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Steve Carter From Philadelphia Connects With Biological Family After Finding Himself On A Website For Missing Children

Posted: 04/27/2012 2:49 pm Updated: 04/27/2012 2:49 pm

A Philadelphia man has unlocked the secrets to his past after finding his own photograph on a website for missing children, CBS News reports.

Adopted at the age of four from an orphanage in Honolulu, Hawaii, 35-year-old Steve Carter said he recently became interested in learning more about his biological background.

Though very happy with the life he had made with his adoptive family, Carter said that there were mysteries shrouding his past that had sparked his curiosity.

For one thing, the birth certificate he had was created almost a year after his birth and in it, Carter -- who has blond hair and blue eyes -- was labeled half-native Hawaiian.

Last year, Carter read about Carlina White -- the Atlanta woman who was reunited with her biological family after finding her photograph on a website for missing children, CNN reports.

On a hunch, Carter decided to check the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children's website for himself.

It was then that the Pennsylvania man made his astonishing discovery. There, on the site, was an age-progression image made from a photograph of him as an infant.

"My first thought was, 'Oh my God, that's me,'" Carter told CBS News.

Carter then called the Honolulu police and the department set up a DNA test. Now, almost a year later, the true story of his past has begun to come to light.

Born Marx Panama Moriarty Barnes, Carter was reported missing by his biological father more than three decades ago after his mother, Charlotte Moriarty, took him for a walk in 1977 and never returned.

Carter told CBS News that he believes Moriarty put him in the Hawaiian orphanage -- changing his name, his birthday and the race of his father.

This January, Carter decided to contact his newfound relatives over the phone.

"I was absolutely, positively thunderstruck and amazed," said Carter's biological father, Mark Barnes, of the first time he heard his son's voice.

According to Carter, who has also connected with his half-sister, his biological mother disappeared without a trace after a stint at a psychiatric hospital.

He told Mix 105.1FM that he still hopes to connect with her someday.

Carter, who has yet to meet his father in person, said the whole experience has been "a lot to digest", but has described the experience as "a happy ending to a story that usually isn't a happy ending."

"Good things do happen," he told CNN.

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09:43 AM on 05/01/2012
My brother adopted his oldest daughter. When she was ten, she got to meet her biological father about six months before he died (they didn't know he was sick) and while she enjoyed meeting him, she still thinks of my brother as her "real" father...
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rewith85man
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08:51 PM on 04/30/2012
That is overwhelming especially when you have a good family and life. Some people like him are fortunate and others are not.

If I have/had lousy parents and a life, then I would not hesitate to find my biological family.
08:49 PM on 04/29/2012
When a parent is severely abusive (violence, sexual abuse, severe emotional abuse) and the authorities can't or won't help, then in that case alone does it make sense to flee with a child. Of course every child deserves to be raised in the loving embrace of their full extended family. Unfortunately, a small percentage of human beings are psychopaths or sociopaths -- if you're unlucky or unwise enough to mate with one of them, you may be forced to flee to save yourself and your kids.

If only there were some fool-proof way to test for this, but there isn't and some of the worst psychopaths can be very charming actors if they want to be. Remember that Ted Bundy was engaged to a nice young lady, active in the Young Republicans and a volunteer at the local crisis hotline working side-by-side with the policewoman and author, Jane Rule, who didn't see any sign of his true pathology. If he'd married his girlfriend and had a child with her before she realized who/what he really was, would she have been justified in taking off with his kid?

Don't assume that every time a parent disappears it's for purely selfish or vindictive reasons. Sometimes they're the only ones who have seen below the facade to what kind of person their spouse really is. If Susan Powell had taken off with her boys, maybe they'd all three be alive today.
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Paros
08:34 AM on 04/30/2012
Sounds like you are commenting on something other than this article. Here Carter writes of a mentally unstable mother who took him from his father and then gave him up for adoption. That sounds reckless and beyond self-centered.
05:34 PM on 04/30/2012
I am commenting both on the phenomena in general and on the fact that this person has NO IDEA what actually happened. He was a baby. He is taking his father's word on faith. Sometimes that's a good idea; sometimes not.
05:36 PM on 04/30/2012
Oh, and question: do you think that abusive people ONLY pick on the mentally healthy? Is it possible that a mentally ill woman might be targeted for abuse by a predator who knows that she is more vulnerable and that it's more likely that people will side with his facade of normalcy versus her obvious impairment?
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jordan2
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06:54 PM on 04/29/2012
Are birth certificates accurate? Well, they may be now but there was a time when you couldn't count on them completely. It was not uncommon for the race of a midwife to be entered instead of the person's actual race.

