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Women Keep Secrets For 32 Minutes, Study Shows

Women Cant Keep Secrets

The Huffington Post   First Posted: 11/14/11 03:09 PM ET Updated: 11/14/11 03:10 PM ET

If you've just shared a secret with a woman, you've got 32 minutes until she tells all.

That's the findings from a study commissioned by skincare company Simple, which polled 3,000 British women, reports the Daily Mail.

No matter how personal or confidential the information, one in 10 women admitted to being unable to keep a secret, while almost half who took part said they'd often felt the need to offload their secrets to someone.

Affairs, plastic surgery and relationship problems topped the list of gossip shared, reports the Mirror.

But telling all has its consequences. One in 10 women quizzed said they'd fallen out with a friend over letting secrets slip, notes The Mirror.

"This poll clearly shows that women really struggle to keep secrets," said Simple Spokesman told the Daily Mail.

"Spilling the beans in just 32 minutes is very fast work, but with modern technology someone's juicy secret can be spread to huge amount of people all over the world in a very short space of time."

But if you happen to believe the stereotype that the fairer sex talks more than men, think again. In 2007, NPR reported on a study out of the University of Arizona that found men talk more than women, especially when engaged in conversation with their wives or strangers. Women on the other hand tend to speak more to college classmates or children.

With 80% of our conversation made up of gossip, the struggle to steer clear of the dirt on friends or celebrities may not be our fault. According to John L. Locke, author of "Eavesdropping: An Intimate History" and "Duels and Duets: Why Men and Women Talk So Differently", there may be an evolutionary reason why humans gossip as it serves as a policing of unwanted behavior in society.

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If you've just shared a secret with a woman, you've got 32 minutes until she tells all. That's the findings from a study commissioned by skincare company Simple, which polled 3,000 British women, ...
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03:13 AM on 04/06/2012
3,000 British women who voluntarily responded to a poll produced by a skincare company? That's a highly representative sample of all women, right there.
12:01 AM on 11/17/2011
For my wife, mother or sister 32 minutes would be a record for keeping a secret.
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euromarkusx
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05:11 PM on 11/16/2011
Why are these chicks dressed liked they're 16?
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ethelmertzrules
Repetition doesn't make it true
04:19 PM on 11/16/2011
I believe the amount of time we keep a secret depends on how interesting it is. For some, 32 minutes is a loooong time.
03:42 PM on 11/16/2011
Be careful when sharing you business with others.
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MarcEdward
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09:21 AM on 11/16/2011
The only surprise is that they keep the secret that long!
04:52 AM on 11/16/2011
What a creepy and questionable article . Some of us keep secrets to the grave . There are secrets worth keeping and then there are the shallow ,silly things that don't mean a thing .
03:17 AM on 11/16/2011
There are some secrets, confidential information, and confidences that I have kept for my entire life. Not everything is for everyone and if one can't abide by their word, what kind of person are they? I might like watching caddy shows like Gossip Girl, however, growing up I hated the drama. However, my grandkids know they can come to me and talk things out, as can their friends, but ifit were something serious, then parents will be brought into the mix-but I discuss that with the kids first. Except once when my daughter's friend was being forced to have sex with her father,naturally, confidence was broken in a roundabout way-rather than her name, I just told the school counselor where she lived and that she was a friend of my daughter....never said her name, but she was removed out of state to a foster home.
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Chuck Pope
11:43 PM on 11/15/2011
I love it when you tell them it's a secret and they repeat it out loud in a room full of people. So yea, it's probably unintentional but the secrets out. That's why I never tell ANYONE, man or woman anything that is really a secret, because loose lips sink ships.
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01:03 AM on 11/16/2011
Now where have I heard that before? Smart man :)

"loose lips sink ships"
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01:08 AM on 11/16/2011
I will add to my last post however-that Republican Women are Hands Down Better at knowing when to speak and saying the right things! Of course, in my view they are extremely more intelligent as a rule (not to mention more attractive)-although there are a few exceptions like Michele Bachmann-recently.
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metalsmithgirl71
Just say NO to GMO's!
02:30 AM on 11/16/2011
i tend to forget stuff within ten minutes, so things are usually safe with me. haha
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bi1
09:33 PM on 11/15/2011
What hurts most man woman relationships is women talking to women
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gerbersmail
One who doesn't laugh doesn't live
10:11 PM on 11/15/2011
Couldn't have said it better!
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bi1
10:28 PM on 11/15/2011
proven fact
09:22 PM on 11/15/2011
how long do men keep it, should we use timer?
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gerbersmail
One who doesn't laugh doesn't live
10:08 PM on 11/15/2011
Until they get caught.
10:23 PM on 11/15/2011
so men are like 10 days and 32 minutes?
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metalsmithgirl71
Just say NO to GMO's!
02:32 AM on 11/16/2011
are you kidding me? men don't listen, hence secrets are safe because he probably didn't hear anyways.
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08:56 PM on 11/15/2011
and the author of this article feels it entirely unnecessary to even quote or talk about the 'study' that was done.

what a piece of garbage.
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metalsmithgirl71
Just say NO to GMO's!
02:33 AM on 11/16/2011
yeah. 1 in 10. 32 minutes. where'd these numbers come from?
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Skyglider9
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08:13 PM on 11/15/2011
Based on experiences with other women, I would have thought the amount of time to be closer to 3 minutes.
08:53 PM on 11/15/2011
It's real hard to keep it for that long !
04:14 PM on 11/15/2011
As a man, to tell you the truth, I have difficulty keeping secrets as well. This is why I avoid being the confidant to my friends, family, the women in my life and acquaintances.
01:59 PM on 11/15/2011
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