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Nirvana Jennette, Mom Forced Out Of Church For Breastfeeding, Aims To Change Georgia Law [UPDATED]

First Posted: 02/24/2012 12:43 pm Updated: 03/ 8/2012 10:41 am

Nirvana Jennette, a mom of four from Camden County, Georgia says she was forced out of church for breastfeeding her baby. Church leaders asked her to breastfeed in the bathroom and implied they could have arrested her for “lewd behavior.” The most egregious statement? She told news station WSAV that her pastor compared her breastfeeding to a stripper performing.

According to Fox 30 WAWS, although Georgia state law allows a mother to nurse her child anywhere, Jennette could face public indecency charges. She wants her message to be heard loud and clear -- breastfeeding is natural and moms who want to feed their children in public should be protected. To that end, she's decided to stage a nurse-in and is seeking to establish legislative change for the State of Georgia.

(This story has been updated. Scroll down for new information.)

On March 5th, Jennette will stage the "Georgia Statewide Nurse-In" at the Woodbine Courthouse and is calling for moms and supporters to join her via Facebook. Nurse-in protests are becoming much more common -- recently, moms breastfed in front of Facebook's headquarters after nursing photos were wrongfully removed from the social network. And after mom, Michelle Hickman, was shamed for breastfeeding at a Target store, she organized a nationwide nurse-in that took place in several retail locations.

The Georgia Statewide Nurse-In, aims not only to spread awareness and support for breastfeeding moms, but to change the law. As Jennette writes in her petition letter:


Currently Georgia state law allows a mother to nurse her child anywhere that mother and child have permission to be, but there is no enforcement provision. A law without enforcement protects no one. New legislation would provide for civil action against anyone subjecting a nursing mother to harassment or discrimination in violation of the current state breastfeeding law, as well as protection from all indecent exposure laws.

She insists that the law be changed and says, "We will not stop until they are."

According to Jennette's Facebook page, her cause has even been recognized by Oprah. When the queen of daytime television was in Georgia for Lovetown, USA, (a TV show on the OWN network) she was photographed holding the Georgia Statewide Nurse-In flyer.

UPDATE:

Dozens of moms participated in the Georgia Statewide Nurse-In on Monday, March 5th, in Atlanta, Woodbine and other cities throughout the state. According to News4Georgia.com, "The mothers said they're hopeful lawmakers will take notice and the laws will change, but in the meantime, they say nothing will stop them from nurturing their children whenever and wherever they need to."

LOOK: More moms who have been shamed for breastfeeding in public:
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  • At Hollister

    Brittany Warfield, a mother of three from Texas, <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/07/hollister-nurse-in_n_2425541.html" target="_blank">was nursing her 7-month-old outside of a Hollister store in a Houston mall, she says a manager forced her to move</a>. “He said, ‘You can’t do this here. This is not where you do that. You can’t do that on Hollister property. We don’t allow that.’ I said, ‘It’s Texas. I can breastfeed anywhere I like.’ He said, ‘Not at Hollister. Your stroller is blocking the way. You have to go,’” she recalls.

  • On Facebook

    Mom and breastfeeding advocate <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/01/12/emma-kwasnica-breastfeeding-mom-facebook_n_1203198.html" target="_hplink">Emma Kwasnica</a>had posted over 200 photos on Facebook of herself nursing her own three children and told the Huffington Post that her account has been suspended at least five times as a result. She organized a nurse-in in front of Facebook headquarters to challenge the company's policy that says photos depicting breastfeeding are "inappropriate."

  • At Target

    Houston mother Michelle Hickman says she was <a href="http://www.bestforbabes.org/target-employees-bully-breastfeeding-mom-despite-corporate-policy" target="_hplink">harassed and humiliated by Target staff </a>when she found a quiet space in the store to breastfeed her infant. She organized an international "nurse-in" at several Target locations on Tuesday December 28th. Pictured above is mom who participated, Brittany Hinson and her 4-month-old son, Kennedy, in front of the Super Target store, in Webster, Texas.

  • At A Cafe

    <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/16/breastfeeding-flash-mob_n_1153963.html?ref=parents" target="_hplink">Claire Jones-Hughes wrote</a>: "After being verbally attacked for not covering up while feeding my four-month-old, I decided it was time to make a statement to show that mothers will no longer tolerate being harassed for feeding our babies in public." She then staged a breastfeeding flash mob at the Clock Tower in Brighton, UK.

