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Malaysia Polygamy Views Changing Among Young: Poll

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By SEAN YOONG   07/12/11 06:28 AM ET   AP

KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia -- The vast majority of young Muslims in Indonesia and Malaysia appear to disapprove of the traditional acceptance of polygamy but remain reluctant to openly support interfaith marriages or premarital sex, a new survey shows.

In the survey coordinated by two German-based cultural organizations, 86.5 percent of 1,496 Indonesians interviewed and 72.7 percent of 1,060 Malaysians said they were against polygamy. More females opposed polygamy compared to males, who are permitted four wives under Islamic law.

The findings indicate that opinions among the young in both Muslim-majority nations "have shifted from the traditional viewpoint that sees polygamy as an Islamic precept," according to a survey summary released Monday by the Goeth-Institut and the Friedrich Naumann Foundation for Freedom.

The all-Muslim respondents who participated in face-to-face interviews last October and November were from 15 to 25 years old.

Indonesia and Malaysia have Southeast Asia's largest Muslim populations, and polygamy has become widely debated in both countries in recent years. Women's groups say many men who enter polygamous marriages neglect their existing wives and children financially and emotionally.

Activists estimate polygamous unions in Malaysia account for about 5 percent of new marriages. The practice is thought to be more widespread in Indonesia, but many marriages are performed secretly at mosques and are not recorded by the state.

Supporters of polygamy have recently set up clubs in both Malaysia and Indonesia, encouraging women to be totally obedient to their husbands and insisting the practice can solve social problems such as prostitution.

The rejection of polygamy among respondents in the survey was "remarkable considering otherwise overwhelmingly favorable attitudes toward social and religious conservatism," the summary's authors wrote.

Ninety-two percent of the Indonesian respondents and 62 percent of the Malaysians said they were unwilling to wed someone from a different religion, the summary said.

"Even if they are willing to marry a spouse of a different faith, they wish for them to convert to Islam," it said.

Only 1.4 percent of the Indonesians and 1.6 percent of the Malaysians polled said premarital sex was acceptable.

Researchers from Malaysia's Merdeka Center for Opinion Research and Indonesia's Lembaga Survei asked respondents about wide-ranging issues such as politics, their lifestyles and ambitions.

The Malaysian poll had a sampling margin of error of plus or minus 3.1 percentage points, while the Indonesian error margin was 2.6 percentage points, Kuala Lumpur-based researcher Ibrahim Suffian said Tuesday.

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KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia -- The vast majority of young Muslims in Indonesia and Malaysia appear to disapprove of the traditional acceptance of polygamy but remain reluctant to openly support interfaith ...
KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia -- The vast majority of young Muslims in Indonesia and Malaysia appear to disapprove of the traditional acceptance of polygamy but remain reluctant to openly support interfaith ...
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02:35 AM on 08/03/2011
Muslims men will have sex with any woman that they want too.
11:10 AM on 07/31/2011
the problem with this pole is the age group that the germans surveyed. these people are 15 -25. at this age some are thinking about marrying and some aren't. they are still trying to find themselves and make their "mark" in this world. in the muslim community they are the right age for marriage. wait 10 years. and the women who are 35 and not married will think differently. muslim men tend not to marry women who are this old. they marry young women (15 - 25). older women don't have a chance. and stay single. or enter into temporary marriages which are forbidden in islam. polygamy will help make the muslim community better. it will help society. people have to be educated about how to practice polygamy correctly. just like people have to be educated about having a successful marriage to one spouse.

people also have to be educated as to what an islamic marriage really is. how did Allah and His Prophet/Messenger Muhammad define islamic marriage. and stop using the western, secular, jewish or christian definition of marriage.
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ldyqtee6
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06:17 PM on 07/14/2011
Polygamy isn't the only cause of men abandoning or neglecting their families. Monogamous men do it too and for that matter they often aren't monogamous either since many have mistresses on the side. The failure of men as human beings and in understanding and accepting responsibility and accountability is the root cause of the problems, as is a preference towards homosexual tendencies further eroding family and society.
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iLdoRight
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01:16 AM on 07/14/2011
A step in the right direction, now if they could just upgrade to "true" Christianity in an effort to shun all the killing of innocents by their fellow Muslims that would be a very good thing, after all the Quran does say that its writer gave the Jewish and Christians their scriptures Quran 2:80+ & 5:45-55 (Ivy Books Koran locations) Some Quran locations are slightly different in different translations. Please don't upgrade to "false" Christianity, some of them are just as evil as some Muslims. Google iLdoRight for more comments.
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TYRANNASAURUS
UGH!....people don't taste good.
11:08 AM on 07/13/2011
Changing Views On Polygamy Among Young Muslims....

