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Study Suggests Young People Are Delaying Marriage Because Of Rising College Debt

Posted: 03/28/2012 4:51 pm Updated: 03/29/2012 12:28 pm

College Debt Marriage Rates Statistics Study

The Consumer Financial Protection Bureau announced last week that student loan debts have surpassed the $1 trillion mark, leaving the majority of 2010 graduates with the challenge of paying off an average of $25,000 in loans.

Now, a new report suggests that rising college debt is setting back college graduates in their personal lives as well, with more students choosing to delay getting married and having children.

The report by economic forecasting firm IHS Global Insight, which was obtained by Bloomberg Businessweek ahead of its publication, does not explicitly say that students are delaying marriage because they have more loans to pay off.

But it does point out that in the time students' college loans have risen sharply -- the top one percent of borrowers now owe more than $150,000 -- the average age of first marriages has risen by about a year, Bloomberg Businessweek reports.

For men, the average age at first marriage is 28.7, while the average woman is getting married for the first time at age 26.5. In 2007, the average age at first marriage was 27.5 years for men and 25.6 years for women, according to the report. During the same time frame, fertility rates -- expressed as the number of live births per 1,000 women age 18-44 -- decreased from 69.3 to below 65.

Chris Christopher, a senior economist at IHS Global Insight, explained that the rising age of first marriages may be related to the way debt is distributed across age groups.

"Student loans are concentrated among young people—a particular group that may be prone to buy a new house, a new car, and get married," Christopher told Bloomberg Businessweek. "They are not spread out among all age cohorts in the economy."

But studies on the evolution of marriage among young people point to a number of factors that may be affecting their decision to hold off on tying the knot.

Pamela Smock, a family demographer at the University of Michigan, told USA Today that delayed marriage may be due to the fact that 70 percent of couples who go on to get married chose to live together first.

"Cohabitation is continuing to grow, and it's become the modal way of life," Smock told the paper.

In a separate article, author Hannah Seligson, who recently published a book about long-term relationships and cohabitation, told USA Today that today's young people are harboring feelings of fear of uncertainly about marriage that stem from rising rates of divorce among their parents' generations.

"There's a lot of fear percolating around marriage," Seligson said. "They want to get it right."

Andrew Cherlin, a sociologist at Johns Hopkins University, told the paper he expects marriage rates to continue on their current trend.

"If all you want is one or two kids, you can wait until your 30s to get married," Churlin told USA Today. "We may in the future look more like France and the Scandinavian countries, where many couples live together a long time before marrying. And a lot of them have kids."

