Barbara Sheehan, Ex-NYPD Officer's Wife Who Shot Husband, Gets Prison For Gun Charge

Barbara Sheehan

KAREN MATTHEWS   11/10/11 02:21 PM ET   AP

NEW YORK — A school secretary who was acquitted of murder was sentenced to five years in prison Thursday on a weapons charge for fatally shooting her husband – a retired police sergeant – 11 times with his own gun in a sensational case that cast a spotlight on domestic violence.

Barbara Sheehan appeared stunned by the sentence and left the courtroom without speaking to reporters. She is free pending her appeal.

The 50-year-old mother of two had said she shot in self-defense on Feb. 18, 2008 after her husband of 24 years, retired New York Police Department Sgt. Raymond Sheehan, threatened to kill her if she didn't go with him on a Florida vacation. After decades of marriage to a violent and abusive man, her attorney argued, she was enough of an expert on his terrifying behavior to know he was serious.

She grabbed his loaded revolver from the bedroom while he was in the bathroom shaving, a loaded Glock by his side on the vanity. She emptied the revolver, then picked up the Glock and fired six shots. Raymond Sheehan died in the bathroom.

Jurors, nine women and three men, found the wife guilty of a weapons charge for using the Glock. She was found not guilty of a second weapon charge for using the revolver.

The case became a referendum on so-called battered women's syndrome and whether a woman should be capable of getting out of a nasty relationship. The not guilty verdict on the murder charge came as a surprise. Domestic violence experts say battered women accused of killing their partners in self-defense are convicted at about the same rate as others accused of murder.

At Thursday's contentious sentencing in Queens state Supreme Court, the two sides again battled over whether Sheehan had been a battered woman or not.

"Barbara was not the victim in this case," Assistant District Attorney Debra Pomodore said. "Raymond, her husband, was the victim."

Sheehan's lawyer, Michael Dowd, responded, "It became ... a question of whether or not she would live or die. And she chose to live."

Dowd disparaged the prosecution's portrayal of Raymond Sheehan as a dedicated public servant, saying "every time he took his fist, Ms. Pomodore, and hit his wife in the face, that was a crime." He said that the couple's children were forced to witness shocking violence.

Pomodore countered, "A man in the prime of his life was gunned down and left to die on the bathroom floor."

The retired officer's sister-in-law, Linda Sheehan, said in a victim impact statement, "We are heartbroken that the jury has lost sight of the real victim." Linda, who is married to Raymond Sheehan's twin brother, Vincent, said the extended family had shared vacations to the New Jersey shore, barbecues and pool parties.

"The story of the life that Barbara told on the witness stand was not the life that we shared with her and Raymond," she said.

Barbara Sheehan watched her sister-in-law intently, at one point shaking her head.

Linda Sheehan said Barbara had never expressed remorse over killing her husband and never contacted his family to say she was sorry.

Barbara Sheehan insisted in her own brief statement that she had indeed expressed sorrow.

"I've said numerous times that I was sorry," she said. "And I am."

Sheehan told of years of abuse during her monthlong trial, testifying that she was too fearful and broken-down to leave her husband and too scared to call for help. Her children, Jennifer, 25, and Raymond, 21, also gave emotional testimony on their home life, saying they walked on eggshells around their father, always worried about when he would crack and take out his anger on their mother. Sgt. Raymond Sheehan was portrayed as a violent, unpredictable man who carried two loaded guns – one on his hip and one on his ankle – at all times.

Prosecutors painted a different picture of the family. Pomodore, in her closing statements, said Barbara Sheehan was a manipulator and a liar, a pampered woman upset that her husband had strayed and their marriage was crumbling. She said the children's testimony was fabricated to protect their mother.

The couple's children did not attend Thursday's sentencing, but Dowd said their son Raymond had contemplated suicide while Jennifer had been driven to anorexia because, she told him, "it was the one thing I could control in my life."

Sheehan's weapons conviction carried a mandatory sentence of 3 1/2 to 15 years, and Dowd had pressed for a sentence of less than the minimum based on Sheehan's status as a battered woman.

He said he was "appalled" by the five-year sentence and promised to appeal the conviction.

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tall coolone
Professional know-it-all
09:35 PM on 11/23/2011
Why is "Glock" mentioned specifically more than once? How is the brand name of the gun important to the story. Semi-automatic pistol would suffice. No need to further demonize "Glocks".
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dbrett480
07:14 PM on 11/16/2011
Was there any evidence that domestic violence occurred?