JUST WHAT WE NEED...... global warming is population induced so lets go breed and produce many many more people.....how stupid is this world?
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Beaucheron
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10:51 PM on 07/12/2011
Islam actually recommends that if a man can provide for each wife equally - love, affection, attention, financial security, etc - he may have 4. I would argue that that was a subtle rejection of mutliple partners as it is impossible to love any two (or more) people the same.
09:58 PM on 07/12/2011
Man, what's up with these kids.
Little young to already be such uptighty religious coots
09:43 PM on 07/12/2011
I don't get why these results are newsworthy. DUH the majority of young Muslims in a given population are against polygamy. It almost never works well in any modern society outside of Saudi/Arab Gulf. Islam limited polygamy and allowed Muslims to have up to four wives. Its not commanded or even encouraged by any Islamic scripture in any way.
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Jacquel Chiraco
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06:37 PM on 07/12/2011
Can the same Germans interview the Mormons in the US? I bet you certain groups will have a higher approval rate. Also, and as usual, the question are brought in a religious context as if polygamy were only members of church groups. In the crater of civilization, i.e. Africa, polygamy is more common than any other form of union by non-religious group members.
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02:36 PM on 07/12/2011
I suggest a form of polygamy where the women get a harem of men. If that sounds like nonsense, so does the alternative. Or are we concerned that there wouldn't be enough births to keep the society going? I thought I heard everyone complaining that there isn't enough food or housing for more people. Stop these societal myths that subject womwn and children to wander the streets or face stoning to bolster the male ego.
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cwebster
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08:57 PM on 07/12/2011
...sounds like polyandry...it's pretty rare.
02:01 PM on 07/12/2011
I think that is normal. Polygamy has never been widely practiced by the common people and also if it is true that men abandon or disregard their other wives when they get married again then they shouldn't have gotten a second wife in the first place because that is not allowed in Islam. Polygamy is designed to give the woman a wider choice in men when looking for a husband.
10:58 PM on 07/12/2011
"Polygamy is designed to give the woman a wider choice in men when looking for a husband."

This sentence needs some explaining because it certainly doesn't look that way from the outside looking in. How does polygamy give women more choices? Do you mean because there are fewer available women and more unmarried men? I very much doubt this would translate to "choice" from the point of view of a woman about to get hitched to some guy with 3 more wives and old enough to be her grandfather. Or do you think the women get to say "no thanks, I'll take that one instead"?

Polygamy is designed to give males a lot of male offspring and slaves.
08:38 AM on 07/13/2011
First yes a woman can say no, if she can't then every scholar will tell you the marriage is void. To explain say their are 100 men and 100 women, 99 men are married to 99 women, the 1 man that is left only has that 1 woman to choose from where as the woman can choose any of the 100 men to marry so long as their first wife agrees. I don't know where you get the idea of slaves from that takes explaining. If you mean by wives then you don't know marriage in Islam where the man must pay for the woman's food, clothing, housing, and if they are used to it a maid. The woman is allowed to work and that money only belongs to her not her husband.
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Nelle
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01:55 PM on 07/12/2011
As I understand it, polygamous unions according to Islam are acceptable even in death (ie the seventy virgins). I've often wondered why Islam permits this and why women accept it?
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Down in FL
It's all about the density of states
02:50 PM on 07/12/2011
It's a religion, people will accept anything.
01:32 PM on 07/12/2011
No premarital sex? What could be more awful than committing yourself to one person for the rest of your life and then finding out that sexually you can't stand eachother and you're repulsed by the other?
01:17 PM on 07/12/2011
How interesting. Polygamy is a way to solve the prostitution problem. Wow, the women whose bodies must be covered so as not to entice men, must now use these same bodies(as wife number whatever) to save these poor guys from prostitution. If women being covered stops these illicit sexual urges then why do the men need prostitution? Could this possibly mean that these sexual urges come from within each person!!!. Stop the presses. These countries need to enlighten the rest of us. I think they should spread the following slogan.-UP WITH POLYGAMY, DOWN WITH PROSTITUTION. All of us ladies should run out and do our duty.
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nicko68
01:16 PM on 07/12/2011
Who in their right mind would want 4 wives, at one time?
01:27 PM on 07/12/2011
That's exactly what my husband just said ! Should I take that personally?
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nicko68
01:32 PM on 07/12/2011
No, don't! Now get back in the kitchen and do the dishes!
LOL, just kidden, don't shut me off.
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Nelle
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02:57 PM on 07/12/2011
Four wives would be a blessing, four husbands sounds a bit like punishment :)
05:12 PM on 07/12/2011
but think of how it suck when they start to cycle with each other.