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'Dateline NBC' Series 'My Kid Would Never Do That' Tackles Discrimination (VIDEO)

Posted: 05/06/2012 3:42 pm Updated: 05/06/2012 3:42 pm

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The stakes are high for a group of teenagers trying out for a fictional television quiz show called "Smart, Smarter, Smartest," and competitive situations are a breeding ground for unconscious stereotypes says MSNBC host Melissa Harris Perry.

Perry will help teen actors perpetuate those stereotypes among an unsuspecting group of their peers, as their parents secretly look on to see how they react. Will they resist the urge to stereotype? Or will they give in to peer pressure, and racial stereotyping, when it's directed at other teens?

The experiment is part of "Dateline NBC's" four-week series "My Kid Would Never Do That," which previously captured children as they made critical choices about stranger safety, drunk driving and cheating.

"This generation of young people is the most diverse in our nation's history and, in many ways, the most tolerant, too," says NBC correspondent Natalie Morales. "But from subtle stereotypes that divide to bullying because of race, kids tell us discrimination still exists."

In a 2010 study at UCLA, which looked at the prevalence of discrimination among Latin- and Asian-American teens, 60 percent reported discrimination from other teens; 63 percent reported discrimination from adults; and 12 percent reported discrimination on a daily basis.

The impact of those biases was also profound, with teens who suffered higher levels of discrimination also reporting more aches, pains and other symptoms, as well as lower overall grade-point averages in school.

According to Perry, discrimination comes across in subtle, coded language nowadays, through statements like "People of color are difficult to work with because they're not team players." It's language that she says is a lot harder to fight back against than open declarations of bias, and language that teen actors use in the "Dateline" experiment to test the tolerance of other teens.

And while kids' tolerance levels are put to the test, parents awareness is, too. In a similar look at how children develop biases, CNN's Anderson Cooper recently explored the role that parents play in children's attitudes toward race and how conversations on the topic (or a lack of) ultimately impact children's perceptions of others.

"You actually have to have a kind of anti-racist tool kit prepared and ready," Perry says. "One of the best ways we give our kids tools is when they see us in those circumstances," she adds, admitting that most adults would actually fail the test given to the teens in the "Dateline" series.

ā€œDateline’sā€ My Kid Would Never Do That: Discrimination airs Sunday, May 6 at 7p/6c.

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The stakes are high for a group of teenagers trying out for a fictional television quiz show called "Smart, Smarter, Smartest," and competitive situations are a breeding ground for unconscious stereot...
The stakes are high for a group of teenagers trying out for a fictional television quiz show called "Smart, Smarter, Smartest," and competitive situations are a breeding ground for unconscious stereot...
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iC2fools
05:48 AM on 05/10/2012
It's about time a study like this is done, the best part to see it live in living color. Naysayers can not say racism is not alive and well in our culture.
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summer261987
if only~~
04:40 AM on 05/10/2012
as a kid, i think i learnt a lot from my parents for not to being prejudiced against other and it's not cool to be a racist. i've got some racist friends that (surprise, surprise) also have racist parents. and even though i've seen and heard a lot racism around me, i found myself not only not influenced by them, i felt disgusted by them. my point is: as a parent, it's very important to be an example to your kids. you'll be surprised on how fast they learned a lot of things at such a young age.
04:08 PM on 05/08/2012
While I would certainly try to raise my children to not be racist, sexist, etc. I wouldn't for a moment assume they act like little angels when I'm not around. Teens are prone to some pretty disgusting jokes/behaviors. How many of you watched shows that would curl your grandparent's toes if they saw them? Do you like Family Guy? What about South Park?

Teens have very little wisdom about how the world works. They don't fully understand the power of their words to impact the world around them. If you hear a teen saying something derogatory, it's a good policy to try to engage in them in discussion instead of jumping all over them.
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Ken Ratcliff
01:42 PM on 05/08/2012
Good luck.
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MarcEdward
likes all cats more than most people
09:56 AM on 05/08/2012
Some kids learn racism from their parents.
Some kids learn racism by how they are treated by people of a certain race. What can a parent do about the latter?
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Shanda Smalls
~June 12, 1967 - Loving vs Virginia ~ Equality
11:27 AM on 05/08/2012
Teach them not to judge ALL by a few. Maybe tell them a personal story you had where you realized this.

