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Newt Gingrich's Marriage, Infidelity Questioned At Town Hall

Newt Gingrich Marriage

First Posted: 01/19/12 01:04 PM ET Updated: 01/19/12 01:14 PM ET

BEAUFORT, S.C. -- Newt Gingrich was asked about his marital infidelities by a former Marine Corps drill instructor at his town hall event here this morning. Here is a transcript of the exchange:

Question: My question to you, I'm actually uncomfortable asking it... You are a candidate who truly reflects most of what I personally view and feel. And I think you articulate it in an aggressive and inspiring manner that makes me think of Churchill. So I find you genuinely a very inspiring and genuine candidate. Where I personally waver with regard to yourself, sir, is a history of things that may have to show character that some may genuinely feel questionable. And I wrestle with that, sir. I genuinely do. My personal thoughts are, how do I perceive lapses in personal judgment that perhaps happened in the past? But how is the voting mass of America gonna perceive and come to grips with that if you are our nominee to face Obama in the fall? Could you, as a candidate and as a gentleman who I respect, help me better wrestle with that topic?

Woman shouting: What about Obama's lapses?

GINGRICH: Look, I think this is a decision you have to make. I have been very open about my life. I have been very open about mistakes I have made. I have been very open about needing to go to God for forgiveness and reconciliation. Callista and I have a wonderful relationship. We are very close to our two daughters and their husbands, and we are very close to our two grandchildren, Maggie and Robert. I am 68 years old. I am a grandfather. We entered this race, and we had to think this over for a year because we knew we'd get beaten up -- we knew we'd get lied about, we knew we'd get smeared, we knew we'd get nasty attack ads, and we decided the country was worth the pain. And people got to decide.

After the event, Gingrich did a five-minute press conference with reporters and was asked about his ex-wife Marianne Gingrich's comments to ABC News that Gingrich had asked her for an "open marriage."

Gingrich refused to comment.

"I'm not going to say anything about Marianne. My two daughters have already written to ABC complaining about this. It's tawdry and inappropriate," Gingrich said of the ABC story. "Both of my daughters are prepared to speak on the record with any of you who'd like to talk to them. And some other people who knew the situation are prepared to speak on the record."

"I'm not getting involved," he said.

A reporter asked him why he would not answer the questions.

"I just answered it," Gingrich said.

The reporter pointed out that he had just referred questions to others.

"That's my answer," Gingrich said.

As for his answer to the broader question of his character during the town hall, Gingrich said he did not think he needed to improve on what has been said. "It's an issue I confront every time it comes up and I confront it exactly the same way ... and people seem to be satisfied with it," he said. "You watched the audience just now."

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BEAUFORT, S.C. -- Newt Gingrich was asked about his marital infidelities by a former Marine Corps drill instructor at his town hall event here this morning. Here is a transcript of the exchange: Qu...
BEAUFORT, S.C. -- Newt Gingrich was asked about his marital infidelities by a former Marine Corps drill instructor at his town hall event here this morning. Here is a transcript of the exchange: Qu...
 
 
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MarilynBB
Marilyn Barnicke Belleghem M.Ed.
11:10 AM on 01/23/2012
This question and more like it need to be asked to see how a presidential candidate answers hard questions. Bush should have been asked some hard questions about his judgement as should Clinton. What values do these men really hold and to whom do they bow?
09:21 AM on 01/21/2012
Find any politician with serious ambitions and a sick wife and you probably will see similar behavior regardless of party in the modern world. Unless of course their soul mate is far more important than political ambitions...in which case they are really only semi-serious politicians who had a streak of good luck or its was at least half the wife's ambitions in the first place.
09:16 AM on 01/21/2012
Gingrich should have had prepared answers. The shortest if most brutally honest one could have been "The duties of political office have always outweighed my marriages as I told each wife. When my first two wives got sick I choose to remain a politician. The simple truth is that I need a healthy wife both as a man and as an ambitious politician. Political success is dependent in part on spouses planning and hosting social events. Being the wife of an active politician is definitely a job. As far as the affairs go, unfortunately politics does not allow for a gap in coverage so I was forced to make a fairly messy on the fly change."

"No I did not ask for an open marriage. Yes I did ask that the divorce be delayed to minimize the gap between one marriage and the next. Being single divorced man is a political kiss of death."

Political marriages are like Hollywood marriages in that business reasons may force a change in partners.
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corkey Dickey
10:40 AM on 01/20/2012
I rather doubt that his daughters or friends were in the bedroom with them, This man has serious control issues .I can't say what I think he is because Huff won't print it But it is NOT something that counseling can help
08:56 AM on 01/20/2012
James Dobson and his followers do not like newt's marriage history. newt can't stonewall them.
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07:47 AM on 01/20/2012
Hey Newt, you are no different then anybody else, YOU put your pants on one leg at a time just like every body else and your bathroom doesn't smell like roses when you are done with your business...just like everybody else.