Jason Watson, 23, Law Student, University of South Carolina
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I will owe more than $150,000 by the time I graduate law school. The debt feels crushing to say the least and it leaves me wondering whether the benefit of a legal education will be worth its cost. I'm not sure how I will be able to provide for my wife and son while coping with debt I've amassed in six short years.
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11:14 AM on 12/10/2012
I think for a lot of people, the financial crisis has resulted in a slow down of normal life circumstances. Yes, maybe it is paranoia of divorce and maybe it is because the media has been repeating the divorce rates for people who get married under 21 for over a decade now. But, can a woman's independence simply be the reason? Could it be that women are increasingly less dependent on men and therefore, women and men want to enjoy longer periods of career adjustment and personal financial establishment? Maybe people of both genders want to feel not only that their loans are under control, but that they have done some living, had some experiences, gotten some work experience and developed themselves as people-before they share a life with someone else. I think the widespread acceptance of less traditional families is also responsible. It's not the 50's where women are baking cakes all day and it's not the 90's where one household income was enough to support a family of four.
06:41 AM on 03/17/2013
I completely agree. Not only that but nowadays young people are NOT getting well paying jobs. I have yet to meet someone under the age of 30 who even /owns/ a house. Most 20 somethings have a hard enough time owning a /car/ let alone a place to raise children in. All the couples I know want to wait until they have their own place to start procreating.
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03:33 PM on 03/29/2012
debt is ugly, so yea, don't get married if you have a lot of it because you will be a burden on your spouse who will have to help you pay it off. Unlike your parents who are biologically hard wired to love you unconditionally and would pay off your debt if they could, your spouse has no reason to feel the same way towards you. So, if you meet a person who you really care about and that person really cares about you, but your debt is a reason why the person does not want to be with you - then thank your lucky stars! you just avoided a divorce.
02:21 AM on 03/29/2012
Not just marriage. Babies! I just went to the OBGYN yesterday and of course he told me my clock is ticking (I'm 28). I told him, "Someone tell my student loans about that clock." Boy did I want to slap him! I am permanently disabled and have a $1600 bill each month that I'm not paying since I can't work and SSI says I'm too young to be disabled. This system is a crock.
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01:03 AM on 03/29/2012
OK- so we don't care of college educated people can get married and have children now- So only the people that dont bother to go to school or get married have children- I am sorry these are the young adults we want to be parents and we are ruining them- but we have a bunch of Bristol Palins out their pumping out kids.
11:56 PM on 03/28/2012
My experience has been that if students prepare early, they will be less likely accumulate debt. For example, students can prepare to pay for college by doing well the ACT exam. Although it may seem obvious to some reading this article, it's not so as obvious to others. I didn't know this information until I was a senior in high school. But I still managed to pay for college and remain debt free. You can head to my videos on my channel for information on scholarships and how to win them as well as find them. Plus, I explain which ones are ideal for targeting. http://youtu.be/My6Fd4AssyE
09:57 AM on 03/29/2012
It's not really that simple - do well on the ACT and get money? The ACT is an achievement test, so if you are a student who didn't come from a very good school district that was able to offer good instruction and challenging courses, you won't do well. Even if you manage to get into a good high school, you will have a hard time catching up on all of the things you missed elementary - middle school. There are seniors at high schools at this very moment struggling their way through Algebra I classes - they can't just study and do well on the test.

Only the exceptionally lucky, savvy, and wealthy can graduate debt free.
11:27 AM on 03/29/2012
I disagree. My mother is waitress that earns $15,000. I was in school district that was just barley average. I studied hard and went out of my way to get help from my teachers to understand the math on the ACT. I went from a 21 to 28. I'm not rich, lucky, savvy, or wealthy but I sure did learn that doing well on my ACT earned me a 1/3 tuition discount. It is possible. The problem is that we as students don't want to earn anything and frankly don't care as much as we should. Plus, there are more variables than just the ACT test like whether you attend a private or public college. With this being said, I respectfully disagree with you. I earned my college and I'm debt free. Now, I help other students do the same.
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12:14 PM on 03/29/2012
"if the cost of college tuition was $10,000 in 1986, it would now cost the same student over $21,500 if education had increased as much as the average inflation rate but instead education is $59,800 or over 2 ½ times the inflation rate.” Blunting these increases is a rise in federal student aid including tax credits and deductions. And nearly two thirds of undergraduates now receive some sort of grant aid and student loan borrowing is on the upswing. But loans must be paid back so the pain of payment is only delayed."
http://www.forbes.com/sites/steveodland/2012/03/24/college-costs-are-soaring/
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12:45 PM on 04/01/2012
Exactly. Big Ed IS Big Business. It puts Wall Street and Big Oil to shame. It's now just another wealth re-distribution method. From taxpayers to Big Education. The Education Bubble should be the next to pop, but only if we're lucky.
09:36 PM on 03/28/2012
Santorum will love this article. He can use the skyrocketing costs of higher education as a reason to not have an education.
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12:17 PM on 03/29/2012
Education has been called the great equalizer. That is why Republican party wants to end public education. I think President Obama becoming President just set these people off the deep end.
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12:52 PM on 04/01/2012
If that's what you believe, then you are making their point. We seemed to have produced better results back in the days when education was locally funded and not burdened by a huge bureacracy. When education dollars actually went to educating children and not providing make work for increasing levels of administrators.

Educational outcomes are inversely proportional to federal education spending and have been since the creation of the DoEd. Wanting more of the same equates to wanting less education.
07:01 AM on 03/17/2013
If anyone wants a /real/ education, go to a good community college. If they want to drain their pockets dry, go to a massive university.