Parents jobs are to teach and give information...it's up to the kids what happends from there...and this goes for many MANY different subjects.
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BiggpussJr
pissin em off one comment at a time.
03:08 PM on 05/07/2012
I think that the terms "racist" or racism is thrown around too casually. Being cautious, unsure or reserved when it comes to other races is not racism. When we are children we play with WHOEVER we can find. But as we get into our teens we break into different groups, based on likes (ie. sports, chess clubs, church, or work) Thats when they usually fall into similar racial groups. As they reach adulthood friendships are splintered even more. So would you call these people racist?
I remember when I was younger and became friends with the son of a memeber of the Aryan Nation. We both road our bikes everywhere. But we NEVER went to each others houses. He was my best friend. It lasted until we were about 12-13. The other Black kids didnt want to ride with him and he didnt want to ride with them. Not because of racism but because they wanted to go different places than he ALLOWED, we rode into the Washington DC and he had been told that he would be beat up if he did. Now of course we would never let that happen, but it was what he had been told. I guess what I am saying is that dislike, or uneasy feeling may be because of race, but its not racism. We are still friends to this day, but not like back then.
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lionzion
I WILL BREAK YOU
03:50 PM on 05/07/2012
Umm..did you find it enlightened that his family, with immense convictions and violent intent would act upon it towards a black person, Hispanic or Jew? Did you ask him, what did his family think of minorites?
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BiggpussJr
pissin em off one comment at a time.
04:10 PM on 05/07/2012
No because it didnt matter then. We were kids. My point was that HE was TAUGHT racism, but he didnt exibit it until he was much older.
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covenant45
02:03 AM on 05/08/2012
Racism implies power. Babies are not racist - however, when power influences thinking - thinking can generate power that when directed at another group evolves into exclusion we call bias... The seed of racism, hate and other forms of Ungodly behavior. " forgive them - they know not what they do."
02:25 PM on 05/07/2012
Parents need to start talking to their kids about these things instead of assumning silence is the best approach. Ignoring it doesn't make your child "colorblind" It just means some other source out there in the world will be the one to teach your kids about race... whether its a friend, the COPS tv show, stumbling on to a stormfront forum, or even any Trayvon Martin article that has attracted the rabids.
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Shanda Smalls
~June 12, 1967 - Loving vs Virginia ~ Equality
11:35 AM on 05/08/2012
One of the best points yet!

But that requires time and enegry..many parents don't have or don't want to invest =-(
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one1byke
Easy no Man.
12:14 PM on 09/16/2012
- or have any clue as to how.....

- or want to!
02:16 PM on 05/07/2012
USING THE BELT ALWAYS WORKS FOR TEENAGERS; give them a good scare that will teach them
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edgySF
I am as God created me
09:31 AM on 05/07/2012
I live in Orlando, and was discouraged driving home once because of the horrible vitriol I've read online re: Trayvon Martin.

At a stop light, I saw two kids walking home from school together: a black male, and white female. Both teens.

Both laughing. Goofing off. Walking together with books. I assumed talking about teachers or events or TV or music or whatever.

It was so refreshing.

To them it was no big deal...just normal. To me, it was a beautiful example of our progress.

Once, I was in a rural suburb of Orlando -- not quite as old timey as Sanford, but fairly "country" -- when I saw an old white gentleman working as a cross guard. He was at a busy intersection, and two little black boys had to cross...like six lanes of traffic.

This old fella took his job so seriously! It was so sweet to see how determined he was to get those two little boys safely across the street. It would have made a great snapshot -- he stood up straight in the middle of the intersection with his arms spread wide apart stopping the masses of cars. It was like he was parting the Dead Sea of Traffic for these kids. And they walked happily by, unaware of any danger -- they knew they were safe with that man watching over them.

All adults should watch over all young people. Whether they're 7, 17, or even 20. Kids need our help, wisdom and guidance.
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MsEli34
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09:22 AM on 05/07/2012
As a minority, I can say this with all honesty. I'm prejudiced. I don't consider myself racist because I do not have the ability to oppress another. The act of racism requires that a group (usually the majority) can withhold rights from another. Historically, in this country, we know that only one group is specifically capable of such an act. I assign the word "racist" to them. Me? I'm prejudiced. I love my people and make no excuses for it. I limit my interactions with other groups, particularly those who could be considered racist, to a minimal. The "majority" has made a point of letting me and other minorities where we stand. Why continue to push ourselves on them if they do not want us? It's too bad other minorities have not figured that out.
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Graham Gemmell
Student, teacher, writer, reader, critical thinker
01:03 PM on 05/07/2012
Ow... That makes me sad to read. We all come to the table with biases, but interaction makes them grow smaller. Cutting yourself off denies you the good of meeting so many fantastic people who aren't of your particular cultural or genetic heritage. White people aren't "My people". People are my people.

