My Week With 'Michelle'?

My Week With Marilyn Michelle Williams

  Posted: 11/28/11 03:27 PM ET

By David Haglund
(Click here for original article)

If you lingered at all over the print advertisements for "My Week With Marilyn" in The New York Times (and, I suspect, other papers) this past post-Thanksgiving weekend, you know that the movie’s star, who plays Marilyn Monroe, is getting raves. "Michelle is luminous," says movie-poster staple Peter Travers in Rolling Stone. "Michelle is ravishing," proclaims Leonard Maltin. "Michelle makes the star come alive," declares David Denby in The New Yorker.

Except, of course, none of them says those things. Not exactly. No major film critic would refer to an actor in a review by her first name -- even if a critic wanted to, he'd have to take it up with an editor: Publications have style guides when it comes to such things, and using someone's surname (sometimes preceded by a title like "Mr." or "Ms.," as in The New York Times) is generally considered the respectful thing to do. Thus, "Williams makes the star come alive" is what David Denby actually wrote. The other two critics were misquoted more aggressively: Travers's actual words were "The luminous Michelle Williams goes bone-deep here," while Maltin said Williams "convinces us that she is that ravishing, impossible, heartbreaking figure we've all read so much about."

Misquoting critics for advertising purposes is nothing new, of course. (For one thing, film critics are not actually addicted to exclamation points.) Movie studios and distributors can be shamed into dropping an egregious misquotation, but the ones I've checked from the Marilyn ad are not fraudulent, really: The critics do think Williams is terrific. The charge I'm tempted to levy at the advertisers in this case is not dishonesty but sexism.

Now, I realize what the film's advertisers are up to here: They want us to conflate Michelle Williams with Marilyn Monroe. Fair enough: That's what the actress tries to do on screen. And Marilyn Monroe is better known by her first name -- hence the title of the movie. (The ad execs must have been giddy that their star’s first name also begins with an "M.") But addressing a woman by her first name rather than her last has a long and unfortunate history. And it's not as though the practice has faded into the benighted past, either: During the last presidential campaign, many people noticed that Hillary Clinton and Sarah Palin were far more likely to receive the first-name treatment than Barack Obama and John McCain. The double standard also pops up regularly on TV. And the Marilyn ads do engage in the double standard: "Michelle is extraordinary. Branagh is hilarious." So says Lou Lumenick, supposedly, in The New York Post. Travers, we're told, says "Branagh is superb."

Using simply "Marilyn" in the movie's title makes sense: Monroe was one of those rare celebrities on a first-name basis with the world. She was also often unfairly reduced to a girlish sex object -- and the fact that everyone called her simply "Marilyn" can’t be entirely untangled from that treatment. If the trailer for "My Week With Marilyn" is any indication, the new movie attempts to examine the tension between that public identity and Monroe's more private self. So it seems unfortunate that, in its advertising, those putting out the film have opted to echo, however inadvertently, the kind of sexism that the movie itself appears determined to explore.

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By David Haglund (Click here for original article) If you lingered at all over the print advertisements for "My Week With Marilyn" in The New York Times (and, I suspect, other papers) this past po...
By David Haglund (Click here for original article) If you lingered at all over the print advertisements for "My Week With Marilyn" in The New York Times (and, I suspect, other papers) this past po...
 
