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The Huffington Post   First Posted: 09/07/2011 9:00 am Updated: 11/06/2011 4:12 am

A new study in the journal European Neuropsychopharmacology says that European women are almost two-and-a-half times more likely to suffer from depression than men. In pure numbers, this means that of the 30.3 million depressed Europeans, about 23 million are women.

According to the study's author, Hans-Ulrich Wittchen, the number of depressive episodes in women has also doubled in the last 30 years. "In females, you see these incredibly high rates of depressive episodes at times when they sometimes have their babies, where they raise children, where they have to cope with the double responsibility of job and family," he said in a statement.

This isn't the first time that researchers have highlighted the high rate of depressive disorders in women. Statistics say that American women are twice as likely to be depressed as men. A 2010 British study found that 18.7 percent of women over the age of 50 experienced depressive systems. By contrast, only 11.8 percent of men in the same age group experienced similar symptoms.

The question, then, is not whether women are more depressed than men, but why they are. And concurrently, are women really unhappier than they were three decades ago?

According to Professor Wittchen, part of the problem is the "tremendous burden" of trying to do it all -- that curse of the 21st century woman who wants to have a family and a career. Indeed, recent research found that "supermoms" who try to have stellar careers while juggling a full family life -- and expect that they can be good at both -- are at greater risk for depression. Besides, the landmark 2009 paper "The Paradox of Declining Female Happiness" documented -- in perplexing detail -- the ways in which today's women are unhappier than their counterparts a generation ago.

But surely women have it better now than they did in the middle of the century, when societal expectation of women ended at the ability bake a flawless pie. Another theory, then, is that women are just better at asking for help. According to the National Institute of Mental Health, almost four times as many men as women die by suicide. Another survey -- of 30,000 people in 30 countries -- found that women are much more likely to say that they are stressed than men under similar circumstances.

Wittchen also said that depression is most likely to strike women between the ages of 25 and 40, when they are at their most fertile. Also at play, then, are the hormonal changes that women frequently experience during and after pregnancy. In her book “A Deeper Shade of Blue: A Woman’s Guide to Recognizing and Treating Depression in Her Childbearing Years,” Ruta Nonecs describes the challenges faced by women in their childbearing years:

"Not only is a woman exposed to different types of hormones and different levels of these hormones than a man, throughout her reproductive years she experiences constant hormonal fluctuations. … Experts believe that these hormonal shifts may act as a trigger for depression in some women and that women who have premenstrual mood changes may also be more vulnerable to depression at other times when exposed to significant hormonal fluctuations, such as after childbirth or during the transition to menopause.

So which is it? Why are women unhappier, if at all? Do they just have better access to mental health treatments? Is it hormonal? Are we the sadder sex? Or is it a deeper societal malaise that will still take decades to fix? Tell us what you think below.

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A new study in the journal European Neuropsychopharmacology says that European women are almost two-and-a-half times more likely to suffer from depression than men. In pure numbers, this means that of...
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12:18 PM on 09/21/2011
Become what you are. FN
03:03 PM on 09/15/2011
I'm a woman,47 years old with 4 kids I can be sad I can be happy like everyone else.
I don't want to feel I'm always sad when there's some unavoidable circumstances....
I cry, wash my face after my tears, put on my make-up...wear my bravest smile and have a good life again...it's just a matter of contentment. Be grateful of good & bad...
wella living our lives!
I do my best to set good examples to my kids telling them, the time to be happy is NOW!
We always have our good and bad days....but nah...STAY HAPPY, SMILE LAUGH, watch comedy! Walk at the park, walk at the beach, do anything else than dwell on being sad...it sucks to be SAD!
12:02 AM on 09/12/2011
More evidence the Fem movement is not for all women but for the few who can't cut it in a our natural/biological world most of us are made to thrive in. They are forcing men and women to fit this mole our biology was not meant for and we are all unhappy for it. What a mess...
airmikee99
I can has micro-bio?
12:50 PM on 09/15/2011
What a load of rubbish.
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TeaStrainer3000
11:57 PM on 09/11/2011
As human beings we spend far too much time in pursuit of trivial material things and not each other. The pursuit of our love for each other and our children should guide our lives, not what the neighbors have or are getting or where they went on vacation. Love and nurture your children and each other and that makes your home a sanctuary to weather the dark storms of life.
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timbeaux
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06:53 PM on 09/11/2011
The story has the answer right in it. Twice as many depressed females as males but four times as many male suicides. Life is stressful for both sexes, but "women are just better at asking for help."

But it does seem odd to suggest that women are the sadder sex when four times as many men as women kill themselves. Suicide is a really sincere affirmation that someone's depressed.
12:04 AM on 09/12/2011
Both genders are suffering from the confusion caused by feminism.
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Chad Wheeler
05:39 PM on 09/12/2011
Speak for yourself, please. I am not confused by feminism.
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Chad Wheeler
05:38 PM on 09/12/2011
Generally men pick more lethal methods of sucide than women do, which might have something to do with the ratios. More men than women own/have access to guns, for example.
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Todd G Chavey
11:33 PM on 09/09/2011
Well let me see, Man labelled woman a minority, they are generally not respected, just looked at as a sex object. Yeah, I can see why women are more depressed than man.
08:32 PM on 09/09/2011
women socialize by complimenting eachother when they dont mean it
men socialize by insulting eachother when they dont mean it
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Ken Holden
09:37 AM on 09/09/2011
Women are depressing. To much drama! And most the time pushing it around on everybody if they dont get thier way
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IrieMoon
Don't blame me, I voted for Kodos.
12:52 PM on 09/15/2011
And yet you can't live without us!

