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Leisha Hailey's Southwest Airline Drama Continues

First Posted: 09/28/11 01:03 PM ET Updated: 11/28/11 05:12 AM ET

The firestorm surrounding 'L Word' actress Leisha Hailey's removal off of a Southwest Airlines flight after she was allegedly kissing her partner continues to rage.

Hailey and her girlfriend Camila Grey issued a statement through their electro-pop band, Uh Huh Her, in an effort to clarify Monday's incident. "In no way were our actions on Southwest Airlines excessive, inappropriate or vulgar," the statement said. "We want to make it clear we were not making out or creating any kind of spectacle of ourselves, it was one, modest kiss. We are responsible adult women who walk through the world with dignity."

For their part, Southwest Airlines fired back with their own statement, saying the couple -- who are preparing to launch a 21-city tour to promote breast cancer awareness -- were removed for using profane language rather than any public display of affection. "Additional reports from our Employees and Customers onboard flight 2274 during a stop in El Paso on Sunday now confirm profane language was being used loudly by two passengers," the statement read. "At least one family who was offended by the loud profanity moved to another area of the cabin. Although we have reports of what Customers characterize as an excessive public display of affection, ultimately their aggressive reaction led to their removal from the aircraft."

Before noting that they had offered "a full refund for an experience that fell short of the passengers' expectation," the statement continued, "We do not tolerate discrimination against anyone for any reason. In this situation, their removal was directly and solely related to the escalated conversation that developed onboard the aircraft."

The AP reports that Southwest's website says it is the official airline of the Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation (GLAAD). But in her statement, Hailey refuted many of the airlines' claims:

"We take full responsibility for getting verbally upset with the flight attendant after being told it was a 'family airline.' We were never told the reason the flight attendant approached us, we were only scolded that we 'needed to be aware that Southwest Airlines was a family oriented airline.' No matter how quietly homophobia is whispered, it doesn’t make it any less loud."

The couple also wrote extensively about the incident on their band's Twitter page, and even called for a boycott of the airline at one point. "I want to say that we will always stand up to discrimination of any kind," one post read. "It should not be tolerated. This was so unfortunate! Nuff said."

It is not the airline's first brush with celebrity controversy. Over Labor Day weekend, Green Day frontman Billie Joe Armstrong claimed to have been removed from a Southwest flight for refusing to adjust pants that hung too low. After the incident, Armstrong tweeted, "Just got kicked off a southwest flight because my pants sagged too low! What the f**k? No joke!" Director Kevin Smith was also removed from a flight because the airline alleged he didn't fit properly into a single seat.


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The firestorm surrounding 'L Word' actress Leisha Hailey's removal off of a Southwest Airlines flight after she was allegedly kissing her partner continues to rage. Hailey and her girlfriend Camil...
The firestorm surrounding 'L Word' actress Leisha Hailey's removal off of a Southwest Airlines flight after she was allegedly kissing her partner continues to rage. Hailey and her girlfriend Camil...
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tissa
Chicago Liberal /Sales/Marketing Director
01:04 PM on 11/20/2011
Something doesn't sound right here. What was going on that several people were complaining about this kissing? It sounds like they were getting a little too hot and heavy for an airplane. Southwest is a good airline, and I am not sure they discriminated against them. Discretion is always a good thing, you can't doForeplay on an airplane in front of everyone,and then swear about it....
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ethelmertzrules
Yeah, I said it.
11:49 PM on 11/27/2011
It wasn't foreplay. It was a kiss. Hetero people do it all the time without consequence. You go on and be discreet, but don't deny gay couples the same rights that heteros take for granted.
12:36 PM on 11/17/2011
Leisha stop being a rock star-and grow-up-
You are not a good rep for the lesbian community just a spoiled tart !
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ethelmertzrules
Yeah, I said it.
11:49 PM on 11/27/2011
Why are you so angry?
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Sistagirl Young
11:28 PM on 10/22/2011
Not havin' been on the flight, I of course do not know what transpired. But I have been in public places where what with all the kissin' the couple shoud have had a room somewhere. Some people do things for shock value. But even if it was a peck, two women is not what most folk are accustomed to seein'.There is a way to comport ones self in public. Overly affectionate displays are not somethin' I do; nor do I appreciate bein' captive audience to how far into your mouth you can get the other parties tongue. Little respect for ones self and consideration for others goes a long way. But to each his own. Life.
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leorangerie
03:46 PM on 10/10/2011
This girl is not going to be a quality poster child for lesbian and gay rights. She keeps changing her story about what happened. And I can tell you that I've flown Southwest at least four times a month for the past ten years and have had nothing but good experiences with the quality of their employees.
09:08 AM on 10/07/2011
I keep reading this over and the "loud profanity" that had other customers moving away stands out in my mind. I get the impression of yet another celebrity feeling entitlement to act however she wishes on public because she's "important". And when they were asked to tone it down, Hailey moved straight to playing the discrimination card, and claimed it was the kiss between women that was the whole problem. I'm a lesbian as well, and I think this kind of incident sets us back in our quest to be accepted by mainstream society. People need to learn how to behave in public, which includes curbing offensive language, and they need to learn to accept responsibility for their actions when they are wrong, instead of blaming someone else.
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FaceTheTruth00
I'm a girl.
04:58 AM on 10/03/2011
Her original comment from Twitter: Leisha Hailey
@Leisha_Hailey Leisha Hailey
I have been discriminated against by @SouthwestAir. Flt. attendant said that it was a "family" airline and kissing was not ok.

