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Most Moms Wrong About Babies' Body Size

Posted: 05/07/2012 4:22 pm

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When it comes to truly seeing their toddlers, many moms fall short. That's according to new research that finds 70 percent of moms inaccurately gauge their baby's body size, a misperception that may have profound implications for a child's health down the road.

"Both parental perceptions of body size and how satisfied parents are with that body size" affects the diets that parents choose for their children, "since perceptions are likely to guide behavior," said Erin Hager, an assistant professor in the Pediatrics, Growth and Nutrition division at the University of Maryland School of Medicine.

To gauge parental perceptions, Hager and her co-investigators gave 281 low-income moms, many of whom were themselves overweight, a drawing of seven toddlers who ranged from underweight to obese. The moms were asked, "Which picture looks most like your child?"

Only 30 percent of moms successfully picked a drawing that accurately represented their baby's body size, while 70 percent of the moms were off in assessing their toddler's weight.

Inaccuracy was highest among overweight toddlers' moms, who were 87 percent less likely than mothers of healthy weight toddlers to be accurate. However, mothers of underweight children were nine times more likely to be right.

The researchers also looked at how pleased moms were with their kid's weight, concluding that overall, satisfaction was fairly high.

More than 70 percent of all the moms surveyed were pleased with their child's body size. And among moms whose kids were overweight, that figure was even higher: nearly 82 percent of moms with overweight toddlers were pleased with their children's weight.

"High-weight status is often regarded as a sign of successful parenting, especially during the early years when parents are responsible for their child's health, nutrition and activity opportunities," the authors write in the new study, published inThe Archives of Pediatric Adolescent Medicine Monday.

"It's hard to tell why," Hager added. "We looked at mothers' body size, thinking obese moms would be more inaccurate, but we didn't find a strong predictor."

"It's probably more of a cultural issue," she continued. "As a culture, we believe chubby toddlers and babies are healthy. Also, there are so many overweight children in the U.S., an overweight body type has become the new norm."

A growing number of studies have found that when it comes to body-weight perception, people often get it wrong. A recent study in the journal Body Image, which looked at Mexican college applicants, found that only 63 percent accurately reported their weight. Approximately 1 in 3 young men in that study were overweight, but less than 17 percent of them identified as such.

In an editorial accompanying the new Archives study, Dr. Eliana Perrin of the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Medicine, argued that the findings matter deeply, because having an accurate sense of a child's weight influences parents' readiness to make weight-related behavioral challenges. In other words, misperceptions can be a barrier to achieving and maintaining a healthy weight.

The situation is complicated by the fact that with so many overweight and obese children, the understanding of what "normal" means has changed, Perrin states.

"The old way of explaining the child at the 85th percentile -- 'If you gathered 100 children, he would be heavier than 85 of them' -- no longer rings true to parents," she writes.

Dr. Christine Chiaviello, a pediatrician with the Long Island City office of Tribeca Pediatrics, said she was not at all surprised by the findings, but questioned whether the drawings used by researchers might not explain why so many moms got it wrong. Incremental differences between the seven drawings were sometimes subtle, which may account for some mothers' inaccuracy. Researchers only counted a response as inaccurate when moms were off by two or more steps on the chart, however.

"Sometimes, we can't tell just by looking at children whether they're underweight or overweight. The obvious ones are pretty obvious, but that's why we have growth curves, because you just can't tell," Chiaviello said. Indeed, pediatric growth charts tracking children's height and weight to provide a general picture of size and health have been used since the late 1970s.

But even with such evidence before them, Chiaviello said, many parents still find it challenging to face up to any weight issues their young children are facing.

"Often, I'll be making good eye contact [with the parents] on everything and I'll say, 'Let’s look at growth curve,' and all of a sudden, they're looking past you," Chiavello said. "It's a very, very difficult issue."

Seventeen percent of children ages 2 to 19 are now considered obese, which not only puts them at greater risk of being obese as adults, but also increases the likelihood that their obesity will be severe.

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When it comes to truly seeing their toddlers, many moms fall short. That's according to new research that finds 70 percent of moms inaccurately gauge their baby's body size, a misperception that may h...
When it comes to truly seeing their toddlers, many moms fall short. That's according to new research that finds 70 percent of moms inaccurately gauge their baby's body size, a misperception that may h...
 
