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Larry King Murder: Gay Teen's Death Illustrates Schools' Challenge

Larry King Gay Student Murder

By GREG RISLING   11/24/11 10:42 AM ET   AP

LOS ANGELES -- There were many missed opportunities to prevent the murder of a 15-year-old gay student at E.O. Green Junior High School in Oxnard.

Teachers and students saw a simmering feud between Brandon McInerney and Larry King but said they were either ignored by administrators or did little or nothing to intervene. King's mother said she pleaded with school officials to help tone down her son's increasingly flamboyant behavior. One teacher encouraged King to explore his sexuality and gave him a dress.

Nearly four years after McInerney, then 14, shot King in the head before stunned classmates, plenty of questions remain about what went wrong and what can be learned to prevent future tragedies.

King's death illustrates the difficulty schools have balancing a gay student's civil rights with teaching tolerance to those who feel threatened by or uncomfortable about someone who's different. It also highlighted the importance of setting clear policies to eliminate confusion among educators.

"Something was brewing and lots of people were uncomfortable and people didn't know what to do and where to turn," said Eliza Byard, executive director of the Gay, Lesbian & Straight Education Network. "It reflects a profound inability for the adults to provide them with support and intervene when problems are developing."

McInerney, 17, pleaded guilty this week to second-degree murder and two other counts for killing King, which will send him to prison for 21 years. He's scheduled to be sentenced next month.

McInerney had reached an emotional breaking point after King made repeated, unwanted sexual advances toward him and other boys, defense lawyers said. In the weeks leading up to the shooting, school administrators allowed King to wear heels and makeup because federal law provides the right of students to express their sexual orientation.

King's mother, Dawn King, said she met with school officials four days before the February 2008 shooting hoping they would help tone down her son's behavior. She said she was told King had a civil right to explore his sexual identity.

"I knew, gut instinct, that something serious was going to happen," she told the Los Angeles Times on Monday. "They should have contained him, contained his behavior."

Hueneme School District Superintendent Jerry Dannenberg told The Associated Press he was not aware of that meeting. He said an outside investigator hired after the shooting determined there was no wrongdoing by any of the teachers or staff.

"I believe the staff did what they were supposed to do," Dannenberg said, calling it a horrific event. "If we could have changed it, we would have done it."

One teacher said she gave King her daughter's homecoming dress. Another said he did nothing when King paraded around in makeup and high heels in front of McInerney the day before the shooting because he assumed a school administrator who had watched what was going on would take care of the situation.

Some teachers also testified their concerns weren't addressed by school officials when they tried to report escalating tensions between the two teens, something Dannenberg denied.

Some observers said school districts have focused too much on meeting academic standards.

"I think schools need to take two to three steps back and look how we get along with each other as part of what they teach," said Ron Astor, a professor in social work at the University of Southern California. "It's all about academics these days and the social aspect is pushed aside."

Byard's organization has created an anti-bullying policy and training to identify harassment. They hope school districts across the nation will employ those efforts.

Last week, the group released a guide for school districts to adopt or modify policies dealing with transgender and gender nonconforming students.

"The cost of not acting when bullying and harassment occurs is astronomical," Byard said. "We lost two people because of the failure to act."

Testimony during the trial centered on McInerney's growing rage toward King. Prosecutors said at least six people heard McInerney make threats against King in the days before the shooting, including one who said the teen told him he planned to kill King.

Astor said schools need to do a better job informing students that they won't get in trouble or be ignored if they report possible threats.

"Had students felt comfortable to let an adult know he said he was going to kill somebody, I think this child's life could have been saved," Astor said.

King's family has settled a wrongful death lawsuit against the school district, McInerney, a gay rights organization, a shelter and others. The suit claimed that everyone from King's teacher to his social worker failed to urge the effeminate teen to tone down flamboyant behavior.

Most details of the settlement were kept confidential. The Ventura County Star reported the majority of the settlement – just over $200,000 – was paid by a homeowner's insurance policy held by McInerney's grandfather. Dannenberg said the district's payout amounted to "peanuts, really."

Since the shooting, counselors at the junior high help students deal with their anger and offer group sessions.

