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Young People See Online Slurs As Just Joking, Poll Shows

CONNIE CASS and JENNIFER AGIESTA   09/20/11 02:30 PM ET   AP

WASHINGTON — Young people immersed in the online world are encountering racist and sexist slurs and other name-calling that probably would appall their parents and teachers. And most consider it no big deal, a new poll says.

Teens and twentysomethings say in an Associated Press-MTV poll that people feel freer to use hurtful language when texting on their cellphones or posting to sites like Facebook than they would face to face. Half the young people regularly see discriminatory slang – including racial taunts and words like "slut," "fag" and "retard" – and the majority say they aren't very offended by it.

Those surveyed are twice as likely to say biased slurs are used to be funny as they are to think that the user is expressing hateful feelings toward a group of people. Another popular reason: to sound cool.

"They might be really serious, but you take it as a joke," said Kervin Browner II, 20, a junior at Oakland University in Rochester, Mich. He's black but says the ugly words he sees are generally aimed at women, not minorities. And although Browner doesn't like it, he doesn't protest when his friends use those words on Twitter. "That's just how it is," he said. "People in their own minds, they think it's cool."

When the question is asked broadly, half of young people say using discriminatory words is wrong. But 54 percent think it's OK to use them within their own circle of friends, because "I know we don't mean it." And they don't worry much about whether the things they tap into their cellphones and laptops could reach a wider audience and get them into trouble.

Those who use slurs are probably offending more people than they realize, even within their own age range. The poll of 14- to 24-year-olds shows a significant minority are upset by some pejoratives they encounter online, especially when they identify with the group being targeted.

"It's so derogatory to women and demeaning, it just makes you feel gross," Lori Pletka, 22, says about "slut" and more vulgar words aimed at women. The Southeast Missouri State University senior said she regularly sees other offensive terms, too – for black people, Hispanics and gays.

But even the most inflammatory racist slur in the AP-MTV poll – the "N-word" – didn't rouse a majority of young people. Only 44 percent said they'd be very or extremely offended if they saw someone using it online or in a text message. Thirty-five percent said it wouldn't bother them much, including fully 26 percent who wouldn't be offended at all.

Among African-American youth, however, 60 percent said they would be offended by seeing the N-word used against someone.

Four in 10 young people overall said they encounter that word being used against other people, with half of those seeing it often.

Other derogatory expressions are more common and accepted. Majorities see "slut" and "fag" used against others, and only about a third consider them seriously offensive.

But 41 percent of women deem "slut" deeply offensive (jumping to 65 percent if it's used against them specifically), compared with only 28 percent of men. And 39 percent of those who are gay or know someone who is gay are seriously offended by the use of "fag," compared with 23 percent of all others.

Demeaning something with "that's so gay" is so common that two-thirds of young people see it used, and the majority aren't offended at all, despite a public-service ad campaign that tried to stamp out the anti-gay slang.

A similar effort by the Special Olympics and others to persuade kids not to use "retard" hasn't hit home with half of those surveyed, who don't find the word even moderately bothersome. Twenty-seven percent are seriously offended, however.

Some teens just text the way they talk. Calling each other "gay" and "retarded" is routine in high school, says Robert Leader, 17, a senior in Voorhees, N.J. So teens text it, too.

But constantly seeing ugly words on their electronic screens may have a coarsening effect. "It's caused people to loosen their boundaries on what's not acceptable," Leader said.

What group gets picked on the most? Those who are overweight. And slurs against the overweight are more likely to be considered intentionally hurtful than slights against others; 47 percent say these comments are meant to sting.

Muslims and gays also are seen as targets of mean-spiritedness.

In contrast, only a third say discriminatory words about blacks are most often intended as hurtful, while two-thirds think they are mostly jokes. And 75 percent think slurs against women are generally meant to be funny.

That blase attitude could lead them in trouble.

Four out of 10 young people have given little or no thought to the ease with which their electronic messages could be passed to people they didn't expect to see them; less than a quarter have thought about it a lot. Two-thirds haven't considered that what they type could get them in trouble with their parents or their school. But it happens.

