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Rudy Giuliani Allegedly Breaks Promise To Marry Gay Friends

Giuliani Gay Wedding

The Huffington Post   First Posted: 06/29/11 11:12 AM ET Updated: 08/29/11 06:12 AM ET

Rudy Giuliani appears to have broken a long-held promise to marry his gay friends, the New York Post reports.

Howard Koeppel, the car dealer who provided a crash pad for Giuliani in 2001 for six months during his divorce battle, recently spoke to the Post about a promise he says the former New York City mayor made to him a decade ago.

Koeppel told the Post that he had asked Giuliani to marry him and his long-time partner, Mark Hsiao, and that Giulliani said to him, "Howard, I don't ever do anything that's not legal. If it becomes legal in New York, you'll be one of the first ones I would marry."

In a 2005 New York Magazine interview, Koeppel spoke about his relationship with Giuliani when they were roommates. According to Koeppel, he helped Giuliani pick out his ties and even convinced Giuliani to speak "doggy talk" to his dog.

When Koeppel and Hsiao first married in Connecticut in 2009, the Post reported that Guiliani was a last-minute no-show at their wedding. Now, Koeppel would like to repeat the ceremony in New York with Giuliani officiating.

While Koeppel reportedly feels "miffed" that Giuliani has been ignoring his calls, he still believes the former mayor meant what he promised, stating, "He doesn't usually say things just to make you feel good."

Although progress has been made in achieving equal rights for gay couples to marry in New York, there is work still to be done. Political consultant Scott Levenson told the Post that one possible reason Giuliani may be avoiding the New York gay wedding is because it "would be a sign he's no longer interested in running [as a Republican] for president -- ever."

In the past, Giuliani supported civil unions for same-sex couples, although he backed away from this stance while running for president in 2008, going as far to say that New Hampshire's law went too far because it is "the equivalent of marriage."

When a group of former New York City mayors created videos in March voicing their support for gay marriage, Rudy Giuliani was noticeably missing.

After gay marriage was legalized in New York, NBC New York reported that Giuliani said, "I still favor marriage as being defined between a man and a woman but I completely understand what people are striving for... I was very glad to see people relieved of this burden of discrimination, which is a terrible thing to feel."

But does Giuliani's weak stance on gay marriage support that very discrimination?

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Rudy Giuliani appears to have broken a long-held promise to marry his gay friends, the New York Post reports. Howard Koeppel, the car dealer who provided a crash pad for Giuliani in 2001 for six mo...
Rudy Giuliani appears to have broken a long-held promise to marry his gay friends, the New York Post reports. Howard Koeppel, the car dealer who provided a crash pad for Giuliani in 2001 for six mo...
 
 
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Leviathan21
04:52 PM on 07/01/2011
These friends need to ditch him pronto. They were there for him, when he split with his wife and gave him a place to stay. And, this is how he repays their kindness?
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AKansasComment
Don't it make my brown eyes blue
05:22 PM on 06/30/2011
He was going to marry them? I thought he was straight.
05:07 PM on 06/30/2011
If Giuliani's stand is being couched because he plans to run for President, he can go ahead and express his true feelings. He is not going to be President no matter his stand on Gay Marriage. Hahaha
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lulubelle1956
03:11 PM on 06/30/2011
He broke promises to two prior wives and his children, NYC and was formerly a Dem before a GOP'r. Why would his gay friends be treated any differently?
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chadizzy
02:38 PM on 06/30/2011
Why do people even care about such stupid stuff. There is so much more important things that could be in the news.
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themiddleistheproblem
helping paid posters one dime at a time
04:57 PM on 06/30/2011
It's a big site. We can read it all.
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chadizzy
05:07 PM on 06/30/2011
I just think there are many other important things then to worry about something as silly this.
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John P Slevin
http://www.winliberty.com
02:28 PM on 06/30/2011
Most politicians break their promises. It's what they do.

Hence, at least Giuliani is treating the gay couple the same as he treats straight people.

All obvious sympathies with the gay couple, of course, but if they want friends who keep their promises maybe they ought to seek out better friends than Mr. Giuliani.
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AKansasComment
Don't it make my brown eyes blue
05:31 PM on 06/30/2011
Soitenly!
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John P Slevin
http://www.winliberty.com
07:34 PM on 06/30/2011
Nyuk, Nyuk...
02:17 PM on 06/30/2011
Easy to promise something when you think it could never happen...
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Holymolly
Emotionally intellingent
02:38 PM on 06/30/2011
I promised to eat my horse a few times, now it bobbles on three legs. :)
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Coffee4Me
Fancy Flip Flops Belong On Your Feet. Obama 2012
01:58 PM on 06/30/2011
Sorry bud. Rudy was only your friend while he was sleeping on your couch, because he needed something. There is nothing in it for him to gain by performing your marriage ceremony. Although there are always exceptions to the rule, this is typical Republican politics as of late. They are the party of two lettered words....NO and ME!
01:06 PM on 06/30/2011
Rudy, the most dispised man in NY prior to 9/11 turning his back on a friend - who would have thought it........
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Holymolly
Emotionally intellingent
02:46 PM on 06/30/2011
Rydy, the most respected man in New York........after 9/11, just saying.
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SoapboxKing
04:56 PM on 06/30/2011
yes, about a month or so with all that time in front of the cameras but as time wore on, his image wore off.
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themiddleistheproblem
helping paid posters one dime at a time
04:58 PM on 06/30/2011
Didn't last long. We all got tired of Rudy, 911, and a verb.
12:39 PM on 06/30/2011
There are friends then there are t pahtyfrenz. Change your name to Nynoneone and he'll reconsider.
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Holymolly
Emotionally intellingent
02:43 PM on 06/30/2011
Try Monell. :)
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jalowe1957
Poisonous epitaphs dished out periodically.
12:34 PM on 06/30/2011
Rudolph Giuliani: A morally compromised political drag queen who cynically throws others under the bus for the sake of political expediency.
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Holymolly
Emotionally intellingent
02:42 PM on 06/30/2011
Pics or it din't happen.
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themiddleistheproblem
helping paid posters one dime at a time
04:59 PM on 06/30/2011
You are trying too hard and look silly now.
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me again
I'm not wrong....
12:14 PM on 06/30/2011
Giuliani has turned into the weakling in the room. He's approaching Romney very quickly.
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p456
Walking Tall.
12:05 PM on 06/30/2011
The drag queen can marry people?
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RightKickFoot
11:51 AM on 06/30/2011
Since he is no longer mayor or an officer of the court...   does GHOULIANI have the credentials to actually perform a wedding... officially. ?
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John P Slevin
http://www.winliberty.com
02:31 PM on 06/30/2011
In California, anyone (or nearly anyone) can obtain certification to perform an individual wedding...I think it's a very nominal fee. The document is obtained locally. No need to be judge, lawyer, minister, etc. So, for example, your best friend or sibling could perform your wedding.
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RLaitres
No wise person will claim to be wise.
11:40 AM on 06/30/2011
Some of us were brought up with the understanding that when we gave our word we were then obligated to keep it, no matter what the personal cost. However, that appears to have gone by the wayside, especially in politicians (current and former) who are more concerned with themselves and their own "career" paths and thereby display little courage. But, given that such is true of most individuals, who are essentially also concerned mostly with the "me", or "me and my money", these politicians can be no different. After all, do they not come "from the people" and thereby, do they not reflect their values?