential parents, problems in education stemming from emotional stress and frequent relocation, and health hazards that result from neglect and abuse that plague the foster care system.

However, as looming budget deficits force states to scramble to reduce recessionary spending, many may cut the programs that provide services to foster children. A report from The Center on Budget and Policy Priorities indicates that in 46 states and the District of Columbia, social services have been sacrificed in the latest round of cuts.


Recession-related problems
In Texas, Bloomberg reported, the budget cuts are created a dire situation in February for the state's Department of Family and Protective Services. Hundreds of foster children faced the prospect of moving into agency offices instead of homes.

Budget cuts in Illinois late last year incited the ACLU to voice a defense for those who depend on the services.

"The Governor and the legislature need to understand that this state's budget cannot be balanced on the backs of its most vulnerable residents -- children in foster care," said Benjamin Wolf, Associate Legal Director of the ACLU of Illinois announcing the filing of the complaint."

Kathy Ledesma, the National Program Director of AdoptUSkids, insists there is a silver lining to the economic downturn in regard to foster care children. "We believe the economy has had a positive effect on the recruitment of children in foster care."

She explains that because private and overseas adoptions are so expensive, potential adoptive parents are seeking foster children, which she states costs nothing because states provide funding for foster parents. Bloomberg reports, however, that in States such as Texas, where services and budgets are getting cut, financial resources for foster parents may decline.

"Families adopting children may not receive financial assistance from the state anymore under the proposed Senate bill. (Department Commissioner) Heiligenstein said those subsidies have historically encouraged families to adopt."


Federal Solutions
President Obama has spoken out about the importance of continuing to provide support, and has included provisions in his budget to assist states with child welfare reform that includes foster care and adoptive services.

Obama has also deemed November as national adoption month to increase awareness about the importance of foster and adoptive parents to children around the country. In a letter on whitehouse.gov he reminds Americans that they can make a difference.

"All children deserve a safe, loving family to protect and care for them...These young people have specific needs and require unique support. Federal, State, and local governments, communities, and individuals all have a role to play in ensuring that foster children have the resources and encouragement they need to realize their hopes and dreams."

Congress has also stepped up to find solutions in recent years. In 2008 President Bush signed "The Fostering Connections to Success and Increasing Adoptions Act" which increases federal support, promotes adoption and relative guardianship, which results in permanent families, and focuses on improving education and health care for foster children. Under the program foster children do not "age out," at 18 and services have been extended until they reach the age of 21.

According to The National Conference of State Legislatures, many states have enacted the bill.

"In the 2009 and 2010 legislative sessions combined, 33 states and the District of Columbia enacted 63 different bills related to the provisions of the Fostering Connections Act. In the 2011 legislative session, state activity around the act continues."
Sen. Mary L. Landrieu, D-La., and Sen. Chuck Grassley, R-Iowa, also issued a "Call to Action" in 2010 to target issues with foster care in America.
"(Congress) established the Senate Caucus on Foster Youth to break down the arbitrary silos of public programs and closely examine the experiences of a young person aging out of foster care so that the Congress and stakeholder could better understand how to address the problem of increasing numbers of young people aging out of care without a permanent family to call home."

Past attempts at enacting legislation to eradicate issues in the foster care system have not been as successful as they were intended, however.


Race Issues
Despite the Multiethnic Placement Act of 1994 (MEPA), race discrepancies remain. This federal legislation mandates that children cannot be delayed or denied foster or adoptive placement based on race and also calls for increased efforts to recruit foster and adoptive parents who share racial and ethnic backgrounds of foster children and was intended to decrease rampant race issues in the foster care system. Yet, African Americans are disproportionately represented in the foster care system and are are still less likely to be adopted.

A report by the Adoption Institute confirms that they account for 32 percent of foster children in the U.S., though they only make up 15 percent of the country's child population.

"The Child Welfare System is not as culturally sensitive or culturally responsive as it should be," Ledesma explains. "Over representation of African American children has improved, but it is still a problem."


LGBT Issues
Issues over sexual identity also continue to create hardships for both foster children and parents despite attempts to produce solutions. In an article featured last year, Mother Jones reported that only 21 foster families, out of 246 that were surveyed, would accept a gay teenager.

The article also cited the American Bar Association's 2008 guidebook, which reports widespread verbal abuse of LGBT foster children.