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rtgmath
There has got to be a better way!
11:16 PM on 09/08/2011
Personally, I think most studies of this type suffer from a self-reporting vulnerability. We rely on what people say about themselves to determine whether they are depressed or not. But we very rarely actually look at depressive behaviors.

Men are more likely to be homeless than women. This is not to discount the very real problems of women's and children's homelessness. But when a report announces that 1/3 of the homeless in a country are women, up from 1/4 some years ago, the truth is that 2/3 of the homeless are men.

Men are more likely to commit suicide than women. It is less acceptable socially for a man to admit to being depressed, or to ask for help, or to accept help when it is offered. Problems that in a woman would elicit sympathy elicit scorn when suffered by men. Men get blamed more than women when marriages break up, when they lose a job, when they cannot find work, when they have chronic illness.

Are women more depressed? Maybe. But maybe it is the expected baseline. Or maybe men just lie more and say they aren't and haven't been. We men tend to put on a brave face and soldier on. Admitting problems often causes us more problems than any help we could get would be worth.
12:29 PM on 09/15/2011
I delt with depression a good part of my teen years and my adult life. I read a book, given to me by a close friend called "I don't want to talk about it : the secret legacy of male depression". It was a great read and opened my eyes to how I had treated myself .
It talked at length about how we men are trained pretty much from birth to not show our emotions, and carry that our whole lives. It took me nearly 20 years to finally open up about my feelings and seek help.
03:20 PM on 09/08/2011
"Men are bad, women are good" pretty much trumps any "male dominated" religious views.

My son in law just returned from "Afghan" as he calls it. Both his daughters were born while he deployed twice over the last few years. The two year old shrieks and hides when he speaks to her. He's a stranger.

His "worth" to society is his willingness to put himself in harms way "to protect our freedoms" as they are so fond of saying.

He joined the Marines to provide medical benefits for his first child, born with very serious medical problems. He was awarded custody when his first wife became pregnant while he was deployed, but was forced to give it up when he had to deploy again. She has a "new" Daddy now. He and my daughter live in fear of his ex wife's threats demand higher child support. Child support always comes first - the other children are catch as catch can.

Once back, his first duties were to attend to filing divorce paperwork, mental health forms and aid and DV reports for his troops before being able to fly home to meet his newborn daughter.

Society/culture constantly whispers "boys are bad, girls are victims". Men don't love their children. Men rape. Men beat. Men kill. Men deserve to be raped in prison and Bubba's bitch jokes. Only women suffer poverty, domestic abuse,endangerment from criminals.

Only women bleed. Only women are sad.
08:57 PM on 09/08/2011
Bless him... he's such a strong man. Thank you for the comment.
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LemurTech
11:43 AM on 09/09/2011
Thank you for your perspective and insight. We *will* open people's minds.
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01:48 PM on 09/08/2011
While we women have a whole host of reasons to be sad: thousands of years of patriarchal oppression, Wars, high statistics of rape even in the 21st century, domestic violence, the constant attacks from the Right Wing fringe on our lives, our free will, our bodies, our economic independence. It would be a far better use of our emotions to get and STAY ANGRY, FOCUSED, and continue to take back our personal power, one issue at a time.
07:58 PM on 09/09/2011
... I just wish I could play the victim card once in my life... but I will never get that chance because apparently I am the oppressor of all... a white male.
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timbeaux
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06:56 PM on 09/11/2011
Ummm, four times as many men commit suicide as women. Doesn't that suggest that we of the grim patriarchy aren't having a good time, either?
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01:37 PM on 09/12/2011
Killign ourselves to get away from these depress women who we can never make happy.
01:40 PM on 09/08/2011
I'm sadder when I read a headline like this, I can tell you that much.
10:02 AM on 09/08/2011
Do women see themselves in the image of God? Is Goddess, the Divine Feminine, reflected in the major religions of the world? Whether religion in general plays from huge to small to non-existent part in many people's daily lives, it does set rules and expectations reflected in culture, politics, legislation. While men are given free-range of options/possibilities/chances in society, women are given gender-defined roles and the expectations that go with that, mainly centered around a woman's place as "helpmate-to-man." No matter how much a woman strives to succeed in life, the noose of her not measuring up to a male God and his first creation - man - comes to haunt her as she has internalized the worth placed on her by society at birth. While genetics and hormonal levels play a part in depression, women's depressions seems to stem mostly from feelings of worthlessness. In a society that caters to men, a man gets depressed over his failures while a woman gets depressed over being a failure. When society/culture constantly whispers that a woman is not as good as a man, position reinforced by male-centered religions, what does a woman see when she looks in the mirror? Does she see the face of God or does she see a lesser version of man?
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John Alastair
09:58 PM on 09/11/2011
...and yet, here we are today constantly being told that we are not as good as women. And believe me, no one is whispering it.
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12:14 AM on 09/08/2011
no they just turn a switch and move on. it genetics always looking for better sperm.
11:09 PM on 09/07/2011
Must be, I'm miserable.....