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6 Reasons Your Family Is Good For Your Health

The Huffington Post     First Posted: 11/23/11 09:03 AM ET   Updated: 11/28/11 01:46 PM ET

This Thanksgiving, as you listen to grandma tell you you're too fat and your aunt tells you that you should've been married three years ago, it'll hard to remember why, exactly, families are meant to be loved.

But look beyond the jibes and minor annoyances and you'll realize that families have a value that extends much beyond annual turkey diners. From mental health to your body's immune response, your family has likely influenced your life in a multitude of ways. "Families are critically important for the growth and development of children, including how resilient they are and how quickly they learn," says Dr. Ben Siegel, a pediatric primary care physician at the Boston Medical Center.

Dr. Kenneth Ginsburg, who practices adolescent medicine at the Children's Hospital of Philadelphia and is the author of "Building Resilience in Children and Teens" explains: "Connectedness is the biggest thing you can do to encourage your child to be healthy and have a healthy lifestyle."

According to Dr. Ginsburg's research, people with a strong connection to their families are less likely to do drugs, be more engaged at school and even be good drivers.

But most of all, he says, a strong connection with your family will give you the ability to deal with stressors later on in life and rise above difficult circumstances.

So, if you've lost your job, are nursing a broken heart, just had to give up your home and are still standing, you probably have your family to thank.

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A recent paper in the journal Pediatrics reported that children and teens who eat with their families at least three times a week are less likely to be overweight, eat unhealthy foods and be at risk for eating disorders.

Other research has found that children who eat with their families two times a week or less are more likely to try drugs and smoke. Another study -- from Harvard -- found that family meal times play an important role in language development in children.
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This Thanksgiving, as you listen to grandma tell you you're too fat and your aunt tells you that you should've been married three years ago, it'll hard to remember why, exactly, families are meant to ...
This Thanksgiving, as you listen to grandma tell you you're too fat and your aunt tells you that you should've been married three years ago, it'll hard to remember why, exactly, families are meant to ...
 
 
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08:24 PM on 11/27/2011
WOW, I think they are on to something, especially about chronic inflammation. I come from a lousey family and had no extended family around. My health is terrible. I have gluten allergies, have had cancer and now suffer from heart disease also suffer from chronic depression. YAY! FAMILY!
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
02:05 AM on 11/26/2011
This all assumes a loving or supportive family environment. "Family" does not automatically mean "good family".

'The men who had become fathers reported twice as little testosterone as men who hadn't. ' - Is 'twice as little' an Americanism I haven't heard, or is it convoluted grammar? I'd have thought 'reported half the amount of testosterone' or something like that would have been clearer.
08:56 PM on 11/24/2011
ahhhhhhhhhh reminds me of a saying... you can pick your friends but not your family.. alot of that to me is bull, sorry, its just me..
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brooklyncitizen
Soror quaerens lucem
03:49 PM on 11/24/2011
My family taught me resilience........and recently patience.,,,not intentionally of course they are a maddening bunch. Oy.
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David Danio Jr
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01:06 AM on 11/24/2011
No matter what happen, you need each other in the family.
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french queen13
my beloved is mine and I am his
02:06 AM on 11/26/2011
Not if the family is abusive.
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David Danio Jr
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09:05 PM on 11/27/2011
Anyone will be abusive if you'll permit them, learn to forgive and accept them.
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headhuntnyc
Bassets are the best!!
10:43 PM on 11/23/2011
There is a bigger picture we all have to
seek.. We all have imperfections .. Comes with being human but I know for me comes with balancing personal values. It's not easy. I go with view that I cannot judge though it's easy to go there ...
10:17 PM on 11/23/2011
All those stock photos of "families" makes me want to gag.
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Sheriff J W Pepper
09:51 PM on 11/23/2011
Even if it mean faking it?
Like a lot of people do?
09:01 PM on 11/23/2011
I call BS on 'high testosterone leads to prostate cancer'. If high testosterone leads to prostate cancer, why isn't it a disease of young men, who have it, rather than old men, who don't. Apparently it's just PC to bash T. It's low testosterone in males that is associated with violence, heart disease, and a spate of other ills. Respect for the science of testosterone is equivalent to conservative's respect for the science fo climate change.
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jf12
Esta vez saldré como las otras y me escaparé.
01:11 AM on 11/24/2011
The study deliberately didn't control for the amount of sex. New fathers have much less sex, which makes the testosterone go down.
08:17 PM on 11/23/2011
So in summary, we all become women and that is good. Chickification.
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WilmaJune
04:23 PM on 11/23/2011
Another fluff article to make married people with children feel good.
08:55 PM on 11/24/2011
not really.. I'm not one of them. my kid drives me nuts at times, lol
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Terri Lorz
12:07 PM on 11/23/2011
Wonderful insights - Terri Jo Lorz
10:45 AM on 11/23/2011
Wow this is true. Sometimes we take our families for granted. Also it's hard to feel the connection when people are so far away and busy with their own lives. But the truth is that coming together, no matter how often, can really promote healing for us. It is just ironic because sometimes the people closest to us are also the ones who can hurt us the most.
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David4FreePress
I am a volunteer, Tong Ren distant energy healer.
10:32 AM on 11/23/2011
All but one of these point to the concept that we are energetically connected and especially to the fact the the mental development of children is best stimulated by strong energy connections to parents and siblings.