Christmas Day Fire In Stamford, Connecticut Kills Children, Parents

12/25/11 10:14 PM ET   AP

STAMFORD, Conn. — A fire tore through the home of an advertising executive in a tony neighborhood along the Connecticut shoreline Sunday, killing her three children and both of her parents on Christmas morning.

Madonna Badger and a male acquaintance were able to escape from the house as it was engulfed by flames, said Stamford Police Sgt. Paul Guzda. But Badger's three daughters – a 10-year-old and 7-year-old twins – perished in the fire, Guzda said.

He said Badger's parents, who were visiting for the holiday, also died.

Neighbors awoke to the sound of screaming shortly before 5 a.m. and rushed outside to help, but they could only watch in horror as flames devoured the grand home in the pre-dawn darkness and the shocked, injured survivors were led away from the house.

"It is a terrible, terrible day," Mayor Michael Pavia told reporters at the scene of the fire. "There probably has not been a worse Christmas day in the city of Stamford."

Badger, an ad executive in the fashion industry, is the founder of New York City-based Badger & Winters Group. A supervisor at Stamford Hospital said she was treated and discharged by Sunday evening.

Property records show she bought the five-bedroom, waterfront Victorian home for $1.7 million last year. The house is situated in Shippan Point, a wealthy neighborhood that juts into Long Island Sound.

The male acquaintance who also escaped the blaze was a contractor who was doing work on the home, Guzda said. He was also hospitalized but his condition was not released.

Police officers drove Badger's husband, Matthew Badger, from New York City to Stamford on Sunday morning. Badger's parents lived in Southbury, Conn., Guzda said.

Firefighters knew there were other people in the home but could not get to them because the flames were too large and the heat too intense, said Acting Fire Chief Antonio Conte, his voice cracking with emotion.

"It's never easy. That's for sure," he said. "I've been on this job 38 years ... not an easy day."

Conte said fire officials don't yet know the cause of the blaze and likely won't get clues for a few days until fire marshals can enter the structure.

By Sunday evening, the roof of the blackened house had largely collapsed.

A neighbor, Sam Cingari Jr., said he was awakened by the sound of screaming and saw that the house was engulfed by flames.

"We heard this screaming at 5 in the morning," he said. "The whole house was ablaze and I mean ablaze."

Cingari said he did not know his neighbors, who he said bought the house last year and were renovating it.

Charles Mangano, who lives nearby, said his wife woke him up and alerted him to the fire. He ran outside to see if he could help and saw a number of fire trucks in front of the house.

"I heard someone yell `Help, help, help me!' and I started sprinting up my driveway," Mangano told The Advocate of Stamford.

He told the newspaper he saw a barefoot man wearing boxers and a woman being taken out of the house. The outdoor temperature at the time was below freezing, according to the National Weather Service.

The woman said, "My whole life is in there," Mangano said. "They were both obviously in a state of shock."

Stamford, a city of 117,000 residents, is about 25 miles northeast of New York City.

Badger was the creative mind behind major advertising campaigns for leading fashion brands, including the iconic Marky Mark underwear ads for Calvin Klein.

Raised in Kentucky, Badger began her career working as a graphic designer in the art department of Esquire magazine. Before starting her own company, she worked as an art director for several magazines and CRK, the in-house advertising agency for designer Calvin Klein.

Badger & Winters has worked with Proctor & Gamble, CoverGirl, A/X Armani Exchange, Emanuel Ungaro and Vera Wang, among other high-profile corporations. The company did not immediately respond to a request for comment Sunday.

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yankhadenuf
Let them eat trickled down crumbs
01:45 PM on 12/28/2011
1957 my parents purchased a home in S Florida, I was born in '58. Earliest indoor photos show a gas wall heater installed by home manufacturer, soon after the photos show that it was taken away by my Dad. Ever since then we never had any gas or flame of any kind in my childhood home, but then there were space heaters...
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yankhadenuf
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01:40 PM on 12/28/2011
smoke alarm? fire alarm? any alarm system?
03:10 PM on 12/28/2011
Wired smoke alarms were (allegedly) being installed, but had not been set up yet due to the ongoing renovations. No word on whether or not battery powered alarms were being used in lieu, but it wouldn't appear so...
01:20 PM on 12/28/2011
A few years ago, some hot embers fell down into the ash trap (I don't know what it is actually called) that leads to our basement. Though they did not start a fire, we did smell smoke coming from the basement and quickly handled the situation which would have, if we had left or gone to bed, easily started the fire.