  • In A Government Building

    Simone dos Santos was breastfeeding her four-month-old in the hallway of a D.C. government building when <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/12/14/simone-dos-santos_n_1148455.html#s542782&title=McDonalds_" target="_hplink">two female security guards told her to stop</a> because it was indecent. "I was shocked, upset and angry that by providing food for my son, I was being treated like a criminal," she wrote in a blog post for the <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/therootdc/post/dc-guard-no-breastfeeding-in-public/2011/12/12/gIQA2xYvtO_blog.html" target="_hplink">Washington Post</a>.

  • In The Courtroom

    In November, Natalie Hegedus, a Michigan resident, was <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/11/14/natalie-hegedus-courtroom-breastfeeding_n_1089271.html" target="_hplink">asked to leave a courtroom</a> by a district judge. Her post on the community forum, <a href="http://community.babycenter.com/post/a30189175/bf_inappropriate_judge_thinks_so" target="_hplink">BabyCenter</a>, caused a national uproar.

  • In Another Courtroom

    In August 2010, Nicole House was asked to leave the courtroom because a bailiff noticed her breastfeeding.

  • On A Bus

    This past June, a mom was <a href="http://blogs.babycenter.com/mom_stories/07052011breastfeeding-mom-harassed-on-city-bus/" target="_hplink">harassed by a bus driver</a> for breastfeeding on a Detroit-area bus.

  • On A Plane

    Back in 2006, 27-year-old mom, Emily Gillette, was <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/15720339/ns/travel-news/t/woman-kicked-plane-breast-feeding-baby/#.Tr2Eh1ZSmGg" target="_hplink">removed from a Delta flight</a> for breastfeeding. Watch a news clip about this story <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q0r6gbJpc18" target="_hplink">here</a>.

  • At The Mall

    Ohio mom Rhonda claimed that she was <a href="http://consumerist.com/2011/02/woman-says-mall-made-her-leave-for-breastfeeding-in-public.html" target="_hplink">kicked out of her local mall</a> for breastfeeding, back in February. Mall security even called for back-up.

  • At The Pool

    We've heard about <a href="http://blogs.babble.com/strollerderby/2011/07/21/mom-asked-to-leave-ymca-pool-while-breastfeeding-it-made-others-uncomfortable-and-breastmilk-is-considered-a-contaminating-bodily-fluid/" target="_hplink">these incidents</a> from coast to coast. In 2001, a mother nursing her 9-month-old was told to <a href="http://www.komonews.com/news/archive/4015441.html?tab=video" target="_hplink">move away from the edge of the pool</a> so as to avoid contaminating the water with her breast milk.

  • In Her Religious Community

    One mom <a href="http://www.mothering.com/community/t/567001/basically-forced-out-of-church-for-breastfeeding" target="_hplink">posted a frustrated essay</a> in November 2006, detailing her pastor telling her that photos of her breastfeeding were equivalent to pornography. She and her husband decided to leave the church after this incident.

  • At McDonald's

    Clarissa Bradford was <a href="http://www.abc15.com/dpp/news/region_phoenix_metro/north_phoenix/nursing-mother-kicked-out-of-mcdonald's" target="_hplink">kicked out of a McDonald's</a> by an assistant manager for breastfeeding her 6-month-old child in August 2010.

