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Online Dating Profiles Often Exclude Political Preferences: Study

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First Posted: 09/23/2011 9:27 am Updated: 11/23/2011 5:12 am

Those looking for love online are more likely to state they have Zach Galifianakis' physique than John Stewart's political leanings when they compose their profiles, according to a new study.

Given that approximately seven out of 10 couples have shared political preferences, Casey Klofstad, an associate professor in political science at the University of Miami and his co-researchers set out to investigate whether politics plays a role in bringing people together, at least online. "We wanted to see if people were willing to use their political preference as plumage, if you will, to lure dates," said Klofstad. "We found out that the answer was no."

In fact, the study, titled “Do bedroom eyes wear political glasses? The role of politics in human mate attraction" and published in the August edition of the journal of Evolution and Human Behavior, found that only 14 percent of online daters even included "political interests" in their profile -- less than the 17 percent of online daters who admit to being heavy set, stocky or carrying a few extra pounds.

Furthermore, researchers found that politics ranked 23 out of the 27 most popular interests that individuals mentioned in their profiles, slightly more common than "book clubs" and slightly less common than "video games."

Klofstad and co-authors Peter Hatemi, a genetic epidemiologist at Penn State University, and Rose McDermott, a political science professor at Brown, collected their data from a random sampling of 2,944 profiles from 313 randomly selected zip codes off a popular dating site in the fall of 2009. To protect the identities of those sampled, the study did not disclose the name of the site, but Klofstad told HuffPost that it was free to use and allowed users to select their own dates (as opposed to some sites, notably eHarmony, which pick matches for users).

According to a press release from Brown University, other findings include:

  • Few individuals were willing to express a definitive political preference. Of those who listed politics as an interest, the majority -- 57 percent -- reported that their politics were "middle of the road."

  • Women were 8 percent less likely to report being interested in politics.

  • A higher income, education and degree of civil engagement (i.e., volunteerism) increased the likelihood of listing politics as an interest.

  • Older daters and those with higher education levels were more willing to express a definitive political preference, such as "very liberal" or "ultra conservative."

DO POLITICS AND DATING MIX?

Laurie Davis, an online dating coach and founder of the dating consulting service eFlirt Expert, doesn't find the study results all that enlightening. The fact that researchers sampled users on a free site, she said, increased the likelihood that people would not post their political preferences.

"While some people on free sites are interested in a serious relationship and end up getting married and having children, others are just dipping their toes in the water to see what online dating is like," Davis said. "They are less likely to fill out their complete profile."

Still, Davis agrees with the study's conclusions.

"This reinforces the thinking that you should avoid talking about religion, past relationships and politics on a first date," Davis said. "And if you don't want to talk about it on a first date, why would you divulge it online?"

Davis told HuffPost that she doesn't advise expressing your political views until at least the fourth date to avoid limiting your dating pool, "unless you feel incredibly passionate about it."

Online dating consultant David Evans -- or, as he likes to be referred to, "Dating Dave" -- disagrees.

"I'm all for including political preferences" in online profiles, Evans said. "I'm a liberal and this might be a generalization, but I think that what it comes down to is that Democrats are different from Republicans."

That said, those who are really passionate about politics and interested in meeting a partner with similar views might be best off subscribing to partisan dating sites, Evans advised.

For example, there's Democratic Singles for liberals and Republican Passions for conservatives. There's even a dating site for Ayn Rand fans called The Atlasphere, which Evans described as "sort of a Match.com for aspiring Tea Party operatives."

FROM DATING TO MATING

Even if the majority of online daters are reluctant to include their political affiliations on their online profiles -- and often hesitant to discuss them on their first few dates -- most people still end up with mates who are politically similar to themselves.

In a study that was released this past May, researchers from Rice University and the University of Nebraska-Lincoln found that political attitudes were the strongest shared trait among spouses -- even higher than good looks or personality. While this certainly is not a rule -- consider James Carville and Mary Matalin -- the study suggests that the couples shared the same political views at the start of the relationship as opposed to growing closer politically over the course of time.

So how do people find mates with similar politics if they don't talk politics at the outset? Klofstad calls that question "the interesting puzzle we are left with."

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09:52 PM on 11/04/2011
dating sites in nyc like http://www.OnSpeedDating.Com and http://www.SingleAndTheCity.Com offer events based on political views like "Date A Democrat". Definitely nice to "know before you go"
09:50 PM on 11/04/2011
NYC based dating company http://www.OnSpeedDating.Com offers "Date A Democrat" Speed Dating which is always fun!
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08:42 AM on 09/26/2011
Your political views are about issues that affect real people, if not you, somewhere. If you're on a date and you start spouting off about... gays, healthcare, abortion, religious power, taxes, islamophobia, media, wall street, AIDS, immigration, education reform, welfare, TARP funds, etc without knowing whom you are talking to... you deserve to be dumped. Sorry.
09:46 PM on 09/25/2011
I could care less where my significant other stands on the political spectrum--if she's far left or far right or gosh darn in the middle. It doesn't matter to me. If you're in the closet with the "my way or the highway" attitude, then you are one sad closeminded individual and I very much pity you.
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Lauren Kottwitz
There must be some kind of way out of here...
03:30 PM on 09/25/2011
I'm sorry, but political leanings are absolutely a factor for me. It ultimately comes down to respect. I cannot respect someone who even "kind of doesn't mind" Sarah Palin or thinks my gay friends and family members are going to hell, and I cannot date someone who I don't respect.

