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Jesse Ross Missing: Student's Mysterious Disappearance Chronicled In New Book

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First Posted: 01/05/12 04:25 PM ET Updated: 01/06/12 08:55 AM ET

The father of missing University of Missouri student Jesse "Opie" Ross has chronicled more than five years of searching for answers in a newly released book, "Where's Opie?: Vanished in Chicago."

Ross' father, Donald Ross, described the book as part "personal therapy," and told The Huffington Post he hopes the book will help others who are in a similar situation.

"[This is] not a work of fiction, but the true story of one family's awakening into the world of the missing," he said. "Personally for me, this is a chance to bring some order to chaos and, if you will, a little personal therapy. Also, to share some insight that may be helpful to others in our position."

Jesse Warren Ross was a 19-year-old sophomore when he vanished on Nov. 21, 2006, while attending a mock United Nations conference in Chicago.

According to police, Ross was last seen at about 2:30 a.m., leaving the Sheraton Hotel and Towers, where a conference dance was held.

Surveillance footage from the hotel does not indicate Ross was intoxicated when he left. It is believed he was headed to his hotel, the Four Points Sheraton, located about 10 minutes away.


What happened to Ross after he left the Sheraton Hotel remains a mystery. He never made it to his hotel and he has not been seen since. Authorities and private search groups have conducted extensive searches for Ross on land and in the Chicago River, which runs next to the hotel where he stayed, but none of the searches turned up any clues.

Investigators found no indication Ross took off of his own accord, and there has been no activity on his bank account since the date of his disappearance.

According to Ross, the pain of not knowing what happened to Jesse remains as strong for his family today as it felt when his son first went missing.

"This [book] is the story of Jesse, of his mother, brother, myself and our quest for some resolution to his case," he said. "[It is] part history book, part journal -- a product of my frustration with police and my desire to tell Jesse's story to as many people as possible."

The 236-page book is available on Amazon.com.

Jesse Ross is described as a white male, 5-foot-10-inches tall, 140 pounds, with red hair and blue eyes. He was last seen wearing a green warm-up jacket, white t-shirt, blue jeans and black gym shoes. Anyone with information is asked to contact the Chicago Police Department at 312-744-8266. For more information on the case or to make a donation to the Ross family's search efforts, please visit findjesseross.com.

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    In this undated photo released by Chariton County Sheriff's office, Rachel Koechner and her 4-year-old daughter Zoee Sandner are shown. The central Missouri woman who has been missing with her daughter for four days called her boyfriend from a suburban Kansas City motel but was gone when police arrived to check on her. Authorities say they're believed to be with Koechner's former husband and are considered endangered because of previous domestic violence incidents. (AP Photo/Chariton County Sheriff's Office)

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  • Vilet Torrez

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  • Michelle Parker

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  • Nieko Lisi

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  • Kelli Bordeaux

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  • Kelly Armstrong

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  • Robyn Gardner

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  • Susan Powell

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  • Natalee Holloway

    Natalee Holloway, 18, from Mountain Brook, Ala., disappeared May 30, 2005, while on a trip to Aruba to celebrate her high school graduation. Holloway's classmates said they last saw her leaving Carlos 'n Charlie's nightclub with Joran van der Sloot, then a 17-year-old Dutch honors student living in Aruba, and his two friends, Surinamese brothers Deepak and Satish Kalpoe. All three young men would be arrested in the case but all three were released without charge. On Jan. 13, 2012, now-24-year-old Van der Sloot was sentenced to 28 years in prison for the slaying of Stephany Flores on May 30, 2010. The Peruvian business student was found dead in van der Sloot's hotel room in Lima on June 2 of that year. Van der Sloot was charged with first-degree murder and robbery in the case. Natalee Holloway's body has never been found.

  • Jessie Foster

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  • Jesse Ross

    Jesse Warren Ross was a 19-year-old sophomore when he vanished on Nov. 21, 2006, while attending a mock United Nations conference in Chicago, Ill. According to police, Ross was last seen at about 2:30 a.m., leaving the Sheraton Hotel and Towers, where a conference dance was held. Surveillance footage from the hotel does not indicate Ross was intoxicated when he left. It is believed he was headed to his hotel, the Four Points Sheraton, which was located about ten minutes away. What happened to Ross after he left the Sheraton Hotel remains a mystery. For more information, visit <a href="http://findjesseross.com/" target="_blank">Findjesseross.com</a>.

