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Alaska Women Stephanie Figarelle, Lela McArthur, Wed Atop Empire State Building

Lela Mcarthur Stephanie Figarelle

KAREN MATTHEWS   02/14/12 02:41 PM ET  AP

NEW YORK — Two women who met as college students in Alaska and two men who met at a nightclub in Manhattan became the first same-sex couples Tuesday to be married at the Empire State Building.

"I cannot wait to spend the rest of my life with you," Stephanie Figarelle told Lela McArthur as they exchanged rings in a ceremony at the iconic skyscraper.

"I will always love you forever, with every beat of my heart," said McArthur, who is taking her partner's name.

Figarelle and McArthur were among four couples who won an online contest for a Valentine's Day wedding at the Empire State Building designed by event planner Colin Cowie.

After the ceremonies in a 61st-floor area that is rented out for parties, the couples posed for photos on the 86th-floor observation deck.

Figarelle, 29, and McArthur, 24, met in an anatomy class at the University of Alaska Anchorage. Celia Milton, the interfaith minister who married them, said that Figarelle invited McArthur out to see a drag show and McArthur thought she meant a drag race.

"Needless to say she was quite surprised," Milton said.

The two work as personal trainers in Anchorage and are finishing their degrees.

Figarelle was married in a black tuxedo while McArthur wore a strapless white gown with a train.

Figarelle said she hopes the couple's home state of Alaska will legalize same-sex marriage, which became legal in New York last year.

"Equality's a beautiful thing," she said. "Love is a beautiful thing. We don't have enough of it in this world."

New Yorkers Phil Fung and Shawn Klein walked up the aisle to the strains of the Michael Bolton song "How Am I Supposed to Live Without You." The men wore matching brown suits and checkered ties.

They met 18 years ago at the Roxy, a popular nightclub that has since closed.

"You can find true love on the dance floor. It can happen," said Klein, 51, who works in procurement at New York Presbyterian Hospital while Fung, 49, works in the technology department of a financial firm.

The decor for the women's nuptials was "winter wonderland," said Cowie, the host of a wedding planning show on Lifetime TV. The flowers were white, and crystals dripped from a white tree.

The men were married under a jungle-inspired arbor draped with banana leaves and tangerine-colored flowers.

The other two couples were heterosexual: Angela Vega and Lubin Masibay of San Francisco and Paula Cubero and Enrique Catter of Greenwich, Conn.


