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Unusual Invite Gives Gifted Boy A Chance To Belong

Aspergers Syndrome

By MARTHA IRVINE   08/27/11 11:16 AM ET   AP

GARY, Ind. -- He is about half the age of other students in the room. Yet 13-year-old Noah Egler is completely in his element, wearing powder blue medical scrubs and answering questions with an enthusiasm that draws smiles from those around him.

They are amused by his presence, but also inspired. Young Noah, meanwhile, is content, though a little nervous to be taking part in a workshop usually reserved for medical students, not for precocious eighth-graders.

He is here because he was invited, because the director of the summer program at the Indiana University Northwest medical school saw something in this young man – perhaps a bit of the boy he himself once was, a kid who also liked reading and studying more than sports.

"I'm technically a nerd, and I hang out with other people who are technically nerds," Noah will tell you. He says it in a matter-of-fact, Dr. Spock kind of way.

The invitation came at a good time. "He was losing his optimistic outlook," says his mother, Cindy Egler, who worries that school has become too little a challenge for her son.

Also, some of his peers have been increasingly giving him a hard time. They aren't always sure what to make of this quirky but good-natured boy who was diagnosed when young with Asperger's syndrome, a form of high-functioning autism that Noah talks about freely.

There've been signs of it since he was a baby, when his father would put him in a backpack carrier and mow the lawn, just to get him to take a nap. The noise, they say, drowned out the distractions for a mind that, even then, was curious and difficult to settle.

By now, he says Asperger's simply makes him him. But he's also had a hard time fitting in.

His parents hoped this chance to go to college, even for just a few days, might give their only child a glimpse of a world where that could happen.

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At the Eglers' home in Bourbonnais, a small Illinois town south of Chicago, there is no cable television, by choice. There are, however, plenty of books, full of experiments for "mad scientists" or the principles of electronics or detailed explanations of dinosaurs or the human body. Upstairs in his bedroom, Noah has a poster of the periodic table of elements on one wall, along with ribbons from science fairs and Boy Scout merit badges. The book "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" rests on his night stand.

As he gives a tour of the house, Noah often pauses to search for words, as if he can't quite keep up with all the thoughts racing through his head. Staying focused, he says, remains a constant challenge.

He runs off to his room to find something, then returns.

"Two signs that you have Asperger's. You can't find your planner and when you do, it has Boolean logic written on it," he says, laughing, and then sits down at the kitchen table to show drawings that depict the mathematical system used in such fields as computer science and electronics.

In the corner of the same page on that planner, he has scrawled a recipe for crepes, which he's been learning to make with the help of some old Julia Child videos. It's part of his parents' plan to encourage their son to round out his interests. He has a black belt in karate. He went to Boy Scout camp this summer and "spent a lot of time kayaking," he says, sighing as if it were a bit of an inconvenience.

Always, his attention comes back to science and electronics. His basement "play room" is filled with electronic devices he's made and a computer he's taken apart to examine. This fascination with how things work began early on.

As a toddler, his mom remembers observing Noah repeatedly dipping his fingers into his bath water, then studying them.

"What is he doing?" she asked his dad, Mark, a chemical engineer.

"He's looking at the refractions," he replied.

It was this kind of curiosity that caught the attention of Ernest Talarico, an assistant professor of anatomy and cell biology at Indiana University Northwest medical school in Gary.

He and Noah met this winter at a memorial service for a mutual family member. Talarico noticed Noah quietly tinkering with an electronic device he'd brought with him to the service. It was an alarm he'd invented to detect flooding in his grandparents' basement.

"I was fascinated," Talarico says. "I couldn't build something like that now, let alone at his age."

He asked Noah how the device worked and how he'd built it. Further conversation revealed that Noah also had an interest in electronic prosthestics, "bionic" arms and legs and the like, a topic covered in the very medical school seminar Talarico oversees each summer.

He asked Noah's parents if they would let him attend this summer's prosthetics workshop, and they said yes.

"I was speechless," Noah says of that initial meeting. "I actually met somebody who was a scientist. It was really kind of amazing."

He took on the task of preparing for the first day of the seminar seriously, studying college level anatomy textbooks.

At one session, students were reviewing the inner workings of the upper limbs when Talarico asked them which nerve serves the biceps and other muscles.

"The musculocutaneous nerve!" Noah shouted before anyone had a chance to answer.

"He just blurted it out like an expert," Talarico said, smiling.

