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Managing Men: How To Divorce Your Work Husband


First Posted: 01/20/12 11:00 AM ET Updated: 01/20/12 11:00 AM ET

The Grindstone:

Oh the "Work Husband." It's a dubious title that I've never been quite comfortable with. After all, I've worked very closely with men at my office. My office neighbor, partner-in-crime, venting buddy and right-hand-man happens to be... a man. We talk about our families, our jobs, our customers. We make sure the other one remembered to take a lunch. I consider this co-worker and I to be very close, but I just don't know about this whole "Work Husband" label. After all, I have a real husband at home. I'm not sure how he would feel about my bestowing that honorable title on someone else. But no matter what you call it, there is one aspect of marriage that seems to hold true for both real life and the office, breaking up is hard to do. In fact, I would argue that divorcing your work husband can be just as emotional, uncomfortable and possibly expensive as ending an honest-to-goodness marital union.

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06:08 PM on 01/20/2012
...I really don't even know what to say except if you have a "work-husband" that you are fearful of "divorcing" or how to handle a "divorce" from...you may want to take a look at your *actual* marriage imo.
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freedom1947
sarcasm, cynicism
04:50 PM on 01/20/2012
Read Newts new book on how to.
04:44 PM on 01/20/2012
I'm sure many women would love to hear their husband talk about their "work-wife." I'm sure there would be much understanding.
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The Corporate Champion
Conservative, because someone's got to do the work
11:53 AM on 01/20/2012
This is a pretty stupid label.
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mass maritimer
liberty for all
01:32 PM on 01/20/2012
Not one of their better stories......
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signgrrl
typeface geek
10:03 AM on 01/22/2012
true and true.