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Lesbian Couple Ordered To Leave Museum For Holding Hands

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First Posted: 07/19/11 07:57 PM ET Updated: 09/18/11 06:12 AM ET

A lesbian couple was enjoying an art exhibit at San Francisco's Contemporary Jewish Museum over the weekend when they were reportedly approached by a museum security guard and told they had to leave -- all because they were holding hands.

According to the San Francisco Chronicle's C.W. Nevius, the guard told the women they were not permitted to hold hands inside the museum. When they began to argue with him, he attempted to usher them outside. The women refused and asked to see the head of security, while an outraged crowd of people formed to watch the altercation. The head of security met with the women and immediately removed the guard from duty, according to Daryl Carr, the museum's Director of Marketing and Communications.

Ironically, the women were checking out the work of famous lesbian artist Gertrude Stein.

The guard was not an employee of the museum but a contractor employed by a private security company, who had been called in to "fill a temporary slot due to staffing shortage," said Connie Wolf, the museum director, in a letter to the museum's board and staff. She said he will not be allowed to work at the museum again.

"Please let me be crystal clear that the CJM has a zero tolerance policy concerning any type of prejudiced or racist word or action— whether directed at CJM visitors or staff," she wrote. "The Museum has distinguished itself as a welcoming place where visitors, regardless of their backgrounds, can connect with one another through dialogue and shared experiences with the arts...We informed the company that the type of behavior exhibited by the guard is contrary to the CJM’s policy and is unacceptable."

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02:53 PM on 07/28/2011
Is it just me, or does "private security company" and "prejudiced or racist word or action" go together better that "milk and cookies" or "peanut butter and jelly"?
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MMMMarilyn
07:38 PM on 07/22/2011
Gertrude Stein was an author not an artist.
01:45 PM on 07/27/2011
Authors ARE artists. Their medium is the printed word.
04:33 PM on 07/22/2011
I am glad the happy couple can hold hands. But not sure how this made it to weird news. This is not weird in any way.
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01:10 PM on 07/22/2011
What kind of lesbians are we talking about here? Cornfed or sexy?
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lacrosselamore
My micro-bio is half full.
05:30 PM on 08/15/2011
The kind that don't care what you think of them.
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Angie Tyne 1
I want my disagree button!!
05:01 PM on 07/21/2011
I'm happy to hear that the museum did not put up with this nonsense. If Texas can stand for what is right then there is hope everywhere:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QPuDBJmp13g&sns=fb
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joeyfoto
“Écraser l'infamie!”
06:43 AM on 07/21/2011
This was one jerk, not a CJM policy.

Jerk dismissed — end of story.

Wrong town to attempt this Christo-fascist act.
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Amathyne
Quack!! Quack!!
04:00 AM on 07/21/2011
Wow. How depressing. And I have read this story on other websites and most of the comments posted there (like here for instance: http://www.nbcbayarea.com/news/local/Couple-Asked-to-Leave-SF-Museum-for-Holding-Hands-125819178.html) are just about all in the guards favor. I made a mistake, I knew better than to open myself up to that kind of hate... everytime I think we are getting a little bit ahead I get a whole truckload of "kick the filthy perverts out" crap. Sigh.
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Amathyne
Quack!! Quack!!
03:26 AM on 07/21/2011
I make my living as a rent-a-cop, wannabe-cop, billing-clerk-with-a-badge, call it what you will... if I EVER treated any of our customers this disrepectfully, I'd be done, no ifs, ands, or buts, period. And I'm in the SOUTH, for crying out loud.
12:34 AM on 07/21/2011
How slow does this guy have to be not to realize the repercussions?
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harmonikasavingsbonds
Standard?Nonsense! I DEMAND an automatic poodle!
09:34 PM on 07/20/2011
Here?

In San Francisco?

At the Gertrude Stein exhibit?

UNBELIEVABLE.
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enigma2
Enigmas are enigmatic..
10:50 PM on 07/20/2011
Surprised me, I have been to 'Frisco many times and believe you me I have seen much more than hand holding in public places.
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MMMMarilyn
07:38 PM on 07/22/2011
Exhibit of what? Books?
02:01 AM on 07/23/2011
The family's art collection..
The Steins Collect
Matisse, Picasso, and the Parisian Avant-Garde

Source: http://www.sfmoma.org/exhib_events/exhibitions/410#ixzz1SuCumHKn
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02:05 AM on 07/23/2011
Sorry, wrong museum, but it is at the same time, the right one is about Gertrude Stein..
http://www.thecjm.org/index.php?option=com_ccevents&scope=exbt&task=detail&oid=9
09:22 PM on 07/20/2011
No, the problem is with the headline. It should read, Museum supports Lesbian Hand Holding
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Erica McClellan
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02:39 AM on 07/21/2011
Prick.
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Amathyne
Quack!! Quack!!
03:23 AM on 07/21/2011
If two people holding hands rates a headline in your universe, than you are a genuine Jackwagon. Thankfully, that world is dying. And good riddance to it.
08:10 AM on 07/21/2011
Please don't tread your pathetic dismal outlook on me. The fact that the museum responded in the way that it did earmarks a paradigm change in respect long overdue. As you sit under your rock waiting for the world's end, notice how you are waiting alone.
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BabaLou7
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08:20 PM on 07/20/2011
This headline is misleading. It was NOT the museum who ordered them to leave; it was a contract employee who was pinch-hitting for a guard who was not on duty. Come on, HuffPost, you can do better than that...
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
09:19 PM on 07/20/2011
Does it reassure you that all it takes is a temp rent-a-cop to violate civil rights and cause all this if I hold my partner's hand in a museum?
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CVaughn
I gotta fly to St. Somewhere
01:10 AM on 07/21/2011
No, but it does reassure me that the museum immediately responded by doing the right thing. Sadly, we cannot change the behaviors and beliefs of every individual, but blaming those who are standing with us will not help our causes.
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Ouroboros Rex
11:09 AM on 07/27/2011
The headline doesn't say it was the museum that ordered them to leave.
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luvobama
Hospice volunteer...
07:28 PM on 07/20/2011
I love love love holding hands.

I don't care what gender my loved one are.
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Amathyne
Quack!! Quack!!
03:38 AM on 07/21/2011
YAY! to you and YAY! to affection! and YAY! to loved ones! Hand holding is simple and sweet and is nothing more than a connection between two people that can turn a simple experience like an outing to a museum or a trip to the mall into a memorable experience!
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Deaconess
A nurse and big sister to the World
06:23 PM on 07/20/2011
OMG! But as a nurse, I routinely see homosexual couples who are afraid to kiss their significant other, when that person is being taken off to surgery. Heterosexual couples almost always kiss and say "I love you." Unless we give people equal rights, there will always be always prejudice.
I am also adding this last thought---copied from another's post. "“Face it, without the contributions of homosexuals, Western culture would pretty much be Family Feud, Walmart and Crocs."
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LintLass
"When you can balance a tackhammer on your head...
09:22 PM on 07/20/2011
Actual quote from my actual life when keeping a hand-holding brief:

My dear one of the time: "Are you ashamed to be seen holding hands?"

Me: "No, of course not: I just need both hands clear on this block."