I give everyone I meet the benefit of the doubt. If you're ever in Ottawa, Canada, I'll do the same for you.
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MsEli34
Your reply? I probably don't care.
08:38 PM on 05/07/2012
If I felt the desire, I could tell you about those "interactions" with others. The ones that cost me on a bigger scale than you could ever imagine. Interacting with others has led to the loss of family and friends (one of which was tied to the back of a truck one night and dragged down a dirt road and the other who was beat to death by police in Louisiana), jobs, money, homes, etc. Why would I subject myself or my children to that? No. I'm good. Thanks for the "benefit" though.
01:08 PM on 05/07/2012
As a white child that spent much of my educational years in a public school district where I was typically the only white child, don't think racism is something only we are capable of. I suffered quite a bit simply because of the color of my skin. Perhaps not to the extend that others have, but still it was needless and based simply on race. That is racism, I'm sorry.
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lionzion
I WILL BREAK YOU
02:47 PM on 05/07/2012
As someone who went to a mixed race school predominantly minority students, who were your friends, I'm wondering? Plus, enlightenment us on the demographic of that school, instead of telling us its a minority school. I'm sure now you feel the same as any minority in the united states, but you didn't experience racism, since none of the students had the power to suppressed your grades, or the ability for you to succeed on life.
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MsEli34
Your reply? I probably don't care.
08:30 PM on 05/07/2012
Did the black children keep you from doing anything? Were you forced to sit in the back of the classroom? Were you told discouraged from taking advanced courses? Did you have to come into the school in the back door? Did anyone stand in front of the school and prevent you from entering it? Did you find yourself having to drink out of a filthy fountain with "Whites Only" written on it? Here's the thing. I was born in '76, and I've encountered many of those items I listed. What about you?
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Shanda Smalls
~June 12, 1967 - Loving vs Virginia ~ Equality
08:21 AM on 05/07/2012
Sounds like a good little social experiment can't wait to see.
09:40 PM on 05/08/2012
Yeah it was a good episode my friend was on it
05:00 AM on 05/07/2012
A good portion of the population have racist views or racial biases,and most dont realize it.They may even be appalled to hear racist comments or words come out of their childrens mouth. In my opinion ,if u dont discuss openly and honestly about race,racism,stereotyping,lies and other bigoted thinking at the dinner table or when a situation presents itself u may be depriving your child or chidren of being open and aware of the many levels and ugliness of racism.
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11:22 PM on 05/06/2012
I strongly believe that part of what's wrong with the world is the outright or hidden intolerance for people who aren't "like us." Only when we transcend this insidious hatred towards people's differences will we get one step closer to peace. Just as what savory1 posted, it all starts with the smallest unit of society -- the family. Excellent job, people. Sure wish FOX would create similar content to what NBC showed.
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Davewaybe
Life gives us time only love gives us meaning
08:12 PM on 05/06/2012
What this show made obvious, is that these kids, none of them, are racist. They actually fell victim of peer pressure. Its a quite different issue, than that of racism.
Heck, its the same as if you dont like football, or baseball, you are not a team player if you dont agree, and that is the perception they dont want to see of themselves.
In jobs there is an individual association of who is REALLY part of the team, and its an association that we dont want attributed to us.........
Nope...... bowing to peer pressure is NOT racism!
10:17 PM on 05/06/2012
THANK YOU!
11:18 PM on 05/06/2012
Naw..... this is the beginning stage of racism and as long as adults like you fail to call it by name what it actually is- RACISM. It is going to grow as these teens get olderand they will wind up with the same veiws as their parents, maybe even more intolerant in some instances.... SHAME on you !!!!!
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Davewaybe
Life gives us time only love gives us meaning
07:15 AM on 05/07/2012
True, it is!
But understand in this program how you got there. Two people were deliberately pushing people in a direction where at their age they were pushed by peer pressure.
None of the youngsters first thought was racism, they were guided that way.