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Bipartisan Group Targets Moderates In Push For Gay Marriage


First Posted: 11/07/11 08:10 PM ET Updated: 11/08/11 08:53 AM ET

WASHINGTON -- A unlikely group of high-profile Republicans and Democrats is banding together for a new campaign aimed at swaying moderates in support of gay marriage.

Third Way, a moderate think tank in Washington, D.C., on Monday launched its "Commitment Campaign," a national effort to arm lawmakers and advocates with talking points in support of gay marriage based on what new research shows: that people who identify as moderates are more likely to embrace gay marriage if it is framed as an issue of love and commitment, not just one of rights and benefits. The idea behind the narrowly targeted campaign is that more attention to "the movable middle" will solidify a key bloc of support for gay marriage, something that could influence future Supreme Court decisions on the matter.

Among those pitching the new campaign: former Republican National Committee Chairman Ken Mehlman, former New Jersey Governor and EPA Administrator Christine Todd Whitman (R), Rhode Island Governor Lincoln Chafee (I), Maryland Governor Martin O'Malley (D) and Sen. Kirsten Gillibrand (D-N.Y.).

"Commitment, responsibility, and fidelity are values that the Republican Party has long championed, and they are values that animate my personal support for allowing gay couples to marry," Mehlman says in the campaign materials. Mehlman announced he was gay in August 2010, after stepping down as RNC chairman.

"Third Way's Commitment Campaign will be among the most strategic and effective national efforts to broaden support for marriage, with a unique focus on winning over moderates, Independents, conservatives and Republicans," Mehlman said. "I am proud to team up with Third Way in our shared efforts to enable all Americans to commit to marriage."

Whitman says in the campaign materials, "The Commitment Campaign can help to bring an important message to moderate and conservative Americans: allowing gay couples to promise lifetime commitment and fidelity to each other is something we should all embrace."

"By broadening support for the commitments of gay couples, we can help to refocus our political energies on the real problems of the day."

Third Way kicked off its campaign on Monday by distributing materials to every House and Senate office. From there, the group is lining up briefings with various factions of people on Capitol Hill, including gay and lesbian staffers, the LGBT Equality Caucus and one-on-one meetings with lawmakers who may not be ready to get out in front on the issue but, privately, want to know more about it.

The campaign also comes in advance of Thursday's landmark, albeit largely symbolic, Senate Judiciary Committee vote on legislation to repeal the Defense of Marriage Act, which defines marriage as between one man and one woman. The vote is expected to pass the committee but stands no chance of clearing the full Senate or the House. Advocates from Third Way were scheduled to meet with Democratic committee staff on Monday to prep them for the hearing.

The message that Third Way urges lawmakers to use with "the middle" is simple enough: polls show that moderates equate marriage with commitment, many aren't clear on whether gay couples want to marry for rights versus love, and many need to be convinced that gay people want to get married for the same reasons as straight people.

Lanae Erickson, Deputy Director for Social Policy & Politics at Third Way, said right now is a pivotal moment for shaping the way the public views gay marriage. For starters, opponents of gay marriage in states like Maine and Minnesota are already "moving really fast" in putting together campaigns to influence the Nov. 2012 elections, she said, which means gay rights advocates need to counter their message. In addition, she said, the issue is likely to end up before the Supreme Court in the next couple of years, which means now is the time to win over the public.

It would help moderate Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy to "feel confident" about voting to legalize gay marriage if he knows he has 53 percent of the country solidly behind him, said Erickson. And while the issue is going to remain divisive no matter what, having a solid majority of support on the issue heading into a high court ruling could minimize the backlash.

"We could either be in a situation where this issue is like Roe v. Wade, where we have majority support but it's still a divisive issue," Erickson said, "or we could make this into Brown v. The Board of Education, where it's tumultuous at the time, but 10 years from now we're going to have huge majorities of support and people will feel like this is just another step in our country's journey."

Debate on the issue has evolved rapidly this year -- for the first time ever, three national surveys found more people in support of gay marriage than not -- and it continues to be an awkward one for congressional Republicans, who may be more reluctant to come out firmly against gay marriage given the changing public opinion. When Attorney General Eric Holder announced in February that he would no longer defend DOMA because the administration concluded it was unconstitutional, House rules allowed for any lawmaker to come to the floor and demand a vote that the House defend the issue in court in place of the administration. Not a single lawmaker came forward. Instead, House GOP leaders huddled in private and made the decision themselves.

Erickson said that incident shows that Republicans may be at a point when they're willing to reconsider their views on an issue they previously used to rally their conservative base.

"They didn't [demand a vote] because they're scared and they know that this is not quite working in their favor anymore," she said. "I was holding my breath, waiting to see if somebody would go down there. And they didn't."