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10:07 AM on 02/18/2012
I thought the womon was a boy in the tux at first, then I realized she is lady; cute couple regardless!!
05:34 AM on 02/18/2012
As nice as they look, that union will never be blessed, because in the eyes of God, it is unholy. It is not a real marriage, no matter what type of legal documents they have. Sad story for both of them in reality.
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02:33 AM on 02/20/2012
In the eyes of your God. In the eyes of my God you are unholy, sad life for you.
02:51 AM on 02/20/2012
‘Have ye not read, that He which made them at the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh’. Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh.’ What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.’ ”
11:04 PM on 02/23/2012
Totally agree
05:26 AM on 02/18/2012
People will do anything to promote Homosexualithy. They are trying very hard to make this lifestyle mainstream culture. Eventually it will all backfire, because whatever goes up nust come down.
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forkuu
terrible typist-no patience- no political party
01:07 AM on 02/18/2012
gorgeous bride ..to the groomiss you lucky dog..
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forkuu
terrible typist-no patience- no political party
12:59 AM on 02/18/2012
hurray hurray hurray ... i hope there are more to come ..
11:01 PM on 02/17/2012
We are all free to decide what to do with our lives! And We continue to try and cover the sun with only one finger....We were created man and a woman, each with a body wich has its own and specific functions. A woman is born a woman and will die a woman(the same for a man), no matter what shes wearing, her outer ouftit might be modified but her inside(cells,hormones,organs,physicall changes)cant be touched, if so, it will never work well again! If you were born a woman, and try living another role, you will live a lie always in a kind of way. God loves this people, but doesnt love their sin, cause he created man and woman to be united(Adam and Eve)thats when the blessing was given, He didnt blessed a man and a man, or a woman and a woman.Adam and Eves union was for the purpose of giving life, have children, that is only possible through the natural way!Lets not fool ourselves!May the light of God and His Son,shine upon you girls and guide you to the correct path.
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forkuu
terrible typist-no patience- no political party
01:02 AM on 02/18/2012
since it is ONLY YOUR opinion it doesnt count... guess it must be frustrating to see that the medical profession doesnt agree and that bigotry and IGNORANCE like yours is slowly but surely being beaten down...
11:01 PM on 02/23/2012
I used to think like you once you receive Jesus as your saviour and read His Word, you learn to understand that what once we thought was our correct way, at the end, it is a way that leads towards death.I understand that what I say sounds crazy to you but its not only my opinion,its GODs(the one that at this very moment you are reading me, gives you the air to breathe)word,"For the message of the cross is foolishness to those who are perishing, but to us who are being saved it is the power of God."Im telling you(read correctly)GOD loves the sinner,but not his sin.Im not a teacher of the Word of God,but its not difficult to understand the main comandments. You dont need to be a genius, you need an obedient heart .God is a gentleman and wont force anyone to follow him,he will send his message,you are free to decide what to choose.But consequences wont be left aside.Just pass a light in red or drive 50 on a 35. No its not frustrating all that surrounds medicine,they were made by HIM but you know, they sometimes give up on very sick people or hard situations. Now you have received the message. HE is knocking at your hearts door right now. Choose to open it or not.GOD bless you forkuu.Bye
05:08 PM on 02/17/2012
They look Fabulous! Congratulations ladies. Wishing you many happy years.
09:02 PM on 02/16/2012
aw (:
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DevonTexas
Eternal Optimism
03:40 PM on 02/16/2012
nice looking couple. congrats and best wishes.
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HannahaS
Have great day!
12:19 PM on 02/16/2012
What a beautiful couple.
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Diana Scrimger
01:59 AM on 02/16/2012
The first couple looks like it is really a man and a woman more than a same sex couple. Maybe they are not even from Alaska. I guess that I do not believe everything that I read in newspapers. I know that they are not always telling the truth!
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DevonTexas
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03:41 PM on 02/16/2012
believe what you want.
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JoeQPublic for President
02:21 PM on 02/17/2012
Diana is insecure about her own feelings. Poor Diana
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Keith N
The price of freedom is eternal vigilance.
01:19 PM on 02/15/2012
What this article neglects to mention is that Lela McArthur is the daughter of a preacher in Sitka Alaska who once stated that: "Gays/lesbians are the product of an unstable abusive home."

Ha Ha Ha Ha!
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Keith N
The price of freedom is eternal vigilance.
01:41 PM on 02/15/2012
The father and church in question is: Pastor Paul McArthur, Grace Harbor Church
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DevonTexas
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03:42 PM on 02/16/2012
reason to be careful what you say, isn't it? LOL thanks for sharing.
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rockysparks
there's no law against being annoying.
10:01 AM on 02/15/2012
Congratulations to these and all couples, regardless of sexual orientation, who want to marry.
10:28 PM on 02/14/2012
There are some really narrow minded stupid people out there. To my sister Steph and Lela, CONGRATS!!! I'm so happy and proud of you two. I hope you have many many happy years together. Lela, holy cow you look beautiful!!! Its funny, you never think the folks who win stuff like this are real and here they are my own family :o) TO HAPPINESS!!! love ya, Danielle
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DevonTexas
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03:43 PM on 02/16/2012
brides are always beautiful... these two make the case.
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forkuu
terrible typist-no patience- no political party
01:05 AM on 02/18/2012
happiness to your sis and her love ... you sound like an awesome loving sister..
09:01 PM on 02/14/2012
I gotta say...they are truly a stunning couple! I wish them all the best!