 
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11:48 AM on 05/11/2012
In a nutshell we are eating ourselves to death in the industrialized world. What most people think is a "hunger pain" is actually your body digesting food. It has only been recently that the human race has had the ability to eat food 365 days a year.
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MaMaBass
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10:02 AM on 05/11/2012
AMEN!. I would be lying if i said i wasn't worried about having a slender baby. Last week, at the Drs. i was told it is an advantage for advanced mobility development!!!.
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01:03 PM on 05/11/2012
Slender in what sense? My son was eleven and a half pounds and twenty four inches long, very muscular as a baby and he walked before ten months!
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01:04 PM on 05/11/2012
I should also have said he grew up playing sports and was a star college football player.....don't sweat the small stuff!
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MaMaBass
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02:28 PM on 05/11/2012
I assumed he was underweight.  he just registers smaller in the percentiles.  He's about 24 inches in length and 18 lbs.  Breastfed.  And he started standing last month!!!
12:57 AM on 05/11/2012
There is a big difference between a chubby baby and an obese kid. My step-son is 11 and weighs close to 170 lbs. Mostly because his mom (and before he met me, his dad) fed him crap. He as asthma and they felt sorry for him because he was "sick". My husband gets angry now because his mom takes him out for fast food all the time and he blames his son. I have a hard time convincing him that it's not the kid's fault, he doesn't buy the food. Step-son will be spending the summer with us so hopefully we can get him to loose some weight.