Also using the fact that the officer carried two guns is insane. Many law enforcement officers carry off duty.
10:16 PM on 11/13/2011
shot 11 times. I call that over kill
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Kat Ingalls
Don't believe everything you read
10:50 AM on 11/13/2011
Moral of the story: If you don't want to get shot 11 times with your own guns, don't beat your wife.
09:09 PM on 11/12/2011
Comment continued:

Contrary to common belief, many organizations understand that men can be victims as well, but women tend to be frequent victims hence focusing their efforts on helping females. On the other hand, many men's rights and activism/advocacy organizations are extremely hurtful to women. The things they say would truly shock you. They act like everyone is against them. The reality is, that women have been oppressed throughout history and continue to be overtly and covertly subjugated. The inequality against women is strongly institutional. They have to live up to supposed standards that mainly (most conservative) men make! Domestic violence is just one of the many ways that males exert control and dominance over females.

Source used:
Stark, Evan. Coercive Control: the Entrapment of Women in Personal Life. Oxford. Oxford University Press, 2007. Print.
07:33 AM on 11/13/2011
What a bunch of Bull
07:39 AM on 11/13/2011
Law Proffesor Linda Kelly has said men have been oppressed. I believe you feel some group may be a threat to your agenda and may expose your true agenda. Why is it we never see womens groups talk about the male victims of domestic violence, how come womens groups never show pictures of the male victim and im to believe you
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Kat Ingalls
Don't believe everything you read
10:52 AM on 11/13/2011
Why does everyone who's opinion is different than yours have an agenda? You clearly have an agenda. I don't think anyone should suffer abuse, but you are just dead set on making men the victim in EVERY case when that just isn't true.
09:08 PM on 11/12/2011
I speak in defense of no one, but I do believe that the husband, as an ex-NYPD officer, should already know that beating his wife IS a crime. No one here is at the liberty to say that Barbara is a cold-blooded murderer because no one here lives with her. No one knows what the experience was like better than the actual victim. Moreover, there is not enough information in this article to side with the husband. What possible reason is there that can cause someone to just kill another one day?

Many of the opinions and misconceptions about domestic violence stem from a faulty definition in which physically visible abuse is the one way to identify any abuse "[b]ut the primary harm abusive men inflict is political, not physical, and reflects the deprivation of rights and resources that are critical to personhood and citizenship" (Stark, 5). This is very problematic because physical marks only give us part of the whole victim's story.

Men use their power to control their victims and cut off their support systems, leaving them trapped. I cannot even begin to imagine what that sort of control looks like. No one deserves to be deprived of the very things that make us human like our dignity. I think the main problem is that domestic violence is seen as a justice issue rather than a social justice and human rights issue. This is why a lot of stereotypes about domestic abuse continue to mystify people.
07:34 AM on 11/13/2011
The man was shaving, there was no threat to her life. This was a murder not self defence from being battered. Thank god all people dont think like you
07:38 PM on 11/13/2011
So what! He asked for it! It does not matter if she was not in immediate threat. He endangered her life by abusing her. He took her dignity and well-being. If the cost has to be his life, for not stopping the abuse, then so be it. I hate to be blunt, but too bad.

Why are you so adamant about making people think like you? I could think what ever I please, and there is not a thing you can do about it. For the record, I am agnostic. Try that on for size.
01:02 PM on 11/11/2011
A law review article by law Professor Linda Kelly that documents the long history of how battered men's statistics and plight have been intentionally covered up.
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EdCorey1971
02:42 PM on 11/11/2011
There's no money in defending men's rights or reporting the truth. I swear, I think that all these false stats, extreme feminist, and every day victim reporting for women is starting to make them crazy. A lot women have some kind of post traumatic stress from years of reading stuff like this. Many of them feel abused with out every actually been abused. One lady said to me today that is is sexually harassed EVERYDAY, regardless of what she wear or how she looks.

