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SlutWalk Event In Civic Park To Refocus Conversation About Rape (PHOTOS)

The Huffington Post     First Posted: 07/04/11 11:51 AM ET   Updated: 09/02/11 06:12 AM ET

A new empowerment group called "SlutWalk" is making its way all over the world faster than some can raise their eyebrows.

It began on January 24, 2011 in Toronto when a representative of the police force gave a campus safety presentation at Osgoode Hall Law School, York Univeristy that included a so-called tip for women to avoid sexual assault: don't dress like sluts.

Society teaches 'Don't get raped' not, 'Don't rape'
Approximately 300 people came out to Civic Center park with their provocative wear and signs to protest a social environment which they say places the blame on the victim rather than the perpetrator.

Emerald Green, 23, Felicia Sheumaker, 24, and Bethany Feret, 24, decided to organize SlutWalk Denver after seeing the event take off in other cities.

Toronto held the world's first "SlutWalk" on April 3 and drew approximately 1,000 people. More than 3,500 signed up to participate in Trafalgar Square, London while another few thousand marched in Boston and hundreds took part in Chicago.

"I heard about it through Facebook and we were hoping it would come to Denver," Green told HuffPost. "Then we realized that we were the ones who had to make it happen."

Green and Feret, who met at the University of Northern Colorado, both told the crowd they'd both survived a sexual assault.

"Regardless of what you wear, how much alcohol you drink, whether you like sex, are walking alone or pass out, rape is never the victim's fault," Bethany Feret, 24, said. "We have a right to wear what we want, drink alcohol, like sex or not, walk alone and pass out. No one has the right to rape."

Rapists Cause Rape
Ryan Layer, 23, loves the idea of a SlutWalk.

"It's kind of the same with movies or with videogames, you have to give it an interesting name," Layer said.

Jared Pittinger, 16, came to SlutWalk with his friend Bailey Baxter, 19, wearing knee-high silver shoes and a black-netted shirt. Pittinger said he saw the event on Facebook and wanted to join in part because he knows someone who has been sexually assaulted.

Mallory Lewis is a volunteer victim's advocate and brought her dad and sister to SlutWalk.

"In terms of any victim blaming, it's a prehistoric notion and needs to be changed," Lewis said.

According to the Colorado Coalition Against Sexual Assualt, 1 in 4 women in Colorado and 1 in 17 men will have experienced an attempted or fulfilled sexual assault in their lifetime. This is higher than the national average of 1 in 6 women and 1 in 33 men.

Approximately 2/3 of assaults are committed by someone known to the victim, such as a friend or acquaintance.

All photos by Veronica Rael.

Colorado Rape Assistance and Awareness Program (RAAP) 24 hour rape crisis hotline: 303.322.7273 (English) 303.329.0031 (Spanish)
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A new empowerment group called "SlutWalk" is making its way all over the world faster than some can raise their eyebrows. It began on January 24, 2011 in Toronto when a representative of the polic...
A new empowerment group called "SlutWalk" is making its way all over the world faster than some can raise their eyebrows. It began on January 24, 2011 in Toronto when a representative of the polic...
 
 
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Nancy Cronk
Founder, Progressive Outreach Colorado
09:30 PM on 07/08/2011
Thank you to the organizers! I attended, and it was a fantastic event.
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Sabi Kanani
12:51 PM on 07/05/2011
A millionaire has the right to park his $200,000 car in the ghetto with it's windows down and unlocked, but that doesn't mean one shouldn't use common sense. I've always told the young ladies that I care about to not advertise what is not for sale.
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LiberalJo
"Well behaved women rarely make history"
01:06 PM on 07/05/2011
You should instead be teaching young men to not touch what isn't theirs. Comments like this are exactly the problem. Blame the rapist, not the raped.
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05:40 PM on 07/05/2011
No actually the problem is women like you. Women like you believe that men and women are the same, that we should go with our lives as two equal human beings, when we are NOT, women and men have different sets of problems just because we are physically, mentally and genetically different. When I have children I will do as mom did, I will make sure to teach my girls that as women, we have more to loose in regards to sex, that is a fact of life, we can get pregnant and the repercussions are way more significant for us than they are for men, I will teach my daughters to respect themselves like I ALWAYS did. I will teach then that dressing provocatively and 'doing what you want" doesn't make you more independent or better than men, but what it shows is that you have lost a lot of qualities that women are born with that men do not have. I will not be like liberalJo who is blind to the fact that in life, everything has consequences, like it or not.
01:36 PM on 07/05/2011
Sabi, you hit the nail on the head. Thats like me walking around with handfuls of money. I might well be wearing a sign too that says rob me!
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libgrrl
Party On!
10:54 AM on 07/07/2011
No, it's not. NO court would EVER consider you to be partially at fault for your own victimization for showing off your assets - or "money" - you could even wear the "rob me" sign and it still would never happen.
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10:58 AM on 07/05/2011
If the message was: "[ugly attire] should not be construed as consent"--I don't think that message needed a voice. No one was confused (except possibly the crossdresser). You couldn't get jumped by a kangaroo looking like that.
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GrumpyinAZ
My opinion is worth every penny you paid for it
10:15 AM on 07/05/2011
Ah the annual Parade of Morons, these have a Constitutional Right to DELIBERATELY place themselves in danger and expect society to cheer them on. They are no different that the ones marching up Arizona Mountains in 115 degree heat or the one who died protesting motorcycle helmet laws. They should get together and take a stand against gravity
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GiveMittAChance
Barefoot in Arizona
09:32 AM on 07/05/2011
Some people will do anything for attention.
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Angrysheepherder
Think outside of the fox.
04:32 AM on 07/05/2011
Silent All These Years

