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Shaima Alawadi Murder Gets New Perspective From College Student

Posted: 04/19/2012 6:36 pm Updated: 04/20/2012 9:39 am

Enrique Cervantes
Enrique Cervantes, a college student in El Cajon, Calif., had an experience with the daughter of murdered Iraqi refugee Shaima Alawadi that may shed new light on the investigation.

When college student Enrique Cervantes wrote an essay about seeing two people having sex in a car in front of his house, he never expected that it might shed light on a murder investigation.

However, that story -- submitted as part of an oral history of El Cajon, a city just east of San Diego -- may help explain the murder of Iraqi refugee Shaima Alawadi, and offer a possible motive for her family members.

Alawadi, a 32-year-old mother of five and an Iraq-born Muslim, was attacked March 21 in her home near Lakeside, Calif. She suffered at least six blows to the head, possibly from a tire iron. Fatima Alhimidi, her 17-year-old daughter, said there was a note found next to her mom's body reading, "This is my country. Go back to yours, terrorist."

Alawadi died three days later and, initially, there was speculation that it was a hate crime.

Further investigation hasn't confirmed that theory, but the release of an affidavit by the El Cajon Police Department on April 5 to the San Diego Union-Tribune reveals strife within the family. Alawadi was planning to divorce her husband, the document says, and Alhimidi had been caught having sex in a car with a 21-year-old Chaldean man some months prior.

Months before Alawadi's death, after being picked up by her mother, a police report said Alhimidi leapt out of the car while it was moving at 35 mph. "Police were informed by paramedics and hospital staff that Fatima Alhimidi said she was being forced to marry her cousin and did not want to, so she jumped out of the vehicle."

But beyond public records, Cervantes has brought a unique perspective to that sex scene.

A few months after the vehicle incident and two months prior to Alawadi's death, Cervantes wrote about seeing Alhimidi in the car for SoSayWeAll.com, a San Diego-based nonprofit that is currently collecting "a people's history of East San Diego County."

"The story was written before (the murder) happened," Cervantes told The Huffington Post. "I submitted and then found out that the girl's mother had been murdered."

The piece, "Her Skin, Brown Like Mine," appears on the site of the alternative newsweekly San Diego Citybeat, and details Cervantes' encounter with Alhimidi and her boyfriend, later identified as Rawnaq Yacub.

Cervantes said he saw two people having sex in front of his house in the middle of the day and called the police.

Before police arrived, Cervantes went to the car to warn them and saw a teenage girl in a hijab with a man who looked to be in his early 20s. His piece describes the encounter:

The guy saw me coming and adjusted his pants. The girl pulled a blanket over her legs and smiled, her cheeks blossoming into red. What the f***, I almost said out loud. She was wearing one of those things on her head that Muslims wear. It was light purple; it looked nice on her skin. Her skin was brown as mine. It looked nice with that shade of purple, like an Egyptian princess.

Cervantes said the couple stayed and eventually the police arrived. Shaima Alawadi also came to the scene to take her daughter away and was seen screaming at the girl, in part, because the Alawadi family is Muslim and Yacub was Chaldean, a Christian Iraqi.

"They all left and later we found out that the girl had jumped out of the car," Cervantes said.

SoSayWeAll director and Huffington Post blogger Justin Hudnall said he was shocked when he read the story.

"It was an eerie moment when we realized we had gone from reporting on the past and collecting histories, to being in the thick of an unfolding human drama making international headlines," Hudnall told The Huffington Post.

The murder remains top news in San Diego and Hudnall said Cervantes' account sheds light on the relationship between Alawadi and her daughter as well as that between Alhimidi and Yacub, 21. The story also possibly contradicts Yacub's claim that Alhimidi and he were "just talking" that morning.

"Enrique's story, combined with the contents of the accidentally released police affidavit, suggests that the El Cajon Police Department may have been aware from the very beginning that Alawadi's family was, using their own words, 'in turmoil,'" Hudnall said. "They were aware of Fatima's impending arranged marriage with her own cousin, her relationship with a man outside of that arranged marriage, and Shaima's intentions to divorce her husband. It begs the question, why then did the El Cajon P.D. and the FBI allow the family to take her body back to Iraq, where extradition could be difficult if not impossible?"

Hudnall said if Alawadi's murder turns out not to be a hate crime, then the note found next to her body may have placed there by a killer trying to throw off a murder investigation.

"That struck me as a very cynical and self-aware thing to do, and makes us (wonder) how much is truth and how much is manipulation of stereotypes," he said.

Cervantes may have shed new perspective on the case, but he's not necessarily happy about it.

"I was almost ashamed of writing the story, even though I was trying to express some form of solidarity," he said. "I almost felt like, 'Man, you're doing something creative out of someone's suffering and something bad happening,' and I feel bad about that."

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Mourners carry a coffin draped with Iraqi flags during the funeral procession for Shaima Alawadi in the Shiite holy city of Najaf, 100 miles (160 kilometers) south of Baghdad, Iraq, Saturday, March 31, 2012. Alawadi, an Iraqi-American woman found bludgeoned to death in her California home last week, with a threatening note left beside her body, was buried in her native Iraq on Saturday.
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When college student Enrique Cervantes wrote an essay about seeing two people having sex in a car in front of his house, he never expected that it might shed light on a murder investigation. Howeve...
When college student Enrique Cervantes wrote an essay about seeing two people having sex in a car in front of his house, he never expected that it might shed light on a murder investigation. Howeve...
 
