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Catholic School Bans Skirts From Uniforms, Parents Fight Back

The Huffington Post   First Posted: 02/02/2012 1:05 pm Updated: 02/02/2012 1:08 pm

It's time for a memorial spin of Britney Spears' "Baby One More Time," because one parochial school in Connecticut says those plaid schoolgirl skirts are now banned from classrooms.

A Catholic school in New Haven, Conn., is giving the unisex treatment to its uniforms, nixing the skirts from girls' outfits so that all students wear the khaki pants previously designated for boys.

But instead of applauding the new policy, some parents are complaining that their daughters are being denied the classic look of the skirted uniform.

Administrators at St. Bernadette Catholic School decided to make the uniform switch, announced recently in a letter to parents, for a variety of reasons, including that girls were wearing them inappropriately the New Haven Register reports.

But that wasn't enough to convince some angry parents who are circulating a petition to stymie the new uniform adjustments. Many parents say they're reluctant to shell out the cash for more uniforms, which is understandable. But others say that in banning skirts, the school is denying female students the right to a more feminine silhouette. "I would like to carry on with the beautiful tradition that the kids wear their proud uniform," one anonymous mother tells the Register.

Skirts are "prouder" than pants. Now we know!

Sartorial concerns aside, the school's invocation of "skirt rolling" brings up another key issue: wearing the skirts puts girls in a unique place for sexual harassment. As commenter songsinthekeyoflife writes on Jezebel about her experience with the uniforms:

I remember we liked having a uniform, for the most part -- there's something nice about the solidarity, the tradition and how tidy it looks -- but not one of us liked the attention we got from men (and especially OLD men) when we were wearing them. And I clearly remember expecting harassment any time I was alone and wearing it in certain public places. Teenage girls are harassed enough as it is, the uniform just makes it ten times worse and really brings out the degenerates.

The fight over what constitutes a proper school uniform won't be vanishing any time soon; uniforms, which have undergone flux in recent years due to student and parental demand for more comfortable and less revealing outfits, are becomingly increasingly more common in Connecticut's public and private schools. But the rise in popularity hasn't come without controversy: a recent survey in the Connecticut town of Manchester found an almost equal number of voters favored and disapproved of a uniform dress code.

Click over to the New Haven Register to read more parents' reactions to the ban on skirted uniforms.

