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M.B., Tyler Clementi Mystery Man, Could Shed New Insight Into Gay Teen Suicide Case

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GEOFF MULVIHILL   02/20/12 02:21 PM ET  AP

NEW BRUNSWICK, N.J. — The trial of a former Rutgers University student accused of using a webcam to spy on his roommate's intimate encounter with another man could reveal some of the mystery that surrounds the case if the unidentified man in the video is called to testify.

The story touched off a national conversation about the impact of bullying of young gays after the roommate, Tyler Clementi, committed suicide in 2010, in the days following the alleged spying.

The suspect, Dharun Ravi, is not charged with his death; however, he is charged with bias intimidation – a hate crime punishable by 10 years in prison – invasion of privacy and tampering with evidence and a witness.

Questioning of potential jurors is scheduled to begin Wednesday.

The suicide will certainly loom over the trial. When prospective jurors went to court last week to fill out questionnaires, Judge Glenn Berman told them that Clementi had killed himself.

Ravi, 19, rejected a plea bargain offer that would have let him avoid any jail time and receive the state's help if federal authorities tried to deport him to India, where he was born. Lawyer Steven Altman said the reason his client didn't accept the deal was simple: He's not guilty of any crimes.

If the other man in the video is brought to the witness stand, his testimony could become a key part of the trial. He's been identified publicly only by the initials M.B.

A legal battle in the case leading up to the trial focused on whether Ravi and his lawyers could learn the man's identity. Eventually, the judge ruled they could. If he testifies, his full name is expected to be used.

About 2,000 Middlesex County residents were called for jury duty for the case. Most said they could not serve because it would create a hardship.

More than 200 came to court Friday to fill out 17-page questionnaires that probe issues such as how they feel about gays and whether they've ever had problems with a roommate.

Lawyers and Judge Glenn Berman will meet Tuesday to determine which prospective jurors may have biases or know witnesses and should be removed from the list.

They will start asking questions of them Wednesday in hopes of finding 12 people plus alternates who can serve in the high-profile case. The process is expected to last at least a few days.

The trial itself, which is expected to delve into text messages, tweets and online chats from Clementi and Ravi, is projected to last about four weeks.

The main alleged crime happened in September 2010, just weeks after Clementi, a violinist from Ridgewood, and Ravi, an Ultimate Frisbee player from Plainsboro, moved into their dorm room at Rutgers.

Clementi's parents said he told them he was gay in the days before he left for Rutgers. But court filings show that Ravi already knew that from Clementi's web postings.

Authorities say Ravi used the webcam on his computer to check on Clementi when he'd asked to have the room to himself so he could have company.

Ravi posted a Twitter message about it: "Roommate asked for the room till midnight. I went into molly's room and turned on my webcam. I saw him making out with a dude. Yay."

Initially, another first-year Rutgers student, Molly Wei, of Princeton Junction, was also charged in the case. But she entered a plea-trial intervention program last year that allows her to avoid jail time and emerge without a criminal record if she meets a list of conditions for three years. She also agreed to cooperate with prosecutors in their case against Ravi.

Two nights after the first alleged spying incident, authorities say, Ravi tried to do the same thing when Clementi asked him to stay away from the room again.

A day after that, Clementi jumped from the George Washington Bridge, leaving behind a terse Facebook status updated: "Jumping off the gw bridge, sorry."

Clementi's death came amid a string of cases involving younger teens and children who had killed themselves after allegedly being bullied.

Celebrities and leaders such as President Barack Obama and Ellen DeGeneres spoke out about what had happened.

Since then, Clementi's family has launched a foundation in his memory, seeking to encourage online civility and acceptance of gay youth.