My point is that this happened in a house of intelligent, caring adults and mistakes do happen. Also, when someone does something out of malice as suggested by other posters ie: purposely starting a fire to harm their loved ones, they certainly do not risk their lives climbing on a burning roof to save those inside.
12:03 PM on 12/28/2011
Don't allow your children do go on mindless sleepovers. You don't know what precautions other adults take (i.e. smoking in the house, drinking) and a kid will never know a stranger's house like his own. And when a fire starts, the noise, smoke, and flames makes it almost impossible to get out even with a clear head. Protect your children.
11:40 AM on 12/28/2011
I dont believe for a second the "boyfriend" ever had contact with the two children after the fire started. That is complete BS.
11:37 AM on 12/28/2011
Was this fire SET by the "boyfriend"? This story does NOT add up. Embers removed from a fireplace in the middle of the night and placed in a bag inside or next to a house by a CONTRACTOR. Contractors are supposed to have more sense than that. I don't buy the story. Never will. There are cases where money is paid up front and the work not completed which results in the contractor covering his tracks. Not saying this happened here but ..........................
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Celebrindan
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12:07 PM on 12/28/2011
And they tore the house completely down, the day after the fire, destroying all evidence, forever.

It adds up to stink.
10:38 PM on 12/28/2011
http://www.westportnow.com/index.php?/v2_5/comments/westport_2010_christmas_fire_tied_to_fireplace/#more
10:38 PM on 12/28/2011
So I guess this person's story also doesn't add up either....:

http://www.westportnow.com/index.php?/v2_5/comments/westport_2010_christmas_fire_tied_to_fireplace/#more

See, people, it happens more often than you think....
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alexisb677
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03:59 AM on 12/28/2011
Smoke detectors, carbon monoxide detectors, and depending on your type of dwelling, a rope ladder. Please use them and check them often.
08:34 AM on 12/28/2011
Is a rope ladder really practical? I mean, won't it burn up in a fire?
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alexisb677
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03:00 PM on 12/28/2011
It was recommended by fire dept. Additional safety measure. I have numerous fire extinguishers as well. Big houses need many precautions because you cannot hear what's happening in parts of the home.
10:46 PM on 12/27/2011
Should like to comment tha tragic as this event is historically it has lots of company.

Ever since flames was introduced into homes for heating and or cooking there is the potential for accidental fires.

Some of the most common causes were embers from fire places and or improper banking of fires especially by those whom didn't know what they were doing. Another high cause of accidents were candles and oil lamps. Couple all this with home decorating trends and fashions mainly the long skirts of women and those while beautiful but very flammable gowns mothers once put all infants into and you often had large losses of life during a fire.

Don't know how much experience Mrs. Bader and or her male friend had with fireplaces but common sense would dictate placing even recently put out ash into the rubbish even if located outdoors isn't a great idea. Far too many persons get caught up in the romance of a lit fireplace without understand it is just that, a fire. Those ashes should have gone into a metal ash can then covered with a lid of the same material, or doused with water in a proper container.
09:24 PM on 12/27/2011
Chief Fire Marshal Barry Callahan said it was caused by hot embers being cleaned out of the fireplace and improperly placed in a mudroom or outdoor garbage enclosure next to the house.

Before the two went to bed between 3 and 3:30 a.m. early Christmas Day, Borcina put the embers and ashes into some sort of bag and either left them in the newly constructed mudroom at the rear of the house or placed them in an outdoor garbage enclosure attached to the mudroom.

Johnson was able to stack some books by the window for his granddaughter to step on, but when he got onto the roof where he was found later by firefighters he perished.

"When he stepped through that window his life ended," Conte said. One of the girls was found on the stack of books.

