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Barack Obama's Young Life, Relationships Revealed In Biography

The Huffington Post  |  By Posted: 05/ 2/2012 12:28 pm Updated: 05/ 2/2012 3:58 pm

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This photo released by Obama for America shows a Barack Obama teaching at the University of Chicago Law School.

Barack Obama's Dreams from My Father reveals his younger life, grappling with his racial identity and past. Some of the details in the book, though, aren't quite accurate, particularly a discussion of his "New York girlfriend" who is actually several women melded into one, according to an upcoming biography of the president by David Maraniss.

Vanity Fair adapted parts of the biography for a profile of the young Obama published on Wednesday, based partially on interviews with two of his former girlfriends and their journal entries and letters from the time.

One of the women, Genevieve Cook, was his most serious girlfriend while living in New York. Most of the "New York girlfriend" referenced in his book is based on Cook, but Cook told Maraniss some of the anecdotes were things she never experienced. The president confirmed to Maraniss in an interview that the girlfriend discussed in the book is an amalgamation of a few women, although the description of her appearance is similar to Cook's.

In the memoir, Obama acknowledges that autobiographical work is at times imprecise. "Although much of this book is based on contemporaneous journals or the oral histories of my family, the dialogue is necessarily an approximation of what was actually said or relayed to me," he writes. "For the sake of compression, some of the characters that appear are composites of people I've known."

Cook told Maraniss that one anecdote loosely tied to her in Dreams from My Father may have instead been an experience with a later Obama girlfriend, meant to show some of the racial issues he was considering at the time. Obama wrote in his memoirs that he fought with his "New York girlfriend," described as white, after seeing a play by a black playwright. He writes that she "started talking about why black people were so angry all the time" and they argued in front of the theater. She said she never saw the play.


Here are more interesting tidbits from the biography, from both those letters and Maraniss' interviews with Obama. Read the full Vanity Fair piece here, and see a Q&A with the author here.


He Couldn't Say The L-Word

Cook told Vanity Fair that she told Obama she loved him, but he did not respond in kind. From the piece:

When she told him that she loved him, his response was not "I love you, too" but "thank you" -- as though he appreciated that someone loved him.


He Hung Out At The Seinfeld Restaurant

When Obama was in college, he and his roommates lived in an apartment so cold in the winter that they slept in sleeping bags, according to Vanity Fair. To escape the cold, they often ate at Tom's Restaurant, which was the basis of "Monk's" on Seinfeld.


He Was Passionate About Running -- And Writing About It

Obama wrote a letter to McNear about one of his runs at Columbia. Check out his writing style:

I run every other day at the small indoor track [at Columbia] which slants slightly upward like a plate; I stretch long and slow, twist and shake, the fatigue, the inertia finding home in different parts of the body. I check the time and growl -- aargh! -- and tumble onto the wheel.

Another Obama's ex, Genevieve Cook, wrote in her journal that he felt "a bit unsettled" all weekend after she challenged him to a race and then won.

Barack kept putting [the race] off. "His response was merry disbelief," Genevieve recalled. "By merry I don't mean he laughed at me, though he was amused. He had this way ... where he inhabits a mocking space -- it's sort of a loving mocking—as if to imply 'Ah, the frailties and tendencies we all have to be delusional, self-deceiving, preposterous even, but you are cute, and I like you better for it.'"

Obama later was challenged to a race, via Runner's World magazine, by Sarah Palin in 2009.


He Liked To Eat Tuna

From the piece:

Barack loved to make a ginger beef dish that he had picked up from his friend Sohale Siddiqi. He was also big on tuna-fish sandwiches made the way his grandfather had taught him, with finely chopped dill pickles.

Obama seems to still like the food: He also made tuna salad in 2008 during a visit from 60 Minutes.


His Ex Pictured His 'Ideal Woman' As A 'Strong Black Lady'

He told Cook that he sought an "ideal woman." Cook wrote in her journal that she thought he would be drawn to "a woman, very strong, very upright, a fighter, a laugher, well-­experienced -- a black woman I keep seeing her as."