Vs. her comment from this very story:

"We take full responsibility for getting verbally upset with the flight attendant after being told it was a 'family airline.' We were never told the reason the flight attendant approached us, we were only scolded that we 'needed to be aware that Southwest Airlines was a family oriented airline.' No matter how quietly homophobia is whispered, it doesn’t make it any less loud."

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So, the initial claim is that the flight attendant said it was a family airline and that kissing wasn't ok. But, in her latest comments, she claims she was never told the reason the flight attendant approached them.

Only one of her statements can be true. Whereas, Southwest's side has been consistent from the beginning.

SW is more believable as a result. Odd are she was told that people complained about the kissing, and she got mad and argumentative with the FA. It doesn't take much to get thrown off a plane these days. The FAs are in charge in the air and anyone who creates a fuss with them, usually ends up getting tossed. These women are far from the first to be booted for fighting with a FA, and they will be far from the last.
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FaceTheTruth00
I'm a girl.
04:51 AM on 10/03/2011
Sorry, but I think she got caught in a lie. In this very article, she claims she was never told why the flight attendant approached her. Yet, from the very beginning, she was tweeting and claiming the FA approached them and said people complained of their kissing.

She was very adamant that the FA was being homophobic and throwing them off the plane because the kiss was blown out of proportion. Now, she's saying that FA didn't tell her any reason; that the FA didn't tell her that other passengers complained about their kissing.

Her statements are in direct conflict. Either the FA told her why, or she didn't.

I'm betting the truth lies in between. Complaints were made and she got offended and told off the FA. No one knows whether the complaints were valid. One side says yes, the other side says no. But, it seems neither side is disputing that the actress got vocal with the FA.

If Southwest says the "verbal disagreement" was the reason, then I have to give the beenfit of the doubt to them; because part of what they're claiming is verified by the other side. Wherease SW totally disputes the kiss situation.
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Kat Ingalls
Don't believe everything you read
05:54 PM on 10/03/2011
Just because she wasn't told why she was approached doesn't mean she didn't know why. Being told you are on a "family" airline after giving your partner a quick kiss is enough to convey the message no matter what words the FA spoke or didn't. I don't give SouthWest the benefit of the doubt - what do you think prompted the verbal disagreement? Homophobes who want us gay folk to sit at the back of the bus.
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EJ Honda
11:39 PM on 10/02/2011
I'd like both sides to clarify the situation. Southwest seems to be indicating the women's removal was due to use of profanity by the women. But the question then becomes why were they using profanity? Was it in response to being chastised by the flight staff for PDA or were the women actually using casual profanity in their conversation prior to being approached by flight staff? That clarification will make a big difference on how I view who deserves support in this incident. So far there's way too little information to make a concrete judgment in all of this.
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laterthanyouthink
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03:06 AM on 10/07/2011
"But the question then becomes why were they using profanity?"

Not really.
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shelagh63
Whatev's
11:32 AM on 10/02/2011
"We do not tolerate discrimination against anyone for any reason. In this situation, their removal was directly and solely related to the escalated conversation that developed onboard the aircraft."

Yeah right, and Target does not discriminate gays-except for the CEO
07:50 AM on 10/02/2011
What's next Southwest Airlines... do we need to sit in the back of the plane???
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laterthanyouthink
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03:07 AM on 10/07/2011
I wish they would bling back the club seating ....
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DJMarian
Rich is having money; Wealthy is having time
02:16 AM on 10/02/2011
This is the perfect company for intolerant bigot to work for. It seems as though the company stands behind the discriminatory practices of it's employees time and time again.
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jmoser1973
It is what it is.
05:23 AM on 10/02/2011
I'm actually surprised. I know several gay men who work for the airline.
11:27 AM on 10/03/2011
Gay men? Working for an airline? No way. Get outta here.
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madsen26
10:48 PM on 10/01/2011
"Excessive.."?

Does Southworst Airlines define the meaning of where that border of "EXCESSIVE" lies in that must-read instructions card in the seat in front of you?

The sooner Southworst goes down to economic ruination, the better. It wouldn't be excessive to say, either.
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englishman545
English Born, Brooklyn Raised
03:13 PM on 10/01/2011
A commercial Airplane is not the place to make out, was she trying for the "Mile High Club"???
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11:09 PM on 10/01/2011
What of it? You know that a straight couple would not be thrown off the plane for making out, if that's even what happened.
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englishman545
English Born, Brooklyn Raised
09:08 AM on 10/02/2011
I'll try it on my next flight and let you know
06:38 PM on 10/06/2011
That's true! I've seen straight couples making out several times on commercial airlines. People just stare at them, smile and don't say a word.
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jmoser1973
It is what it is.
05:23 AM on 10/02/2011
she said she didn't make out. She gave a simple kiss.
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englishman545
English Born, Brooklyn Raised
01:46 PM on 10/02/2011
I think it was her climbing over the top of her seat to give the kiss.
02:47 PM on 10/01/2011
If all PDA was under this much scrutiny, they'd have to build more prisons and hire more judges.
Just sayin'
02:41 PM on 10/01/2011
It's all about homophobia. That's it. End of story. Haters can't live and let live.

Next time I'm on a flight I will scream about the couple two rows up who kiss. Can't wait for all the drama that will unfold. (none). Dang hets. s c r e wu