Unless you're training in something specific for a degree, you know.. those things that are on paper that all the jobs want... only universities have those. But if you want to know /how/ to do your job properly, go to a community college.
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09:04 PM on 03/28/2012
Look, there's a difference between delaying marriage because you don't think you have the fiscal chops versus because you want to spend a lot of money on a wedding and reception. I don't see anything in this article that makes me think they are bothering to differentiate the two.

This trend could be nothing more than graduates wanting to wait a couple years to have more money to throw a big reception. Where's the evidence otherwise?
11:47 PM on 03/28/2012
I know it's anecdotal, but I know I'm not simply delaying getting married to my long term girlfriend because we can't throw a big party.
02:23 AM on 03/29/2012
My husband and I eloped in Vegas. It was really cheap. We knew we could never afford a big wedding.
08:02 PM on 03/28/2012
I've seen other articles describe student loans as the "Anti-Dowry"... What if I'm dating a young lady that has $100,000 in student debt, and has a noble job like a teacher where she makes only $35,000 each year? I'm going to have to REALLY want to be with her to "love her and love her debt."
08:46 PM on 03/28/2012
that would not be a good situation....ouch....
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09:00 PM on 03/28/2012
That is so sad. In my opinion, if that person has to even ask that question, that relationship is over or it will never start and both parties should just move on. Money causes a lot of marital issues. And apparently if you're going to choose a noble career, that means you're going to have to put off personal happiness. I guess that's just the way the U.S. works these days.
09:14 PM on 03/28/2012
Well yeah, would you want to be relegated to a life of renting apartments? A life of wanting to have children, but knowing it would be fiscally irresponsible to do so? A life knowing that if you did have children, they wouldn't have as good of a life as you did?

That's heavy to think about, in my opinion...
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12:55 PM on 04/01/2012
Not as sad as her choosing a path that resulted in her situation.
07:59 PM on 03/28/2012
I don't see how delaying marriage and childbearing is a bad thing.
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08:26 PM on 03/28/2012
It's not a bad thing and more and more young people are choosing to say single. And when you think about it what are the advantages of marriage for them?
08:46 PM on 03/28/2012
these days....who knows?
08:11 AM on 03/29/2012
something about .....responsibility, love and, devotion to one sole being who is to be your mate until you die or get divorced something along those lines anyway.....honestly marriage is not meant for everyone like the crushing reality that your school loans debt will be hug on you for years and years and yearsand years and years and years.........
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08:59 PM on 03/28/2012
I don't necessarily think it is. Republicans though are supposed to be pro-family (so they say, I see little evidence of this). So in theory, they should be the ones most upset about this because if people go to college and start their careers, that could end up cutting back on a LOT of the social problems we have.

I'm sure someone can argue that it creates some social issues as well. What if we have a whole bunch of single, educated people who only have time to support themselves but lack the time and financial freedom to have families? What if we end up like Japan where women have their own jobs and financial security but they have no interest in the men and the population is going down as a result? Personally I can see all of my 20 something friends being like this. They're more concerned about work. None of them want to have kids...they literally don't think it's financially feasible in today's market and with the way the U.S. is going. Some would call that pretty sad when you think about it..but I can see their logic. In this way, I think it can be argued that Republican economic values, ironically, lead to the opposite of what they want for their so-called social values. Everyone working to support themselves without relying on the government means less people having kids, less stable families, etc.
06:31 PM on 03/30/2012
I don't see a decrease in the population as a bad thing.
05:30 PM on 03/28/2012
I agree with student debt as being a reason for putting off marriage.

From my own perspective, the marriage industry functions as a micro-example of the current widening wealth gap. The couples in the northeast that I see getting married early (early- to mid-twenties) all had parents that paid for college (and subsequently the wedding) or where at least once spouse was an investment banker / trader / hedge fund analyst. Those who graduate in debt have to wait a bit longer in order to remain financially responsible ;)
07:57 PM on 03/28/2012
Haha! I'm in Boston and your anecdote hits the nail on the head for people that I know getting married!