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Female Professionals No Longer Finding Mentors

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Posted: 10/26/11 11:06 AM ET

LinkedIn surveyed more than 1,000 female professionals in the U.S. and 82 percent agreed that having a mentor is important. Fair enough. Yet, nearly 1 out of every 5 women reported never having a mentor. Furthermore, 52 percent of these women noted they hadn't had one because they "never encountered someone appropriate."

But before statistics prevail, why all the fuss about mentors and mentees? At the Pennsylvania Women's Conference where the study's findings were presented, LinkedIn's Connection Director, Nicole Williams, explains, "Tooting your own horn is just one of the many ways you can increase the likelihood that you'll shatter the glass ceiling and snag keys to that corner office," said Williams. "If you're uncomfortable speaking up about your accomplishments, then often times, your best bet is to seek out a sponsor or a mentor in your office who can vouch for you."

Kerry Hannon at Forbes argues that mentors can also be crucial to women in the tough job market, specifically boomer women, who are coincidentally the very demographic that is the most lacking in mentor relationships. According to LinkedIn, only 34 percent of Boomers (females between 45-66 years old) reported that they are being or have been mentored by women, a worrying statistic as mentors can help with starting second careers and changing fields, as many boomer women are, in a competitive landscape.

While Hannon finds this percentage unsettling, she also finds it expected, pointing out that many boomer women who entered the workforce didn't have a plethora of female higher-ups to turn to. Likewise, a survey released by USA Today earlier this month surveyed female CEOs, chairs and company founders in regards to workplace mentors. When asked to identify the one mentor who had the most influence on their careers, 33 of the 34 women who responded identified a man- perhaps further speaking to the greater number of men in high-ranking positions rather than a gender bias on behalf of working women.

On an encouraging note, times are indeed a-changin.' Forty-three percent of Gen X females (women between 30-44 years old) on LinkedIn surveyed noted that they are being or have been mentored by women and more than half (51 percent) of Gen Y women (females between 18-29 years old) reported the same. According to Forbes, many big corporations such as General Mills, IntelCorp, Ernst & Young, and Proctor & Gamble have also taken note, creating mentoring programs for their employees and some also offering programs specifically designed to increase the access women gain to senior management positions.

While younger females are finding greater success in securing a mentor, not all women have access to such programs, and LinkedIn found that sixty-seven percent of women who had never been a mentor reported they weren't mentoring another professional simply because "no one ever asked". It's time for all generations of working women to speak up.

Dr.Priya Nalkur-Pai, a professional coach who works with women on their career transitions told The Grindstone, "Mentoring is about a structured relationship. If you think you might have found someone who could be a good mentor for you, ask her explicitly if she will be your mentor. This crisply defines the relationship, which sets it up for success."

Beverly Jones of Clearways Consulting in Washington DC spoke to Forbes about building a mentor relationship. She suggests women start by asking for advice, making the mentor-mentee relationship reciprocal in some way, and becoming a mentor yourself. "Even if you are at the bottom of your hierarchy at work, you can find mentees through alumni and non-profit networks" Jones says.

Everybody needs a cheerleader.

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10:49 PM on 10/26/2011
Men are competitive, women are solidaire, yet envy and ambition drives the workplace which in turn translates into survival.
04:03 PM on 10/26/2011
No office should be without the Freshmaker! Nah ok kidding aside....sometimes mentoring is destructive or at least not progressive. In some ever evolving, rapidly changing areas in businesses where creative is regarded a most valuable asset, a mentors advice will have become obsolete with every new wave entering behind it. But then I have never worked outside of creative and the corporate world actually looks scary to me. Good luck to all those intrepid young women and men heading in that direction where mentors are needed. Dont forget your Mentos!
01:21 PM on 10/26/2011
Of course it's anecdotal, but my experience as a mentor to other women has been fairly negative, unfortunately. I LONG to help more women succeed in my field (which desperately needs more women), and have actively sought out those with apparent talent and drive to try and assist when I can...only to be rebuffed and treated with condescension and suspicion.

Many years ago, I spent quite a bit of time and effort helping a young woman who pleaded with me for a foot in the door of my very competitive field. She became successful and down the road when we ended up working in the same building, she acted like she barely knew me--and made sport of talking about me negatively behind my back. The second woman I helped did a terrible job while working under me, and when I finally had to let her go, she sued me and the company we worked for. Others I've attempted to help got sidetracked and left the business.

I'm very much a feminist and abhor stereotypes, but my experience as a woman mentoring men has been much more positive, and I don't understand why. Perhaps some younger women can enlighten me...
11:16 AM on 10/27/2011
A major downside of mentoring is that you coukld be training your replacement. Been ther done that. Even after she was promote over me, she still came to me for advice how to solve problems at which point , I quit giving answers. From a man perspective, ithinkl men hold their mentors in respect, not just head to be steped on the way up the ladder, of course men do that too.
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10:39 AM on 10/26/2011
"Female Professionals No Longer Finding Mentors" - damn!

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