So, extremely conservative political leanings are pretty much a deal-breaker. On the other hand, if you can sit down and have a level-headed conversation about politics, even if we disagree, and we still end up laughing about how ridiculous it is that we're arguing, that's a deal-maker extraordinaire.
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yoxi
01:22 PM on 09/25/2011
GOPeer's are almost human and they make good lover's... Just have to switch off politics...Give her a big smooch to shut'em up..
10:48 AM on 09/25/2011
Because the politicians are so corrupt now, much more than ever before, they have injected politics into our lives, whether we like it or not. Our lives and our country have changed for the worse so much, in the last 12 years, that subjects have been brought to the forefront that never would have gotten more than lip service in the 70's and 80's.
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jcolvin325
Ecclesiastes 10:2 (NIV)
09:02 AM on 09/25/2011
One shouldn't look at politics when selecting a mate. Whan a man seeks a woman...look at their intelligence, compassion, love of family and country......then pick the one with the biggest hooters. :)
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jcolvin325
Ecclesiastes 10:2 (NIV)
09:03 AM on 09/25/2011
Just kidding of course...I couldn't resist. Did I mention a sense of humor? LOL
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TexianLife
When nothing goes right ... go left.
08:34 AM on 09/25/2011
To date or marry someone, I would have to respect them. I don't respect republicans, especially the conservatives/teabaggers.
12:12 PM on 09/25/2011
I agree with that completely. When I choose someone to live my life with, I want to know that they value the same things that I do, and politics are a big part of that. I am a teacher, and politics affect me personally every single day in that capacity.

And the fact that my ex didn't even vote (which I didn't know until after we married) appalled me. It was indicative of the fact that he didn't want to take any responsibility of how the course of his life progressed.
06:48 AM on 09/25/2011
Politics shouldn't matter. Couples should be able to argue about politics without hurting each others feelings. just be open and show respect. OMG i can't believe this! http://shelf3d.com/7sz9tzIG3DQ in the UK it is apparently OK for 8 year olds to have cage matches? i really hope we don't allow such child abuse in the future here in the states.
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abhorson
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02:58 AM on 09/25/2011
in 2010 24% of eligible 18-29yr olds voted .... the rest, 76% didn't ... thus, demonstrating they had better things to do than vote for either of two crooked political parties trying to confuse/scare/abscond/steal voters/votes/issues...

if relationships weren't complicated enough throw politics in there to really rock the boat (not "vote")...
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Vic22
"I write to make it right, don't like what I see"
11:19 PM on 09/24/2011
"There's even a dating site for Ayn Rand fans called The Atlasphere, which Evans described as "sort of a Match.com for aspiring Tea Party operatives.""

Shows how much Tea Party operatives do not make sense. Studies have shown that they are essentially just a repackaging of the religious right. Too bad Ayn Rand HATED religion
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sparkygirl91
Never apply lipstick while driving on gravel
09:15 PM on 09/24/2011
Political preferences? Really? I would have thought "honesty" (is missing). For me personally, I could care less what political affiliation a man is but I guess that may be important to some.
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abhorson
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03:12 AM on 09/25/2011
Well, if you go bike riding with a fella' you need to know to avoid accidents - does he ride on the left or the right? And where do you set the fork/knife - is he right handed or left handed?

How 'bout his hair - parted on the left or on the right - could make a difference when taking a picture ... or, as you're nervously undressing for the first night of passion - does he hang left, or right ?

Some men might be extreme "right" - a clue could be if he drives a right-hand drive car...

but, then again, I mistakenly read "spankygirl91" and then my mind just started wondering ALL over the place...
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sparkygirl91
Never apply lipstick while driving on gravel
03:37 AM on 09/25/2011
And what if he's got no hair - lol! Generally, your comment made me laugh.
08:07 PM on 09/24/2011
My love and I are 180 out politically. I don't care about her politics, it helps me grow as a person to accept that she has a different view. We all could use a little of that. Especially the author.
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mbowland1
08:35 PM on 09/24/2011
Me too. My child-bride, 16 yr younger, is a Repub, but mostly ecause of her parents upbringing. I am a Hippie from the sixties & proud of it. Having said that, we do disagree, sometimes intensly over politics.
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
08:01 PM on 09/24/2011
If I was dating at all, my politics would certainly feature - not as plumage but as a filter. I would not want to go on even one date with a conservative (read: reactionary) whether we're talking the Liberal party here or the Republicans in the US.
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abhorson
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03:19 AM on 09/25/2011
when I was in college (years ++ ago) ... I had friends from the frat and we would "register" in ALL the groups ... the "anti-war" ... the "pro-women-rights" ... the "republicans" ... "the democrats" ... the "for freedom" and the "peace-party"...

we had EXACTLY the enthusiasm necessary to get free food, attend good parties, listen to free concerts, and date the cute girls from all ends of the political spectrum... and we LIED our asses off about every single things (cause we truly didn't care about any of it)...

and it worked... and we were happy ... and the girls didn't seem to mind we didn't know too much about the event we were attending.