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04:35 AM on 09/22/2012
O.K. --So you have a suppsedly fundamentalist Christian church; backward backwoods ill-trained preacher and a bunch of medieval mentalities in a pathetic excuse of a religious organization whoare afraid of the facts of life. Men consider sex as a function for their pleasure. Women are supposed to become pregnant from the men's pleasure and deliver the baby out of sight, after which the natural function of breastfeeding is to be concealed from delicate male eyes.
In truth, the backwoods Georgia male attitude is primarily due to their idea that only the male responsible for the original pregnancy is entitled to see his lactating spouse's mammaries.
So these men are infantile, juvenile, sophmoric, immature and ridiculous.
What else is new?
09:14 AM on 09/21/2012
Normally Religion is one subject I don't comment on, But this is so Totally ABSURD that I had to. Breast feeding is is as natural as Breathing, and goes back to the Dawn of man. if anything I think Breast feeding should be encouraged, in Today's Fast Paced society, Breast feeding is falling to the wayside. I'm not writing to list the advantages of Breast feeding, although they are many for the child, but the Mothers should Know this. I'm writing to point out the Absurdity of that Preacher, even to mention breast feeding in a bad light was crossing the line, but to go on & compare the Mother to a Stripper & further - throw Her out of the church is Unconscionable! it is my opinion that the church takes too much authority upon itself.
01:38 PM on 09/20/2012
Did Jesus drink formula or did Mary pump?
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FabulousPoodle
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09:41 PM on 09/19/2012
Why does breast feeding make people so angry? Get over it. This just proves that religion turns people into jerks.
07:52 PM on 07/06/2012
I'm a mother of 2 and I know it's natural and everything, but so is taking a poo, and i don't want to see people do that either.
01:35 PM on 09/20/2012
There's a difference between taking a poo and feeding your child.
09:21 AM on 09/21/2012
It's sad that you had to point that fact out to Her - But also funny, it's obvious that the Mom of 2 was a Bottle Mom.
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Thomas VonBerge
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07:21 PM on 06/16/2012
The stripper comment is way out of line but I still think you should be a little modest about it. Not everyone who can see is an adult and Im sure plenty of people wouldn't want their kids seeing that. Churches I've been to have a special room with one way glass so that the mothers can still enjoy the service and have privacy. Or some women just throw a blanket over their shoulder and the child and that covers it just as well.
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FabulousPoodle
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09:42 PM on 09/19/2012
How do you shield the baby from the sight of the Horrible Breast while he's nursing?
01:51 PM on 06/16/2012
The problem is in the pastor's perception. That is where the sin lies. People don't eat in the bathroom and babies shouldn't be forced to. That said, if it is potentially distracting to other church attendees, a privacy room *that allows the mother to still hear the service* should be available. Regarding the Facebook "nurse-in," I can understand the mother's outrage for being booted, but I would never publish pictures of myself nursing on FB, just as I would never put in pics of my kids in just their diapers. There are sick people out there that get off on that stuff and what'd be creepy is them "using" my kid to do so!
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09:56 AM on 06/01/2012
Meanwhile he's probably fondling boys in the pulpit....
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FabulousPoodle
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09:43 PM on 09/19/2012
Totally agree. Something is not quite right about his reaction.
08:49 AM on 04/19/2012
Women saying "cover-up" really bothers me. You aren't helping the situation. None of my children ever wanted something over their heads while eating. I'm also not going to feed them a bathroom or hot car. I do things discreetly and so does every other nursing mom I know but ignorant people still comment regardless.
03:24 PM on 05/31/2012
I agree! I don't think that telling a woman to cover up is any better than telling her to leave the room. Leaving the room or covering up should be for the nursing mother's comfort only. I do not want to expose my breasts in public, but I'm not hiding myself away every time my child needs to eat, since she also refused to be covered.
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FabulousPoodle
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09:44 PM on 09/19/2012
I don't have kids, and don't intend to, (I don't know how people do it, I couldn't deal) but I will support your right to breast feed when and where you want, no questions asked.
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09:35 PM on 04/18/2012
PURITANISM.
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Mdp1517
10:58 PM on 04/02/2012
Low cut blouse with lots of clevage is ok... using boobs as GOD intended is not! Wow.. Sanctimonious fools who hide behind their fake outrage.
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09:23 PM on 03/31/2012
I agree cover up. Maybe Going to the back of the church would have been a good idea
03:25 PM on 05/31/2012
I would think it's a lot easier to discreetly avert your eyes than it is for a woman to get up in the middle of a church service to feed her baby. Some babies refuse to nurse when covered.
03:02 PM on 03/22/2012
I am all for breast feeding mom's have a right to do so in public. However, cover up. Its not that hard. I breast fed 3 of my children and when in public I always had a nursing blanket to cover with to give me privacy. I don't want to show my self to anyone and I know some people don't want to see it. So just cover up.
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psandysdad
The older you get, the more excuses you have.
12:13 PM on 03/15/2012
OK women, just to clear the air: most men are going to have a hard time not staring at a naked breast. Rights and laws and nature notwithstanding, what you are doing is distracting to men.

As long as you're OK with this simple gender fact, do your thing.

Some reactionary types may think breastfeeding isn't a dignified act in public, which is why these incidents keep happening.
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Betty Bogue
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01:51 AM on 03/16/2012
Personally I try my best to cover up but if a man stares oh well. He's seen a boob before and if he hasn't...well I'm doing him a favor. Lol
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FabulousPoodle
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09:45 PM on 09/19/2012
Then we need to raise our boys to be better men and teach them some manners. Or men could just control themselves.
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01:51 AM on 03/13/2012
Isn't this milk best for the baby? I thought it meant the child was less prevalent to become obese, among other things. The war against women now includes nursing mothers.