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WASHINGTON -- A unlikely group of high-profile Republicans and Democrats is banding together for a new campaign aimed at swaying moderates in support of gay marriage. Third Way, a moderate think ta...
WASHINGTON -- A unlikely group of high-profile Republicans and Democrats is banding together for a new campaign aimed at swaying moderates in support of gay marriage. Third Way, a moderate think ta...
 
 
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Steamboater 04:46 AM on 11/08/2011
The only way marriage equality will come about for all Gays is at the federal level enacted into law. For anyone to say wait and have patience is a non-argument because equality needs to cover all Gays and not just some. Left to the southern states, they won't even approve uncivil civil unions and that's why it's so appalling Obama hasn't evolved yet. It takes leadership from the top to pass marriage  Read More...
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
04:35 AM on 11/18/2011
Icky Ken in his $2-million dollar loft in the gayest part of Chelsea did unfathomable damage against gays and lesbians while he was part of the Bush machine. I don't care if he opens a vein for gay rights, he deserves nothing but contempt for supporting the Bush policies against safe sex information, massive scrubbing of HIV information on Centers for Disease Control websites, and open opposition to equal rights for gays and lesbians. Should I ever encounter him, I hope to demonstrate my contempt in a legal, but memorable way.
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MeRainyday
Green Progressive for Equality, 99%
02:02 PM on 11/09/2011
2/2 RE 'ThirdWay' Yes, they have some known gay advocates as members, and also out gay Congressman Jared Polis. But that doesn’t mean our true allies prevailed in the discussion of this idea which is STUPID and SELF-DESTRUCTIVE from top to bottom. It would be one thing if they suggested talking about BOTH commitment and equal rights, but they’re insisting we stop talking about rights entirely.
Could it be a Trojan Horse by Blue Dog Dems to actually kill it? The Antigay Industry would IMMEDIATELY shoot down this single approach by, for once, not having to lie—gay couples’ “commitment” is just as fully served by civil unions/domestic partnerships as legal “marriage,” they’ll say, then ice that cake with their original Big Lie: "so such a 'special right' isn’t needed."

Steve Hildebrand said: “We are fools to have spent all this money and time and not have defined the opponents. It’s not enough to answer their charges. We need to hit them back and not let up on it until voters don’t buy their lies anymore. (The NO on 1 and No on 8 campaigns were) malpractice in my opinion.”

In short, ALL reasons to vote for marriage equality must be used, but I believe, like Hildebrand, that, ultimately, the most successful messaging is: “You’re either for bigotry or against it; either a bigot or not a bigot. Pick your hat.”
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MeRainyday
Green Progressive for Equality, 99%
02:02 PM on 11/09/2011
Bet most of you have never heard of the group, the Third Way. Well, neither had I until they incomprehensibly suddenly started getting invited by the White House to meetings about DADT repeal legislation in the Spring of last year even though they aren’t a gay group. Digging into their history, I discovered they were a multi-issue group supposedly devoted to “moderate” positions but started by “Blue Dog Democrats” [read: often Repugs in Dem clothing] including the heinous Blanche Lincoln who voted against repeal even after Obama saved her ass from getting tossed off of the party’s ticket [she ended up losing in the midterm anyway]. The obvious only reason they were suddenly at the table with gay repeal groups like SLDN and Servicemembers United was because they had backed the President’s refusal to use his legal powers to order a freeze on discharges while repeal legislation worked its way through Congress [so some 800 more were NEEDLESSLY discharged], and, thus, were there to back the President’s support for then-Secretary of Defense Gates’ demand that the original and BETTER repeal bill be gutted—which succeeded and is now legally empowering the Pentagon to deny gay service members equal protections against harassment and discrimination IN the military as well as deny those partner benefits which are NOT banned by DOMA.
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
04:40 AM on 11/18/2011
F/F Thanks for the information.
I recently learned that one reason Republicans want states to determine marriage rights, and not the federal government, is to deny federal benefits to legally married gay and lesbian couples. This includes military pensions, Social Security benefits, federal employee benefits and pensions, and spousal immigration.

Isn't it odd that my friends Lisa emigrated to the UK to be with her wife Tessa. The British government fully recognizes their Iowa marriage, but the U.S. government wouldn't and refused to extend Tessa's visa.
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mrld20
09:56 PM on 11/08/2011
YESSSS :DDDD
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deven61
Sap and impurify all of our precious bodily fluids
12:23 PM on 11/08/2011
If given the opportunity...I would move Kirsten Gillibrand....hot!
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Thanks4Watching
Daily dose of cynicism
11:32 AM on 11/08/2011
I don't think Jesus would think too kindly of people who invoke His name to justify discrimination.

