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Martin O'Malley, Maryland Governor, Sounds Off On Gay Marriage, Obama, Chris Christie

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First Posted: 02/23/2012 9:33 am Updated: 02/23/2012 9:38 am

On the eve of a historic vote in the Maryland Senate on a marriage equality bill, Governor Martin O’Malley appeared confident that the bill, which passed the House of Delegates last week, would pass the senate and be on his desk perhaps by the weekend. Maryland would become the 8th state to offer marriage rights to gays and lesbians, though the law could face a voter referendum in November.

O'Malley also discussed Dick Cheney’s lobbying of Maryland legislators to pass the bill, President Obama’s still-evolving position on marriage for gays and lesbians, and whether or not marriage equality should be included in the platform hammered out at the Democratic Party’s convention this year. And in a follow-up, the governor’s spokesperson responded to a question about Gov. Chris Christie’s veto of a marriage equality bill in New Jersey by saying O’Malley was doing what is right for children of gay and lesbian parents.

“I believed that in my short service to the people of this state that the consensus point on this issue could only be reached around civil unions,” O’Malley said of his prior position on the issue, appearing on my radio program on SiriusXM OutQ on Wednesday. “I was wrong. It became possible to reach a consensus on marriage equality.”

“There’s been an evolution in the broadest sense among the people of our state,” he continued. “Initially, when this issue first became very visible, after Mayor Gavin Newsom conducted marriages in San Francisco [in 2004], I think initially a lot of people had a lot of fear -- and a lot of misplaced fear -- and over time I think people have come to realize that the way forward, among people of many different faiths, is always through the greater and broader respect for equal rights for all.”

In response to reports that former Vice President Dick Cheney, whose daughter Mary is a lesbian, was lobbying Maryland legislators, O’Malley said: “I welcome bipartisan cooperation wherever it happens.There were lots of people making lots of calls and I think that’s a good and healthy thing. There’s not a family among us that doesn’t have a friend or a relative who is gay. All of those stories come together around this issue and it transcends party.”

Discussing President Obama’s public position on marriage equality -- which is not quite as evolved as Dick Cheney’s -- O’Malley appeared to view the president’s position as one that is more so driven by perceived political realities.

“I think the president is doing as best he can and as quickly as he can with an electorate that’s broader, frankly, than the State of Maryland and the State of New York,” he said. “He’s stepped up in a number of ways to move us forward on this issue and and to lead. I don’t have much doubt about the direction our country is moving. The direction is always forward.”

Responding to the push by activists to have the Democratic National Committee incorporate marriage equality in the party’s platform this year at its convention, O’Malley said he would “‘perhaps” be in favor of it, noting that he “hadn’t given a whole lot of thought” to it and believed the party needed to focus first and foremost on job recovery heading into the election.

O’Malley discussed how he tried to create consensus around same-sex marriage in a state that tried but failed to pass a marriage equality bill last year.

“I encouraged people to look at it through the eyes of children of gay and lesbian couples,” he explained. “And it is not right, and it is not just, that children of gay and lesbian parents should have lesser protections. It was about equal rights for all.”

The issue of children was raised again when a spokesperson for the governor responded to a follow-up question asking for reaction to Gov. Chris Christie’s veto of a marriage equality bill in New Jersey: “In contrast to what is happening in New Jersey, Governor O’Malley has always said he would sign a bill if passed. All children should live in loving, stable and committed homes. The governor is proud of the steps taken thus far by Maryland legislators to step up and protect rights equally.”

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On the eve of a historic vote in the Maryland Senate on a marriage equality bill, Governor Martin O’Malley appeared confident that the bill, which passed the House of Delegates last week, would pass...
On the eve of a historic vote in the Maryland Senate on a marriage equality bill, Governor Martin O’Malley appeared confident that the bill, which passed the House of Delegates last week, would pass...
 
 
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05:43 PM on 03/03/2012
Accepting gay marriage, allowing those tempted by homosexuality to feel more comfortable in their sins is not moving forward Neither is it going backward, it is going down the toilet. It is ignoring what God has given in His word for our lives, and ignoring what most of nature says is natural for a man and a woman. And allowing children to be exposed to this only leads to greater laxity of our moral fiber. Homosexuality is not natural, just as a man trying to rape a child, or two members of the same family trying to marry. It breeds sin and disease and that of the worst kind, that of the mind.
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racmd
Just riding the wave of life
12:31 PM on 02/24/2012
Where did they find this guy?? We need to clone him!! Make him a national spokesperson for the movement of same-sex marriage....a man who is not only proud to be an American but does what is right!!!!
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SeanMartin
Everything in moderation.
10:32 AM on 02/24/2012
Why cant the US have more leaders like this? Why do you people have to settle for nutcases like Newt and Santorum and Bachmann?

