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'Real Housewife' Kyle Richards Says Cheating Once Is Free Pass

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First Posted: 01/03/12 02:27 PM ET Updated: 01/04/12 01:43 PM ET

Between Bravo cast mates Taylor Armstrong's and Camille Grammer's disastrous marriages, Kyle Richards' 16-year union to Mauricio Umansky may appear the model of marital bliss, but its endurance may be explained by the Real Housewife's unconventional beliefs.

Promoting her book "Life Is Not A Reality Show" on "Good Morning America" on Monday, Richards said she stayed grounded in her marriage to Umansky by mutually staying appreciative of each other.

But in the book, the twice-married, mother-of-four also compares cheating once to getting a free pass, and advises her readers not to tell the other partner.

"I've seen circumstances with people that I know, [who] are in love with their spouse, and they made one mistake... Listen, if this really was a one-time mistake, and you did not put this person in jeopardy, I personally think you should deal with it yourself and with God, and not go and say, 'Honey look what I did.' Because I knew this would ruin the relationship and their life. So I said, it did not happen," Richards told host Robin Roberts.

"I can tell you many many many years later, they're happy together, and she did make that mistake, and she has to carry that and live with that. And it's not me! My husband's over there sweating bullets! I knew that I would get a lot of heat for that, but I do feel it, and I do know they're still going strong."

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Between Bravo cast mates Taylor Armstrong's and Camille Grammer's disastrous marriages, Kyle Richards' 16-year union to Mauricio Umansky may appear the model of marital bliss, but its endurance may be...
Between Bravo cast mates Taylor Armstrong's and Camille Grammer's disastrous marriages, Kyle Richards' 16-year union to Mauricio Umansky may appear the model of marital bliss, but its endurance may be...
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09:28 PM on 01/08/2012
A good marriage should survive occasional frolics!
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12:03 AM on 01/06/2012
Women generally have a deny, deny, deny and I'll take that to my grave attitude about their affairs, men brag about theirs.
03:46 PM on 01/05/2012
I hope everyone gets there heart broken would thinks that it is ok to cheat on your wife or husband and do not forget the kids, the kids will learn that it ok and they wonder why the world is in the state it is in because of you. Con Grads!!!!!!
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01:26 AM on 01/05/2012
I bet her husband is cheating!
04:43 PM on 01/04/2012
I completely agree. I've told my husband, if you make one mistake, or do something dumb, ONCE, don't tell me. If it's something you want to keep doing....then we have a problem.
04:40 PM on 01/04/2012
At a certain point you have to consider the alternative! Being alone, being poor or having your lifestyle completely change.....downsizing, no more parties, vacations, jewelry, salon visits, help in the house...OK...here's your pass.....lol lol it's called "looking the other way", or selling out.
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12:27 PM on 01/04/2012
More wisdom dispensed from a group of women renowned for their common sense. Is there anything they don’t know about love and life?
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09:42 AM on 01/04/2012
Ridiculous statement from a ridiculous person.
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12:06 AM on 01/04/2012
That was a scary bunch of older gals , trying to peddle what ?? Interest in WHAT ??? This is not a group one should be taking any advice from , or entertainment from. Didn't the one ladies husband
kill himself , and she's up there flaunting the backless dress ? Merry widow !!
12:04 AM on 01/04/2012
Oh, I thought she meant if you cheat, your spouse gets a free pass to go out and cheat on you.
02:43 PM on 01/04/2012
Yes, that's the resonable thing to think of course. But bear in mind these women are narcissists (sp?) so when they betray someone it somehow becomes a free pass for them. It's interesting logic for sure but then again consider the source.
11:21 PM on 01/03/2012
No it's not..on her maybe. Ugh.
11:12 PM on 01/03/2012
A free pass to cheat again... because if people think they can get away with it once, they will do it again. So, yeah-- it's a free pass.... to divorce court.
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08:41 AM on 01/04/2012
That's about the size of it, Missy. My ex "got away with it once" because at the time I didn't put 2+2 together about A, so he tried it again and got even bolder with B. Because B knows he's the type to cheat on his wife, when he moved in with her, she kept him on a very short leash: if he was on the phone, she eavesdropped; if he left the house, she went with him; I'm surprised she didn't even follow him into the restroom.
03:10 PM on 01/04/2012
Probably had a web cam for that! Why would you be interested in someone that already cheated on his wife? If he cheated on her, what's to stop him from cheating on you also? You make the bed you lay in and have to deal with the potential problems down the road!
06:56 PM on 01/03/2012
OMG has Mauricio had his free pass yet? Because I can help him use that pass .......
07:18 AM on 01/04/2012
I think he has used his free pass already, I came across that show once and he is a huge flirt, he was creepy.
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Ask yourself why...
05:04 PM on 01/03/2012
I'm torn.
On one hand, there's a reason confession exists and we can unload on a priest/minister, etc.
But, I also do not want to remain married to a liar.
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Edogg62
10:36 AM on 01/05/2012
I'm sure you've never lied. Ha ha ha ha. We ALL lie to various individuals about many things... come down from the altar...
04:36 PM on 01/03/2012
who?