"virtually all lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and questioning kids in group homes had reported verbal harassment; 70 percent had been subjected to violence."

Unfortunately, many potential LGBT parents face obstacles when they seek to become foster or adoptive parents. A report by AdoptUSkids details the difficulties LGBT parents face, which highlights the discriminatory practices still occurring in most states. This bars adoptions within a group where adoptions are usually a first choice and could make a positive impact on the lives of foster children around the country.

Beyond case-by-case discrimination, which usually involves unexplained dismissals, long waits for placements, and non-supportive caseworkers, some states still have legislation barring same-sex or unmarried couples from adopting. These laws exist in Arkansas, Michigan, Mississippi, Nebraska and Utah, and contribute to a shortage of adoptive and foster parents that could be alleviated.

Ledesma emphasizes that AdoptUSKids is working with potential parents in the LGBT community and has begun several initiatives to provide resources, education, and support groups. The organization is also addressing states that have either formal or informal barriers against same-sex couples or LGBT singles adopting, with the hope that this problem can be eradicated.
Solutions

Though these programs and government initiatives will likely have a positive impact, foster children continue to experience extreme hardships. There are many foster children in need of a home or are waiting to be reunited with their families. They continue to face education obstacles, neglect and abuse, and fearful futures.

The success stories featured on the AdoptUSkids website indicate that there is hope, but advocacy, increased awareness and support, and consolidated dedication to solve the problems are still needed to change the lives of foster care children in the U.S.

Ledesma advises that there are many things concerned citizens can do to help both foster children and foster parents. "You can mentor a friend, volunteer to become a temporary caregiver, or provide respite care to neighbors."

Enrique Montiel insists that though there are problems, the foster care system can be successful. He credits it with creating who he has become and enabling him to help others. He believes that foster children need to be reminded that they can be successful and emphasizes the importance of inspiration. "Your past does not dictate your future," he tells them. "Once (teens) see that" he explains, "something changes for them."

Visit AdoptUSkids to find out what you can do to make a difference.

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In the first part of this two-part series highlighting the hardships that half a million foster children face each year, Enrique Montiel shared his story. As a foster care alumnus, he now works as a s...
In the first part of this two-part series highlighting the hardships that half a million foster children face each year, Enrique Montiel shared his story. As a foster care alumnus, he now works as a s...
 
 
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12:03 AM on 05/06/2011
A blog by a former foster child. Interesting read. http://agedoutfosterkid.blogspot.com/
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UserNameJane
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01:21 PM on 04/22/2011
If you don't want gays to adopt then stop allowing Hetrosexuals to throw away their children, talk about bad role modles.. give me a break
06:48 PM on 04/21/2011
Probably half of the children in foster care today would not be there if the intensive help had been provided to strengthen and restore their families. Many could go home now if effort ws expended. Families have problems, but "raising" a child in the foster care system is not the answer. Children who age out at 18 are more likely to be homeless, under-employed, not finish their education, even become incarcerated. Youth Villages offers evidence-based intensive in-home services that have been proven to be able to reunite families, even when children have been in foster care for many years. www.youthvillages.org
11:45 PM on 04/21/2011
You have no idea what you are talking about. I AM a foster parent, and you have no idea of the reason kids are placed in foster homes, apparently. You really think that the state is taking kids from families that just need "counseling"?? We recently had a kid with half his face burned off with an iron because "he wasn't listening" (he was 2 years old). Or, what of the girl we had that was sexually assaulted by her father from age 2-5, until she told someone that reported it and came into our lives. Or the boy we adopted from foster care that came into the system with bruises over 90% of his body.