At another session, Noah had the chance to bond with his lab partner, a 23-year-old biomedical engineer from suburban Indianapolis named Jarod Markley.

Markley, who also grew up in a small town, told Noah how he often felt like an outsider in school.

"Other kids didn't really understand me. I would rather stay in and read a book," he said. Noah's eyes lit up.

At lunch, they talked about everything from molten blobs and other things that can be created with sulfuric acid to their love of doodling their ideas in notebooks. Noah described one drawing he'd done showing a special type of wire that thickens when electric current runs through it. One day, he told his new friend, he'd like to find a way to incorporate that type of wire into paralyzed limbs "like a pacemaker for the muscles."

"I want to help people," he said, "and it seems like the medical field is the best way to do that."

The conversation was easy, like peers chatting. The age difference was irrelevant.

Back in the workshop, they and the other students watched as amputees and therapists who fit them with prosthetics demonstrated the latest advancements in electronic, computerized devices that are making walking up and down stairs and on rougher terrain – even running – easier for many people who've lost some or most of a leg.

Noah mouthed the word, "Wow!" as he watched other students checking out those prosthetics and then got to do so himself.

Later that evening, his fellow students applauded as he received a special award for his participation, along with a robotic arm kit.

His parents watched with pride, and perhaps a bit of relief. Talarico nodded in approval.

"I'm not saying he's a Doogie Howser," the professor said, referring to the old TV show about a teen who becomes a doctor. "But it does say a lot for someone that age."

Here, Noah had found what they'd all wanted him to find – a place to focus and use his gifts.

Here, he belonged.

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GARY, Ind. -- He is about half the age of other students in the room. Yet 13-year-old Noah Egler is completely in his element, wearing powder blue medical scrubs and answering questions with an enthus...
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01:00 AM on 09/01/2011
I like reading and studying. I don't fail at sports. I wish I had it that easy getting into med school.
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11:28 AM on 08/31/2011
I'm not sure they should have taught him martial arts. On the one hand, it means the bullies can't push him around *too* much. On the other hand, his lack of understanding of normal human interaction might result in him overreacting and breaking someone's neck for no reason.
10:36 PM on 08/30/2011
This story bored me out.
06:46 PM on 08/30/2011
I would like to put lots of my money that this kid has moderately wealthy parents with connections to get him an opportunity like this. I was the same as a child, but my parents didn't just present me to some professors and show off my genius. Kids are learning they don't have to work for anything these days, even mentally, much less physically.
10:08 PM on 08/30/2011
Give them a break, the article says they met at a relative's funeral.
Great story! Kids can meet anyone these days, no harm, no foul.
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12:06 PM on 08/31/2011
Have you ever heard of programs like "Prep for Prep"? They identify gifted inner city elementary and middle school students, often living in the poorest neighborhoods, and provide all sorts of support, including tutoring, Saturday classes, and a myriad of enrichment opportunities. The ones who do well get scholarships to prep schools (often boarding schools), which opens the doors to the best colleges and universities in the country. Sometimes it isn't wealthy parents with connections - often it is a caring educator who sees something special in a child and works tirelessly to make sure that the child is given every opportunity to develop his/her talents. A music teacher in the middle school where I taught changed a young man's life by securing a place for him in the prestigious Harlem Boys' Choir. He was lucky to have both a caring teacher and supportive parents. Often these gifted children navigate the world without family support and, in some cases, despite family sabotage. I remember a seventh-grade student in that school whose mother was mentally retarded. He took care of her and his younger siblings, cooked, cleaned, did the laundry, handled the finances, and was a straight-A student. Teachers intervened and got some support for him and opened the door for him to succeed. Wealthy parents can certainly open doors, but observant and caring teachers can do the same thing for an intellectually gifted child, as coaches often do for gifted athletes.
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06:21 AM on 08/30/2011
Not yet, give him time to grow up
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09:58 PM on 08/29/2011
Fantastic. I wish someone would have done that for me. I hope this boy remembers this amazing opportunity and stays forever thankful.
VA Jill
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01:37 PM on 08/29/2011
I don't see any reason whatever for this boy to have to endure the nastiness that is middle school/junior high. There are always kids who don't fit that "norm" and that period is positively miserable for them. In his case especially, because of his abilities, he should be placed where he functions best. His so-called "peers" (who are merely age-mates) will catch up to him eventually...or more likely, some never will. Obviously he gets plenty of support at home, and his parents might do well to consider home-schooling him with college classes as a supplement as there are likely other kids in the homeschool community who he likely would be able to interact with positively. Why are some of you so insistent that every child be forced to conform to some age-limited "norm"? For some kids it's just unnatural, and to force them into it borders on cruelty.

