Gay Marriage Bill Heads To GOP Senate; Sean Avery, Cynthia Nixon In Albany To Lobby For 'Yes' Vote

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MICHAEL GORMLEY   06/14/11 10:03 PM ET   AP

ALBANY, N.Y. — After a second day of a lobbying blitz and propelled by Gov. Andrew Cuomo's personal buttonholing of GOP senators, a measure to legalize gay marriage in New York drew to within one vote of passing, with at least two more Republicans still undecided.

On Tuesday, a second Republican senator said he would support Cuomo's same-sex marriage bill, less than two years after he was part of a GOP-led defeat of a similar bill that dealt a blow to the national effort to legalize gay marriage.

Meanwhile, a federal judge upheld a gay judge's ruling that struck down California's same-sex marriage ban, saying his fellow jurist was under no obligation to disqualify himself simply because he was in a long-term relationship with another man.

In New York, Sen. Roy McDonald of Saratoga County announced he would vote for gay marriage, creating a 31-31 tie, resulting in no law. Thirty-two votes are needed to pass a bill in the 62-seat chamber. Several senators, however, still haven't committed to a vote that could happen Friday, what could be the final day of the legislative session.

"My vote is going to be for marriage," McDonald said. "I think it's compassion, trying do the right thing, trying to get everyone to live together."

"Our big state is big enough for everybody," he said.

When told McDonald would support gay marriage, Republican Sen. William Larkin of Orange County responded, "Shocking."

Fellow GOP Sens. Mark Grisanti of Erie County and Stephen Saland of Poughkeepsie said they were undecided on the issue.

"It has nothing do with politics," Gristanti told The Buffalo News.

Said Saland, who voted against the measure in 2009: "My phone has been flying off the hook, both ways."

Saland said he knows of no other Republican senators planning to support same-sex marriage. But Cuomo, a Democrat, has met constantly with them, including an evening at the governor's mansion and in private meetings. Several Republicans described Cuomo's pitch as passionate and persuasive.

Senate Majority Leader Dean Skelos, a Long Island Republican who opposes gay marriage, said his conference will make a decision in a closed-door meeting, likely on Wednesday. If it does, he said a floor vote would likely be Friday.

"It's certainly closer, but nobody else has told me they are definitely going to vote for it," Skelos said.

The measure, for the fourth time in two years, is expected to easily pass in the Democrat-led Assembly, where Speaker Sheldon Silver said he believes Cuomo has secured enough votes for passage in the Senate.

Each side of the gay-marriage debate in Albany is funded by more than $1 million from national and state advocates being used in media blitzes and in promised campaign cash for lawmakers who side with them. The effort, organized by Cuomo, drew three Democratic senators and one Republican, Sen. James Alesi of Monroe County, to the cause on Monday.

The sole Democratic senator opposed to the bill, the Rev. Ruben Diaz Sr. of the Bronx, continues to drum up opposition, saying it's his calling.

New York Archbishop Timothy Dolan blogged Tuesday that approving gay marriage is akin to a communist country redefining other basic human rights.

"In those countries, government presumes to `redefine' rights, relationships, values and natural law," Dolan said. He said "courageous" senators are facing a "stampede" of lobbying to change their votes. "But, please, not here! Our country's founding principles speak of rights given by God, not invented by government."

Same-sex marriage is legal in Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont and Washington, D.C., but the effort has flagged since the defeat in New York. Opponents are bolstered by defeats of similar bills in Maryland and Rhode Island this year, and recent polls have shown New Yorkers slightly less supportive of gay marriage as the issue gained more attention this year.

"Hundreds of thousands of other New Yorkers, like me, are treated like second-class citizens," said "Sex and the City" star Cynthia Nixon in her latest lobbying in Albany. She said Tuesday she's been engaged to another woman for seven years but unable to marry in her home state.

"It's time we treat all committed couples equally," said Sean Avery, a New York Ranger and one of several professional athletes and celebrities who have pressed for gay marriage.

Cuomo said his bill is "roughly" the same as the one beaten back in 2009 in a Senate then led by Democrats. Republicans won a 32-30 majority in 2010.

The governor's bill doesn't include all the additional religious exemptions Republicans sought. Republicans want churches, religious groups and individuals opposed to gay marriage exempted from performing or hosting gay marriages.

"I think if the governor pays real respect to the need for religious carve-outs and builds that into this bill, creating a clear definition between civil marriage and religious marriage, it's going to take the wind out of the sales of people like Jason McGuire who are against the bill," Republican Sen. Greg Ball said.