Seriously, guys: what's wrong with you that you cant get more people like this man to run for office?
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BooBoo Bob
Fighter, activist, bon-vivant and lover.
08:12 AM on 02/24/2012
I'm SO glad to see another governor on the right side of history. I can't wait to hear that he's signed it and Maryland can move on. To those who would call for a referendum, I would ask "Would you like for us to vote on your love life?" I know it's an old question, but it's one I've yet to receive a satisfactory answer to. I see this as yet another step toward the repeal of DOMA and a life of freedom and happiness for LGBT couples everywhere. Kudos, Martin O'Malley.
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Anon Ymous
11:56 PM on 02/23/2012
This is an awesome step in the right direction of human rights. However, there is a long way to go and a definitive ruling by the SCOTUS is the only reasonable way to assure that all LGBT people in every state recieve true equality.

However an end to DOMA and an enforcement of the requirement that states give full faith and credit to the laws and official acts of other states...would certainly be an interesting way to pursue marriage equality. If states had to recognize marriages in other states...and there were no federal limits that made those marriages essentially unequal...then there would really be no reasoable basis for states to continue to support meaningless bans on same sex marriage.
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stalcom
We are soldiers, born to stand
10:45 PM on 02/23/2012
Kudos to Governor O'Malley for taking a stand for marriage equality. He appears to be a very wise man. Every state should be so lucky to have a governor like him.
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MsMarchHare
Leader of the Zanti Misfits!
12:05 AM on 02/24/2012
Folks like Christie will be on the losing side of history's opinion...like the Dred Scott decision
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J Michael Norris
Don't mistake narrow-mindedness for perspicacity.
09:21 PM on 02/23/2012
Congratulations! This means that almost 1 out of 6 states now allows gay marriage! AWESOME!!!
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X-JerseyGuy
Bus.Owner/TaxPayer & a Thorn in the Right's side!
08:20 PM on 02/23/2012
Congratulations Maryland!
07:27 PM on 02/23/2012
Congratulations Maryland! I'm so happy for all of you.
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Godweiser
The eyes have it.
06:34 PM on 02/23/2012
It just passed here in Maryland. Now, before all you conservatives start complaining, I suggest you check. If you are not a Maryland resident, this isn't your business.

Moving past that, I'm so glad it's now here. Though I am worried that it will now wind up a referendum and I hate dealing with that. Maybe federal rulings of some sort regarding Prop 8 and referendums will apply here as well, but last I looked, most Marylanders support gay marriage anyway.

This transplanted Masshole in Maryland certainly does and will vote accordingly.
HoosierInMaryland
HuffPo says my 'micro-bio is empty'
06:28 PM on 02/23/2012
Maryland General Assembly Senate vote:

25 for passage,
22 against.

The bill will go to Governor O'Malley for signature!!
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werewolf90210
DVM, Ph.D.; Progressive Business Owner.
07:18 PM on 02/23/2012
Yeah! I feel sorry for the LGBT Community of NJ, their State could have been #8. Oh well....
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BooBoo Bob
Fighter, activist, bon-vivant and lover.
08:14 AM on 02/24/2012
Maybe they're waiting for a prime number... or one that ends in zero. People are weird that way.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Married Gay Pagan Man
05:46 PM on 02/23/2012
What a wonderful man! And it would, of course, be wonderful if Maryland was to become the 8th state with marriage equality. Each state we gain brings the tipping point to national marriage equality that much closer.

As for the "referendum", when will this electoral bullying be condemned once and for all? I would never vote on the rights of others because this is morally repugnant to me as an American. I find it more than painfully ironic that "with Liberty and Justice" for all" has come to a screaming halt where my fellow GLBTs and I are concerned.
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Godweiser
The eyes have it.
06:36 PM on 02/23/2012
I'm very glad I voted for him, twice.
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Ioan Lightoller
Proud Married Gay Pagan Man
06:54 PM on 02/23/2012
So am I.
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meeks
Perfectly my flawed self at all times
07:39 AM on 02/24/2012
Me too !!!
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David Moore
Teacher, German, Math, Pennsylvania
05:14 PM on 02/23/2012
To the people of Maryland, I do hope marriage equality is achieved in the legislature and not fought at the ballot box in November. The people should never have the right to fight against the rights of a minority. To all the naysayers, I argue, which rights should we have the opportunity to take away from you?
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obtusegoose
aka David in Houston
05:51 PM on 02/23/2012
My response is, "When do I get to vote on your marriage?" I don't recall the public having a referendum on whether Gov. Christie should have the right to marry (a Subway sandwich).
Sorry, I couldn't help myself. That guy deserves to be mocked thoroughly.
03:30 PM on 02/23/2012
Having spent a significant amount of time in Baltimore (having lived there part-time over a 2 1/2 year period), I must say that I am not only impressed by O'Malley's fight for marriage equality, but also his vigilance in ensuring that a bill is actually passed. His quest for justice in this matter is, indeed, inspiring and gives me hope that more politicians will continue to follow suit. The sooner we see to it that the civil rights of all citizens are addressed and attended to, the greater the chance we can ascend to the level of greatness we so often emphasize.
12:54 PM on 03/04/2012
do tell,you're a bunch of sicko's.u need 2 read the bible,thats the only one one who will be judging you ,when u can't put your agender on others.
03:17 PM on 02/23/2012
OMG when im older i won't have to move to DC!!!!!!!! XD O'Malley 2016 people!!!!