'Basketball Wives': Evelyn Would Rather Know About Chad Ochocinco's Infidelity (VIDEO)

Chad Ochocinco is soon to be married to his fiancee Evelyn Lozada. And yet, they're both apparently worried about his ability to remain committed to her and only her once they're married. On "Basketball Wives" (Mon., 8 p.m. EST on VH1), Evelyn tried to explain to Chad that she'd rather he be honest with her if he's not able to control himself with other women.

She made it pretty clear that she'd rather he didn't sleep around on her, but seemed resigned to the fact that he can't simply make this guarantee to her. "Being able to commit to one individual over a long period of time is going to be new to me; is new to me," Chad said. He went on to say that he's trying to while on the road, but apparently the temptation is just too strong sometimes.

When he realized that Evelyn was essentially giving him permission to cheat on her, so long as he wears a condom and comes clean to her, there was a mixture of shock and confusion evident in his eyes. After she finished, he waited a respectful few beats before agreeing to her terms.

She won't be happy about it. But, "What can I do but respect you and know that you're telling me the truth, rather than hide it," she said. "'Cause at the end of the day, you don't have to tell me nothing." So Chad has the option of staying faithful and making his wife happy, or cheating on her and her begrudgingly accepting it. Of course, she says she'll be okay with it now, but her feelings could change when the wedding day gets closer, or even beyond it.

Watch "Basketball Wives" every Monday at 8 p.m. EST on VH1.

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Comments

[Tammy James458]

04:21 PM on 03/02/2012

I was shocked to hear that she was saying this to him. She was always talking about groupies and the problems she had with her last relationship with the guy cheating. This caught me off guard, I feel why get married then, if your commitment is this weak just be booty buddies. Just kick it, do not let it be that you put your heart in a situation where you are bring children in it and in the end you are going to have major problems. No woman is ever ok with her man sleeping with others. I don't care what she says. What is the man telling her he is going to cheat on her going to do. This was just STUPID!! Even Chad was confused, yet pleased by her silly remarks.

[jaxster58]

04:49 PM on 03/01/2012

girl come on respect yourself ! dag, better yet make him respect you! we as woman have it hard enough getting the respect due to us period without u giving this dogggg card blanche your a mess or just desperate !(i'll take the latter OMFG!

[Blackrose9]

04:06 PM on 02/29/2012

Seriously, how desparate can a woman be!!!!! Truly a sad state of affairs when a woman gives her soon to be husband permission to cheat even before they are married. Wow is this what the state of marriage is coming to????????????????

[MarieNat]

12:04 PM on 02/29/2012

Wow. If you invite your partner to disrespect you, don't be surprised when they meet that standard. This kind of makes me sad. He was almost like a kid dying to have someone set a boundary and she decided not to.

[NextStopWonder]

10:56 AM on 02/29/2012

*sigh* And these clowns are parents. I do not understand women (especially women who are good and grown like Evelyn) who place more value in being married to someone famous than they do their own happiness and self-respect. She thinks she's being savvy by giving him permission to cheat, but she just looks like a fool.

[Blamegirl Roberts]

05:31 PM on 02/28/2012

Hey everybody's marriage is their own. But I find it ironic that Evelyn is worried about exactly what Jen typed on her blog about the relationship. She has the same concerns as she did when she was with the last athlete. But at least she's not lying to herself. Check out my Blame Reality podcast, available on my blog and iTunes. Search blamegirls.

[marshel1969]

05:13 PM on 02/28/2012

People act in these days that marriage is such a joke.

[LaShauna Jones]

03:43 PM on 02/28/2012

Seriously! How can you accept your soon to be husband cheating on you when he is away and then you admittingly state " its gonna kill you to know?" Why would anyone subject themselves to that type of relationship? Better believe she will be more than "dead" emotionally whtn the relationship hits rock bottom because she will find that Chads cheating ways is more than she can handle!

[Renee Johnson]

02:46 PM on 02/28/2012

She sounds stupid...If I know that man that I intend to marry can not keep from cheating on me...I would not be marrying him...She should have more respect for herself than that and sadly these are the type of women on tv that our little girls look up too...STUPID

[marcel4745]

11:46 AM on 02/28/2012

Chad is telling her in the beginning that he may cheat,so she says just use a condom.Look Chad can i say prenup or just dont get married. She is giving you the o k now but that will change.I think it would be better if you take marriage off the table.