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Phone Sex Moms: In Tough Economic Times, More Mothers Turn To Sex Work

The Huffington Post   First Posted: 12/22/11 04:38 PM ET Updated: 12/22/11 04:38 PM ET

From baby talk ... to dirty talk? Although it might not seem like an obvious career choice, an increasing number of young moms are turning to the phone sex industry for employment.

ABC News reported that over the last year and a half, as the recession has continued to take a toll on employment opportunities, the number of women who have young children engaging in sex work has risen 400 percent. This figure comes from ratracerebellion.com, an organization dedicated to finding mothers at-home work. The numbers seem a bit shocking, but then again, hasn't sex work always been considered a "recession-proof" occupation?

According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics, as of November 2011 about 8.3 percent of women in the United States were unemployed, a number that has doubled since the recession hit in 2008. And desperate times lead to desperate measures. Parents, especially, can't afford to just scrape by -- they have more mouths to feed than their own.

Chris Durst, head of Ratracerebellion.com, told ABC's "Good Morning America" that many moms who reach out to her for help procuring phone sex work feel that their choice of employment is a necessity:

Most sound a little embarrassed ... They say, "I've tried everything. It's come to the point my family is on food stamps. We can't make the rent and are facing foreclosure. This is the fastest way for me to get my family back on my feet again."

Putting the stigma of sex work aside, being a "phone actress" allows moms to work flexible hours, save on childcare, spend time with their children and still make enough money to put food on the table. ABC News reported that most of these women are paid between $10 and $50 per hour, although it's possible to make much more. While the phone sex industry probably reached its peak during the '90s, 1-900 number era, Slate reported that the practice still manages to generate between $750 million and $1 billion a year.

Though it may seem surprising, not all of the women pursuing this "intimate talk" work are single. Some are married and have the full support of their partners. The husband of one of the women interviewed by ABC News said that economic incentives trump his other concerns:

That she has the ability to bring in a little extra each month and sometimes a lot extra each month and be able to not have to worry about how and where we're going to get food or if the electric bills are going to be shut off, that's a big deal ... That overrides any sort of other worries I might have.

Some parents interviewed by ABC News felt uncomfortable about the idea of other parents working in the sex industry. "I don't know that I would want to promote that to my children," said one mother. "[That job] is probably not the most appropriate," another told ABC News.

However, others seem to have a "do what you need to do" attitude. As The Stir's Nicole Fabian-Weber put it:

Not having to worry about money for your family is a big deal. A much bigger deal than talking dirty to some pervert in Omaha.

What do you think? Are you shocked? Or is phone sex just another career path that women are being pushed into during the recession?

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Moshe
Shalom to all
10:55 AM on 05/03/2012
So . . . what are you wearing?
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Dbos
Single payer universal health insurance agent
01:06 PM on 12/29/2011
American capitalism at work;the greatest country in the world.
05:37 AM on 12/29/2011
all welfare recipients should either be required to do phone sex or do internet porn
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Hpotterfan77
The right side is the left side!
12:58 PM on 12/29/2011
J@ck@$$!
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Moshe
Shalom to all
10:55 AM on 05/03/2012
You are far too kind my friend.
05:34 AM on 12/29/2011
america has gone from being a manufacturing country to being a country of sex workers, producing internet porn and now this.
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Fred Beggs
My micro-bio is still empty.
02:07 PM on 12/28/2011
Isn't it the same thing as giving your boss a little attention or show of leg?

There trully should be a moral line drawn in your mind because there is no end to how far we may go to get something. Maybe, if we decide that death would be preferred over making a fool of ourselves with lusting drools. May these phone sex people get a grip. It appears like this whole culture has turned into an open orgy for all, including the young and the innocent.
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06:44 AM on 12/28/2011
Teachers Struggle to Feed Hungry Students in Order to Teach

Aisha Fukushima, Op-Ed: “When students are hungry, they come to class agitated and unable to focus. Often it is hard to complete even the most basic academic exercise or follow classroom directions. Other students get extremely sleepy or might refuse to do the work entirely. Although hunger is one of many factors that plays into this behavior, it has become obvious to many of my colleagues that students without proper nutrition can pose very real challenges to our ability to create a functional learning environment.”
11:59 AM on 12/27/2011
after shipping all the industries abroad, we have come to this for survival??
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Tracee Collins
APATHY = COMPLICITY
11:42 AM on 12/27/2011
I'm THERE!!
09:43 AM on 12/27/2011
If any of you need practice before applying....
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hawaiianstile
all hail the balance of nature.
10:14 AM on 12/25/2011
sounds like a logical decision to me. its easy money and no putting out or even exposing yourself is required. you can talk dirty to a desperate looser while you wash cloths for crying out loud.
12:07 AM on 12/25/2011
I guess the term "come to momma" "cum" has new meaning! LOL!
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03:03 PM on 12/24/2011
Do they advertise in Better Homes & Gardens? Or maybe Parents Magazine? Or maybe Slackers Mag? www.slackersoccupy.com
RealistBC
Micro-bios must pass muster.
03:24 PM on 12/24/2011
Only a man like you would read such magazines - or expect others to do so.
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02:53 PM on 12/24/2011
Funny...I don't remember seeing this in the Ten Commandments. Is that because they didn't have the internet back then? Just wondering....do we call it evolution or progress? Maybe shame should be in there somewhere.
10:48 AM on 12/25/2011
Thou shalt not lie, steal, or covet. It was the uber-rich whose lies, theft, and coveting crashed our economy. The article is about women FORCED into this work due to dire economic circumstances. The shame belongs to those who caused this problem, not those who did what they had to do to feed their families.

PS - Read up on the widow Tamar. It's a real eye-opener.
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Tracee Collins
APATHY = COMPLICITY
11:43 AM on 12/27/2011
SHAME on you, then, Fred.
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CaliforniaMitch
02:42 PM on 12/24/2011
Well, my comment is simple, most women can talk dirty because that's about as far as they can go. Most talk a good, healthy sex relationship, but can't put it into action, especially after having kids. Sounds like the perfect job, they can talk to someone without having to perform.
RealistBC
Micro-bios must pass muster.
03:25 PM on 12/24/2011
What I want to know is how these women block out memories of their mothers screaming "Good Girls don't!" at them to do this work.
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Born to be riled
The Kavorka: Blessing or burden?
03:37 PM on 12/24/2011
Uh, I'm pretty sure most healthy girls have been blocking that out for years. Ahhhh, summer nights...
RealistBC
Micro-bios must pass muster.
02:37 PM on 12/24/2011
Women prostituting themselves for money is nothing new. The phone sex version actually has lots of advantages. The odds of any customer meeting them "offstage" is almost nil, there aren't going to be any exchange of bodily fluids or STDs, there is zero risk of pregnancy, and the actress doesn't have to worry about physical harm. As long as those who dominate the American economy refuse to allow realistic measures to improve job prospects for more workers of all categories, I can't blame any woman taking advantage of her gender to earn a legitimate income.
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way2sunny
10:53 AM on 05/03/2012
Men can do it too, there are plenty of gay customers!