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Courtney Stodden's Anti-Bullying Message (VIDEO)

First Posted: 12/05/11 12:21 PM ET Updated: 12/05/11 07:40 PM ET

Courtney Stodden says she knows what it's like to be bullied. Even before she became a child bride, the upcoming recording artist and model, aspiring actress, dancer, and TV show hostess (she hosted a public access show called 'The Courtney Stodden Show'), posted a video on YouTube in 2010, on dealing with "criticism, hatred and jealousies."

In an interview with the FABlife, Stodden offers advice to others who find themselves being bullied:

"My advice to victims of bullies would be: victims, you need to realize that it's not [you]. It's the bully who's picking on them. It's their problem. There's nothing wrong with the victim. They're perfect, they're beautiful, and they need to stay true to themselves. Not just because someone who isn't true to themselves is picking on you. They need to think about that, realize that and embrace the truth."

Although a bit incoherent, there is a positive message in there somewhere, and Stodden appears to speak from experience. Her mother told ABC News that Courtney turned to home schooling at the age of 16 after being bullied by other girls.

In her 2010 PSA, Courtney reads out some of the comments she dealt with from haters in her hometown -- and this was well before she became known as 51-year-old Doug Hutchison's 16-year-old bride.

"You're hurting my eyes, get a life. Not doing this though, it's not what you were meant to do. You were meant to be killed. You scare me so much. Get a facejob, go back to school and don't be so stupid. This is horrible why would you torture people like this?"

If Stodden was dealing with local bullies back then telling her she was "meant to be killed," it's not hard to imagine how much hate she's dealing with now that she's really in the public eye.

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Courtney Stodden says she knows what it's like to be bullied. Even before she became a child bride, the upcoming recording artist and model, aspiring actress, dancer, and TV show hostess (she hosted a...
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01:58 AM on 12/11/2011
People are terribly jealous of you, it has been like that for me my entire life. I think another reason people gossip is for attention . They simply have nothing interesting to talk about.
10:19 AM on 12/09/2011
These whiners like Coutney Stodden and Lady Gaga make me sick. Come on, show some initiative people! Instead of complaining about bullies, you should be out there trying to become a bully yourself. Ya buncha liberal losers...
08:52 PM on 12/06/2011
This young girl is fundamentally delusional.
06:36 PM on 12/06/2011
Just do the porn shoot, and get it over with Courtney!
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snowmanjny
Real Americans believe in an educated opinion.
06:31 PM on 12/06/2011
What a horrible way to deliver her message. Yuck!
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shipfixr
I feel very strongly on BOTH sides of the issue..
06:31 PM on 12/06/2011
"Let me give you a message regarding bullying".....and, while you're getting it....check out these boobs! They're 'rill'
06:11 PM on 12/06/2011
why has my comment not been publishd?
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Tolms
It has teeth.
06:06 PM on 12/06/2011
Bah, I was reading this hoping for a laugh but what she said makes sense...I was assuming her advice was "stop eating, get a boob job, dye your hair blonde, sell your soul, marry your grandpa and you'll be FINE!"
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05:34 PM on 12/06/2011
Dear AOL - Huffington Post: I have wondered the last few weeks who in your company is behind have this 17 year old married woman appear almost every few days on the front page? Does someone at AOL have a financial interest in her promotion? She hasn't done a thing in our society or media except be a girl who married a B grade actor some 40 years older. Then, I keep reading about all these kids going missing and abused (sexually) and wonder why we have so many pedophiles. WHY is the media promoting underage (yes, she is now married to a man older than her father so it is OKAY, right?) girls in all these unbelieveably uncomfortable booby shots in bikinis that I can't feel comfortable with my teen son and husband seeing while I am online checking out AOL. Makes me want to consider going over to MSN or YAHOO.
Think about it..... just think about how we each contribute to society -- be it for the good or good for the pocket.
Thank you. I have wanted to say this for a few weeks.
07:43 PM on 12/06/2011
I have no idea who this girl is, but of course you're right - someone at AOL definitely has a stake in her career or lack thereof.

I used to admire Ariana Huffington. Now SHE is just another 'pig in the trough'...
08:35 PM on 12/06/2011
I also wonder this too....why is she on AOL so much.....I relaly don't think she is 17 or waht ever...if she is she lived a hard life........why are just depressing BAD stories on AOL...and why do they get a joy out of publicizing "Bad" news...and lastly quickly reporting embarrassing - degrading bad news on African American people........
05:21 PM on 12/06/2011
Courtney,
You should be very proud of your efforts here to expose bullying for what it really is.... sad but true. I thank you for sharing your experiences and am sorry you have to listen to people writing such hateful messages to you. You have a great head on your shoulders. Keep up the terrific work! Oh, and keep being beautiful you!
04:59 PM on 12/06/2011
Someone please call a doctor !!!!!!!!! very off, very!!!
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04:37 PM on 12/06/2011
I praise her. #CourtneyStodden rocks.
04:15 PM on 12/06/2011
Nothing about her seems "rill" to me, especially her doped-up valley-girl way of speech.
04:14 PM on 12/06/2011
I'm very confused by her first video. She keeps mentioning jealousy, so obviously this attention she is getting from bullies is spawning something in her brain to think that their harsh words are based on jealousy. The fact is, she is in the spotlight and she has openly placed herself in this position. Courtney might be a nice person, she might be real, and maybe she has been bullied, but bullying is being redefined by the Hollywood celebrities because the media bullies them. But that really is not bullying. I was bullied when I was a kid. Kids would chase me all the way home screaming at me. They made fun of me for being poor and awkward looking and having glasses and being flat chested. I was bullied and there are many other people out there who are bullied for real. Don't turn this bully "Epidemic" towards Hollywood. This is a real problem, but it's not an epidemic, it has been going on for a very long time and it has caused people to take their lives and have depression, but it has also made people stand up for themselves. That's what I did and that's what others should do who are really bullied. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself. If I was faced with my past bullies today, I would not be afraid of them, because back then when they were harassing me, they were the ones with problems, not me.
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I'm not bad, I'm just drawn that way.
09:20 PM on 12/09/2011
Well said Dana. And I'm sorry that you were bullied...F&F'd!!!
03:57 PM on 12/06/2011
Everything is Ril!
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scorpiascorpio
I'm not bad, I'm just drawn that way.
09:21 PM on 12/09/2011
For rill LOL