  • Brittanee Drexel

    Brittanee Drexel, 17, was last seen by friends on April 25, 2009, when she left the Bar Harbor Hotel in Myrtle Beach, S.C., to meet friends at the nearby BlueWater Resort. Surveillance footage shows Drexel arriving at the resort, then leaving roughly 10 minutes later. What happened to her after that remains a mystery. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.helpfindbrittanee.com/" target="_blank">Helpfindbrittanee.com</a>.

  • Willie Michael Wheaton

    Willie Michael Wheaton, 57, was last seen at a Greyhound Bus Station in Jackson, Miss., on the evening of June 17, 2006. Wheaton boarded a bus that was en route to Sacramento, Calif., but it is unknown if he ever arrived. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.blackandmissinginc.com" target="_blank">Blackandmissinginc.com</a>.

  • Corrie Anderson

    Corrie Anderson, a 36-year-old mother of three from Chautauqua County, N.Y., was last seen at about 1:00 p.m. on Oct. 28, 2008. Family members reported Anderson missing at about 3:45 p.m. that day, when she failed to show up at her son's school for a meeting. Two days later, a hunter discovered Anderson's car abandoned approximately two miles from her house. Authorities used ATV's, helicopters and dogs to search areas of interest in the case but to date they have found no sign of Anderson. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.findcorrie.com/" target="_blank">Findcorrie.com</a>.

  • John James Morris

    John James Morris, 38, was last seen on July 30, 2007, in the driveway of his ex-boyfriend's residence on Whites Ferry Road in Dickerson, Md. According to police, Morris' ex-boyfriend was out of town on the day John stopped to pick up his belongings. Morris has not used his credit card or cell phone and, according to his family, he did not have his ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) medication with him when he disappeared. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.findjohnmorris.com/" target="_blank">Findjohnmorris.com</a>.

  • Lakeisha Nichole Archie

    Lakeisha Nichole Archie was last seen on August 5, 2002. A family member dropped her off at a residence in the vicinity of Park St. and Buckeye in Sidney, Ohio, and she has not been seen since. Archie has a tattoo of the name "Lakeisha" on the right side of her neck, a tattoo of a black panther on her left forearm and tattoos of claws on each breast. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.blackandmissinginc.com/cdad/index.cfm?MissingInfoID=569" target="_blank">Blackandmissinginc.com</a>.

  • Ahren Benjamin Barnard

    Ahren Barnard was last seen in Boise, Idaho, on Dec. 4, 2004. He dropped his young son off for the evening with the child's mother and presumably drove home. His car was later found parked in his driveway but he has not been seen since. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.helpfindahren.com/" target="_blank">Helpfindahren.com</a>.

  • Roxanne Paltauf

    Roxanne Paltauf was 18 years old on July 7, 2006, when she disappeared from the Budget Inn hotel in Austin, Texas. According to Roxanne's mother, Elizabeth Harris, Roxanne had been staying at the hotel with her boyfriend. The couple had an argument and, according to the boyfriend, she left the hotel, leaving all of her belongings behind. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000644531428&sk=info" target="_blank">Find Roxanne Paltauf</a>.

  • William "Billy" Smolinski

    William "Billy" Smolinski, was a 31-year-old resident of Waterbury, Conn., when he went missing on Aug. 24, 2004. Smolinski told a neighbor he was going out of town for a few days to look at a vehicle. He has not been seen since and his truck was later found parked in his driveway. His keys and wallet were found inside. Investigators searched Billy's home and truck and conducted several interviews but found no clues suggesting what might have happened to him. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.justice4billy.com" target="_blank">Justice4billy.com</a>.

  • Ray Gricar

    An esteemed district attorney, Ray Gricar was 59 years old in April 2005. He had served as the district attorney of Centre County for nearly 20 years and was preparing to retire at the end of the year. On the morning of April 15, 2005, Gricar called his girlfriend, Patty Fornicola, and told her he was going for a drive on Route 192 toward nearby Lewisburg. The following day, Gricar's red and white 2004 Mini Cooper was found locked and abandoned in a Lewisburg parking lot, not far from the Susquehanna River. Gricar's laptop was later found in the river but authorities never found any sign of the missing DA. For more information, read <a href="http://www.aolnews.com/2011/01/25/case-of-missing-pa-district-attorney-ray-gricar-baffles-police/" target="_blank">"Case of Missing Pa. District Attorney Baffles Police, Family"</a>.