Take off your imaginary crown and come down to earth Gingrich....you are NO MORE entitled to respect and privacy about your adulterous behaviors as YOU felt Bill Clinton was for his behavior.

YOU Newt helped publicly LEAD the "GET BILL CLINTON" mob. You must have thought THAT was important thing to do...for the country... Right Newt? It didn't bother you one bit THEN that your Party was feeding JOURNALISTS and the media every single embarrassing sordid detail they could TAPE RECORD or chemically analyze about Bill Clinton's adulterous behavior.

No siree, you publicly arrogantly proclaimed moral superiority to Bill Clinton back then...with you snobby nose up in the air...just like you are doing NOW! It's amazing to watch actually.

You are acting so "appalled" that YOU Newt Gingrich are being questioned about YOUR adulterous behavior.

HA! It's amazing! You are trying to turn it around to make it sound like YOU (The ADULTERER) are the superior good guy who is being "disrespected" by those bad "journalists" who have the gall to ask YOU questions about YOUR adultery.
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Chris Paleczka
Don't want Government? Move to Somalia.
10:39 AM on 01/20/2012
F&F :)
05:26 PM on 01/20/2012
It never cease to amaze me how people in glass houses like throwing stones. Newt believe he has the bragging rights, especially if he beats Romney. He would be the first President who has gone through 3 wives then turned around and made his mistress the first lady... Newt will then pass a bill making adultery constitutional.
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kathy smelser
07:46 AM on 01/20/2012
the only way that Newt would be able to have time to explain his infelidies they would have to have a slumber party instead of just a hall meeting ......but do not expect the truth ....
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Lawyer13
retired Lawyer, General and Psychiatric Nurse, wit
07:16 AM on 01/20/2012
A view from across the pond : Newt "is a real piece of work" he is not MAN ENOUGH to answer the question, and passes this off on his daughters, how low can this guy sink.
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JoePenn
Shuhada?
09:03 AM on 01/20/2012
Agreed - but I still think being so 'robust' in the area of low-life'ness, he can STILL sink lower - he's very talented!
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Steelsil
Alan Grayson for President!
02:43 AM on 01/20/2012
Nasty, but true, correct and accurate attack ads, he should have said.
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01:22 AM on 01/20/2012
Forget the women...this is really bothersome....

http://www.scribd.com/fullscreen/58987915
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jaedame
12:06 AM on 01/20/2012
What parents actually tell their children everything that happens in a divorce? Pretty despicable to throw your daughters out to discredit their own mother instead of dealing with it yourself, NG.
traceymarie
Independent to Dem in 2007
12:12 AM on 01/20/2012
actually the children defending his are from his FIRST wife, not the second wifes children.
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jaedame
01:06 AM on 01/20/2012
Oh, even more ridiculous.
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floridafun
07:02 AM on 01/20/2012
those daughters are likely on his payroll recieving mega bucks for "supporting" him..and entertaining fantasies about having a bedroom for vacations in the white houuse ;-) f&f
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jojo1216
uh la la
11:14 PM on 01/19/2012
His wife looks like The Ice Queen!!
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Vapula
Failure is not an option
01:37 AM on 01/20/2012
She IS the ice queen.
09:06 PM on 01/19/2012
An open marriage is for those too lazy to get a divorce.

I certainly hope Callista does not get seriously ill or he will punch her ticket like he did the first two.
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klincklanc
Don't mistake activity for achievement.
09:59 PM on 01/19/2012
Its also called having your cake and eating it too.
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Steelsil
Alan Grayson for President!
02:44 AM on 01/20/2012
She would exit singing, "Diamonds are a girl's best friends."
09:04 PM on 01/19/2012
Newt says he has been very open about his past and mistakes he has made, and he says has
found religion and asks for forgiveness. He thinks that this should take care of things and kind
of erase all those black marks on his own history. What he refuses to understand is the fact that
the many incidents that people remember, including not only all the infidelities and the particularly
insensitive nature of them, as well as his despicable behavior and lack of ethics in Congress.
Whether or not he has found religion is definitely not the issue. The man cannot be trusted to
look beyond his own need for self-promotion at any cost. He lacks the character and related
judgement that is needed to in order to be the leader of the country. Newt may have changed
his religion but he has not changed his character.
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Vapula
Failure is not an option
01:38 AM on 01/20/2012
Absolutely right.
09:04 PM on 01/19/2012
Anyone running for president should be able to answer the question and not pawn it off on his daughters, that's not the mark of leadership, that's avoidance and placing the burden on his kids who had nothing to do with his cheating, lying and corruption.

Not leadership calibre.
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klincklanc
Don't mistake activity for achievement.
10:01 PM on 01/19/2012
I like the way you added "corruption" and saved it for last.
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Vapula
Failure is not an option
01:39 AM on 01/20/2012
And why was that actually?