I'm the mother of a son who is on the autistic spectrum, and I almost wonder if this kid is a true ASpie or if he's merely so massively gifted that the psychologists didn't know what to make of him.
09:07 AM on 08/29/2011
Bullying in not considered bad behavior anymore. A teacher at my daughter's school tells anyone who's being bullied to "suck it up" or "work it out". Kind of a jock attitude, if you ask me. Like kicking sand in a weakling's face.
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09:29 AM on 08/29/2011
I will take the unpopular position here and say that I agree with the teacher.  Now, not persistent bullying, but the mean behavior of some junior high school kids is a necessary part of the socialization process of humans.  It is where we learn how to behave in ways that do not upset others.   

As a former bully, and one how was bullied (it usually works that way), I believe that the victim usually deserves it.
11:10 AM on 08/29/2011
Interesting. I do agree that children need to learn how to deal with it or work in out in some cases--bullies will always be around. However, I believe in encouraging civilized behavior (not a popular position) and even think that maybe the reason we're in our current economic distress in our country is because bullying behavior is applauded now (take all you can if you're in a position of power). Americans like to watch television where people are creamed, too. It used to be taboo. (Seems like we're regressing, if you ask me.)

And (too much coffee, can you tell) there are "weaklings" who have a lot to contribute to society that won't have a chance to do so if the position is that there is only room for the fierce.
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12:41 PM on 08/29/2011
"The victim usually deserves it"?

I don't know if that statement brings up more disgust or disbelief.

But it's not true. Being different--smaller, smarter, of a different skin color--is the most common reason for bullying, and innate characteristics are NEVER an excuse to blame a victim. In fact, even actions don't make somebody deserve bullying Bullying is an aggressive power display engaged in by those who are weak and want an easy power boost, or those who are powerful and want an easy ego boost. It's the same thing, in the end.

Suggesting that anybody ever deserves to have somebody else make them miserable, hurt them physically, emotionally, and/or socially, is cruel. It's this same mentality that makes people think rape victims deserve what happens to them.

Advocating such a thought process on what seems to you the small scale--even though bullying leads to suicides, shootings, hospitalization, and lifelong issues--is no better than blaming all victims for what is done to them.
04:27 PM on 08/29/2011
There's a difference, and whole wide range of behavior between bullying, and "posturing" I guess you'd call it, where kids, even adults, establish their place in a group.

Having raised "gifted" exceptional kids, I wanted them to have the advantage of both recognizing and using their gifts, AND being able to interact as well as possible socially. So, I exposed them to as many levels of healthy society as possible. That's HEALTHY society......not the crude behavior of "the streets".....

Real bullying folks is usually only encouraged and practiced by a level of society that most intelligent, educated and successful people don't engage in, nor would they want to raise their families around. Educated, successful people choose homes in areas where there are other civilized people, They can afford to. They are the successful professionals. And if even newly financially successful people move in, who do not have the manners and education to interact properly, the "new" will be ostracized for their ignorant way and learn some manners, or if the neighborhood begins to decline the civilized will move out. That isn't "snobery" that is simply not wanting to be around those who are IGNORANT, RUDE and UNCIVILIZED. Standards are standards.

The "brain trust" as we called them in school, were the civilized, intellectual and successful. Do you think for one minute they would raise their children around others who were getting into physical fights ? Hell no.....they have far more important things to do.
05:00 PM on 08/29/2011
I like what you've posted, but I see bullying in our elementary school and it is in an area of financially successful and well-educated people. I think some people would say they owe their success to being the biggest bully on their climb to the top. I think bullying is becoming more common (or acceptable) because it is in the news and written about an awful lot right now.

I want to have a discussion with our Principal to find out where he stands on the issue and I thank you for pointing out the difference between "bullying" and "posturing".
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02:31 AM on 08/29/2011
Not sure why there's any opinion to be registered on whether he should or should not be doing this prosthetics thing by Talarico. It probably didn't result in a deserving student being bumped. It's just adding someone at the instructor's discretion, not yours or mine - happens all the time. Attending hardly removes him from going back to being the weird kid at school. I don't envy his social life in school, but I hope he continues to find opportunities for academic development. Truly exceptional people always feel alone because of how their minds function distinctly, so for anyone to claim that Jr. High is going to change things for him and give him some invaluable lesson, you're probably wrong; HOWEVER, Jr. High in India or China would help him, not in the U.S. where nerds are uncool and intelligence is generally devalued by the mainstream.
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11:53 PM on 08/28/2011
So who got bumped so he could attend? Don't get me wrong, it was a nice gesture but the kid really needs to learn how to interact within his own peer group now before he becomes an outcast for the rest of his school days.
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12:08 AM on 08/29/2011
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11:20 PM on 08/28/2011
Actually he does not belong there, he just feels more comfortable in an environment that he has the skills to deal with.  Where he belongs is in the eighth grade, where he can struggle with developing the social skills that will allow him to survive in life. 

