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Leonard Matlovich Tombstone: Gay Vietnam Veteran's Grave Resurfaces In Reddit Online Discussion (PHOTO)

The Huffington Post  |  By Posted: Updated: 05/15/2012 10:24 am

On April 30th, the 37th anniversary of the end of the Vietnam War, the photo of gay Vietnam veteran Technical Sergeant Leonard Matlovich's powerful tombstone resurfaced online -- sparking discussion of its famous phrase:

"When I was in the military they gave me a medal for killing two men and a discharge for loving one."

A purple heart and bronze star recipient, Matlovich was discharged from the U.S. Air Force after confessing his sexuality to his commanding officer. While he successfully sued the Air Force for reinstatement in 1980, Matlovich agreed to drop the case in exchange for a $160,000 settlement.


"The most eloquent and most convincing testimony against the policy of 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' comes, as such testimony usually does, from those who have paid the highest price for the policy's failings," Senator John Kerry said, according to a website run in Matlovich's honor. "And the most compelling I have ever read is on a tombstone in Congressional Cemetery, not far from the Capitol."

Matlovich's struggle triggered a national movement and discussion of gay rights -- especially in the military. It was highlighted by his 1975 TIME Magazine cover.

Matlovich died on June 22, 1988 from complications of HIV/AIDS after years of speaking out for the cause.

In the section of the website dedicated to the story behind tombstone, it notes the inscription of his last name at the foot of the memorial is the only tie to Matlovich himself, as he wanted the stone to be a monument for all gay veterans.

View other LGBT related photos and videos that have gone viral on the Internet in the slideshow below:

Correction: An earlier version of this story incorrectly stated April 30, 2012 was the 35th anniversary of the end of the Vietnam War. It was the 37th anniversary.

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    Wahls' profound pro-gay parenting, pro-marriage equality speech went viral twice this year. The 19-year-old's moving testimony in front of the Iowa House of Representatives swept Twitter and Facebook in February and in December due to the continuing debates about same-sex marriage and gay parenting in the United States.

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  • An Amazing Gay Wedding Proposal

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  • Tim Tebow's Man-On-Man Smooch

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  • Eighth Grader's 'Don't Say Gay' PSA

    An eighth grader's hilarious public service announcement on the misuse of the word "gay" made the rounds of the LGBT blogosphere and beyond in November.

  • Gay Couple Reacts After Being Told They're Going To Be Grandfathers

    It's easy to see why a video of a gay couple being told they're going to be grandparents went viral again over a year after it was originally uploaded to YouTube.

  • Australia's 'It's Time' Marriage Equality Ad

    An Australian same-sex marriage advocacy group's sexy, dramatic new campaign had the blogosphere abuzz in late fall. Produced by independent advocacy organization GetUp! Action for Australia, the new ad, simply titled "A Love Story," which depicts two handsome men frolicking on a beach and dealing with family crises before a proposal and the subsequent nuptials.

  • Gay Kiss Upstages Al Jazeera Reporter

    One gay couple expressed their views on the victory of Spain's Mariano Rajoy and his conservative People's Party by "videobombing" an Al Jazeera reporter, kissing passionately as the hapless correspondent spoke on the election.

  • Michigan Senator Slams 'Matt's Safe School Law'

    In a stinging floor speech, Michigan Senator Gretchen Whitmer expressed her dissatisfaction with "Matt's Safe School Law," which -- at the time -- created a special exception for bullies who have "a sincerely held religious belief or moral conviction," as well as neglecting to protect to bullying against students based on sexual orientation or gender identity.

  • Bachmann Confronted By 8-Year-Old LGBT Activist

    In early December, Michele Bachmann was left speechless after an awkward encounter with a young activist named Elijah at a South Carolina book signing. The video, however, drew plenty of criticism from some unusual sources.

  • 'Gay Is The Word'

    Produced by staff and students from the University of Liverpool and based on an original idea from the staff's LGBT Network, "Gay is the Word" shows a British fellow attempting to come out to his mates as a gay man, yet failing when his friends don't understand that "gay" also means "homosexual."