I only know this from experience in investigating my ancestry but my own mother had a difficult time getting a passport because of this. We actually had to pay an attorney to get this fixed.

That was a long time ago..

Tragically, broken families were also once common with children being '"permanently" separated. This is a heartwarming story .
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sipiony2
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08:03 AM on 04/29/2012
My stepfather was adopted. He went into a car lot to buy a car last year and found a biological brother he never knew he had. His birth mother died the previous year and had never told him. Apparently there are a few more of them out there.
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Paros
08:35 AM on 04/30/2012
After my husband died, I received a call from an investigator only to learn that he had a half-brother living 60 miles away for over 50 years. Noone had an inkling. What a surprise.
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acatlett6
02:29 AM on 04/29/2012
Hmmmn, Makes me wonder now about Hawaii and birth certificates.
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Grimmsd
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07:25 PM on 05/01/2012
Except it took almost no effort to find out this one was false... And after years of digging someone else's birth certificate still hold up. So you can stop wondering.
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Cautious
05:21 PM on 04/28/2012
"Man Meets Biological Dad After Finding Himself On Missing Kids Website"

Great story, HuffPo. It really is, and I'm not being insincere. Except that I read it this morning with a different headline, and now that the headline says "Meets", I thought he actually did and that there was an update to the story. Unless "meeting" on the phone counts for you.
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geelyn2
02:00 PM on 04/28/2012
I see the birther crowd is really enjoying this story!
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humaneisfact
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01:56 PM on 04/28/2012
I am one of 8 kids who were all given up for adoption or put in an orphanage-some at birth and some of when we were 2,3,4,and 5.We didn't know each other existed except for the last 4 put in the orphanage together.But we were adopted into separate homes except two of us stayed together.When one of us turned 18 ,his adopted family had to inform him that he had more brothers and sisters because he was seeking a lawyer to find our birth mother.Within a year,we were all reunited though it is a long story.heh. The reunion was beyond explanation.
I'm so happy for anyone who has had a reunion.Adopted families aside,reunions with biological family are (hopefully for everyone ) a blessing.
02:16 PM on 04/28/2012
Lovely story, so glad you were able to reconnect, I was present when a friend called her birth mother, they get along great
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humaneisfact
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02:39 PM on 04/28/2012
what a great thing to witness!and thanks :)
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Falafel
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05:02 PM on 04/28/2012
Oh my gosh! What an amazing story; thanks for sharing.
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humaneisfact
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09:17 PM on 04/28/2012
thank you..everyone has an amazing story to tell:)
mira chancleta
C'mon, there's NO "La Tino" race
10:09 AM on 04/28/2012
Wow...everytime I read one of these stories I find myself asking..."what kind of love is it that allows a 'parent' to abduct their child and rob him of the rest of his family and his past"?

I know that there are times when abducting a child is the best solution for his safety from an abusive situation, but it is still shocking to see these situations...how do these people ever recover from such a horrific past...god bless them...
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bigmaddy
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03:16 PM on 04/28/2012
My ex took my son when he was 5 and we found each other when he was 16, I had looked for him for 11 years. I helped him to get through highschool (he was behind 2 years) and helped him go to college. When one parent takes a kid from the another parent the kid always loses. My son is now a adult with his beautiful own kids. I'm glad that I get to see my Grandkids grow up and get to know them!
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NickaRay
Don't be so snooty booty
04:36 PM on 04/28/2012
Wow, I'm so glad you found your son and was able to help him get through school! That is amazing, parents never stop looking for their missing children and I'm glad they don't. Sometimes it doesn't turn out good, but then there are these times where the child is found, even though older and you not being there for them through the years that you missed with them, you know where they are now and that they are alive..which is always what you hope for. You are a true parent though because you never stopped and when you did find him you helped him out when it seemed like he needed someone the most for his future. I'm glad to have read this article and to have read your comment, it shows people to never give up hope in anything in life. I wish you, your son, and his kids, your grandbabies, the best in life.
mira chancleta
C'mon, there's NO "La Tino" race
08:17 PM on 04/28/2012
you have been blessed after all...
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Rosewren
The power of kindness is infinite
03:14 AM on 05/01/2012
It said in the article that she had psychiatric problems, that probably explains a lot.
mira chancleta
C'mon, there's NO "La Tino" race
09:25 AM on 05/01/2012
it may "explain", but it will never "excuse"...shocking to even read about...so sad for the kids...always.
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LiberalDemIda
You can't spell "Conservative" without Con.
08:34 AM on 04/28/2012
For the RightwingBaggers with their tinfoil hats on too tightly:

"I have absolutely no idea where my birth certificate is." ~ Mitt Romney, on the Letterman Show, February 2, 2011.

