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Mindy McCready Custody Battle: Singer's 5-Year-Old Son Taken By Authorities

TAMARA LUSH   12/ 3/11 06:55 PM ET   AP

ST. PETERSBURG, Fla. — By the time Arkansas authorities took country singer Mindy McCready's 5-year-old son from her and into custody on Friday evening, one thing had already become apparent to many in America: McCready's life has come to resemble a bad country song.

Since her emergence in the mid-1990s as a honey-voiced success story out of Nashville, McCready has been increasingly known for her personal foibles instead of her music.

This week's custody battle was the latest in a long saga of personal heartache and brushes with the law.

Florida Department of Children and Families spokeswoman Terri Durdaller wrote in an email Saturday that her agency was working with Arkansas state officials to bring McCready's son, Zander, back to her legal guardian in Florida. His maternal grandmother has been Zander's guardian since 2007.

Officials say he's safe and in good health.

"Zander is in Arkansas and we continue to arrange his swift arrival back to Florida," Durdaller wrote.

In Arkansas, Cleburne County Sheriff Marty Moss said Saturday that McCready didn't have permission to be in the unoccupied summer home where she was found Friday evening with her son. Authorities continue to investigate the matter, he said.

The sheriff's office said in a news release Saturday that it was known McCready had been a visitor to the area and that deputies were working with the U.S. Marshals Service to see if the singer might be there. Authorities located McCready after receiving a report of "possible occupants in a summer home that was supposed to be unoccupied," the news release said.

Authorities said officers entered the home and found McCready and her son in a bedroom closet. A man, David Wilson, was also in the residence. Moss said neither had permission to be in the residence, but neither was arrested at the time.

Moss told the Associated Press on Saturday that the house where all three were found is next door to one where Wilson has stayed in the past. He said he doesn't know if McCready is still in the area and doesn't expect that she will face any charges for being at the unoccupied home.

"I don't expect that to happen," Moss said.

Gayle Inge, Zander's grandmother and McCready's mother, was tearful when she talked about the news by phone Friday night with The Associated Press.

"I'm real excited that he's safe," she said. "But I can't explain what this is like. We feel for Mindy and we feel for Zander."

Inge said that her son – McCready's half-brother – texted McCready, who responded with a text that said her mother would never see her again.

"I want to wrap my arms around her and tell her that I love her," Inge said.

McCready, who turned 36 on Wednesday, did not respond to emails Friday and Saturday.

The weekend developments capped a days-long struggle between McCready and several others, including state of Florida child welfare authorities, a Fort Myers, Fla. judge and her own mother.

Authorities say McCready took the boy during a visit late last month to her father's southwest Florida home, where she was allowed to visit the boy. McCready's parents are divorced.

A Florida judge signed an order Thursday telling authorities to take the boy into custody and return him. It's not yet clear whether the singer could face criminal charges.

McCready said earlier in the week that she would not bring her son back from Tennessee, where she has a home, despite violating the custody arrangement. She told the AP that her son had suffered abuse at her mother's house, a claim that Inge vehemently denies.

"I'm doing all this to protect Zander, not stay out of trouble," McCready wrote in an email to the AP on Thursday. "I don't think I should be in trouble for protecting my son in the first place."

McCready told the AP Wednesday night she was in Tennessee and couldn't travel because she is seven months pregnant with twins.

The boy's father, Billy McKnight, told NBC's "Today" show Friday he spoke on the phone with McCready and their boy after the judge's Thursday deadline expired.

"He did sound healthy and OK. He wasn't crying or scared," McKnight said about their son.

"I think she believes she has a case and doesn't realize she's pushing her luck on this one," he said.

McCready and her mother have had a long custody battle over the boy, who was living with McCready's mother.

The singer had provided a series of emails to the AP with Lee County Judge James Seals' ruling to return the boy.

"Mom has violated the court's custody order and we are simply restoring the child back into our custody," the judge wrote. "Nothing more. Nothing less. The court makes no judgment about whether Mom will or will not competently care for the child while in her custody. It only wants the child back where the court placed him."

McCready found fame in the mid-1990s when she moved to Nashville at the age of 18, armed with only her karaoke tapes. Her first album, "Ten Thousand Angels," sold two million copies.

Her next four albums weren't as successful. Her personal troubles began encroaching on her professional success. According to her website, she suffers from severe depression.

McCready fought the release of a tape in which she reportedly talked about former Boston Red Sox and New York Yankees pitcher Roger Clemens, with whom she had an affair as a teenager.

In August, she filed a libel suit against her mother and the National Enquirer's parent company, American Media Inc., over a story published in the tabloid newspaper that quoted Inge.

And in 2008, McCready was admitted to a hospital after police said she cut her wrists and took several pills in a suicide attempt.

During the TV show "Celebrity Rehab 3" in 2010, McCready came off as a sympathetic figure, and host Dr. Drew Pinsky called her an angel in the season finale.

