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Sex Study: Chicago Residents Have Fewest Sexual Partners, Wish They Were Getting More

First Posted: 06/14/11 07:32 PM ET Updated: 08/14/11 06:12 AM ET

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Blame it on the long winters, or something: a new study by the Trojan condom folks reveals some good news -- and plenty of depressing news -- about the state of sexual activity in Chicago.

Among the ten major cities surveyed, Chicagoans were tied for last (with Philadelphia, sadly) in the number of sexual partners we've had -- the 200 Chicagoans asked had slept with an average of around 10 people in their lifetimes, compared to a nationwide average of 13. We've also had by far the fewest partners for oral sex (fewer than nine) and anal sex (fewer than two).

Respondents from the city were also more likely than anywhere else to be wishing they had more sex. 71 percent of Chicagoans wished they had sex much more often or somewhat more often, while only five percent wished they had sex somewhat or much less often.

Oddly enough, we are having plenty of sex, though: Chicagoans get laid an average of 114 times a year, or better than twice a week. That put us tied for third place with New York, trailing Houston (125 times a year) and those lascivious Los Angelenos, who (at least claim to) have sex 135 times a year. We also have the highest frequency of anal sex of any city, at an average of 15 times a year or more than once a month.

Despite the frequency, we're eighth out of 10 in satisfaction level, with only 75 percent of respondents saying they're "very satisfied" or "somewhat satisfied" with their sex lives. Quantity, unfortunately, does not equal quality.

And fully 15 percent of Chicagoans have never had an orgasm, the second-highest total of any city. Only New Yorkers have got us beat in frigidity, with 16 percent missing out on climax.

A major point to our credit, though: we're honest between the sheets. Only 36 percent of us have ever faked an orgasm; the second place in that category, San Francisco, was a full five points higher at 41 percent. Los Angeles, city of actors, had the highest fake-orgasm average, with 51 percent indicating they'd faked it.

We get our sexual recommendations from the people we know: 35 percent of Chicagoans met their sexual partner through a friend or family member, the highest of any city surveyed. We're also most likely to meet a partner at the gym, working out, or playing sports (if this included watching sports at a bar, we bet the number would be way higher).

The Trojan study, conducted by StrategyOne, asked 2,000 people from ten major cities: 200 each from Los Angeles, Houston, Chicago, New York, San Francisco, Washington, DC, Atlanta, Dallas, Boston and Philadelphia. 944 respondents were male; 1,056 were female.

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10:12 AM on 06/15/2011
The high-end (oops!) 'Greek Love' stat proves to me that this survey was
only administered to Sox fans.
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04:31 PM on 06/15/2011
R U serious? It's the Cub fans who have been taking it up bum with the curse.
11:36 PM on 06/16/2011
What curse? The CUBS are responsible for their choking year after year......2008 was the year the Cubs should have won the Series...Choked in three against L.A. In playoffs. Get out of Lakeview and play baseball !!
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Howard53545
06:47 AM on 06/15/2011
They are banging those booties in the windy city.
01:03 AM on 06/15/2011
Sample size of 200 people. Pretty representative of a city with millions right?
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10:52 PM on 06/14/2011
Meh. The working folk in the city are either monogamous, too busy, too responsible, or too ugly.

It's the spoiled brats in the burbs sleeping around.

=P
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chairman1969
09:02 PM on 06/14/2011
chicago is easily the worst of the major U.S. cities.. in like almost every category you can fathom..
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09:15 PM on 06/14/2011
Chicago has better food than any other US city. It has a better local music and theater scene and its cost of living is better than either coast. Also the people are much nicer and more civil than any of the east or west coast cities.
09:29 PM on 06/14/2011
I agree, Chicago is a fabulous town.
01:55 AM on 06/15/2011
It certainly does not have better food than NYC, LA or SF. I love Chicago, but just tripling the calories does not make for better food...also local music? Seriously?
11:10 PM on 06/14/2011
slip on by on L.S.D.
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Trickery
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08:08 PM on 06/14/2011
I remember reading this in the redeye about a month ago, but they had interviewed people from Andersonville and Skokie. We know Skokie residents go to bed dry :/
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10:52 PM on 06/14/2011
rofl... Rogers Park, babay!
08:04 PM on 06/14/2011
The reason is because this is a BIG gay city. So there's not a lot of hetero sex out there. Go to Montana or Alaska if you want hetero sex.
08:53 PM on 06/14/2011
I would think if Chicago were so gay/lesbian that the amount of sexual partners would be much higher. The rap against our GLBT community is that we are very active with many partners. This is not true, in many cases, and certainly not in mine, but that is the stereotype of our community, especially the male side of it. Arlene McCarthy Lesbian & LGBT Activist
07:12 PM on 06/14/2011
Damn, looks like they surveyed the wrong chi-town folks
07:10 PM on 06/14/2011
One partner at a time is enough for this old gal.
Arlene McCarthy - Life long Cook County resident
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04:37 PM on 06/15/2011
One at a time back to back can really stack up.
10:48 PM on 06/15/2011
Yes they can. Sometimes the line is soooooooo long !