  • Jason "J.J." Jolkowski

    Jason Jolkowski was 19 years old on June 13, 2001, the day he disappeared in Omaha, Neb. Jolkowski, an employee at a local restaurant, received a call from his boss that morning and was asked to come in early. Jolkowski's car was in the shop so he arranged to meet a coworker at Benson High School, only seven blocks from his home. It is believed that Jolkowski got dressed in his work uniform and then set off for the school. Somewhere along the way Jason vanished without a trace. Jolkowski's mother, Kelly Jolkowski, has since founded Project Jason, a nonprofit organization created to assist the families of missing adults and children. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.projectjason.org" target="_blank">Projectjason.org</a>.

  • Carlos Diaz

    Carlos Diaz went missing from his Bronx, N.Y., home on Dec. 23, 1986. Diaz went to bury a family pet that had died and has not been seen since. He is described as a Hispanic male with brown hair and brown eyes. He is 5-foot-8-inches tall and weighed 170 lbs. at the time of his disappearance. He has a tattoo with the initials C.D. on his left hand. For more information, visit <a href="http://www.findthemissing.org/cases/59" target="_blank">Findthemissing.org</a>.

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Leebossa
11:19 PM on 05/19/2013
My guess is that he was alone in a bad area and was probably robbed/mugged and it went wrong. Sadly, I think he is almost certainly dead.
09:09 PM on 05/22/2012
I realize all of these cases are not the result of an organized underground sex ring, but I believe some of them definitely are. Lots of pretty young blonde women and attractive young men... read Why Johnny Can't Come Home. Maybe you'll believe Mrs. Gosch's story, maybe you won't. I do. I don't want it to be true, but I can't shake my gut feeling that some of these precious lives have been stolen to serve a few truly sick people at the very top of the food chain. Did anyone ever hear more about the body of the girl found on the royal grounds in Sandringham just after New Year's? No? Exactly.
09:06 PM on 04/17/2012
Another person, Matthew Soumakis age 31, went missing from the same hotel as Jesse Ross about one year, in 2005. Unfortunately, his body was recovered in the Chicago river about 2 weeks later. I believe the cause of death was drowning.
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Leebossa
11:19 PM on 05/19/2013
did they ever find out what happened? was it suicide?
07:42 AM on 05/20/2013
Unfortunately, no. They were never able to determine how it happened.
02:45 PM on 03/29/2012
I work across the Chicago River from the Sheraton Hotel and Towers. Believe me when I say it would be a dark, desolate and unsettling walk to the Four Points Sheraton at that hour. I'm about Jesse's size and build, and would not attempt that walk alone unless I had no other option. I cannot imagine why he would not have called a cab.

This is a horrible story and I think of it often when I pass the Sheraton.
12:47 PM on 03/02/2012
Fits the Smiley Face murder profile again. Even young men are not safe alone
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majesticjkr
Always look on the bright side of life
06:09 AM on 01/07/2012
most people have diff views on the big brother thing, but in and around citys and areas were things can happen there should be cctv everywhere, people just dont disapear, some person has taken this lad for whatever interest in mind,
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themightyabealrd
screw the real world-I'm an artist!
04:35 AM on 01/07/2012
My heart goes out to this young man's family. Stories like this help remind us to be grateful for knowing where our kids and grandkids are....and provide a gentle nudge that tells us to 'lighten up' whenever we may be too critical and judgemental in our dealings with them.
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Goldie Treasure
Biracial.25.Sarcastic.Mod>Rep=Dem
03:04 AM on 01/07/2012
It is so sad and eerie reading about these sad cases always wonder where they are, if they are alive. I think it is even worse than a child dying, at least then you could possibly heal and have closure but , when they are missing all you can do is wonder.
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rewith85man
Expressing Who I Am
03:03 AM on 01/07/2012
Who Kidnapped J.R.?
04:50 PM on 01/11/2012
I think after over 6 years it is beyond a kidnapping. I hope he is safe and all the other kids and adults that go missing. Nobody has a right to take an innocent life the way these sick people are doing. Leave people alone. Find some happiness and quit acting like a victum so you can go out and hurt others. Every feels pain and some disappointments in their life that does not give anyone the right to hurt or take someone elses' life and ruin it. We are in hard times and everyone is struggling in some way. It is how you handle these struggles. Don't ruin your life when you are 18 it is up to you to undo what you think your parents failed you at and let it go.
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dbrockskk1
07:05 PM on 04/06/2013
are you serious? He means J R Ewing...you know, Dallas! It's "victim". "what your parents failed you "at""? Stay in school....Please!
02:10 AM on 01/07/2012
There have been a number of young men that went missing after events downtown Chicago. Some they said were drinking, others they didn't say. Missing without a trace.