One of the bodies of the two girls was found with her grandmother on a stairwell hallway between the second and third floors. The other daughter was found in a second floor bedroom.

When firefighters arrived they found Madonna Badger stranded on scaffolding on the second floor of the house. Badger was reportedly trying to reach her daughters by climbing up the scaffolding.

Badger directed firefighters to the third-floor cupola, where firefighters climbed the scaffolding and made their way into two rooms without finding anyone.

http://www.stamfordadvocate.com/local/article/Fire-marshal-Hot-embers-sparked-fatal-fire-2426661.php#photo-1972979
10:51 PM on 12/27/2011
IIRC the bf had found two of the girls and was leading them downstairs when the fire suddenly became more intense. The girls then bolted away from the man in different directions so the bf left the dwelling "empty handed" as it were.

This is a valuable lession for all families. It is so very important to discuss and practice a plan of action in case of fire. Every child able to understand needs to know what to do when faced with such a situation to the extent they can comprehend and act upon.


It looks like here the mother was directing fire personnel based upon information as to where those inside *should* have been rather than where they were.
08:54 PM on 12/27/2011
The house was torn down because it was bascially burnt to the ground and was unstable. In such a state *NO ONE* including fire inspectors and or LE was going in to that building,end of story. Experienced investigators including local DA know enough between the survivors statments and their actions (both reported by them and what other persons on the scene to ferret out if something wasn't *right* enough to warrant a possible charge of arson.

The home was undergoing extensive renovations and the family was only supposed to use the first floors, indeed they probably shouldn't have been there in the first place. Next embers from the fire place were not totally dead when placed into the rubbish. Once the fire started it moved quickly and became intense. The mother and her friend did get out but each went back in to rescue the children and parents.

The bf actually had reached two of the girls but as the fire spread the latter panicked and left the man running off in different directions. The grandfather found one of the girls and got her up to a window but he went out first and fell though some construction material/it wasn't safe to get the girl out.

Apparently something at least one was taught as a child wasn't followed here: the family did not discuss/have a plan of what to do during a fire. When the event struck everyone especially the children simply went into a state of chaos.
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Celebrindan
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05:12 AM on 12/28/2011
Bull.
09:50 AM on 12/28/2011
And you know this how?
08:09 PM on 12/27/2011
The mother is responsible for the fire. You don't leave burning embers near flammable material . Was she drinking at the time?
08:58 PM on 12/27/2011
That is rather harsh. Can you say that in every situation in life you've always been on point and done everything without fault especially with regard to your children?

There probably is plenty of blame one can lay at this poor woman's feet, especially by those arm chair quaterbacking but that is neither here nor there. Bottom line she has lost her entire family and there is nothing anyone can say or do that will make her feel *worse* than she already does.

This story will play out and soon be forgotten we all shall go back to our lives and the media to the next gory story de jour. However for this woman the thing will never end and will torment her the rest of her days.
10:01 AM on 12/28/2011
I don't think it's harsh. I read the article in the Stamford paper and the dismissive, casual manner in which the embers were discarded by the male friend is the cause. Sure, people make mistakes, but the lesson of this tragedy is that when it comes to fire safety, you DON'T MAKE MISTAKES. You make the effort, regardless of how tired or distracted you are to make sure the fire is dead. I, too, feel sorry for this woman. She lost it all and her life is irrevocably changed. But her children and parents died a horrible death and so it just simply can't be all about her. Perhaps she will in time become a fire safety advocate so that others might avoid this fate. The error in judgement by both adults was not something over which they had no control. The fire should have been extinguished completely. And comments pointing this out should not be mitigated because hopefully it will sober others up as to how important fire safety is. At least some good can come from this tragedy.
09:29 PM on 12/27/2011
Yes the embers from the fireplace weren't disposed of properly, we've covered that please keep up.