You said, "half the kids in foster care wouldn't be there...or could go home..." You need to get some facts first. Most of the kids we've seen, we are scared for them to go home, it is not a safe place for them, and that is why they get removed. Us, and many like us, provide a safe place for them while the state works with the family to reunite (if that is judge ordered).
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11:44 AM on 04/22/2011
Bless you for all you are doing to help provide a safe and caring home to children that dont have one.
11:14 PM on 04/23/2011
Us, us, us, us, us only you people exist is what you are saying. I guess it doesn't occur to you that some kids are quite happy because they were returned to their family and left with their family. It works both ways. You are taking about situations that blaming other families is not the answer! The only people you can blame for the incidents you are talking about are specifically THOSE PEOPLE; do not blame innocent people for the stories that you are spreading! I'm guessing you are talking about criminals also!
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NikitaAhn
Peace is its own reward.
03:00 PM on 04/21/2011
Anyone interested in helping kids in foster care should look into volunteering with CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates). You're trained to work as a volunteer court advocate for kids in the court system. Often you are the only person in their lives that has access to ALL of their information and records, which enables you to identify their needs and get them important services. Most judges take CASA reports very seriously when making placement decisions for kids. You stay with your assigned kid/sibling group for the ENTIRE time they're in the court system, acting as an advocate and often mentor. Kids with CASA workers get more services and spend less time in the system. It's a valuable program for anyone who can't foster but is interested in helping.
http://www.casaforchildren.org/
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NikitaAhn
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02:28 PM on 04/21/2011
I can't comprehend how people can justify denying foster homes to kids based solely on the parents' sexuality. The pain, loneliness, shame, and fear these kids experience as a result of being without families is incredibly deep and damaging. Just imagine being small and powerless and having NO control over what happens to you. Never feeling as though you can relax and settle into a place because at any moment, without any warning, you could be moved somewhere new, with complete strangers who now control your entire life for good or bad. And this is on top of whatever trauma, neglect, or abuse landed you in foster care in the first place. I've worked in children's behavioral health for years - I've seen kids spend their entire Christmas day crying because they have no family to spend it with, I've had kids beg me to take them home with me and adopt them, even call me "mommy", I've had to pry a crying 8 year old off of me and put her in a car to be taken to a new group home, all because the state decided it was more cost-effective. How could ANYONE, seeing what these kids go through and knowing how much they hurt, deny them the chance at a loving home? It's cruel and selfish. The idea that someone else's narrow view of the world is standing between kids and loving homes makes me want to punch someone. It's just incomprehensible to me.
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NikitaAhn
Peace is its own reward.
02:16 PM on 04/21/2011
I've spent almost my entire twenties working in children's behavioral health. I've worked with hundreds of foster kids in three states. And let me tell you, working within this system is frustrating, stressful, heartbreaking, and utterly exhausting. There is so much redundancy and red tape, so many hoops to jump through to get kids the services they need. And our budgets are ridiculous. Not only do we have to slash costs for things like art supplies, outings, and simple comforts, we've just had our food budget cut and this past Christmas the group home I work in only got $50 per teen to buy gifts. I ended up spending more on gifts for the kids at work than I did for my own family, and that's on a social services paycheck (which is crappy, let me tell you). They cut staff benefits and pay, as well. This job is incredibly stressful - I've had two work-related concussions, a cracked rib, and god knows how many black eyes, bite marks, and scratches. These kids can be very violent. I've had pee and feces thrown at me, no to mention being screamed at, sworn at, and verbally attacked on a regular basis. This job is hard, and when they start cutting pay and benefits, staff burn out and can't be effective in their jobs. Then the kids don't get the level of care they need and deserve. Social services are a necessity - you either pay now, or you pay later.
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mikey09
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02:01 PM on 04/21/2011
One issue seldom talked abt with foster care kids is the amount of time it takes to terminate parental rights,....often a baby will enter the system, and because it takes so long to temrinate the parental rights, the child might be 5-6 before they can be adopted....most people sadly want infants to adopt....
11:00 AM on 04/21/2011
I (and my partner) have had our Foster son for two years now. Though the road may have been rough it has been totally worth every minute. Our agency is NYAP (National Youth Advocacy Program). They are located in many states. As a gay man raising a gay youth, we have much in common. Don’t stop trying. If I can foster so can you.
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NikitaAhn
Peace is its own reward.
02:01 PM on 04/21/2011
As someone who has been working in the children's behavioral health field (and mostly with foster kids) for nearly a decade now, just let me say thank you to you and your partner for giving your son a family. It's so heartbreaking to watch the kids I work with waiting for families, and unfortunately success stories are rare in my job, as I work with severely behaviorally challenged kids. But hearing about parents who put in the love, effort, time, and determination to make a kid a part of their family is what keeps me going. So thanks, and give that kid a big hug for me. :)
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06:06 PM on 04/20/2011
We registered to become foster parents, we want to adopt an older teenager and an older kid. It's been months and we have not heard from anyone, I have to keep calling and pushing to get things moved in the system.