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NEW BRUNSWICK, N.J. — The trial of a former Rutgers University student accused of using a webcam to spy on his roommate's intimate encounter with another man could reveal some of the mystery tha...
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11:30 PM on 02/29/2012
I lived in a co-ed dorm, much like these Rutgers students. Honestly, I am happy to have survived the pranks and stupidity of many of the students. It's one big party. I think this was an stupid, immature prank that had tragic consequences. Schools need to do more about having a safe housing for its students. AND be very specific about what is acceptable behavior. These kids didn't think using a webcam to see what was going on in Tyler Clementi's room was illegal. Educate this kids.
08:12 AM on 02/29/2012
Let me make a psychological deduction. The mother didn't accept the son death because she didn't accept him being homosexual. This cause the son to depress and later commit suicide. Family acceptance very important for a person well being before a person can be accepted by society at large, how can he truly accept himself as being a homosexual even family already cannot accept it. This is a huge psychological blow. This mom/family now feel the guilt of causing their son death. They are now in denial, and when person in denial, they always seek to blame others....and the unfortunate victim is now Ravi. This guy Ravi is like any other teen of his age, mischief, curious and immature. He did something that shouldn't be done, maybe he watch too much American Pie film and find his action is acceptable to society, in this case...it is very unfortunate. Ravi the mischief teen and guilt ridden mom.....who's fault that cause Tyler to jump?
03:55 PM on 02/26/2012
I've been watching this story. So far we've heard a lot about the roommate but what about the man that Tyler was with, M.B.? I had assumed that Tyler was with another student but this man, M.B. was much older and not even a Rutgers student. I think it only fair to have this older man brought in to answer some questions in the courtroom. The jurors need to get the whole story of what really happened to this young man who died a tragic death.
02:55 AM on 02/24/2012
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10:03 PM on 02/22/2012
"A legal battle in the case leading up to the trial focused on whether Ravi and his lawyers could learn the man's identity." For what purpose? M.B. has already made a statement to the police. M.B. is not a suspect or a witness. The mystery man was not Clementi's psychiatrist, so any insight into Clementi's state of mind is useless. To out M.B. to the planet when he is not even out to his family is allowing Ravi to maul another gay dudes life. I understand a persons liberty is at stake but so is another persons safety and well-being. M.B. is not a invisible, unquestionable accuser to Ravi, Clementi is. People like Ravi are one of the reasons gay people stay in the closet and as far as blockheads and homophobes go Ravi isn't nearly the worst to be found.
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10:49 AM on 02/22/2012
What disgusts me most about this story is that both perpetrators were offered plea deals that gave them no jail time. And what's with offering Ravi state help if the federal government tries to deport him? That Ravi rejected his deal is truly shocking and I, for one, hope he regrets it. What a mean, nasty, vile, pointless thing to do to anyone, especally for a few laughs.
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Midlife45
10:45 AM on 02/22/2012
It a shame he killed himself instead of filing a harassment law suit. Not for taping and then placing people on the net. Its way beyond gossip. There needs to be laws in place that make it illegal to have a tape or personal mail placed on the net without the consent of the people involved. I thought it was illegal to open someones mail? Isn't that a felony? If the man had video taped doing home work and it was placed online without him knowing it should be also against the law. Its an invasion of privacy. That's the issue.
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care4ub0y
10:26 AM on 02/22/2012
Imagine it was you which were being taped while you were having sex [any kind of sex: heterosexual or homosexual]. How would you feel?
09:19 AM on 02/22/2012
Anyone who wants to fully understand this case needs to read this article with an open mind. It is disturbing on so many levels.

http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2012/02/06/120206fa_fact_parker
09:18 AM on 02/22/2012
So many of you are so busy arguing over whether Ravi was an accomplice to Clementi's suicide or whether it was a hate crime or a prank that you fail to recognize the crime that Ravi allegedly committed. He is alleged to have committed VOYEURISM. It doesn't matter what the reason is, who the victim is, where it occurs, or what the person(s) actually sees, voyeurism is still a SEX CRIME.
gov111w
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09:10 AM on 02/22/2012
You must really hve to ahte yourself to commit suicide, it is hard to comprehend that a person so youg could dislike themselves so much as to end their life.
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Sarazzara
La Fanciulla del East Coast
09:38 AM on 02/22/2012
You don't have to hate yourself, but in most cases, just be unable to bear the pain of living.
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joemondo
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10:13 AM on 02/22/2012
Thanks for a truly uninformed opinion.
gov111w
Truth-Justice-And the American way !
12:13 PM on 02/27/2012
Ypur welcome Joe, I always do try !!
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TERPMOM
08:58 AM on 02/22/2012
Ahh, attending university, a time of higher learning, experimentation .... and exploitation in many, many ways.
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silsez
Bring it on, Bucko.
08:08 AM on 02/22/2012
10 years for a "hate" crime? Most murderers don't get that kind of time.
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08:49 AM on 02/22/2012
And there you have it. Murder is more P.C. than bad thoughts in today's society. Gee, I wonder how that happened.
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mcn4165
09:12 AM on 02/22/2012
What fantasy world do you live in? The average sentence for murder is 25 years in the US.
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Ed whowannaknow
Keep your panties on
06:53 AM on 02/22/2012
Hope they hang ravi from the rafters
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Sarazzara
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09:41 AM on 02/22/2012
It's a good thing they don't hang people from the highest rafters who post nonsense.
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Ed whowannaknow
Keep your panties on
10:19 AM on 02/22/2012
maybe we should have someone video and post on internet without your knowledge some personal act, and see how YOU like it. Or maybe you are a porn star and already do that since you seem to think ravi did nothing wrong and detestable, run to his defense.