McGuire, an Elmira pastor and president of the New Yorkers Family Research Foundation, says gay marriage damages children.

Other clergy disagree.

"Our faith traditions teach us that all people are children of God, deserving of love, dignity and equal treatment," said the Rev. Tom Goodhue, executive director of the Long Island Council of Churches, a group of 734 clergy and lay leaders.

A Siena College poll Monday found 55 percent of New Yorkers support gay marriage, a decline from 58 percent in April. Just 14 percent of New Yorkers said gay marriage should be the top priority of the Legislature. The poll questioned 819 registered voters June 5-8 and had a margin of error of plus or minus 3.4 percentage points.

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Associated Press Writer Michael Virtanen contributed to this report.

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Ronster1954
10:39 AM on 06/16/2011
pass the darn bill, I mean in every state, then we can stop reading about it, hearing about it....so freaking tired of hearing all the whining...
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Married Gay Pagan Man
08:22 AM on 06/17/2011
EXCUSE ME? You're not the one who can't marry the one you love. You're not the one who does not have the 1100+ rights and protections automatically given to straigths when they marry. Care to explain why YOU should have the right to marry and receive federal protection but we shouldn't.
06:21 PM on 06/17/2011
Benefits like?

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mherrera
Indigenous Troublemaker
01:56 PM on 06/15/2011
Archbishop Dolan's own comments backfire on him when he compares gay rights to communist dictatorships which by his definition are overhearing bodies of authority that tell people what to do and threaten them with reprisals if they don't. Sounds like a Sunday at church to me. Pot call the kettle, black much?
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Wyeyes
You heard about Pluto? That's messed up, right?
10:52 AM on 06/15/2011
I fully support Gay Marriage. Recent arguments have made me begin to question the illegality of polygamy, also. Why is it illegal?
03:31 PM on 06/16/2011
polygamy raises a of of legal questions of inheritance and responsibility for children. say you have 1 man and 2 women married, and the man and woman a die, is woman b now the legal guardian of woman a's children? or even more complicated, what if you have a woman married to 2 men and one man decides he wants a divorce, do you then have to have paternity tests on all the children to determine who the father is? Not to say it couldn't be handled under regular contract law, but it is definitely more complicated
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Wyeyes
You heard about Pluto? That's messed up, right?
04:06 PM on 06/16/2011
But being complicated isnt a reason to make something illegal. And what you listed really isnt that complicated.
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MissRoseNylund
Shares house with Blanche, Dorothy and Sophia.
03:36 AM on 06/15/2011
Gay marriage will be passed here in New York, most likely this week. It's about time.
06:02 AM on 06/15/2011
That should be good for at least another 1 million taxpayers FLEEING that lousy State.............prety soon......... there will be no one left to pay the bills.............just freeloaders looking for handouts..........and no one left to take from.
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MissRoseNylund
Shares house with Blanche, Dorothy and Sophia.
08:45 AM on 06/15/2011
Most polls show the majority of New Yorkers favor gay marriage.
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LonosCurse
Some may never live, but the crazy never die
08:51 AM on 06/15/2011
Where are you? The Ozarks?
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Marisa Stein
~I solemly swear that I am up to no good~
07:37 AM on 06/15/2011
does your crystal ball give you the lottory numbers too?
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MissRoseNylund
Shares house with Blanche, Dorothy and Sophia.
08:41 AM on 06/15/2011
I don't have a crystal ball, I just listen to the news. The news has been reporting that all they need is one Senator to change his vote. There are at least 2 who were previously against gay marriage who have said they are reconsidering their stance, and will most likely vote in favor. Some Senators who have been against it said they have been getting far more feedback from constituents favoring gay marriage, and that they are there to vote the will of their constituents. Even Senators against gay marriage have been admitting that it will most likely pass this week.
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LonosCurse
Some may never live, but the crazy never die
08:52 AM on 06/15/2011
The train doesn't have to hit you for you to know it's coming.
03:04 AM on 06/15/2011
Marriage is between a Man and a Woman and is not a civil right.
10:44 AM on 06/15/2011
hmmmmmm. Soooo, you contend we dooooo?
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Ms NYC
Republicans for Voldemort
10:46 AM on 06/15/2011
wrong & wrong
12:35 AM on 06/15/2011
I think retired gay military personnel, and those who are serving via reserves - should show up in full uniform to remind these idiotic, judgmental republicans how selfish and disrespectful they are -- to remind them they have served their country and continue to serve their country in order to protect and provide freedoms that these pompous bigots feel it's OK for them to be able to have, but those who risk their lives for freedom are not worthy of the same thing.

