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Robyn Gardner's Mother: 'We Can Only Pray'

First Posted: 08/11/11 11:33 AM ET Updated: 10/11/11 06:12 AM ET

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The mother of Robyn Gardner, a Maryland woman who disappeared during a vacation in Aruba, says her family "can only pray" for the 35-year-old's safe return.

Andrea Colson, Gardner's mother, issued the statement one day after island authorities called off the search for the 35-year-old woman.

"We can only pray that she will soon be with us and bring back the joy into our lives. She means the world to us," Colson said in a release. "We are hoping for the very best outcome with the help of the international community."

Gardner went missing on Aug. 2 during a vacation with Gary Giordano, a 50-year-old whom she reportedly met on an online dating website.

Giordano told investigators that Gardner never returned to shore when the pair went snorkeling at Baby Beach on the island's southern tip.

Giordano was first treated as a witness. But Aruban authorities soon doubted some of his statements and took him into custody as he was boarding a flight back to the United States on Aug. 5, according to ABC News.

"In evaluating his statements later on, we decided there were some things that were not correct and that changed our position towards him to seeing him as a suspect," Taco Stein, a spokesperson for prosecutors in Aruba, told the network. "At that point in time, we decided that we wouldn't want him to leave the island."

Giordano's lawyer has insisted that his client is being wrongly held and that authorities have no evidence of a crime.

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"Our client emphatically denies being involved in any malicious act concerning his friend and consequently does not consider himself a suspect," lawyer Michael Lopez told The Associated Press.

Before Giordano was a person of interest in Gardner's disappearance, he faced allegations of domestic abuse and threats from two Maryland women in civil and family-law cases, The Washington Post reports.

One former girlfriend claimed in court documents that Giordano covertly filmed himself having sex with her and posted images on the web. When she confronted him about the images, the Gaithersburg, Md., resident allegedly placed explicit photos of the woman in her neighbors' mailboxes, the paper notes.

A judge granted the woman a restraining order against Giordano.

According to The Post, Giordano's ex-wife claimed that he threw their son to the ground and smashed a computer, stating in court documents: "He can't control his anger."

Gardner knew Giordano before she went on the trip, but had told her boyfriend, Richard Forester, that he was a gay friend, Forester told The Huffington Post yesterday.

Gardner's mother did not comment on Giordano in her remarks.

"We are confident and very grateful to the Aruba authorities and volunteers who are working above and beyond all our expectations," she said in a statement circulated by The Natalee Holloway Resource Center. "I hope you understand that we are being quiet as to not jeopardize the investigation. Please continue to pray for Robyn. Thank you."

The Natalee Holloway Resource Center -- an organization launched in memory of an American high school student whose disappearance in Aruba in 2005 remains unsolved -- has also established a hotline for callers with information about Gardner's disappearance or whereabouts at (407) 237-2295.

Gardner was last seen at the Renaissance Aruba Resort & Casino in Oranjestad. She is described as 5 feet 5 inches tall, 120 pounds, with blond hair, brown eyes and tattoos on her left arm, right bicep and side of her torso.

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murphy66
Hillary 2016
01:24 PM on 09/06/2011
Aruba LE is slow i cooperating with FBI.
There is no news out of Aruba because they do everything in secret.
05:35 PM on 08/16/2011
What I dislike the most about defense attorneys is that they likely know less about the evidence then the authorities and they are so quick to try and convince the public that they are innocent. They'd rather put a killer back on the street even before knowing the whole story. I am happy to hear that the FBI is now helping and a more extensive search is being organized.
04:02 PM on 08/15/2011
Robin74fl: Why wouldn't I expect the nasty return from you? I suppose you really get off on demeaning others for their wrong choices as this poor woman made and then being called on to be more empathetic with your posting it just insensed your state of perfection...Bet you have lived an exceptionally perfect life with all of the correct choices..NEVER made a wrong move in your mundane life! Guess if you have then you have the right to attack another unfortunate human beings choices that weren't so perfect...But WOW! what a boring, impossible person you must be to be around. Nobody could possibly come up to your standard in life..Bye, have a great life..
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kencrn419
Remember Newtown
09:55 PM on 08/12/2011
In 2005 a drunken teenager got into a car with three strange men and disappeare­d, and now, more than SIX YEARS later, a woman who is cheating on her boyfriend goes on vacation with a guy she met on the internet and disappears­...and people think these cases are related because they happened in the same country??

Tabloid 'journalis­ts' like Nancy Grace are millionair­es because of American idiocy.
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Sanndy Myer
03:24 AM on 08/13/2011
LOL
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murphy66
Hillary 2016
01:26 PM on 09/06/2011
and your point is?
05:43 PM on 08/12/2011
"Online dating website" "Caribbean vacation" "50 year old man" "35 year old woman"

Notice how the AP only details character witness statements regarding the man, and the discreditation thereof. As for the woman, her mother is praying. I'd take $5,000 to go to Aruba with a stranger anytime.
04:12 PM on 08/12/2011
When you play with fire.
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tenaxproposit
C.U.L.L the herd
03:04 PM on 08/12/2011
35 yr old meets a 50 yr old on a dating site and goes to aruba. No first dates? no meet before hand to assess? That smacks of a shady situation...

Yet some how this is being equated to the college aged girl who went missing when she was on vacation?