 
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01:47 AM on 11/30/2011
Hillary Clinton is the perfect example why calling a woman by her first name makes good sense in Western culture. If we just called her Clinton, it would seem like we are referring to her presidential hubby. Hillary Clinton was Hillary since birth as Hillary Rodham. Using a given name might be slightly infantilizing, but it gets to the point faster. Why would advertisers call the actor "Williams" when it doesn't evoke Marilyn's persona the way "Michelle" does?
06:57 PM on 11/29/2011
So.. who care?
If i were in a movie they could use first or last name with as many exclamation marks as they desired. People really have enough time to get riled up about this?
Its her name, they are not referring to her as 'sex kitten'
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lthrnck68
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06:07 PM on 11/29/2011
The real question is - why should we care about Marilyn Monroe enough to go see this biopic?
03:34 PM on 11/29/2011
The truth is, there is indeed a sexist differentiation by gender. We see it particularly in sports. McEnroe faced Connors while Chrissy played Martina. Still the way it is. Watch the next tennis event. The announcers will say Nadal, Federer and Djokovic while saying Serena, Venus and Maria. Just because it's sexist doesn't necessarily mean it's a negative... but face it, of course there's an unintentional sweetening and familiarizing of someone by referring to them routinely by their first name. In general, we call kids by their first names, adults by their last. Additionally, grown women are much more often called "girls" than grown men are called "boys". Even at the highest levels of politics you see it. Obama ran against Hillary, remember? But this isn't necessarily the fault of men... women do it as well to each other. Hillary Clinton had "Hillary" posters. So while we may not all be aware of it, we do tend to call women "girls" and use their first names much more than we call men "boys" or use their first names. If it's offensive or diminishing to women as a whole, then maybe we should all try to avoid doing it. Just a thought.
11:29 AM on 11/29/2011
I see absolutely nothing wrong with this. In fact, I can't even begin to imagine where the insult comes in. I would rather be called by my first name than my last. My last name could be anyone's, so unless both my first and last names are used together, calling me by my first name is what I prefer. Just because a man, or anyone else for that matter, calls a woman by her first name does mean he is disrespectful to women or thinks less of them. Get over yourselves, people.
11:30 AM on 11/29/2011
oops, sorry, I meant *does NOT mean he is disrespectful...*
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AZZXX
10:45 AM on 11/29/2011
In our repressed society, celebrating a woman's sexuality is considered taboo. I guess the film should advertise the stars cooking dinner while wearing an apron or washing laundry and sticking to the role they think women should play in society.
10:20 AM on 11/29/2011
I can't believe anyone is actually surprised about a man hating femminist article on Huffingtonpost. That's pretty much how they roll. Didn't you know according to them, EVERYTHING IS SEXIST AGAINST WOMEN? Men are the devil! lol
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AZZXX
10:43 AM on 11/29/2011
Not sure what the origin of your anger is but I hope you get the help you need.
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Katie Wray
04:29 PM on 11/29/2011
where'd you read anything close to "man hating." the gentleman doth protest too much.
09:44 AM on 11/29/2011
Does EVERYTHING have to be an effin' issue anymore??
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acarioti
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09:37 AM on 11/29/2011
Sexist - No. Sexy - Yes.
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artist5153
08:56 AM on 11/29/2011
I had a comment--but then I read the first few comments and realized my case had already been made. If the writer can show me that Ms. Williams is personally upset by the use of her first name in the advertising, well then...but I kinda doubt it. Let's get on to more important matters...
11:30 AM on 11/29/2011
thank you! well said
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Eric Israel Fogelgaren
08:39 AM on 11/29/2011
We are certainly reaching unprecedently high levels of hypersensitivity. This is clearly the opinion of a person who, as uncle Leo in Seinfeld, is looking for an antisemite when his soup is too hot. How about toning down the hyperbole so we can actually have some meaningful dialogue about real discrimination and harrasment.
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07:33 AM on 11/29/2011
Define what you mean by 'sexist.' It appears to be a term that gets mis-used and over-used to cover any and all aspects of gender hypersensitivity.
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little wing
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01:04 AM on 11/29/2011
Perhaps women are more often referred to by their first names because they are more permanent than surnames.
01:38 PM on 11/30/2011
I agree with you on this. I also think that if you really wanted to stretch it, that using a woman's surname could be considered sexist because it links her to the man where she got her name. Single women and married women alike on this because, unless you've legally changed your name to whatever you want it to be to get away from your family name/married name, your name was given to you because of a man. The whole thing seems silly that anyone would get that up in arms about a movie, and an amzing actress who received great reviews.
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KOisGod
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06:46 PM on 11/28/2011
Saw Michelle Williams and the producers and director of this on Charlie Rose. She has got the looks AND the smarts! She's really quite amazing.
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evestar
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02:13 PM on 11/29/2011
yes she is! I think she is the female James Dean.
06:00 PM on 11/28/2011
David Haglund's next article: "Why Are Black Olives in a Can and Green Olives in a Jar?: The Truth About Hidden Racism in our Grocery Stores"
06:05 PM on 11/28/2011
hehe, thats very funny :)
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little wing
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01:08 AM on 11/29/2011
hehehe.