A bill introduced by Rep. Jared Polis, D-Colo., is pending before the House Education and Workforce Committee that would prohibit discrimination in public schools against lesbian and gay students.

If passed, violating the Student Non-Discrimination Act could lead to districts losing federal funding. Polis said he had King and other teens like him in mind when he wrote the bill.

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lambdin1
What's this?
01:59 PM on 12/05/2011
Education has changed so much since I was in high school. We all need to lean how to get along or be tolerant of one another. It starts at home. Not in school. I understand this over riding desire to keep up with the Joneses and/or just try to make ends meet. But our children come first! We must instill values that preclude bullying, lying, cheating, stealing, etc. and all this starts in the home. Teachers have a lot to do besides teach. But parents are utimately responsible!
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iLdoRight
Encouraging The Rightest Rightness
05:45 AM on 11/30/2011
Any parent who allows their child to take on a "sexual persona" in their primary public school education years is not being a "good parent", "Hollywood" flaunts the "fame" image and hypes it to the hilt. "Flaming" is a self hype that can be very offensive. There was a beautiful girl in High School that was always flaunting her sexuality as if to see how many flies she could catch. It was so annoying. I understand how getting attention can be addictive and I understand how annoying it can be to be around someone who is always trying to work the crowd. Though I am not a person who enjoys having aggressive thoughts against another, to make a point on abusive self promotion being offensive, there is a commercial that is flooding the TV commercial spots that has me thinking that if I happened to bump into the offensive person in the process of making another commercial on a sidewalk and I had a golf club in my possession I might have an urge to see what kind of distance I could get on his head, of course I wouldn't but I know the thought would be there, because it is here now. I have determined that because of how that commercial offends me I will probably never buy one of that product, at least not new just because they have made me hate them so much with their repeated variations of appeal by the same individual.
07:40 PM on 11/28/2011
I am extremely concerned about the language that it was King's responsibility to tone down his effeminate ways. The language of this article is offensive describing King "parading around in makeup and heels". King was the victim. Being himself is not the cause. Shouldn't the focus be on teaching tolerance?
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thereisonlyoneparty
more amazing than you
12:46 AM on 11/30/2011
Read more about this story.

According to teachers, students, and parents King had free rein at his school.  He could act out for attention in defiance of established school rules.

He sounds like a total d-person.

The world is probably better off without him.  Not that murder is acceptable.  But this victim did seem to deserve it.
03:33 PM on 11/28/2011
It doesn't matter why this boy shot another student. Why did he have a gun and why did he choose to murder the kid? There is no rational explanation for murder. And I'm not getting the mom's response according to this story. She wanted people to help tone down her son's flamboyant behavior? Seriously? Is she referencing his choice in clothing and make-up or his choice to come on to boys who didn't want his attention? The school should have stepped in if there was sexual harrassment happening. If some guy (or girl) was harrassing one of my kids, gay or straight, then you better believe I'm down at the school knocking heads together. And if my kid was harrassing someone else - then there would be serious repurcussions at home. Not because of their orientation or flamboyancy. But because they were harming someone else.
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shanec90
Thought.
11:31 AM on 11/28/2011
Headline 1: Woman Shoots Man After Repeated Unwanted Advances
"He kept putting his hand up my skirt," she said in an interview.

Headline 2; High School Student Shoots Gay Classmate After Repeated Unwanted Advances.
"He kept trying to touch me," straight student said in an interview.

We identify with the woman's conundrum, if not with her chosen solution. We dismiss the straight student as a homophobic psychopath and put him in jail for the rest of his life.
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Bill1966
Where is your towel?
07:47 PM on 11/30/2011
Right? If they can't take no for an answer, tough...
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Gregory Howell
Emergency Medicine Physician
08:32 AM on 11/28/2011
I am disturbed that so many people accept for fact a defense "argument" that the gay boy was taunting and harassing other boys in school. Look at his picture. Does he appear to be an aggressive in-your-face person? I thought everyone knew that outright lying is an acceptable defense argument in our shoddy legal system, that winning is everything and, though most Americans disagree, the end justifies the means.

Blaming the victim is never okay.
03:34 PM on 11/28/2011
You can tell by looking at someone how they will behave?
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Gregory Howell
Emergency Medicine Physician
04:28 AM on 11/29/2011
Can't you?
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thereisonlyoneparty
more amazing than you
12:50 AM on 11/30/2011
Ignoring the faults and problems of the victim is not okay either.