Giordano needs to be investigated, but if you can't make it stick, this one is going unsolved, b/c it can't really be anyone else except an accident.
11:18 AM on 08/14/2011
Your Story is not correct..She has been dating Giordano twice a month for a year
01:12 PM on 08/12/2011
I hate that expression her mother said, "All we can do is pray" like this is the last option you have, prayers are the first that all in need of help has to do, prayers from all go a long way and are answered. sometimes not the way you want them too but they are answered.
05:33 PM on 08/12/2011
The flow of energy waves in the universe (concept of god) doesn't find people for you. People find people.
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luvapetadopt
08:34 AM on 08/13/2011
I hate "all we can do is pray" too. So, if she is found dead...does that mean the family did not pray enough?
10:21 AM on 08/12/2011
She may very well have gotten tired of both of them and took off with a third guy...laughing at all of this
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kencrn419
Remember Newtown
07:05 AM on 08/12/2011
If a man and woman from France traveled to YOUR city, and the man killed the woman while there...would it be the fault of your city? Of course not.

You'd have to be brain damaged to blame Aruba for this case.
10:20 AM on 08/12/2011
I do not see one shred of evidence that a crime was even comitted and less evidence that Giordano was connected to anyhing..At his hearing Monday..He WILL be released
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fenderbender1
the stairway to heaven is missin a few steps
01:10 PM on 08/12/2011
Really? It is not like the Aruban authorities are not bought-off. The incompotence and refusal to cooperate with the American investigative personnel during the Holloway case is no reason to blame the island itself. It is just sitting their in the sand minding its own business!!
10:06 PM on 08/11/2011
Some people just make bad decisions...traveling with this guy whom she met on line at a dating service without thoroughly checking him out was risky and in fact deadly. the guy's violent he doesn't get along with women she should have and no doubt could have spent more time getting to know him before starting a romantic relationship...at 35 she should have known better...and her boyfriend should have checked him out if he really cared for her
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luvapetadopt
08:33 AM on 08/13/2011
Her boyfriend should have checked him out IF he really cared for her??? So now it is the boyfriends fault that Robyn is missing because he did not do a background check on Gary Giordano? Nice.. putting the guilt on the innocent boyfriend.
11:23 AM on 08/14/2011
Why Don't you read the facts first...She had been dating Giordano twice a month for a year...Its not like she met him last week
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wesdfs
a guy with different point of veiw
10:00 PM on 08/11/2011
why would any one date someone off the internet and go on a trip with someone they just met?--- /Aruba must be were you take the girls if you want to get rid of the bodies I hear the judges are pretty lienient there and protect crimminals just like the other case there
10:09 AM on 08/12/2011
They didn't JUST meet...they have been dating twice a month for a long time..Read The Story Properly.Please
10:24 AM on 08/12/2011
Read the Story Please..They didn't JUST meet,,they have been dating twice a month for many months...the initial contact was on the internet, many nonths ago
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wesdfs
a guy with different point of veiw
09:07 PM on 08/12/2011
TWice a month hmmm.how well would you know someone meeting them twice a month.for along time and how easily can you be fooled when a murderer or conman is playing you like a fiddle.
08:52 PM on 08/11/2011
I think this sad event should give hope to Natalee Holloway's family. It's like way too big a coincidence that two attractive American blondes just happen to disappear from the same area. Maybe, they weren't murdered, they could have been sold and possibly both still be on the island. Alive. That said, Aruba would be my very last choice for a vacation destination. I'd choose Iraq or Pakistan first.
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kencrn419
Remember Newtown
06:55 AM on 08/12/2011
In 2006 a drunken teenager got into a car with three strange men and disappeared, and now, more than FIVE YEARS later, a woman who is cheating on her boyfriend goes on vacation with a guy she met on the internet and disappears...and you think these cases are related because they happened in the same country??

Tabloid 'journalists' like Nancy Grace are millionaires because of people like you.
03:51 AM on 08/14/2011
It's really tempting to blame the victim. We don't know that Natalee Holloway was drunk and it wouldn't matter anyway. If being drunk gave people an excuse to abduct or murder you, then none of us would be here. Nobody knows what this possible predator told Robyn Gardner to get her to Aruba, so you can't judge her character either. If she was cheating on her boyfriend, then she probably wouldn't have told him where she was going, but she did. You sound very Nancy Grace-ish when you place a cold-hearted value on the lives of two women based on a media assessment of their moral values.
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ncrespi
My dogma is in my karma.
08:35 PM on 08/11/2011
What kid of a country has a prosecutor with the first name of Taco?
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IamYourDrillThrall
You can't be pro-war & pro-life.
07:24 AM on 08/12/2011
You forgot the last name...Stein. Who has a last name like Stein when their FIRST name is Taco?
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fenderbender1
the stairway to heaven is missin a few steps
01:13 PM on 08/12/2011
Jewspanic??
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ncrespi
My dogma is in my karma.
08:50 AM on 08/13/2011
Taco would have to be a nickname.
It could be worse. Fortunately his surname is not Bell.
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kencrn419
Remember Newtown
07:48 AM on 08/12/2011
What kind of country has a presidential candidate called Newt?
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ncrespi
My dogma is in my karma.
07:13 PM on 08/12/2011
And don't forget Sargent Shriver.
08:21 PM on 08/11/2011
Yay, let's all blame the victim (and her hair color) and those evil foreign countries. Because nobody gets killed in the States. And if a woman gets raped or killed or both, of course it's her own fault, duh!
I'm so glad I'm not American...
08:42 PM on 08/11/2011
We Americans are glad you're not too.
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ejljr
When all else fails, read the damn instructions!
09:48 PM on 08/11/2011
Ditto that!
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wesdfs
a guy with different point of veiw
09:54 PM on 08/11/2011
me to- you backwards-twisted idividual