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02:01 PM on 12/06/2011
Previously, I had commended these grandparents, yet the news this morning makes me wonder. MM's grandmother has spoken about the beatings with a wooden spoon that the 5 year old has had to endure, "enough to where I wonder if his bones would break" that was given to him by his grandparents. Their reply was "social services have checked periodically and nothing was wrong"

So sad that they could not state that it was false, that they don't hit their grandson. He is in foster care still, so maybe they can question him to see what is really going on.
09:16 AM on 12/06/2011
Inge you are so not telling the turth. Why must you do this to Zander and Mindy?
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12:10 PM on 12/05/2011
She really needs help. What did she think would happen!? You can't behave this way and expect to regain custody of a child. When she tried to kill herself she sealed her fate on the custody of her son but thats just my opinion.
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08:58 PM on 12/04/2011
This poor woman really needs help, now more than ever.
06:30 PM on 12/04/2011
Mindy McCready has allways been know for her drug use and mental issues. It does not come as a big surprise to me that the State took the child away and gave full custody to the child's grandmother. I am amazed at some of the posters defending this woman. Mother and father have been given direction by the court, only the father is taking the steps that the court ordered to gain custody of the child. Mindy McCready needs to wake up and grow up.
09:17 AM on 12/06/2011
The state investigated but it was Mindy's mother who TOOK Zander. Mindy was cooperating with the plan the state had in place - you really should not speak unless you know the facts. I have seen documents. There is a movement of mothers who are targeted by the state or abusers (just like Mindy except she was targeted by both an abuser and the state).
01:26 PM on 12/06/2011
Mothers on Trial (Lawrence Hill Books, an imprint of Chicago Review Press, 9781556529993) received a STARRED review in the June 15, 2011 issue of Library Journal (circ. 18,465). They call the book, "fresh, [with] timely content" and say, “Heavily documenting her book with legal precedent, expert input, and studies, Chesler makes her case with all of her zeal intact.” The full review can be read below.

*Chesler, Phyllis. Mothers on Trial: The Battle for Children and Custody. 2d ed. Lawrence Hill: Chicago Review, dist. by IPG. Jul. 2011. c.512p. bibliog. ISBN 9781556529993. pap. $18.95. Law

In this new edition of her 1986 groundbreaking book, Chesler, a psychotherapist and women’s studies scholar, retires dated material and adds eight new chapters. By supporting her original contentions with new cases, the author demonstrates again that despite commonly held notions, courtroom custody battles continue to victimize mothers and their children, too often favoring fathers who are abusive, neglectful, or otherwise unfit.
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What the what?
02:08 PM on 12/04/2011
She is one ***ed up chick. Is she going to be allowed to keep the twins she's having? The thought of her having them is scary to me.
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07:23 AM on 12/04/2011
She is expecting twins, who is gonna care for these two?? The father, the grandparents?
05:36 PM on 12/04/2011
I hope not her. This is nothing new to Mindy McCready
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06:27 PM on 12/04/2011
probably her mother, like in this case.
04:22 AM on 12/04/2011
Poor little boy! He definitely belongs with his grandma - perhaps for good. I think Mindy has some substantial probs in life. Ones that a little boy shouldn't have to endure.
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Dahveed1
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03:09 AM on 12/04/2011
Wow, what a confusing mess. I still don't know if I understand it all.
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08:34 AM on 12/04/2011
I'm with you. The only take away: I feel sorry for the little guy; it must be absolutely confusing and not a little scary.
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Dahveed1
Rational discussion is the basis of a democracy.
09:40 AM on 12/04/2011
Yes, the kids always pay the price for adults behaving poorly.
11:10 AM on 12/04/2011
Deadbeat mom has a drug problem, she has been arrested a number of times for various crimes. The mother has mental issues and has tried to commit suicide more than once. Florida has given custody to the childs grandmother, the father of the child is doing what the courts have asked him to do and will end up with custody. Mindy keeps violating court orders. Mindy is now trying a false abuse claim againts her mother to try and get custody of her child, the courts didnt buy her false claim.
12:42 AM on 12/04/2011
This woman has no business having any more children..she obviously can't care for the one she has and now twins..geez
10:38 PM on 12/03/2011
goodness, why doesn't she just move in w/ her folks. surely she has some fame and talent she cashed in on.
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07:06 PM on 12/03/2011
Some people should not procreate ..............seems she is one of them.....plus....the mom who had her 200# ( 8 year old) taken away.

I am 43 years old..........no kids.....because i am aware of the fact, that i would be a horrible father.
07:55 PM on 12/03/2011
Im sure you would be a good father. You cant be like mothers now a days. They kill there children and sexually abuse them. Look at this Mother. Drug addict violates court orders tryed to commit suicide. Im glad the courts took her kids away.
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12:20 AM on 12/04/2011
Fathers kill their children and sexually abuse them, too. Funny that you are silent when such a situation occurs.
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08:35 AM on 12/04/2011
yikes
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10:31 PM on 12/03/2011
The state is a pretty crappy parent too
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08:35 AM on 12/04/2011
Agree.
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05:16 PM on 12/03/2011
Mindy McCready didn't deserve what happened to her. This is just judges thinking that they have the right to rip families apart. This judge needs to be jailed for contempt.
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mslindac
06:02 PM on 12/03/2011
Are you aware of her history with drugs and alcohol?
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09:48 PM on 12/03/2011
She reformed when she was on Pinsky's Celebrity Rehab.
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reading2009
Down the rabbit hole and through the looking glass
06:25 PM on 12/03/2011
Not really got the best grasp of the law, huh?
05:00 PM on 12/03/2011
In the absence of a court order determining rights of custody or visitation to a child, a person having a right of custody of the child commits the crime of parental kidnapping if he removes, takes, detains, conceals, or entices away that child within or without the state, without good cause, and with the intent to deprive the custody right of another person or a public agency also having a custody right to that child. The following a a federal law governing parental kidnapping:

http://definitions.uslegal.com/p/parental-kidnapping/
05:52 PM on 12/04/2011
mdipary you are correct. I am sure an arrest in in the near future.
04:36 PM on 12/03/2011
One of two things could happen. #1 Mindy has made a false abuse claim to obtain custody of her child. #2 Mindys mother is a violent abusive mother. Those are the only two things that could happen
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06:04 PM on 12/03/2011
Mindy's been arrested over and over for drugs and has done time in jail. There's way more than two things that could have happened.
06:58 PM on 12/03/2011
I dont want to think she would kill her child but it has happen. Yes you are right there is way more she could do.