Later, after they have broken up, she questions in her journal whether his emotional distance had to do with his age or his upbringing.

Hard to say, as obviously I was not the person that brought infatuation. (That lithe, bubbly, strong black lady is waiting somewhere!)

Obama would go on to meet his wife, First Lady Michelle Obama, a few years later.

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Barack Obama's Dreams from My Father reveals his younger life, grappling with his racial identity and past. Some of the details in the book, though, aren't quite accurate, particularly a discussion of...
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04:12 PM on 05/11/2012
I always wondered...Why Obama does not recalls his homosexual best friend who was killed before Obama's election. How Obama never showed indignation nor pressed the Police Department for a faithful total investigation? The mother of the young gay new Obama too, and worked in the Police Department for many years. Can we find a truthful newspaper and reporter, to dig on this crime? Nobody is guilty till is proven guilty. Somebody needs to care!
The interesting story was in the Web for a long time and disappeared. INDEPENDENT
01:12 PM on 05/07/2012
"Whenever questions about Obama and his enigmatic past bubble up, the Obama camp refers to his memoir, which he wrote as a 34-year-old lawyer, as if it were a transparent and candid account of his life and not the tissue of lies that it's turning out to be.
In the 2008 race, for example, Michelle Obama brushed off questions about her husband's ties to Bill Ayers and other anti-American radicals by using that very tactic.
"People have gotten to know Barack — he's written a book," she said.
Mrs. Obama added that he's "been thoroughly vetted. And I think people know Barack Obama.""
Since Dreams is a fictional book made up of composite characters this also means that they are marketing Obama the Fictional Composite Candidate.
04:15 PM on 05/11/2012
Good perception. You won't be fooled. I once was blind, but now I see.
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Jakpot
That was then, This is now
09:26 AM on 05/06/2012
Isn't it a bit suspicious that we are just now hearing about Obama's past girlfriends?
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justasimplegirl
08:30 PM on 05/06/2012
Does that mean it is odd that Romney is not blasting the front pages with his?
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Jakpot
That was then, This is now
05:02 AM on 05/07/2012
No, it means “Isn't it a bit suspicious that we are just now hearing about Obama's past girlfriends?”
04:24 PM on 05/11/2012
Where there was fired, there is smoke. Who is this President who calls his wife "the angry Black woman”? Is he worried about what she might know? The White House is a great place for Seek and Hide! LOL . INDEPENDENT.
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OLJW00
right is right
02:12 AM on 05/06/2012
Too bad she claims that this NEVER happened..

http://news.investors.com/article/610275/201205031911/president-plays-loose-with-facts-about-past.htm
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06:45 PM on 05/05/2012
Obama is hot.Obama 2012
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PC Contrarian
Political Correctnes­s is the opiate of the left.
04:54 PM on 05/05/2012
"Some of the details in the book, though, aren't quite accurate, ..."

I'm shocked; shocked that Obama makes crap up!
11:05 AM on 05/04/2012
It is kinda refreshing to hear something about the girlfriends a President had .... BEFORE he was president or married.
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Political Correctnes­s is the opiate of the left.
05:02 PM on 05/05/2012
The Bushes and Reagan are about the only ones lately
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OLJW00
right is right
02:14 AM on 05/06/2012
Except for pesky details like THIS WASN'T about an actual GF..... But a made up story to support a pretend (faux) narrative.

See link above about her and what SHE HAS TO SAY..
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Jakpot
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06:32 AM on 05/04/2012
Bill Ayers spoke at the University of Oregon last week - ABSOLUTE TOTAL PROOF OF BO'S AGENDA. Are you listening America????? This is BO's best friend that sold him a house, helped write his book, and was his mentor at Chicago. This is America's future unless we wake up and vote this person out and we can do it.
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kooldalai
There is no spoon
04:28 PM on 05/04/2012
Oh, please...you lie or are grossly misinformed. Ayres was not his best friend and did not sell him his house, nor was his mentor......stop the fear mongering...we already have enough from the right.
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Jakpot
That was then, This is now
06:32 PM on 05/04/2012
Another uninformed whackadoodle - Do some research if you are capable
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OLJW00
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02:15 AM on 05/06/2012
Silly Liberal.

