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Oprah Writes Letter To Her Teenage Self. What Would You Say?

Posted: 04/ 3/2012 8:10 am Updated: 04/ 3/2012 12:44 pm

O The Oprah Magazine May Cover

Arianna Huffington would tell her younger self to get more sleep. Maya Angelou would say to find a beautiful piece of art and relate, as much as possible, to the humanity in it. And in the May 2012 issue of O, The Oprah Magazine, the 58-year-old media mogul reveals what advice she would give to her teenage self, a 19-year-old woman she addresses as "beautiful brown-skinned girl."

"You've spent too many days and years trying to please others and be what they wanted you to be," she writes. "You will have to learn that the wounds of your past -- rape, molestation, whippings for 'stepping out of place,' and not being allowed to show anger or cry afterward -- damaged your self-esteem," she says.

Oprah's self reflection and words of wisdom hearken back to her days as the youngest and the first black news anchor at Nashville's WLAC-TV, a moment she says would forever change the trajectory of her life, and one that she struggles to not be overshadowed by her relationship with a boyfriend named Bubba.

"Even then you understood that success was a process and that moving with the flow of life and not against it would be your greatest achievement," she says.

The musings are published alongside those of 17 other famous figures, including actress Octavia Spencer, who writes:

Hello Traveler,

As you make your way along life's tumultuous highways, it's important to note that you should always carry a map, have plenty of fuel in the tank, and take frequent rest stops.

O, The Oprah Magazine's May 2012 issue hits newsstands on April 10.

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Arianna Huffington would tell her younger self to get more sleep. Maya Angelou would say to find a beautiful piece of art and relate, as much as possible, to the humanity in it. And in the May ...
Arianna Huffington would tell her younger self to get more sleep. Maya Angelou would say to find a beautiful piece of art and relate, as much as possible, to the humanity in it. And in the May ...
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12:18 PM on 04/08/2012
Interesting, but writing a letter to your younger self seems a bit pointless, and possibly counter productive. Sometimes, people project a false sens of optimism. Sounds like the case here.
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JohnnyAce Okeke
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02:56 PM on 04/04/2012
God, what a narcissist. Get over yourself. No wonder your network is failing. {{-_-}}
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Ashiedu Nwadiei
12:34 AM on 04/04/2012
Did Oprah get a nose job? I would have never thought.
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09:33 AM on 04/04/2012
Just great makeup contouring skills lol. She has the best beauty team money can buy.
02:07 PM on 04/04/2012
Same nose, made up a different way.
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Ashiedu Nwadiei
10:44 PM on 04/04/2012
Doesn't look like it. Lighting and makeup only can do so much. I like Oprah, but that's clearly a different nose.
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SkreetGil1
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08:56 PM on 04/03/2012
I'd say grow up fast! Stop playing around!

Stay away from alcoholic/drug addict men. You can't fix them!

Take things seriously! Stop procrastinating!!!
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09:36 AM on 04/04/2012
Good advice! I keep trying to tell my friend that...but it's her lesson to learn.
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Patricia013
American made - what have you done with my badges?
06:34 PM on 04/03/2012
I'm in my 70's now but if I could speak to myself at age 21 I would say "don't worry yourself so much - kick up your heels - enjoy as much as you can...life speeds by like lightening!"
04:53 PM on 04/03/2012
Okay, but did grown-up Oprah tell teen Oprah not to become a sellout when she grows up?
04:08 PM on 04/03/2012
I would tell my younger self (18) that 'no one's' opinion about her should matter more than her own. I would also tell her that the more risks you take in life the stronger and more confident you become, and that sometimes that can take you further than anything you could've imagined.
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orbo
Moving Forward!
02:18 PM on 04/03/2012
I would tell my young self not to waste money on cd’s and VHS tapes. I have tons of these items in storage that I can’t give away….lol!
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rewith85man
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01:57 PM on 04/03/2012
The older and current Oprah looks much better.

If I could talk to my younger self, I would say that being an adult is not all that fun and simple.
12:47 PM on 04/03/2012
don't discard your education.
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Justgo4it
not fishing for trouble, are YOU??
11:26 AM on 04/03/2012
Come on Oprah, you so darn full of yourself it is sickening. This is exactly why I stopped watching you many years ago!
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10:36 AM on 04/03/2012
Love oprah