A 13-year-old Concord, N.H., girl was suspended from school for posting on Facebook that she wished Osama bin Laden had killed her math teacher. The University of Texas Longhorns dismissed a sophomore football player for his racial slam against Barack Obama on Facebook after the 2008 presidential election. And a Harvard law student's email to friends, suggesting that blacks might be intellectually inferior, was forwarded across the Internet, prompting the law school dean to publicly denounce it.

"People have that false sense of security that they can say whatever they want online," said Pletka of Cape Girardeau, Mo. "Anything that you put into print can be used."

The AP-MTV poll was conducted Aug. 18-31 and involved online interviews with 1,355 people ages 14-24 nationwide. The margin of sampling error is plus or minus 3.8 percentage points.

The poll is part of an MTV campaign, "A Thin Line," aiming to stop the spread of digital abuse.

The survey was conducted by Knowledge Networks, which used traditional telephone and mail sampling methods to randomly recruit respondents. People selected who had no Internet access were given it for free.

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Associated Press writer Stacy A. Anderson, AP Global Director of Polling Trevor Tompson and AP News Survey Specialist Dennis Junius contributed to this report.

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08:18 AM on 09/25/2011
can you concoct a better cause to be outraged about?
08:48 PM on 09/24/2011
No manners when you are young can spell disaster when you are older. It saddens many to see the downfall of the social climate in this country. To put angry, hurtful attitudes and expressions on a pedestal for the next generation can result in a generation which cannot get along with one another, and no respect for each other. The unfortunate norm is becoming increasingly vulgar and prized especially for all those who want to be noticed... especially on reality shows for the contest as to who can act like the "Jerk of the Moment" all in order to get their 15 minutes of fame, and possibly a check or two. All the while impressionable ones are watching and taking it all in......and the cycle continues........
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AudreyLee
Don't block me bro
09:00 AM on 09/24/2011
It's not all young people, just for the record. I'm in high school and I don't have a facebook. (Or, well, I deleted (not deactivated- DELETED) my facebook because I was being bullied because of something that happened with an ex- nasty breakup, he was spreading rumors, you know how the immaturity goes). And to be honest, I do get really offended at words such as f*g, n*****, all of that. Just throwing it out there so there's no generalization...
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04:19 PM on 09/23/2011
Because they are just jokes
09:28 PM on 09/21/2011
Never say anything behind someone's back that you wouldn't say to their face. This little chestnut was something I was raised on, and it still holds true to this day. I didn't grow up, I was raised. It all boils down to upbringing. It's all about instilling real values in kids. There is also the idea of having a more diverse group of friends. I wonder how many of the kids who responded "no big deal" to the idea of racial slurs have friends who don't look like them. If they do, then maybe they should ask how this would make their non-white friends feel.
06:35 PM on 09/21/2011
Look at the kids you are talking to--they are all white. You should break these stats down by race. The reality is you could also say that maybe we have not done so hot a job of educating young people of this country's racial roots and how they affected and still continue to affect the lives of MANY, MANY people. smh
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Jasel
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06:32 PM on 09/22/2011
Ya I was a bit annoyed how it really wasn't broken down by race.
08:17 AM on 09/25/2011
oh race. I forgot about race. because black kids never use the n word or anything demeaning- right? theyre always busy reading the bible and its the evil white kids that are solely responsible for the heinous crime of using words like retard and gay. God help them....
10:00 AM on 09/21/2011
I think its great. Facebook has made filtering my social network much easier. I just unfriend the idiots (prime time is during Black History Month). I think its great for minorities because in the past you'd just have to guess about people. Now if someone is truly ignorant they will likely post a revealing drunken status at some point. Prejudiced attitudes are preexisting... the internet doesn't cause it, it just reveals it. I'd imagine things are much harder for teens who don't want to mess with the social status quo.
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Sistagirl Young
09:58 AM on 09/21/2011
I agree with a number of people who commented "they're hidin' behind their screens. If it ain't no big thing in cyber-space say the same thing to whatever group or person you are denigrating--in person. Cowards,racist and immature. And I ain't even talkin' 'bout the young people. If people choose to think there is no racism, which prompts a lot of these vulgar and tasteless comments;so be it. But this is their choice. I choose not to make that choice, Life.
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ebanks84
Grandma knows best!
09:18 AM on 09/21/2011
I just said that in a post the other day that people who are mean and ugly do so because they are hiding behind an unknown name and avatar so they feel free to say anything they want with ease. You can tell who these people are on HP because they usually don't have any fan structure. They might be regular posters but go out and come back as someone new because they want to say something ugly.