Remind them!!!
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Drew2U
Emily is not amused.
11:46 PM on 06/14/2011
I'd like to offer the NY Republicans this small reminder--NY 26. Vote wisely. Or else.
10:28 PM on 06/14/2011
Republicans are dumb enough to defeat this bill. They don't try to stay ahead of any issue except backward thinking beliefs that will cost them dearly in the future. The New York legislators are generally worthless, so it wouldn't suprise me that they would vote on this bill purely to benefit themselves to stay in office. Intergrity and statesmanship has long been absent from that group of law makers. As for the Bishop; clean up your own house first. The catholic church no longer occupies the moral high ground, least of all in human relationships.
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eyecon
Retired CEO & Quality-Mgmt Consultant
09:38 PM on 06/14/2011
Dolan should be more concerned about the illicit activities of his priests and stop meddling in the affairs of loving couples. If his superstition, er religion prohibits him or them from marrying gays, that is their prerogative but that's about as far as it goes. Dolan's suggestion that gay rights are some sort of communist plot is just silly and amateurish. It's nonsense like that causing people to leave his church in droves.

Based on his errant views of history, someone needs to remind Dolan of the First Amendment Establishment Clause and the fact that the original Constitution doesn't mention God and only mentions religion once - that there be no religious test for holding office.
02:46 AM on 06/15/2011
I'm sick of people referring to gays as "loving couples" all the time. Dealing with people at the Center for Gays and Lesbians in L.A. a few years ago, has opened my eyes to a lot of vicious personalities and backbiting and cheating.
I have 2 female cousins and 2 close female friends who were married 3-17 years. Each had at least 2 children with their husbands. Then their husbands broke up their families--abandoned them--for male lovers. Their choice. So much for being "born this way".
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mikarr785
Odds are, you displease me.
04:11 AM on 06/15/2011
Apparently, it didn't occur to you that those husbands were gay all along -- and it's this ignorant and conservative society that pressures them into trying to pass as heterosexuals.

And "vicious personalities"... "backbiting"... "cheating"... no, those words and phrases can NEVER be associated with straight people, right? Get a clue.
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Jason N
Proud Firebagger Lefty
12:55 PM on 06/15/2011
" Then their husbands broke up their families--­abandoned them--for male lovers. Their choice. So much for being "born this way"."

Their choice was to decide to live honestly, they didn't choose to be homosexual. Go ahead and wake up tomorrow and try to choose to be attracted to the same sex. Go on, try it and let us know how it works for you.

"Dealing with people at the Center for Gays and Lesbians in L.A. a few years ago, has opened my eyes to a lot of vicious personalit­ies and backbiting and cheating. "

GASP! You mean to tell me gay people are no different than straight people, that some of them are cheaters? Some of them even talk about people behind their backs!?!? No way!!
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KenClay
REPEAL DOMA
08:20 PM on 06/14/2011
Don't play Politics with my life... 40 years partnered 7 years Married in MA. Longer than my Moms 4 ...one man one woman Marriage
10:42 AM on 06/15/2011
That is the shortest, rambling sentence ever. I have no idea what you were trying to say.
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duckpuddle
look at me!
12:56 PM on 06/15/2011
He said that his gay marriage, which has been the last 7 years of his 40 year relationship, has lasted longer than his parents 4-year strate marriage.
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Mario Trujillo
07:10 PM on 06/14/2011
It's funny how we sit here with bated breath hoping and wishing that politicians vote in our favor.

Republicans who vote for gay marriage also will lose the often-critical endorsement of the Conservative Party, said party chairman Michael Long.

This is why we need courts to decide this matter once and for all.
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mitchpeter
04:52 PM on 06/14/2011
2nd time:
Marriage is a government contract.
How can you legally deny it to any citizens?
www.gaynycdad.com
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WheelsOnFire
Fiercely Independent
11:16 PM on 06/14/2011
That's precisely the point, mitchpeter!

To deny access to a government contract directly contravenes the 14th Amendment to the Constitution of the United States.

And to think -- Republicans are going to vote in a manner that defiles and abuses our Constitution. Why do they hate this country so much?
04:31 PM on 06/14/2011
Come on come through New York!