The kid who died was by many accounts a d-person who sexually harrassed other students and went to great lengths to be the focus of attention (to the point where he was a disruption to the learning process).

What tends to happen here is that people ignore the faults of the victim to martyrize that person.  It happened with that Phoebe Price girl as well.   It seems that it always happens.  The victim becomes Bambi and the perpetrator is the guy that shoots Bambi.  Or the rabbit.  Or whoever dies in Bambi.
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Richrdh
03:32 AM on 11/28/2011
Where were their parents?
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Bill1966
Where is your towel?
07:49 PM on 11/30/2011
Parents don't go to school.
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lateralus1983
Like a scrotum here it is in a nutshell.
01:29 AM on 11/28/2011
"Nearly four years after McInerney, then 14, shot King in the head before stunned classmates, plenty of questions remain about what went wrong and what can be learned to prevent future tragedies."

Is it realy that difficult to figure out for people? Here are two simple things to prevent this kind of thing from happening in the future;

1. Don't raise your children to hate.
2. School administrators need to administrate, this means growing a backbone.

That's it. Pretty simple.
mothergrace
If they knock you down, bite 'em on the ankle.
08:33 PM on 11/27/2011
In all of these cases I see a deplorable lack of will on the part of the adults concerned to do what is necessary to prevent an extreme act by kids. The kids are paying the price.

Harassment is harassment and I don't care who is doing it, it should be stopped. In this case, the teachers had no right to give this student dresses. They were inserting themselves into the emotional development of this teen with, I am sure, little or no understanding of the processes that take place as a someone finds their way to the core of who they are sexually. Instead, especially since this boy was allowed to taunt other boys, they seemed to feel it was some kind of game.

Blatant sexual advances, wanted and especially unwanted, are not allowed at school so what was going on here?

All kids regardless of who they are or sexual orientation have to be taught to respect their fellow students and if someone is behaving improperly, they need to be taken through the disciplinary steps at the school.

As for the mom, well, if it had been me, I would have kept my son home until he clearly understood that he was not in any way to harass, bully or taunt his fellow students especially if I thought there was any danger.
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05:57 PM on 11/27/2011
The guy over-reacted by shooting, but the reality is he was being sexually harassed by the gay teen(and reports said he harassed other guys). No one is covering that aspect. Had this been a guy sexually harassing a girl, i doubt there would be a big media outcry and possibly either a much reduced or no sentence for the girl.
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10:45 PM on 11/27/2011
Had King harassed McInerney, the proper response would have been to let the principal know. McInerney should have been disciplined, not killed.

Now for the $64k question. If the media did not cover this, how are you aware of it? Read about it in some undependable blog?
03:12 AM on 11/28/2011
Say King had been a straight guy making a bunch of unwanted advances on girls, my guess is none of them would have shot him in the first place. To some extent, I think King being killed had to do with him being gay and McInerney not wanting another male hitting on him, not just that the sexual advances were unwanted period. If McInerney had been a girl being harassed by a guy, I just really don't see the scenario playing out the same way.

But let's say that it did, and we have a girl on trial for killing a boy who was sexually harassing her. While I think the media would be sympathetic if say he had raped her, I seriously doubt anyone would side with her for killing someone just because he was harassing her. And come on, do you really think there's a chance that there would be no sentence for the girl? Possibly reduced, because in the case of King's death it really does seem to be bordering on a hate crime and if McInerney had been a girl there wouldn't be that added charge, but I think it's ridiculous to think that this hypothetical girl would just get away with murder just because she's a girl.
04:20 PM on 11/27/2011
There is a great deal about this story that is more than a little upsetting. The note ....' teaching tolerance to those who feel threatened by or uncomfortable about someone who's different.' how about the Muslim's, whites, blacks, Mexican; etc who make us feel uncomfortable?? Do we get to pick and choose? Last I heard these were hate crimes. How about: ' ...observers said school districts have focused too much on meeting academic standards. Hello!! It's a school. Their business is education. Was this child taken to a psychiarist to help him deal with his flamboyant behavior? Did his parents go the school on a daily basis to see what was going on? It's just sad that 2 young people will never be productive citizens.
03:56 PM on 11/27/2011
The shooter deserves to go to prison. That young man did not deserve that. However the officials dropped the ball when a student was making unwanted sexual advances towards another student and it was not addressed with the parents of both teens, and even after the mother of the victim ASKED for help. If this had been a girl and a young man were doing this, you can believe they would have moved at the speed of light. With the young man acting like a female, wearing makeup, and female clothing they were more concerned with political correctness, rather than merely placing both males in different classes. A life lost.
05:54 PM on 11/27/2011
right on the mark, part of this article seems to imply that King used his sexuality to bully the shooter. So is this the result of two bullies not being properly disiplined?
mothergrace
If they knock you down, bite 'em on the ankle.
03:44 PM on 11/27/2011
In all of these case I see a deplorable lack of will on the part of the adults concerned to do what is necessary to prevent an extreme act by kids. The kids are paying the price.