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bQ70RVDprqc
12:54 AM on 07/05/2011
These ugly femanists could walk naked anywhere and not get attenion....lol
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11:40 PM on 07/04/2011
As a woman I find it embarrassing to see the avenue this women have chosen to rise awareness to such a sensitive and important issue that is rape. I am ashamed for this women, THIS is the reason why men, from all types of background and upbringing had chosen not to marry. Women now a days want as the poster says " do what they want", without any consequences ,remind you. Those women have given men yet another reason to pass on a serious relationship that is based on something more than an egocentric, hyper-sexual- utopia of relashionship that women have now a days. Don't worry they will get what they deserve, and I don't mean rape. They will get for a man, the only men who can handle this type of woman...the homosexual (oh sorry now we call them metrosexual) wanna be husband that will suck up to them because no other men will.
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Angrysheepherder
Think outside of the fox.
04:18 AM on 07/05/2011
You are missing the point by a thousand miles. Do you think these women dress like this everyday? They do not, I assure you, they are trying to make a point, one that has been lost on you obviously.
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Love, Tolerance, Enlightenment
09:41 PM on 07/04/2011
Women have every right to be as promiscuous as men. God bless us all. I do suggest women learn to fight. The martial arts would be your best bet, maybe a taxer, mace and a gun.
09:34 PM on 07/04/2011
A day for women but as usual an attention seeking cross dresser has to show up in the mix.
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dengal
12:26 AM on 07/05/2011
men are raped too. . . .im just saying
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Angrysheepherder
Think outside of the fox.
04:18 AM on 07/05/2011
And worse...
06:28 PM on 07/04/2011
I'm not sure I understand the logic of the slutwalk. Dressing to arouse will arouse. This is no license to rape, but teasing men sexually is certainly not the way to make your point.
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LiberalJo
"Well behaved women rarely make history"
01:10 PM on 07/05/2011
If a man is sexually aroused by the outfit a woman is wearing, he still doesn't have consent. That's exactly the point and there is actually a lot of logic to the slutwalks.
05:35 PM on 07/05/2011
I think we're talking past each other. Men don’t get to control the desire to have sex. By no means am I saying the end result should be non-consensual sex, but teasing a man sexually does not help your cause. It's like having a rally against dog maulings by poking dogs with sticks. No they shouldn't maul, but is this the best way to highlight your point?
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NikitaAhn
Peace is its own reward.
05:30 PM on 07/04/2011
It makes me so happy to see men taking part in these walks as well - anti-violence activist Jackson Katz makes a good point about the way we talk about rape in this country, and the way we focus programs against violence against women towards WOMEN, not men.

Think about it - how often do you read a headline that says "woman raped in central park" etc and not "man rapes a woman in central park". The emphasis is on the victim rather than focusing the blame on the one actually responsible. We need more programs aimed at young men to educate them about consent and sexual violence.
04:37 PM on 07/04/2011
It grieves me that we're still having this conversation 36 years forward from Susan Brownmiller's book "Against Our Will: Men, Women and Rape".

"Brownmiller argues that rape had been hitherto defined by men rather than women; and that men use, and all men benefit from the use of, rape as a means of perpetuating male dominance by keeping all women in a state of fear." http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Susan_Brownmiller
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rnorthro14
This micro-bio is just begging to be updated
04:14 PM on 07/04/2011
Rape is an atrocious violation on the body and spirit of a woman. And women can dress as provocatively as they want if the locale calls for it. Just be aware that there are predators out there and dressing provocatively, will likely draw attention to yourself. Its not about blaming the victim - its about using common sense. Just because we have rights does not change the fact that there are creeps, thugs and yes rapists who will violate those rights.
04:38 PM on 07/04/2011
And one solution to this is to raise your sons to know that "No means NO."
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rnorthro14
This micro-bio is just begging to be updated
04:44 PM on 07/04/2011
I agree. I would add that 'No' will not dissuade deviants. Therefore another solution is to teach children, regardless of gender, the use of common sense.
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Cymbol
Micro-bio? Hope it's not catchy!
03:29 PM on 07/04/2011
I just feel the name takes away from the seriousness of the issue. I understand why its used, but it should be done in a more serious fashion, not a provocative one. Guess that's just me.
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NikitaAhn
Peace is its own reward.
05:25 PM on 07/04/2011
Well, it's certainly attention-grabbing, and if it brings more attention to this issue I think it's a good choice.
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Willie Livingston
06:20 PM on 07/04/2011
Um, that was the whole point, duh!