Anyway......bad and permissive parenting leads to obese kids.
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04:07 PM on 05/10/2012
Crap, i can't even get my wife to admit our cat is fat. She's had cats her whole life, this is my first but even I know when the thing is overweight. She was fine when we got her, the vet said, and we overfed her (free feeding was a complete fiasco). Plain and simple. Even my wife's sister said the same thing "I think that vet is wrong, she's fine." But then again, you can't get her sister to admit that anything isn't absolutely perfect (everything is too personal with her, even MY cat). Thankfully though, I put my foot down and we're getting there.
Long story short, I can't imagine what a parent would go through in our society with a healthy child, given that we can't even get people to agree that the cat is overweight. Sheesh.
03:55 PM on 05/10/2012
It would have been nice to have a description of what a HEALTHY weight child looks like. Did you know you should be able to clearly see a 10 yo's ribs?
03:15 PM on 05/09/2012
My 8 yo's BMI puts him 1 lb into the overweight category but when he takes his shirt off you can literally see every rib. We have to cinch his pants way in to keep them from falling off and he has almost no body fat that we can find. There is no way he is overweight. The BMI doesn't rake build or anything else into account.
01:51 AM on 05/09/2012
A big part of the overweight issue in low income families is because to buy fresh fruit and veggies-and ORGANIC milk not pumped full of hormones- is expensive. WIC pays for milk but not ORGANIC milk- peanut butter and cheese but not any really healthy foods like raw nuts or oh-I-don't-know say broccolli or something. They have added Farmer's Market vouchers for the summer months but if people don't understand the need for good food- not to mention the rest of the year getting addicted to sugar & carbs- how will they know how to even use the vouchers? I ride the city bus and, on a daily basis, am sickened by the overweight mothers giving their children- babies for goodness sake- soda and Doritos. It IS an issue that is passed down from grandparent to parent to child and won't go away until people are educated, educated and educated some more about nutrition and the importance it bears on, not only your child's looks,but their development as well.
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PuSencer
Where are we going in this handbasket?
09:44 AM on 05/11/2012
i agree with the sentiment, but if people were choosing milk, cheese and peanut butter- i would be much more happy than the processed, pre-packaged, crap that's high in simple carbohydrates.
i think a lot of the problem lies in the farm subsidies: we need to subsidize more healthy foods so that our tax dollars unnaturally suppress healthy food products instead of all the chemistry we practice on corn to make sure we strip any nutritional value from it.
07:00 PM on 05/08/2012
I could not agree more that "High-weight status is often regarded as a sign of successful parenting, especially during the early years" My 15-month-old daughter is, and has always been in the 3rd-5th percentile for weight and the 60th-75th for length. She eats constantly (always has) and has received a clean bill of health from her pediatrician at every check-up. People literally stop me in the grocery store and the mall to comment on how "tiny" she is and to tell me to feed her. I don't understand how this is perceived acceptable behavior, but if I were to stop and say "wow, your kid is really fat; you shouldn't feed her so much" I would be labeled awful and judgmental, I'm sure.
01:20 PM on 05/09/2012
I'm in the same boat. My son hovers at the 3-5 percentile and has since he was 6 months old. My husband and I are both thin. So generically, he comes by it honestly. He was strictly breastfed. I made all of his baby food and added olive oil to it to give him extra fat. As a toddler, he only eats organic, healthy foods- and is perpetual motion so obviously he burns a lot of calories. Yet despite all of my efforts, I'm made to feel like I'm not doing enough.
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Num1Christy
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12:18 PM on 05/10/2012
Ah, that's awful. I'm sorry if I ever did that to a mother. Both of my kids were chunks prior to walking and I'd be highly offended if anyone ever told me they were fat. I never really thought of it the other way around. Well, I'm sorry for that.
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J Rupel
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06:59 PM on 05/08/2012
My baby love dem jello pops.
05:24 PM on 05/07/2012
Isn't it difficult for parents to find solutions to help overweight and obese children meet their ideal weight? A touchy subject for a doctor or dietitian to address with the right words. Parents may move their eyes away from the weight chart when their child is over the recommended weight, maybe because it is an 'almost impossible' problem to solve.
When I worked at WIC public health program, many parents I have counseled on their children's overweight issues are also trying to just 'keep it together.'
These parents need support early on, to help keep their kids in an ideal weight before they are older children.
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Susan Shaffer
watching you...
04:56 PM on 05/07/2012
What is confusing in the bmi measurements is that there are different body types. Two of my kids take after their father and one takes after me in body shape and proportions. The two that take after their father are slimmer looking but that is because of the length of the limbs, musculature and the thickness of the bones. If you compare skin fold thickness they are all about the same.
BMI might be quick to work out but we need to start addressing weight with skin fold thickness since that shows the amount of fat under the skin.
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Amie Nogrady
you say witch like it's a bad thing
05:48 PM on 05/07/2012
I loathe BMI because of its imperfections. My youngest daughter's doctor no longer uses it, nor does my own. When my daughter's school started doing random BMI checks, I refused to sign the permission slip for a number of reasons. The BMI does not take into account muscles to fat ratio or anything else that could affect the final number. You are absolutely right, we need to use other measurements.
10:00 AM on 05/09/2012
Muscles to fat ratio in a child is negligible...people scared to use BMI results are usually overweight people living in denial...
10:53 AM on 05/10/2012
Honestly, I wouldn't sign the permission slip either. I struggled with an eating disorder through much of middle school and high school. In my second year of college, it began to take over my life and I was forced to seek help.

We eat healthy most of the time in our house. My daughter turned two in April and she's on the lower end of the weight spectrum. (Very tall for her age and thin.) Going in for an annual checkup at the doctor's office and having them calculate a BMI is one thing, having school-enforced checks is another. I want to teach her that eating is something that can be enjoyed in a way that doesn't require focusing solely on weight or hating yourself for indulging once and awhile. Eating disorders often run in families. I'm a perfectionist and my daughter appears to be as well. I want her to have a healthy relationship with her body and with food.
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sabelmouse
i love to tumble , ask me why .
06:38 AM on 05/08/2012
a very petite friend of mine and her small partner had very tiny children. yet they were continuously admonished to feed them more. they were told that their children weren't thriving ectr yet they clearly were. they were just all petite types in a land of big boned giants [ holland ] .
you have to wonder about these charts and the people [ professionals ?] who use/enforce them.
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Antidiot
05:38 PM on 05/08/2012
So were they actually underweight by the bmi and other weight charts, or was it just the perception of their friends?
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Susan Shaffer
watching you...
04:36 PM on 05/09/2012
wow, even in Holland. I expected better of them.