I told her that I didn't believe her and that any approach a guy might make, good or bad she just see's as harassment. She don't know how to separate the two because her wires are so screwed up from all of this feminist dogma.
07:39 PM on 11/13/2011
A few letters after a name does not make anyone neither automatically cerdible nor authoritative.
08:05 PM on 11/13/2011
Google her and read her report. It is eye opening
01:01 PM on 11/11/2011
A University of Florida study recently found women are more likely than men to "stalk, attack and abuse" their partners. “We’re seeing women in relationships acting differently nowadays than we have in the past,” said Angela Gover, a UF criminologist who led the research. “The nature of criminality has been changing for females, and this change is reflected in intimate relationships as well.”
12:59 PM on 11/11/2011
A recent 32-nation study by the University of New Hampshire found female students initiate partner violence as often as male students and controlling behavior exists equally in perpetrators of both sexes.
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EdCorey1971
11:15 AM on 11/11/2011
I don't know why my original statement was not posted, but I believe that is was just another case of a hateful, revenge seeking woman that used the system to kill her husband, because this type of defense is in style. I would believe her more if she shot this guy after he beat her and she had the wounds to prove it. But how is it self defense while he was shaving. How is it self-defense while a guy is sleep? People say that men should never hit women even in self defense because of the size difference. So why is self defense acceptable in these sort of cases when the man is not even in the act of wrong doing.
11:35 AM on 11/11/2011
Great point Ed, there was no threat at all to her life, there was no strugle or fight, he was shaving, where is the threat to her life while he was shaving
11:39 AM on 11/11/2011
some of my post have been deleted also. I think I will have to report this
11:05 AM on 11/11/2011
She was shocked at her sentence. I guess she was expecting to get away with everything. I have a hard time believing her story, I think she was the violent and abusive person in the relationship. Im sure she will become violent and abusive again in her next relationship
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EdCorey1971
11:17 AM on 11/11/2011
I think that the jury knew that is women was guilty as sin but felt compelled to do the PC thing. Therefore they used the weapons charge loophole to put her away.
08:04 PM on 11/22/2011
I agree with u 100%
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wonderfullone
12:46 AM on 11/11/2011
Bottom line is that married couples seperate and file for divorce everyday....If a woman is affraid for her safety or life she can get a restraining order.-------------------She doesn't have to resort to emptying a pistol in him and then emptying his Glock semi pistol in him , killing him.---------------She might have gotten away with murder.
11:08 AM on 11/11/2011
She did get away with murder. Im willing to bet this poor man will never be concidered a victim of domestic violence, womens groups normally try to hide the fact that men are victims of severe domestic violence so they can pad there stats to represent there own agenda
02:30 PM on 11/11/2011
Silly, silly, silly. Again you lump all men as victims and all women as perpetrators. Pot meet kettle. For the record, I'm a guy.
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Lisa1129
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09:46 PM on 11/10/2011
He had it coming, he got what he deserve.
11:10 AM on 11/11/2011
Ill remember that the next time a woman is killed. I will tell you she got what she deserved.
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08:04 PM on 11/13/2011
your a monster
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Lisa1129
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09:30 AM on 11/14/2011
Screw you.
09:37 PM on 11/10/2011
I take no side here but has any one noticed that when a guy kill's some one its like 10 YEARS IN PRISON!!, 20 YEARS IN PRISON!!!, or my personnel favorite LIFE IN PRISON!!!!!!!!!!!
but the when some girl kill's some one its like 2 years, or 3 years with community service, or the max I have ever seen is 5 years in prison is it like the jury or who ever feels sympathy for the women who kill`s her son or her husband or even neighbor and then some guy kills a 1 guy some times another killer like in a gang fight or something and they jest destroy there life's.
why I ask you.....why you decide.
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08:11 AM on 11/11/2011
Really? I haven't noticed that! I have noticed that sometimes a woman who has suffered horrific abuse for years at the hands of her husband finally snaps and kills him and, yes, "gets away with it," you want to call it that. This woman was acquitted of murder by a jury who heard more details than you or I. And now she is going to do time for the weapons charge. Sorry, but I don't see how her female-ness has given her an unfair advantage in any sense.
11:17 AM on 11/11/2011
There are actually more male victims of severe domestic violence then there are women victims. Cases like Phil Harmen (comedic actor SNL) shot an killed by his wife while he was sleeping, cases like his are never reported as domestic violence.
11:13 AM on 11/11/2011
The whole country has noticed. Just like female predator teachers who get probation for haveing sex with 12 year old boys. Women recieve lighter sentencing. I have allways said women will never be equall to men untill the courts start sentencing women to the same jail time as men
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Djay0252
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02:14 PM on 11/10/2011
Stats show that most women who committ violence makes use of a weapon. As a domestic violence counselor I understand this and it makes sense. A woman can not defend herself with just bare hands...a man can. I think she should be set free. I understand her pain.
09:37 PM on 11/10/2011
You understand murder? It is easy to get your story across when you killed the other side of it. If your married, lets just hope your wife doesn't get mad at you one day, shoot you dead, and walk right out of the court room. Happens way too often. Men are the victims of legalized murder.
11:23 AM on 11/11/2011
That is correct, that is why there are more male victims of severe domestic violence then there are female victims