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Teen Mothers In Chicago Find Camaraderie, Empowerment While Staying In School

First Posted: 01/31/2012 11:12 am Updated: 01/31/2012 12:02 pm

The Simpson Academy for Young Women, a Chicago public school, last week cut the ribbon on its newest addition -- and it wasn't a new library wing, computer lab or gymnasium. As Fox Chicago reported, the academy on Friday celebrated the opening of a new clinic run by the Rush University College of Nursing and connected to Simpson, a school that caters to teens who are either pregnant or mothers.

Simpson, according to its website, is the only school of its kind in the city with the mission "to provide quality education and developmental support to young mothers." It offers pregnancy and parenting classes, mentoring groups and health and sexual education programs, in addition to core subjects and electives. The academy is young, too; it celebrated its first graduating class last year, according to the Chicago Tribune.

"We want to teach them the skills to balance their roles in life," Simpson president Joi Kidd-Stamps told the Tribune last year. "They need to know how to be successful at balancing the parent piece and the work piece because if they don't, something will give. ... We are preparing them to be great mothers, great scholars and great citizens."

MOMS, MEET YOUR MENTORS

And while Simpson might be the only local school specifically geared to young mothers, other groups are working throughout the city not only to help pregnant teens access medically accurate information and other needed resources, but also to educate students in neighborhoods with high drop-out rates due to pregnancy that becoming a mother is just one of many choices they might make in their teenage years.

Angela Carter is a manager with Mentors of Mothers, a Metropolitan Family Services program operating out of four sites (in the city's Roseland, South Chicago, West Lawn and Portage Park neighborhoods) that serve students in a number of Chicago Public Schools.

The program offers both group and individual sessions with "mentor moms," some of whom were young mothers themselves, who meet with students during lunch periods, after school and sometimes on weekends to share information for having a healthy, successful pregnancy and to help the girls complete school and go on to college and enter the workforce.

In order to qualify for the program, young women must be between 13 and 21 years old and already pregnant or a mother to at least one child, who may be no older than three years old.

Some of the girls, Carter told The Huffington Post, come and go, while others stay for the full three years they are eligible for the program. And though some may stop coming to the program, sometimes they return to their mentor mom later with a question about breastfeeding or working with pediatricians.

Carter said those are the sort of "longstanding relationships" that develop during the program -- and keep its participants coming back.

"The girls enjoy the camaraderie between themselves and their peers as they go through the program," Carter said.

The program also aims to prevent child abuse and neglect, as well as unwanted second pregnancies, behaviors that Carter said she believes would be more prevalent if Mentors of Mothers was not around.

The population is not as informed as they should be, Carter continued. "We help these girls to be able to advocate for themselves."

A BACK-BURNER ISSUE

Misinformation is the main target of another unique program led by the Illinois Maternal and Child Health Coalition. Just one of the group's projects is the community-based work it does at Englewood's Paul Robeson High School.

In the news two years ago for its high teen pregnancy rate (more than 1 in 8 female students were pregnant at one point) and relatedly high drop-out rate, the school now hosts a peer education program that trains young people to talk to other youth about issues including healthy relationships, sexual health and pregnancy, which gives them tools in "a non-preachy or [non-]judgmental way," Janine Lewis, IMCHC executive director, told The Huffington Post.

As of 2008, about 32 out of every 1,000 girls aged 10 to 19 living in Chicago had given birth, and while the overall teen birth rate in the city has been on the decline, the decreases have been significantly greater among whites (70 percent) than among blacks (38 percent) and Hispanics (23 percent), according to the Chicago Department of Public Health.

"I think we have been somewhat lulled into a sense that it's getting better in terms of local and state teen pregnancy rates, but it's not so great in certain enclaves, in particular among low-income, minority populations where rates are still very high," Lewis said. "I think this issue has been on the back burner for way too long, and I think family planning has gotten a bad rap."

"If you don't want a child at 17, how can you prevent that from happening?" she asked.

NOWHERE ELSE TO TURN?

At the school, trained peer educators meet with students and talk -- young woman to young woman -- about the realities of HIV/AIDS, other sexually transmitted infections and more broadly about leading healthy lives.

Because the state lacks mandated age-appropriate, comprehensive sexual education in the classrooms, many teens are left to rely on what they learn from friends, television, movies and at home. A program called "Cradle to the Classroom," through which CPS once provided case workers for teen mothers, was cut in 2004 by Arne Duncan, then-CEO of CPS.