Just saying.
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Miracle Politics
Love is the answer; whatever the question.
12:40 PM on 11/08/2011
I have a feeling that many people of the "Christian" right would be shocked at what Jesus would say should he come back in human form. They'd be the first calling for his re-crucifixion. "What is all this talk about love, forgiveness and helping the poor? He must be an impostor"
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Contact1972
Honey Badger Don't Care
12:52 PM on 11/08/2011
Took the words right out of my head.
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04:28 PM on 11/08/2011
not impostor...[cue the scary music]...SOCIALIST
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SteveDenver
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04:41 AM on 11/18/2011
Why do you think Jesus came back for the rapture, but didn't take anyone with Him?
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plantwomyn
Fighting for full citizenship
10:57 AM on 11/08/2011
As a married monogamous lesbian, I look forward to the day when the LGBT community doesn't have to claim the high ground to qualify for equality. Why are we required to be the fountain of fidelity and commitment when it is accepted that our heterosexual counterparts can crap all over marriage and family all they want with impunity.

We should have the same rights as heterosexuals to be unfaithful philanderers and suck at parenting.
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EmmaDarian
All in all, I'm loving every rise and fall (RHCP)
11:23 AM on 11/08/2011
I'm a married monogamous heterosexual woman and I agree with every word you said.
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Contact1972
Honey Badger Don't Care
12:53 PM on 11/08/2011
As always, we appreciate your support:-)
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Miracle Politics
Love is the answer; whatever the question.
01:09 PM on 11/08/2011
Your support is so appreciated.
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
04:42 AM on 11/18/2011
As a BBC reporter asked an American marriage equality opponent: "Why is marriage only sacred when gays and lesbians want it, but it's a joke for many heterosexuals?"
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Darwincrat
My God only exists if you believe too.
10:42 AM on 11/08/2011
Future generations of Americans will look back in history with shame and disappointment that laws like DOMA and DADT ever existed. You are on the wrong side of history, 'values voters.'
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Jefferson Vickers
10:25 AM on 11/08/2011
Fidelity well the right just lost that argument in recent days
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practiceempathy
Tolerance need not yield to willful ignorance.
09:39 AM on 11/08/2011
Mehlman announced he was gay in August 2010, after stepping down as RNC chairman.

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Mehlman himself orchestrated Bush's re-election campaign and has himself admitted that a core strategy was to pit Americans against gay Americans.

He's come out of the closet now that his political peak is past and that he's made a lot of money from having demonized gay people.

I'd have more compassion and respect for Mr. Mehlman if he didn't sell out his own for personal gain.

Mehlman taints this noble cause.
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Jefferson Vickers
10:27 AM on 11/08/2011
To little to late
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lacrosselamore
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03:29 PM on 11/08/2011
Mehlman is all taint.
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
04:43 AM on 11/18/2011
Not fair! "Taint" is the scenic highway between two pleasure zones.
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demisfine
Often correct, NEVER right.
09:26 AM on 11/08/2011
Mehlman lived a closted life while representing the regressive administration.
Todd-Whitman relaxed regulations to allow corporations to exploit federal land.
Not two leaders I'd align myself with, for any cause.
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lacrosselamore
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09:24 AM on 11/08/2011
Good for you Gov.Whitman. Nice to see one of you get on the right side of history.
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gevan
the pilgrim has landed
01:12 PM on 11/08/2011
You know the one about the stopped clock telling the right time.
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SteveDenver
Progressive and liberal, just like Jesus Christ.
04:44 AM on 11/18/2011
Fave. Good one... I think it also applies to a barking dog having the right answer if you ask enough questions.
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hrc04
put on your pants and go home.
09:22 AM on 11/08/2011
They talk about persuading the middle, but lets be real: there are very few elected GOP officials that haven't retreated from the middle.
10:16 AM on 11/08/2011
But the voters haven't.....
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Todd Abrams
09:01 AM on 11/08/2011
I am not gay, as a matter of fact I've been married for 15 yrs to my wife. I think that religious conservatives have it wrong as far as marriage for men and women of the same sex is concerned. My wife was watching the 700 club, and they were talking about the christians that quit their job because they felt it was wrong to marry gays. I believe that we were created for relationship with God, and when we love one another, God is present! The scripture, those without sin cast the first stone, has issue with this stance taken by conservatives. This to me is hipocritical, because there is also a law by Moses that says, thou shall not kill! but they put people to death all over our country through the death penalty. This has nothing to do with people that are straight. If it is wrong then God will straighten out the crooked, we are condemning each other for status in this life! Its wrong!!!!!
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rextrek
50yr old, Moderate-liberal in S.NJ/Phila
11:11 AM on 11/08/2011
your 1st mistake is watching the 700 club......2nd mistake is IF you donate to those charletons.......Pat Robertson already lives in a Mansion, drives in a Limo, and has Diamond Mines in Africa that USES slave labor.....thats all you need to know about that God-Awful man...who's LONG over-due for his Eternal Dirt Nap...in Hell
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04:33 PM on 11/08/2011
careful there...I'm pretty sure Todd is on our side
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invirginia
A higher double-standard.
08:59 AM on 11/08/2011
If you can persuade them with an equal rights argument, play on their emotions. That's what the Republicans have been doing for years.