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Married Couples Kiss Less Than Once A Week, Survey Says

First Posted: 08/09/2011 12:59 pm Updated: 10/09/2011 5:12 am

Every movie involving a fratboy-type, married male lead will brush upon the most clichéd stereotype of monogamy—that once we say "I do," we stop having sex. We don't necessarily think that's true, but hey, it's a stereotype for a reason.

Well, apparently sex isn't all we stop having. A new survey revealed that nearly one in five married couples go without kissing for as long as one week at a time. And when they do finally lock lips, it will last no longer than five seconds for 40 percent of them.

How you could go an entire week without kissing your spouse is mind boggling. Granted, these results are based on the British population -- the survey was sponsored by the British Heart Foundation -- but how different are our countries when it comes to kissing, really? They are the nation that spawned us, after all.

There are some glimmers of hope in the results, albeit few.

Five percent of those age 45 and up squeeze in more than 30 kisses per week, which averages out to just over four per day. So, not counting a presumed "good morning" and "good night" kiss, that leaves two others. Even younger couples age 18 to 24 -- not necessarily married -- make some time for romance, with an average of 11 kisses per week, or less than two per day.

The results were released in an effort to publicize the BHF's Emergency Life Skills campaign and highlight the importance of knowing mouth-to-mouth resuscitation -- called the "kiss of life" overseas.

Stateside, we think this survey emphasizes the need for a romantic boost in our relationships.

How often do you and your partner kiss? And what about during sex? Surely the survey didn't factor that in...!?

Written by Kait Smith for YourTango.com.
http://www.yourtango.com/201187899/some-married-couples-kiss-only-once-week

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04:49 AM on 08/14/2011
I am fifty plus,and the survey sounds about right to me.I get kissed twice a week.
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Js420
Another beautiful sunny day!
04:09 PM on 08/13/2011
7 yrs and counting. My gf gets kissed everyday, wherever she wants.
08:27 PM on 08/12/2011
My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and we kiss all the time. All relationships have up and down times. Sometimes your lovers sometimes your friends, it cant always be go go go, it based on moods and whats going on around you. We discuss this, and if one of us is feeling like we need more affection we also discuss that. I believe that as long as couples are open about thier needs and changing needs than you can grow together and always have a spark. Its the couples who fail to put the effort in and think things will just work themselves out and that your partner can read your mind and know your needs, that fail.
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Lisa Shields
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06:31 PM on 08/12/2011
Yes it is.
And for men who doubt it, kindly remember that some women refuse to kiss men at all.
Hookers are famous for declining to kiss their clientele.
Does your wife deserve less?
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rtgmath
There has got to be a better way!
05:58 PM on 08/12/2011
I noticed that my wife and I were kissing a lot less. So I have gone on a campaign to increase the number of times I kiss her. Sure, find her doing something, and interrupt her to kiss her several times. Let her know I value her, not just what she does.

Maybe, just maybe, I can make her happier. I would like that. We each know we love each other, but little things start getting in the way and dissatisfaction sets in. I figure I can help make a difference with more appreciation, and to help her feel that she is attractive.

Married 28 years, and hoping for 56 more.
05:43 PM on 08/12/2011
I wonder if the couples that were surveyed were couples who both hold jobs or were they couples that the husband works and the wife stays at home. Also if they have children? I wonder.
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ttrexxx
leave if you can't handle it
05:19 AM on 08/11/2011
serious .. it depends what your kissing my wife has really nice breasts..it start's with a grope and leads to a kiss.. many times a week..she expects it...lol
01:55 AM on 08/11/2011
Why be in a relationship with someone you don't want to kiss? Geez! Me-married 13 yrs, 5 kids, kisses and gets kissed several times a day, the good stuff happens at least 5 times/week. God I am so sad for these people. I think if I just had a roommate I would kiss them on the cheek once a week but for people in relationships to not be affectionate with each other blows my mind. Why bother!
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gposner29
01:43 AM on 08/11/2011
Each neighborhood needs a roving "kiss counter."
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gposner29
01:42 AM on 08/11/2011
Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence.
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Mackenzie K
12:37 AM on 08/11/2011
So my boyfriend and I are discussing this(we've been dating for 8 years, so we are like most old married couples): The number we came up with is 5-10 times per day on average, sometimes more sometimes less. It would be more interesting to know the average in the US.
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Js420
Another beautiful sunny day!
04:15 PM on 08/13/2011
Thats great. Iv'e een dating my girl for 7yrs. Not a day passes by where we dont kiss. Its been like that from the start. You're either ment to be or your not. Good luck!
11:03 PM on 08/10/2011
I think the Brits are more uptight then Americans! Just look at the Brits we have on TV now. I kiss my wife several times a day, my kids several times a day and even my mom that lives with us now I and my entire family kiss. We are a rather touchie feelie family, but thats how my wife and I both grew up.....You never know when it will end and I want to be remembered or remember the moments that count.......
10:52 PM on 08/10/2011
Just because two people get married does not mean they must procreate. Been married for 36 years no kids. We keep it hot sorry for you that it 's not.
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morgansher
just disgusted in general
11:39 PM on 08/10/2011
Oh thank goodness! Procreation is not a necessity to any marriage, good, bad or indifferent. Congratulations to you and your spouse! Am going on 26 years married w/no kids. Am so delighted and still in love with him after all this time!
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Js420
Another beautiful sunny day!
04:17 PM on 08/13/2011
Nice!
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Targa3141
10:44 PM on 08/10/2011
Kissing where! LOL!!!!!!!!!!
10:22 PM on 08/10/2011
I have three daughters. If I would have had a son I would have taught him, "It ALL changes after getting married. You better get ready for that." Does the sex drop? After having kids it does. Does it have to be non-existent? Nope. But be prepared.
01:09 AM on 08/11/2011
You might want to clue your daughters in on that. It's not only boys who need to be prepared.