Harassment is harassment and I don't care who is doing it, it should be stopped. In this case, the teachers had no right to give this student dresses. They were inserting themselves into the emotional development of this teen with, I am sure, little or no understanding of the processes that take place as a someone finds their way to the core of who they are sexually. Instead, especially since this boy was allowed to taunt other boys, they seemed to feel it was some kind of game.

Blatant sexual advances, wanted and especially unwanted, are not allowed at school so what was going on here?

All kids regardless of who they are or sexual orientation have to be taught to respect their fellow students and if someone is behaving improperly, they need to be taken through the disciplinary steps at the school.

As for the mom, well, if it had been me, I would have kept my son home until he clearly understood that he was not in any way to harass, bully or taunt his fellow students especially if I thought there was any danger.
02:52 PM on 11/27/2011
I can't believe how many people think that all of this could have been avoided if King had just toned it down. A 15 year old kid gets killed, and your response is he shouldn't have been wearing heels and makeup in the first place? And even if he was hitting on his uninterested male classmates, how is that a justifiable reason for him to be killed? He was 15, being killed was not his fault, and there's no excuse for what happened to him.
mothergrace
If they knock you down, bite 'em on the ankle.
08:39 PM on 11/27/2011
Who said it was justifiable? But the point is in every other case of bullying, the bully is criticized for bullying and the school officials are condemned for not stepping in.

It does not matter who has done the bullying, the fact of the matter is that bullies should be stopped and the targets of bullying should be helped.

If the adults had been doing what they were supposed to be doing, this kid would not have been shot and killed.
02:50 AM on 11/28/2011
I've heard a great deal of people in the comments section saying things such as King "brought it on himself." If that's not trying to justify what McInerney did, then what is it?

And you're calling King the bully in this scenario when McInerney was the one who shot and killed him? Yes, if McInerney was really being harassed to the extent that the defense lawyers claim, then school officials should have stepped in. But I think it's a bit much to blame them for King being shot and killed. McInerney killing King does not strike me as a bully victim finally standing up for himself; it strikes me as a hate crime. When kids are being bullied, they resort to a lot of unfortunate things, from dropping out of school to committing suicide, but committing murder is not something you do because you're sick of being harassed, it's something you do because you want another person dead.

As for what the school should have done differently, I definitely agree with you that somebody should have helped McInerney, since we was clearly unstable and felt threatened by King. But I just don't understand why the article is saying that the problem had anything to do with King's "increasingly flamboyant behavior." Sorry, but the article makes it sound like a teacher giving King a dress somehow lead to McInerney murdering him. I just don't see how what this teacher did was wrong.
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Sam D man
I'm not always right but I'm not always wrong.
02:28 PM on 11/27/2011
When I was in middle school I remember instances when kids would tease each other about their sexual orientation.A brawl would brake up and after some one would end up with a couple teeths missing, a black eye. By time kids reached high school every one knew who was of what sexual inclination. But I don't remember some one ever getting killed over it.Several years ago ( 10 or 12 ) on the Jenny Jones show ( 1995 ) there was an incident similar to this.Some back wood brawd was gonna hook her best friend ( male ) up with a secret admirer.This secret admirer happend to be a homosexual.And the out come was similar to this story.