Meanwhile, Lewis said, "you'd be surprised what young people don't know about how the human body functions." And that ignorance is the opposite of power.

"What we want to impart to youth is a sense of empowerment, that you have a right to know about your body and to make decisions about it," Lewis said.

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Ossit
Ossit
08:45 PM on 02/01/2012
I had the most astounding response by a poster who had a bit of a difficult time carrying on a civil conversation. Oh that person ranted on and on saying that I didn't expect girls to be responsible. What I said was birth control isn't her sole responsibility, it's both. That poster ranted how it's the responsibility of the girl to give the guy a condom. It's HIS responsibility to carry them. Oh and I loved the "man hater" reference when I mentioned how guys will do anything in a skirt. Sorry most do. Those who don't, I have no problem with. One isn't a man hater because they criticize irresponsible men.

Then the poster ranted about section 8, Welfare, Medicaid, Food Stamps. Tough if that poster doesn't want to help support the Poor. We're just as entitled as you in things and it had nothing to do with this article.
09:37 PM on 02/01/2012
ignorance is bliss
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04:19 PM on 02/01/2012
When I have a kid I hope I have the most awkward conversation with my child about birth control.
09:37 PM on 02/01/2012
lol i've got two and i am dreading the day yeeeee
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altheschrod
common sense over all
04:12 PM on 02/01/2012
Why are the girls carrying their babies to term? There is no longer any stigma or pain involved with ending a pregnancy, while having a child to raise at that age is a life-altering experience beyond description. I'm sure the mothers will soft-pedal the fact their happy and carefree girlhood ended immediately when they chose to keep the baby, but maybe that's being too honest!!
09:39 PM on 02/01/2012
I think many of the girls who wind up pregnant lack good relationships with their parents. I am anti abortion personally but I am pro choice on other's rights to choose. With this said they have the choice to keep the child just like you have the right to abort it. Most likely they go ahead and keep the baby thinking it's someone to love them unconditionally. While their bodies are developed often their minds are still in teen mode.
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askonemom
03:02 PM on 02/01/2012
Brilliant program! Congratulations to Chicago for seeing a need and not being afraid to meet it!
01:00 PM on 02/01/2012
Good article about a much-needed program! Having a mentor changed my world, after I had four children by age 21. Educating teen moms is imperative to their own children's future health and well-being. Can anyone say Susan Smith? Or La'Shanda Armstrong? I would love to get a copy of SOS to the MOM group. Would be happy to donate some copies. Please contact me at daleen.berry@gmail.com to arrange.
11:08 AM on 02/01/2012
I am sorry . . . I don't want to support kids having kids. I want to stop it. I am tired of the rest of the world having to support teenage moms. I think their own families should have the burden of feeding the baby, their doctor bills, and providing for it. But no . . . kids know that they will be given Section 8 housing, put on food stamps, get a welfare check, be provided WIC and ECI, and even CCMS if needed. I am glad that there are places that are at least trying to teach them good habits and ways of caring for their child, but enough is enough.
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04:14 PM on 02/01/2012
I think schools need to promote birth control and what can cause birth control to fail. Abstinence is not going to work because teenagers rebel.
09:43 PM on 02/01/2012
so in other words punish the innocent children that are born to teen mothers that lack the resources to care for them? I keep hearing all this complaining about welfare system. Turns out if you combined all the social programs food stamps, welfare etc... it's 3% of the government spending done in a year. Feel free to look at the statistics. We as a country spend more in corporate subsidiaries than we do on the poor. I for one am tired of paying for weapons of mass destruction and wars that do not benefit society. At least not this one. If the money went into education to prevent these teen pregnancies in the first place it would had been money well spent.
08:43 AM on 02/01/2012
Adoption -YES! Welfare- NO!
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Ossit
10:06 AM on 02/01/2012
Mothers young and old go on Welfare, SoCalifTeacher because of deadbeat dads who won't support their kids.
01:27 PM on 02/01/2012
Right, it's all the father's fault. Because I'm sure all of these young and old moms were in stable, committed relationships.
03:49 PM on 02/01/2012
But mothers don't want to support them either! They get welfare checks, medicaid and food stamps, plus Section 8 housing which gets paid by the taxpayers! I've even heard of some girls getting pregnant on purpose (they don't care who the guy is that impregnates them) so they can start getting these hand-outs!
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carmenalex
!Mamá caliente humanista!
09:11 AM on 02/24/2012