If *stupid* or poor decision making were a crime there would be even more persons incarcerated in the United States than there are now.
07:29 PM on 12/27/2011
Does it matter what the relationship between the contractor and the owner is? It's a tragedy no matter what.
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Celebrindan
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05:20 AM on 12/28/2011
Yes, it they were in collusion, yes, to does.
09:06 AM on 12/28/2011
Excuse me, whether they were in a relationship or not does not indicate that they were "in collusion". Are you in collusion with your significant other by the mere fact that you are intimate? People in collusion do not climb on the roof of a burning building - a roof that was IN FLAMES - to try to save the people inside. They do not repeatedly run back inside a home until firefighters have to sedate them to keep them from trying to run back inside a burning building. You need a check with reality.
07:26 PM on 12/27/2011
The house was deemed unsafe and got demolished because the city didn't want any liability.
11:41 AM on 12/28/2011
BS if you think they are worried about someone getting injured after the fact.
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Celebrindan
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06:13 PM on 12/27/2011
The last thing said by AP was that they were told that it would take days to determine the truth, due to the extensive damage, but all the evidence has been destroyed by demolition crews.

Less than 24 hours after the deaths of her children.

Did we give Susan Smith this much benefit of the doubt?

Or, did they continue to investigate?

Was it only because she lived in a trailer?

And here I thought Jon-Benet Ramsey taught us that was just a stereotype.
07:40 PM on 12/27/2011
Did Susan Smith even attempt to swim into that lake and get her children out of her car? Mrs. Badger climbed on the roof of a burning home in an attempt to break the window and get her children out. She CLIMBED ONTO A ROOF THAT WAS IN FLAMES. You need to get a grip. Not everything is a CSI case...
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06:17 AM on 12/28/2011
Fanned and faved...Desert....you are so right...
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Celebrindan
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12:13 PM on 12/28/2011
If no one was there, we don't really know if she swan out or not, now do we?

What do you expect someone to do if they don't want to get caught for murder?

Light up a smoke?

They destroyed the evidence less than twenty four hours after the fire.

THAT NEVER HAPPENS, anywhere.

Tell you what.

You find a single housefire in the last ten years in America, which deaths occurred, and, that the building was torn down the very next day.

And I'll shut up.

Till then, you might want to re-assess your positions.
08:10 PM on 12/27/2011
An experienced fire investigator can determine the cause of a fire pretty quickly, particularly in an obvious case like this. There is plenty of evidence preserved in case anyone wants to go back at a later date and look it over. Detailed photos, videos, notes and samples were taken and preserved during the fire investigation. Just like a bloody crime scene, evidence is preserved and then cleaned up. The police don't just leave dead bodies out in the street forever until they wrap up the case. They preserve the evidence and then it is cleaned up rather quickly.

The investigation was complete, evidence preserved. The house was a safety hazard. Sometimes things are exactly as they appear.
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Celebrindan
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05:15 AM on 12/28/2011
The Fire Investigators told AP the day of the fire, it would take SEVERAL DAYS to determine the cause.

But, the house was demolished the very next day.

No one will be able to convince me this was not the result of money, rather than competent investigation.
10:04 AM on 12/28/2011
Clearly, such comments are designed to keep the press at bay. "It will take days to determine....." No one wants reporters to keep pestering them while they investigate.
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Abigail Von Normal
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02:17 PM on 12/27/2011
Why do they have to say "male acquaintance"? Why couldnt they just say family friend?
09:04 PM on 12/27/2011
Oh for goddness sakes why are so many of you stuck on that?

What in blue blazes does it matter what the heck does it matter? Five persons including three wee girls lost their lives and all some of you can worry about is what was the nature of the contractor's relationship to the mother and what name should it be assigned.

I'll tell you what, why don't some of your budding Emily Posts work up a nice little spreadsheet on forms of address based upon realtionships and send it out to various media sources. Am sure they would thank you for clearing up things for them. You might even get that prize they are always giving out in Sweden.
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bjdjtjbjd
06:33 AM on 12/28/2011
Ainsi sera groigne qui...fanned and faved.... When will people stop with the nature of badger and Borcina's relationship???

GEEEEZZZ....What are we living in? The dark ages???
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Abigail Von Normal
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08:05 AM on 12/28/2011
Because, dear heart, the media is insinuating something illicit, trying to cast the mother in a bad light, make her somehow at fault because she had a man spending the night and that has no place in this story or this century.