I read somewhere this is happening in other states as well to young men, the parents are starting to band together.

I had a friend go missing near downtown. He went to the beach every morning before medical school in the 1970's, in the winter. They found his insulin left in his dorm/apartment, so they know something happened to him. He just disappeared.
06:53 PM on 01/06/2012
Most reading this story do not realize that this happened before. Remember Brian Shaffer, Maura Murray, Michael Negrete, Justin Gains, or Josh Guimond. Nick Coppola, and Matrice Richardson were found dead with no explanation of what happened. A tiny number, Ahmad Arain, and Matthew Wilson examples, were recovered alive in altered mental states.

Ron Tammen, Miami of Ohio, April 1953 was seen three hours after he would have walked away so confused he didn't know his name.

The likely cause is a little known feature of our physiology of sight called Subliminal Distraction. Discovered when it caused mental breaks for office workers the office cubicle was designed to stop the mental breaks by 1968.

Students have behaviors like knowledge workers in offices when they study or use a computer. If that is done where there is detectable repeating movement in peripheral vision they have created the "special circumstances" for SD exposure. If exposure lasts long enough the student will have the mental break.

When it happened to my wife she heard voices and had depressive crying episodes about situations she hallucinated. A student with this outcome would either run away from the hallucinated situation or if the details were unsolvable and unbearable commit suicide. Although the psychotic-like episode remits with no treatment if exposure stops, the memories remain just as if they actually happened. Barney and Betty Hill believed they had been abducted by aliens for the remainder of their lives.
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icwhite02
Keep giving them all the rope they need
04:55 PM on 01/06/2012
The fact that he came up missing in CHICAGO doesn't surprise me. I've been through that city several times & it gives off the most evil VIBE I've ever felt, except the time I toured a facility for the mentally ill in WA state. It's even worse than New York.
02:14 PM on 01/06/2012
Just one of the many nightmares all parents have, a missing child. I lost a child in a car accident, another of the nightmares. Can only hope and pray that this family one day finds peace and answers
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anitaj
04:16 PM on 01/06/2012
Condolences on your loss. No parent should have to bury a child. You and your famly are in my heart.
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Heidi Dietrich
Furkids are people too.
04:18 PM on 01/06/2012
I'm sorry about your child.
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12:50 AM on 01/08/2012
Yes this is sad but we do not know what all is in that city. Anything can happen there.
02:09 PM on 01/06/2012
I read this and it makes me so sad..I cannot imagine the pain...i would be a walking dead person without my son...life would have no meaning to me. This is always heartbreaking to read. It could be anyones son..todays it theirs tomorrow it could be mine. How do they go on? I look at his face and think wow someone loved, him raised, him stayed up late for him, probably put braces on him, just everything you do for your child and in the end he meets his end at the hands of some no good for nothing lifelong criminal or psychopath...
02:02 PM on 01/06/2012
For crying out loud HuffPo. You post an article about missing person's cases, include a slideshow of several missing persons and in one of those photos the woman is wearing sunglasses? Here is an opportunity to get this woman's image out to people and, who freaking knows, maybe develop a lead and you post a photo in which she can't be differentiated from any other blonde white woman in Nicole Richie sunglasses? David Lohr, if you put this slide show together, poor, poor photo choice on your part. Boo. Boooourns.
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07:03 PM on 01/06/2012
Calm down Drew...
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rewith85man
Expressing Who I Am
03:04 AM on 01/07/2012
Some of you people are really sensitive.