 
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09:19 PM on 04/14/2013
The latest is that the father has been arrested for the murder, but his plea is Not Guilty. I guess the trial comes next.
07:49 PM on 09/11/2012
When is anyone ever going to report on where the investigation stands on her murder? Did the father, son and daughter ever return from Iraq? Did the daughter, Fatima, remain unmarried - or did she suddenly find marriage necessary while in Iraq? Is she still alive even? Come on reporters!!
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Bunny Olesen
04:40 PM on 12/09/2012
I know the father came back, he got arrested for killing his wife.
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truthupontruth
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02:01 AM on 05/01/2012
Truth is stranger than fiction. How does a story like this fit into anyone's idea of a stereotype? This stuff is downright Shakespearean tragic-like.
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Bunny Olesen
04:43 PM on 12/09/2012
Sorry, but, the daughter's upcoming forced marriage & suicidal response to it or her possible honor killing at being caught having sex, the unhappy married at age 15 mother, forced to marry a man 16 yrs her senior, now seeking a divorce, turning up murdered - it's completely stereotypical of a stereotypical islamic family moved to a Western country. If they had stayed in Iraq, the mother probably never would have built up the courage to ask for a divorce and the daughter would have just been married off.

As it stands, her husband has been arrested for her killing.
01:38 PM on 04/29/2012
I don't think it has anything to do with sharia. She told the cops that her parents were forcing to marry her cousin? Everyone is feeling so sorry for her. But does anyone else think the daughter possibly could have just be using religious fear to stick it to her parents after getting into a match with her mom?
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Bunny Olesen
04:45 PM on 12/09/2012
Are you kidding me? She was probably afraid her father would kill her if he found out about her being caught having sex without marriage, nobody wants to marry their gross cousin they never met (and who is probably in his 30's), so she jumped out of a moving car trying to kill herself, she's lucky to be alive (if she is).

The father is arrested for the killing.
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ms.understood
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09:40 PM on 04/21/2012
this is just sad. no one deserves to die from sex, unless they're having it with children, animals, or those with disabilities. may she rest in peace.
04:28 PM on 04/29/2012
You either can't read English or a mentally deranged person.
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Lop Sided
05:45 PM on 06/02/2012
wtf
02:41 PM on 04/21/2012
If he feels so bad about that, why did he publish the story? I fear for the daughter in this case if she's back in Iraq with her Dad and his family.
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snuffy smiff
10:30 PM on 04/20/2012
Anyone who still buys the "hate crime" narrative? I won't hold my breath waiting for the folks who jumped on the "racist white" bandwagon to admit they were hoodwinked. It was obvious from the start and I said so when the story broke. Just keep your heads buried in the sand.
07:33 PM on 04/20/2012
Wonder if police checked out the boyfriend?
02:42 PM on 04/21/2012
I would be checking him out. A witness said they saw a brown-skinned man running down the street at the time of the murder.
06:58 PM on 04/20/2012
Such a sad story, I hope they find who did this and I hope her daughter had nothing to do with it.
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Dan Langdon
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06:35 PM on 04/20/2012
Something smells about this. Hope the cops get to the bottom of it.
05:01 PM on 04/20/2012
Watch the video of her daughter after the attack, something doesn't seem right. If someone you loved was in the hospital on their death bed, would you be outside talking to a film crew...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4EzC-riif2M&feature=player_embedded
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Fenrir Lokison
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05:13 PM on 04/20/2012
Yes. It happens a lot actually.
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Maezeppa
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06:09 PM on 04/20/2012
Talking to the press is not dispositive of guilt.  The mother was filing for divorce so the daughter may not be the only suspect.  Still, a hammer attack seems so personal and I remember thinking the note was a bit dramatic in an area where many Iraqi-born families live.  Americans in the area know these Iraqis were settled here because they cooperated with and worked for American forces in Iraq.

That said, I remember seeing Susan Smith on camera some years ago and thinking much the same - something was a little off. 
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04:46 PM on 04/20/2012
Dear HuffPost & Associates:
Thank you so much for publishing this follow-up story.
It is well that you are becoming a more mature news organization rather than skewing to your most vocal critics' caricatures.
Day to day I find I read HuffPost more and linger longer on the HP website. Also, comments are filled with genuine jewels of information and insight..
08:42 PM on 04/23/2012
Lol. Moderators have no sense for sarcasm apparently.
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ash090200
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03:55 PM on 04/20/2012
Regardless of how it happened its sad, if her daughter had something to do with this she will forever live with the guilt. If she was really being forced to marry her cousin, then refugee or not, something should've been done. This whole story is fishy.
03:49 PM on 04/20/2012
Sad story and sad that a college student is so grammatically challenged.

"Me and my brother seen..." should be "My brother and I saw..."
08:45 AM on 04/21/2012
Hooked on ebonics worked for him too!