I feel sorry for you believing the lie you were sold.
04:25 PM on 05/05/2012
What does your wacky tale have to do with the story plus I see nothing in your comments to make anyone care or miss a heart beat. What is your point!?
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Jakpot
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07:22 AM on 05/06/2012
Well, u just move right along.
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Fantasiawave1
03:31 AM on 05/04/2012
So it appears that Obama's book follows him just like he does now, he lies all the time and makes up things to suit him and does not know what the word "truth" means at all. His whole book is built on lies and deception of what he wanted things to be and how he bunched several people onto one person and several situations into one situation. As always and as now Obama lies and does not know how to tell the truth and wants what he wants like a spoiled brat at whatever cost to have it. He has no regard for people at all he has no feelings for people in that he could not even say "I love you" back to someone else who said it to him as he does not and had not been able to love anyone but himself. Thus is the same now too, he loves only himself and wants what he wants and will get it at any cost.
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kooldalai
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04:29 PM on 05/04/2012
yada, yada, yada....whatever.
02:44 AM on 05/05/2012
Stop hating
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PC Contrarian
Political Correctnes­s is the opiate of the left.
05:07 PM on 05/05/2012
Just Obama, or does that include Bush?
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03:25 AM on 05/04/2012
Hmmmmm...........He "hated his mother's race" as early as childhood...........but, he dated WHITE WOMEN as late as his 20's. Am I the only one who sees more Obama hypocricy here?
11:06 AM on 05/04/2012
Do you mean "see" it, or "imagine" it?
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champ3x7
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02:16 PM on 05/04/2012
Just what I typed. "See it". I wouldn't have typed it if it wasn't what I meant. Another point needs to be made here. The libs want to complain that the conservatives are racist toward Obama. That's especially funny, since HE'S the one who said, in his book, that he didn't like or trust people of his mother's race.
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kooldalai
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04:30 PM on 05/04/2012
He never said he "hated" his mothers race....
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champ3x7
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08:30 PM on 05/05/2012
Nope. Not in those exact words, but, if you read what he wrote and come to any other conclusion, you're simply dilusional.
11:14 PM on 05/03/2012
moebalot,'
If you read this, is great! your comments have been errased for number of days now! I could not even respond or fave them ! keep it comming! I read them, and they were great! I think, it's terrible, what they do to your posts! : ))
10:21 PM on 05/03/2012
Still wondering why this is controversial or relevant at all....

He had an ex girlfriend who he did not love...if that was a crime I think we'd all be in jail right now. Or is this another race issue? And why is Ms. Cook doing interviews about her past relationship with a currently married man???
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10:55 PM on 05/03/2012
ah fresh air! finally.
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WhereIsTheTruth
We need more chlorine in the gene pool!
08:38 PM on 05/03/2012
"When she told him that she loved him, his response was not 'I love you, too' but 'thank you'..." That's exactly what Tony Delveccio (Cesar Romero) told Sophia (Estelle Getty) after she told him she loved him in an episode of "The Golden Girls" entitled "Girls Just Wanna Have Fun...Before They Die."
11:08 AM on 05/04/2012
And about a trillion men have told other women too... if they were honest.
06:56 PM on 05/03/2012
Pictures--------of Obama WHITE GIRLFRIEND

http://s1.zetaboards.com/Express_Yourself/topic/4783356/1/
05:53 PM on 05/03/2012
Obama is nothing more than a clever pied piper leading the clueless and uninformaed down the path of no return. Unfortunately we all wind up in the same mess.
Vote for change in November
06:12 PM on 05/03/2012
Exactly how does that little statement fit into this conversation? Focus!
06:36 PM on 05/03/2012
know,why does it interfere with the sound of bho's flute,and you don't know what to do??
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kooldalai
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04:38 PM on 05/04/2012
It doesn't...the tr0//$ just come here to complain and try to sway people. they are no-nothings....ignore them.
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champ3x7
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03:30 AM on 05/04/2012
A-MEN, nanz!