I have contacted a couple of agencies promoting the adoption of kids in foster care, and once they find out we are a gay couple all communication stops... but we will keep pushing, these kids need a home and we want to share our life with them.
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11:50 AM on 04/22/2011
I wish you much luck, Its sad what a hateful world we live in that a child has to suffer because we are gay and agencies dont want to deal with us. Keep trying, I hope you and your SO will soon have a child to love and care for
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ReadMyLipstick1
It can't be that hard.
01:43 PM on 04/20/2011
Please know up front that while I don't want to beat up all the parents who have adopted children from other countries, I find it sad that there are so many kids right here who need someone loving to care for them and to guide them. I think that perhaps in our zeal to mke sure that kids get a good foster home,or a good adopted home, that we have become unrealistic as to what constitutes that. These same good people who have adopted children from outside our country have horror stories to tell about the problems which stopped them at every step. Also, I think most Americans,particularly younger couples, or younger people wish to adopt newborns, or very young children versus an older child. I hope we can get the stumbling blocks here under control so that we can take care of our own a little earlier.
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02:26 PM on 04/20/2011
It needs to be a bit easier to adopt children from foster care. All the red tape for years is what stops a lot of people. That, and the possibility of a birth parent having the child placed back with her (due to getting off drugs, for example).

My daughter and son-in-law heaved a giant sigh of relief when their foster daughter's birth parents' rights were finally terminated (when the child was nearly two). They could have lost her any time before that. And the adoption is still not final. They will not feel entirely comfortable until it is.
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ReadMyLipstick1
It can't be that hard.
03:04 PM on 04/20/2011
Couldn't agree more. I have friends who too have "suffered" the way your daughter and her husband are -- until this is finalized! One couple had everything ultimately work out well, and their daughter is doing well, and it's several years later now. My other friend was not so lucky, and the mother of the little boy fought to have him returned, so after almost 2 years, they had to give him up. "Painful" doesn't begin to cover the angst they suffered. But there is good karma, they went on to have a baby of their own, which they were told couldn't happen. They aren't over the loss of the little boy, and never will be, but some good came from it afterall. Best wishes to your daughter and her husband, and you too - Grandma!!
11:31 PM on 04/23/2011
I have a birth parent who lost his daughter to an adoptive couple directly from the hospital room. I'm sure they are quite happy that these birth parent's gave birth to "their" daughter and left the birth couple's life destroyed!
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NikitaAhn
Peace is its own reward.
02:35 PM on 04/21/2011
What's frustrating to me is that, despite the fact that the system often denies good, safe, loving homes due to the parents being gay, there are a ton of abusive, neglectful, and just generally bad foster homes with straight parents out there. There are people who take in a group of kids just for the stipends, there are people who sexually, physically, or emotionally abuse the kids, there are people whose idea of "helping" is to try to force religion or extreme strictness down these kids' throats. I've worked with so many kids who suffered abuse in their foster homes, or whose foster parents quit the second things got challenging. The system needs to focus on weeding out the abusive and neglectful homes and just let gay individuals (who pass the screening process like any straight person) foster and adopt. As it is there are far too few good foster homes out there - to narrow the pool because of politics is reprehensible and counterproductive.
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ReadMyLipstick1
It can't be that hard.
03:10 PM on 04/21/2011
The disallowance of gay couples to adopt and often foster these children is just ridiculous. Agreed, if individuals can pass the screening then there is no reason why they should not be able to adopt or foster. There are just so many children who need good loving and caring homes!
10:41 AM on 04/20/2011
The recently released documentary film From Place to Place follows plucky underdogs Mandy & Raif as they struggle for two years aging out of foster care. Mustering courage into a strong act of bravery, the two travel to DC to tell their stories and change the system that raised them.

The Senate Call to Action by Senators Grassley & Landrieu in November 2010 were inspired by and captured in the film.

Check it out at http://www.fromplacetoplacemovie.com and The Strong Voice Campaign to Reform America's foster care system
10:12 AM on 04/20/2011
The problem with this story is much like the problem with the system itself: Both ignore the elephant in the room, the widespread needless removal of children from everyone they know and love, often when family poverty is confused with “neglect.”

The problem is compounded by the racism that permeates the system. For example, one study found that when caseworkers were given otherwise-identical hypotheticals, they were more likely to rate the child as in danger when the family was described as Black. The problem isn’t getting more Black kids into foster care, it’s the urgent need to keep more Black kids *out* of foster care.