It just goes to show that people have become too desensitized and some have no feelings whatsoever about their fellow man when they are hiding behind a computer screen. The kids take it as a joke and harmless but adults do not. They do it on purpose and because they can get away with it so easily.

That's why I said in that post that if we were required to post under our "real" names and photos, half of the garbage that people say would "not" be said so easily, especially when people know who you are. I just hate hearing kids be that mean without showing compassion and empathy towards each other. They "should" be taught compassion in their schools and homes to prevent them from going too far over the edge. Kids should always have limits and realize that hurtful words "hurt" people.

And the
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Sistagirl Young
09:51 AM on 09/21/2011
Hi ebanks; Look at their up-bringing. Or lack thereof. Life.
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ebanks84
Grandma knows best!
11:17 AM on 09/21/2011
Exactly.
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Adonijah
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11:41 AM on 09/21/2011
Agree!

@ Look at their up-bringin­g.
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08:45 AM on 09/21/2011
It does not matter what people call you.
What matters is what you choose to answer to.

Better time invested to teach our children this, and to let the slurs of stupid people--defined as the kind of people who use racist and sexist language--to roll off our backs.

Of course, following that rule means we stop glorifying most of hip hop, eschew most organized religion and choose our elected officials with much more care. ;-)
08:35 AM on 09/21/2011
I think the kid with the bin Laden crack should have been given a pass for creativity
08:22 AM on 09/21/2011
Just read some of the responses on HP and you'll see it is rampant. Perhaps not the slang terms but more sophisticated plays on words designed to demean and hurt.
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08:46 AM on 09/21/2011
No one has permission to hurt you unless you give it to them.
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ebanks84
Grandma knows best!
09:20 AM on 09/21/2011
Words "do" hurt, whether they are directed at you specifically or on a whole.
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Robert Brooks
I'm not a professional and I will try this at home
06:46 AM on 09/21/2011
Yea, but that poll is a bit flawed. Certain urban and cultural settings, the "N" word still flows like water. Especailly the club I work at, I don't think anyone says what up or hey bro, it's just "n". Maybe it is an age thing. The poll is 14-24. I think it's still acceptable in the over 30 crowd. But I'm white, what do I know.
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Sistagirl Young
10:11 AM on 09/21/2011
Hi Robert Brooks; The young folk think because they include a pronoun with the "n"-word it's different. It's a despicable pejorative. This is what it was intended to be when the melanin-challenged originated it. That is what it still is today. Pronoun or no. I like a line from an old Beau Bridges movie;The Landlord. Talkin' to his racist , super-rich family at dinner. He informed them what NAACP stood for. Negroes Ain't Always Colored People. I hope you will see my point. Life.
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ebanks84
Grandma knows best!
11:31 AM on 09/21/2011
You must understand that there are two different words that sound alike and when listening, you interpret it as you wish. The word that ends in an "a" is an urban word that connects the users in some form or fashion. The word that ends in an "er" is the one that most people are hearing, but are not considering the spelling, so they take the word as being the negative one. When people use it among themselves, the word is not negative at all.
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celestialmotion
Everything has it's beauty,not everyone sees it
06:16 AM on 09/21/2011
Mean spirited name calling children grow into mean spirited name calling adults.
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08:46 AM on 09/21/2011
...and get a time slot for their AM talk radio program.
:-/
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clearthinker2008
we need to respect each other
05:54 AM on 09/21/2011
The internet lets some be who they really want to be or really are. They are cowards in real life and if they thought it was all OK why not say those things to folks on the street? Because they know it's wrong, that's why.
11:52 AM on 09/21/2011
I agree with your comment totally. Even though comments are made on the internet and seemingly behind a brick shield, they still can cause great harm. http://www.perspectivestv.com