Junior high school is a brutal place.  It is where our behaviors are socialized, often by fists.  We learn to get along and to behave in ways that do not offend others.   The process is crude and painful, but very effective.  Giving a gifted child like this a pass on this important part of human development is cheating him of his potential.   There will be plenty of time to develop his intellect, but this is the age where you learn to be a human.
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11:46 PM on 08/28/2011
I think this was just a summer seminar.
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11:54 PM on 08/28/2011
I probably should have read this before I posted. oops.
10:47 PM on 08/28/2011
Great to hear about Noah. Hope he has studied the work of Nikola Tesla, also a genious inventor, mechanical engineer and electrical engineer. He was brilliant but also eccentric and so far ahead of his time that although some call him the inventor of the 20th Century, at the time he too got the stigma of being so different and had trouble getting funding for his work. He did not care about money and just "gave" Westinghouse the patent that earned them an unbelievable amount with technology that is still used today. He was interested in and experimented with concepts that were so far ahead of his time it is beyond remarkable. It is a shame but he had a written collection of who knows how many notes on his ideas which were all lost in a fire. I hope Noah picks up where Tesla left off - if anyone can do it he can, at least it looks that way. Kids like Noah are the hope for our future. Best wishes and much success with your interests and inventions Noah! There are schools for kids like you and your real peers, you really need to find and be in one of them.
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07:24 AM on 08/29/2011
Wow, that's so far from the point - it's as if you only wanted to hear yourself talk, but are sitting by yourself so no one could pat you on the back.
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10:23 PM on 08/28/2011
Asperger's is a _stupid diagnosis/syndrome. Just about every highly intelligent person, especially, with a very focused interest in technical and scientific subjects and not so great social skills could be "diagnosed" with it. Just one more bit of evidence that the proliferation of "mental disorders" ala the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders has gotten completely out of hand. I would say to the kid, don't let yourself be labeled this way....
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10:58 PM on 08/28/2011
You make Asperger's sound like it's a bad thing. It is not. By having my child identified (vs. diagnosed) it has helped better understand my son's unique abilities. There are so many things that parents of average teens do not have to deal with and it's nice to know what to guide a child with Aspergers. Once you know how the brain of a child or adult with Aspergers works, you are better able to raise your child to function in the 'average world'.
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01:18 AM on 08/29/2011
It is a good excuse for poor social skills.  Rather than celebrate the things he is good at, how about spending extra time working on his weaknesses.  They may not be his fault, but they are clearly weaknesses that will hold back his full development.
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12:23 PM on 08/29/2011
What I am arguing against is the psychiatric LABELING people who really have what are basically mild personality idiosyncracies (I refuse to call them "disorders"). Why is this hard?...
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09:49 PM on 08/28/2011
This extraordinary young man is probably an Introverted Intuitive Thinking Judging type or Mastermind in the world of psychological type and temperament. Demographic studies show there are probably no more than 1% of population whose brain wiring corresponds to his, making his type even more hard for most people to understand. As a psychologist specializing in career planning and assessment, I have met many like him as they often self-select for career counseling and usually, when they find their way, make outsized contributions because of their visionary planning, contingency planning and strategic thinking skills. Even with the challenges of his autism syndrome, this young man is surely going to make his mark on this world and his story is inspirational. As important, the Assistant Professor with the keen eye for talent is also an inspiration as educators with a sniffer for talent are worth their weight in gold
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09:07 AM on 08/29/2011
I believe INTP is the typical Myers Briggs result for Aspies.
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09:33 PM on 08/28/2011
This is a great story and very inspiring.

I know of one person who is just like Noah - though 'am not sure if this girl has Aspergers Syndrome.

They are so gifted that I hope to see them revolutionize the world of science - bionic limbs, x-ray eyes, supersonic sound . . . . travel to Jupiter . . That would be so awesome !