Oh adoption....you mean adding to the thousands that are still waiting to be adopted, plus the other thousands that are aging out of said system? Oh, and how would you go about it? Taking children away from the mothers who actually want them by force and hurling the kids in orphanages....because YOU don't want to pay for it. (Yet...don't taxpayer dollars go to orphanages?hmmm)
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Fran Jaime
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10:07 PM on 01/31/2012
Though I believe that birth control is a must, I think this is a good aide for girls already into the pregnancy or who already have a child. If the mother is given the chance to finish school and get some parenting classes, that benefits the child as well.
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Big0725
Large...........but definitely NOT in charge!
08:41 PM on 01/31/2012
Should have found a condom.
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Ossit
Ossit
10:08 AM on 02/01/2012
That's not her responsibility to find a condom, Big0725. He should automatically bring one. Shame there are no places for guys to learn not to skirt chase.
03:53 PM on 02/01/2012
Oh, yes it is her responsibility!!! If you don't think that what happens to a woman's body is her choice, your momma raised a fool! If she's not on the pill or the shot, then she can certainly buy the condoms! She's the one that carries the baby, gives birth to the baby, then pretty much gets to raise the baby by herself (I know, I know, sometimes that's not true but with a lot of these teenagers, that's how it pans out). It's her life that changes completely with having to grow up early and usually the education just quits as soon as she gives birth! And you want to say she is not responsible to provide a condom - you can pay my taxes into the welfare system then!
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04:19 PM on 02/01/2012
Actually it's both of their responsibility. I bought the condoms for a while and my boyfriend does it now. I'm also on the pill. I never got pregnant in high school.
02:54 PM on 01/31/2012
I like the quote near the end of the article: "ignorance is the opposite of power." While resources should be allocated to help prevent teen pregnancies, it's important to not view a teen who is already pregnant as a lost cause. They're going to be raising that kid for the next 18-20 years, and helping them feel like they can take power in how their child will be raised is extremely important. There's a similar program at Farragut High in Little Village (although it's open to more than just teens), and it's where pregnant women meet once a month to discuss tips on taking care of babies and how to manage their stress level. I'm glad that these programs are around to help women of all ages learn life lessons and succeed in being good mothers.
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Ossit
10:10 AM on 02/01/2012
Are there any programs around to educate men not to screw everyone they meet and go condomless and learn to be good fathers, sillynomibeast07?
03:55 PM on 02/01/2012
Yes - it's called their parents! Apparently you've grown up around stupid guys since you seem to be a man-hater (I've seen your comment about the female not having to be responsible and provide a condom). Unfortunately the guys know better but, just like the girls, they make young mistakes that lead to adult problems!
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Mailman
01:06 PM on 01/31/2012
Get more fathers in the homes, make education a top priorty, and some kind of moral fabric that the family can hold on to. Also, help get the crime rate down by telling police on criminals and ridding your neighborhoods of these parasites.
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EdCorey1971
05:56 PM on 01/31/2012
I agree, but part of the problem with teen pregnancy is...teenagers don't have good fiscal footing at such a young age. Education and strong family ties should always be a top priority but how exactly can you get more fathers in the homes when either teen parent have financial independence.
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Mailman
07:20 PM on 01/31/2012
Very good point.
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12:16 PM on 01/31/2012
three sure fire ways to stay out of poverty:
1) get highschool dipoloma
2) do not get arrested
3) NO CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK
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carmenalex
!Mamá caliente humanista!
02:18 PM on 01/31/2012
Access to birth control a must.
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Big0725
Large...........but definitely NOT in charge!
08:43 PM on 01/31/2012
Tell that to a republican.
09:14 AM on 02/01/2012
They have access, they chose not to utilize it. Education about what your life will be like with a Child as teenager should be a be the rule.
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Ossit
10:12 AM on 02/01/2012
You forgot #4, citizenlegisators. NO DEADBEAT DADS. Mothers are always to blame when it comes to the "out of wedlock" and he walks.
04:00 PM on 02/01/2012
She picked him! In an ideal world there would be no dead beat dads or mothers; however, since the woman is the one that carries the baby and gives birth to the baby, it ultimately falls on her to raise the baby! It's been like this since the beginning of time and unless you know of a way for men to have babies, you need to be "blaming" both parents for not being able to support their child(ren).