As for the federal budget, how about taking the $4 billion per year the federal government will spend only on foster care and making it available for better alternatives as well?

AdoptUSKids gets involved at the end of the process – when birth families have been destroyed and parental rights severed forever, often needlessly. Adoption is the answer for some children, but keeping birth families together is the answer for many more.

Richard Wexler
Executive Director
National Coalition for Child Protection Reform
www.nccpr.org
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Israelibabs
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03:00 PM on 04/20/2011
How much did Bachman make off her 25 foster kids. Some people out there do it to profit! Everything should be done to keep these kids in their biological families. Poverty is no excuse!
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mikey09
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02:09 PM on 04/21/2011
Wow...I fostered for 30 years and the small amount of money you get for the CHILD is often not enough to cloth them properly, many GOOD foster parents pay for the little league, dance classes, tutors etc and never complain, its for the childs best interest and done so out of love and caring.
 
Poverty was NEVER a reason a child entered my home, most times it was substance abuse, alcohol or drugs....we see more minority children in foster care because they usually lack extended family willing to take in another child....its not an issue of money to the good foster parents.....
11:54 PM on 04/21/2011
wow, you took that right out of a Hollywood movie. The foster parents we know are well set financially. We are foster parents as well, and we own 3 businesses. The money is a joke unless you are broke and 280$ a month sounds like a lot.
09:59 AM on 04/21/2011
I couldn't disagree more. Many of these children are strung along for years in foster care, while their parents try to get their acts together. These children's whole lives are ruined because of the dream of some miracle reconciliation that either will never happen or will be a disaster for the child when it does. Often times kids are put with relatives who are not interested in or capable of parenting, in an attempt to keep them with their biological family. Then after things have fallen apart and the child has long term attachment, learning and emotional problems, then they are placed in foster care. Bio parents should be give a very limited window to get their life together and then if it doesn't happen the children should be placed for adoption with a loving and capable family of any race. Despite the MEPA, many social workers do everything possible to avoid placing kids with parents of a different race, thus lengthening their time in foster care. These kids deserve good parents, not a life of abuse and neglect while waiting for their bio family to miraculously become adequate parents.
02:42 PM on 04/21/2011
Biological parents do, by federal law, have a limited window: 15 months. In cases of extreme abuse, CPS can seek termination of parental rights immediately.
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NikitaAhn
Peace is its own reward.
02:47 PM on 04/21/2011
I couldn't agree more. I often feel as though the parent's "rights" end up overshadowing the best interest of the kids.
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Gennaphyr
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01:14 AM on 04/20/2011
It is heartbreaking to hear that foster families discriminate against LGBT kids. If I was in a position to become a foster parent I would. My 20 year old daughter is gay and so these kids have a place in my heart, I only wish I could give them a place in my home.
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NikitaAhn
Peace is its own reward.
02:55 PM on 04/21/2011
I don't know where you live, but you should look into mentoring and volunteer programs. There are lots of things that you can get involved with to help, such as CASA (court appointed special advocates) or local mentoring programs. I can tell you absolutely that even if you can't provide a home, being a stable, loving, positive adult in their life can be an incredible benefit for them. If you look up local foster agencies you can call and ask about how you can help.
11:50 PM on 04/19/2011
I wish I could foster a child! Any child! I'm calling!
09:59 PM on 04/19/2011
As someone who works in the field, has adopted four children from foster care, and happens to be gay I can tell you things have really changed in the past five years. The agency I work for has a strong push for Family Centered Practice and we are keeping more families together now than we ever have. This means that we have to be more creative in how we solve presenting problems and use the limited resources that we have. Kids aren't waiting in foster care nearly as long once their parent's rights have been terminated. As for the experience of kids in foster care, there are excellent foster parents out there and there are not so good foster parents. In retrospect I was probably middle of the road, not excellent, but not the worst of the bunch either, I was working forty hours and fostered as many as seven kids at a time, with my spouse of course. The experience of GLBTr kids, children of color, and special needs kids in foster care is, unfortunately, as complex as it is in the non-foster world and there are no clear quick fixes for the issues that come up. Of course, now there are no closed adoptions as every one of my children has found their parents through Facebook and they have their bio parents on speed dial on their cell phones.
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06:12 PM on 04/20/2011
Can you tell me who can I conctact? we were just certified as foster parents, we are gay and we want to adopt an older teenager and an older kid.