And, of course, being the consistent, red-blooded Muricans you are, having the courage of your convictions, you won't vote for the GOP's chosen empty suit without demanding to see HIS birth certificate, or filing lawsuits all across the country in order to demand to see his long form, right? Right? Add to that, Meh Romney's papi was born in Mexico. Any bells echoing in those hollow heads yet?
09:14 AM on 04/28/2012
Geez Louise you guys are weirder than I thought. It doesn't matter about any of that now. The interloper will be gone in a few months.
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LiberalDemIda
You can't spell "Conservative" without Con.
09:38 AM on 04/28/2012
That's been your problem since birth: you *don't* think. But thanks for avoiding answering my questions. At least you know when you're beat.
12:06 PM on 04/28/2012
Enjoy it while you can...just a few more months of this weirdness.
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11:03 AM on 04/29/2012
LiberalDemIda: Check out the old design files at Mattel.
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LiberalDemIda
You can't spell "Conservative" without Con.
12:48 PM on 04/29/2012
Hah! A plastic Ken doll! Perfect.
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08:22 AM on 04/28/2012
Their must be something to Hawaii, When my parents got divorced, my father tryed to send me to Hawaii, and not to tell anyone and had a family for me. The next morning after he left for work, I called my mother she picked my little sister and myself up. I never went and seen my father again, untill I was 21. I do think that their is something about Hawaii and hiding people.
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rastadaddio
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11:22 AM on 04/28/2012
the climate is sweet and it's really far away.
08:20 AM on 04/28/2012
I found my half brothers two oldest daughters. I didn't see them for over 50 years.One keeps in touch and was happy I contacted her. The other doesn't want to meet. His second marriage gave him a son and daughter. I saw them as infants about 45 years ago. I contacted both of them. They don't want to meet their other family members. My other brothers and sisters don't care one way or another. It's strange to me
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humaneisfact
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01:59 PM on 04/28/2012
I'm sorry to hear that Genebo6.I am glad you were able to meet one of them and have a happy relationship.That alone is something to treasure.
02:35 PM on 04/28/2012
Thanks. I feel sorry for this fellow that missed out too, but was able to find his father. It is a miracle
02:05 AM on 04/29/2012
It is nice of you to try to connect to them. With this spirit, I am sure you will find success and happiness.

If they don't like to contact, at least you have done your part and believe it or not, there are friends in this life that can be true to you and bring you happiness more than biological brothers and sisters.
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Tommy6860
Religion requires the lack of critical thinking
08:18 AM on 04/28/2012
I thought some threads take the cake with their inane replies. But the republi-bots here cannot do anything more than just robo-spew their vitriol, since most of those with even a modicum of critical thinking at Faux news, have even dismissed them.
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LiberalDemIda
You can't spell "Conservative" without Con.
08:38 AM on 04/28/2012
And being the consistent peeps they are, ahem, of course they're going to demand to see Meh Romney's BC - long form, of course - but they're going to have to help him look for it since he appears not to be able to find it - like his tax returns.

And considering Meh Romney's papi was born in Mexico, do you believe, despite his party affiliation, they'll demand to know if he was an "a..n.c.h.o.rbaby"? Or will they give him a pass because he happens to have their favorite political party affiliation AND shade of skin, unlike President Obama?
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Tommy6860
Religion requires the lack of critical thinking
08:47 AM on 04/28/2012
Party affiliation and shade of skin are all they have for their racist electorate, I see a big loss for him in November :D:D:D.

P.S.
Can my wife and I say we love you :D
08:16 AM on 04/28/2012
his biological father more than three decades ago after his mother, Charlotte Moriarty, took him for a walk in 1977 and never returned.

Another mother kidnapping a child.