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Amie Nogrady
you say witch like it's a bad thing
01:57 AM on 03/24/2012
We are all going to end up in Star Trek costumes before it is all said and done. One school wants to stop girls from wearing yoga pants because they are too provocative. Another school says that you cannot wear certain boots or shoes because you will sneak in your phone that way. And now the catholic schools are doing away with the little skirts. Yep. Everyone is going to get the unisex, unitard in red, yellow or blue. Until we all start bickering and squabbling over who gets to wear which color.
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BlueCollarChick
Be the person your dog thinks you are.
01:20 AM on 03/24/2012
In a perfect world, kids would be able to wear what makes them comfortable, but since this is not a perfect world and there are creeps and pervs all over the place, we've got to do what's in the kid's best interest. Pants or long skirts might keep the deviants from fantasizing about your young daughters. It sucks because those uniforms are absolutely adorable, but this is the world we live in.
05:10 AM on 04/24/2013
I agree. I remember fondly the days wearing my Catholic School uniform, but luckily in the 80's and early 90's I wasn't harassed like they are today. People were more decent back then and looked out for children. You can thank Britney Spears for this. And male society that has embraced the sexualizing of our children. I think it is highly offensive when people think this kind of thing is acceptable. I wish all people rejected this kind of image as filthy and perverted, but unfortunately that's not what happened. We have to deal with the world we have, not the one we wish we had. At first I was upset they were taking the skirts and dresses away thinking they should just enforce the rules, but when I realized the probably real reason which is to protect the girls so I am totally for it. The new uniforms will not be as cute but if it means that little girls will not be sexually harassed by sexual deviants, than it is a small price.
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PrairieGayCompanion
To improve is to change
03:29 AM on 02/05/2012
Other than wearing pants that were a little too tight, the boys in my school didn't have a lot of choice - this at a time when our gym shorts were skimpier than the underwear we wear now. The girls all had their tricks down pat, the skirt rolling and blouse unbuttoning were all timed for the appropriate moments when staff wasn't around.
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Woodsie
nulli dei, nulli domini
10:59 AM on 02/04/2012
Our uniforms were a plain tailored white blouse and a navy blue shirt; we used to look with envy at the girls of St. Paul's plaid skirts - it seemed downright 'edgy'. : )
11:31 PM on 02/03/2012
Well my answer would be no uniforms, but those religious schools and their need to have a solidarity look, I think the girls should have the choice between skirt or pants at least.If they wear them inappropriately just deal with it the same way inappropriate clothes are dealt with at public school. Not that big of a deal.
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zoebliss
09:34 PM on 02/03/2012
good move, catholic schools! little plaid schoolgirl skirts should only be seen in strip clubs.
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CPAwADD
Always look on the bright side of life.
11:22 AM on 02/03/2012
When I went to Catholic school the girls had to wear uniforms and the boys couldn't wear jeans or tee shirts. That double standard lasted for decades. Amazing.
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Chaotician101
11:19 AM on 02/03/2012
Clearly we need to end the segregated propaganda religious schools of all types! Besides being indoctrination centers for religious ignorance and bigotry; the other major purpose of these schools is quasi-legal racial segregation! Being high cost alternatives, they "naturally" exclude the poor which is ironic for religions based on a guy like Jesus! Letting priests or their peer groups set clothing standards is bizarre!
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CSKAP
Morlock or Eloi?
09:59 AM on 02/03/2012
From skirts to pants, then mandatory long sleeves and then finally we can get to the Burka. Each fundamentalist religion gets to the same place eventually.
We must hide women to protect them from men.
08:16 AM on 02/03/2012
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!
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MichaelFroemel
Star Trek fan from Germany
07:36 AM on 02/03/2012
Unfortunately we don't have school uniforms here in Germany. Maybe I'm one of the dirty old men but I like the look of a girl in school uniform.
03:29 AM on 02/03/2012
I don't care what kind of uniform schoolgirls wear.



As long as adult women are willing to wear schoolgirl uniforms, it's OK with me.
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12:38 AM on 02/03/2012
God does not like plaid.
08:17 AM on 02/03/2012
Plaid is the Devil's work?
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IvyRedhead Hoffart
enjoying life in a messed-up world
11:35 AM on 02/03/2012
only when they don't match
10:04 PM on 02/02/2012
The girls lost their right to wear skirts because they were wearing them inappropriately- same thing happened at my high school. However, we were able to petition the school to bring them back, with certain restrictions in place.
10:49 AM on 03/24/2012
How does one wear a skirt "inappropriately?"
09:59 PM on 02/24/2013
The girls roll them up so they are inappropriately high. It happened all the time when I was in high school. Finally the school administration switched the girls over to jumpers that couldn't be rolled. What was nice though was that they started it with the incoming freshmen so that existing students didn't have to buy new uniforms.
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PlayTOE
Morals evolved due to cooperative group living
08:04 PM on 02/02/2012
The school should have simply accepted the pants as a legitimate dress option for girls and let choice take over ...
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cafebeege
12:42 AM on 02/05/2012
Except the whole reason for switching to pants for the girls was because some were "rolling" the waistbands up to make them shorter. Soooo, the ones who have been doing that would still wear the skirts and do that, defeating the whole purpose of switching to pants/slacks.

BTW, girls "rolled" their waistbands all the way back in the 60's to shorten their skirts. Only the skirts were alot longer then almost to the knees. Now they would be shorter than mini skirts of the 70's if they "rolled" uniform skirts. I just saw a cute plaid skirted uniform the other day here in a different state, and it was plenty short enough. Was very attractive with a monogrammed navy sweater with the school's monogram.
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PlayTOE
Morals evolved due to cooperative group living
03:17 AM on 02/05/2012
girls who deliberately dress provocatively are going to make that choice no matter what the dress code is ... best to downplay the issue.